No be from my mouth dem go hear say the teachers mumsie they fly Benin airlines for night

ronald4lif:
She could be living with some other guy and can't talk with you at night hence switch off her phones. That should be the only reason.

You are right, just gaining some financial favour from the other guy,,,

dante300:

I wish I could turn back the hand of the clock..... This is someone I ve spent well over 2mill supporting her education....

Are you for real? you mean you spend such amount of money on a woman you are not sure will even marry you. wow! I never knew magas still dey naija.

pythonkid:

don't you have something better to say other than spewing gibberish ? tufiakwa!!

if this is thrash, I don't know what makes sense to you.

dante300:

I am contemplating taking a hidden camera to her apartment fix it and study her every move from my phone....don't care how much it would cost me.

The truth is that you are a weakling when it comes to relationships and she will continue taking you for granted until a day when she will serve you with her wedding invitation.

Why should ease of someone be your headache for God's sake? Why would a phone call that Adejoke is begging me for always be what your girlfriend is running away from? Why are you still indulging in unilateral relationship where your love desire means nothing to the other party involved?

When a lady is in love with you, she will not only made herself available physically, but she will also call you anytime, anyday as if she works with MTN.

Grow up from being a kid to an Alpha male because you will never get it right until you become a challenge to this lady

missyge:
Shame on You...

for what?

35 and 32?.......and both of you are still playing hide and seek... una never ready.

@Op..you don't need a JEDI to tell you what's up...

You have been dating her for five years and you are yet to propose?!!

You better tell her your plans for her before you lose her. I'm sure she only picks your calls because she still loves you and it's hard to listen to her friends and family members who are advising her to leave you because 5 years is not beans. The truth is there is someone else who has been introduced to her by family members or friends and who has already promised her marriage. Keep delaying and In another one year you will hear of her marriage via Facebook.

kinibigdeal:



Hi there! i'll advice you take my advice frankly. There is nothing wrong with her and your relationship is safe. If you know the hell of stress involved in a PhD program, you wouldn't have been suspecting any fowl play. When writing a thesis, the best time to concentrate is in the dead night. A PhD program entails at least a 100 publication within 2-3years nowadays which need a serious scrutiny by some panel. And she also need to be submitting a report every months to her supervisor if she really want to complete her degree within 5years. If she can't concentrate now, she might end up completing a 4-5years programme for 10years. Sometimes, all this assigned professor frustrate their candidate , so you don't know what's on her mind each time you call. Kindly note that you should expect more strange actions from her during her program because its entails full concentration especially for those that want to complete it within a fast paced time. It not what you think bro, don't forget you are dating a career lady in the making. At 32 she's no longer a baby dull

and she is the only one doing PHD abi?....even married woman doing PHD have Time for their husbands....the lady does not have regard for the guy simple

missyge:
Im nt a bro but dat dosnt mean i suldnt say the truth..Fine some ladies misuse d opportinity but we still hv d faithful ones out dere...I undrstnd d fact dat they ask bout ur job bfre taking u serious bkos no lady wana end up suffering...she wants smbdy who will support her nd shel do same... you dont expect me to marry a guy dat has no job in this kind of economy...Fine, I dnt depend on guys for survival but still i cnt marry somebody dats jobless....The ques is how do we build our home without money

Everything work for good my sister...
I can't even advice my little sister to settle with a man without a job,neither will I as a man settle with a woman without supporting spirit...
But taking responsibility of her parent by a man is totally a huge risk which doesn't worth taking...
In the end,everything the guy does will look like monitoring...,everything he says will look like (is it because u r d one sponsoring me?)...

sashishalom:
I believe we have all advised him enough...Dante you should know what to do right now...hope your ok tho?takia

E be like say this one don dey trip for dante300 3 posts on his thread some girls no dey take eye see or hear guy wey dey spend money u wan take over sharp sharp it's well.

ireneony:
I doubt if she is cheating on you considering her age. If she were to be in her early twenties or mid twenties, I would say she is cheating on you.

Well you can't trust anyone. .maybe you have not told her you want to marry her...because age is not on her side, she might be cheating on you.

Tell her your plans towards her..maybe her character will change.

Hmm......madam you try o....so after her character don change, OP will now marry her.....after two weeks or less her phone will now go back to being switched off every time he is not at home.

Well @OP, Since you have bought 3 phones, a power bank and gives her 5k every 2weeks for hair. Maybe you should consider buying her a Generator just to complete the TRINITY!

Just saying.....

OP, your story doesn't just add up. Even your lame defence is pathetic.

I think all you want is attention. Hope you've gotten it.

Rubbish.

Lwkmd, guy park very well... dis ya tori get plenty k-leg. I no go call u maga, mumu or ode, u sabi urself pass mi...my guy, NA U BE THE PROBLEM.

hmm,bros I beg pick race pass John Benson .,this dude is using you oo.if you ask her why,quarrel will start..,hmm,u never marry her and she get much power to quarrel with you ,just for simple explanation,
na waoo,when u marry her and she put to bed,Jesus ,sorry will be your name...some girls are really mad,but few are very good.

lizzlix:
Hmm......madam you try o....so after her character don change, OP will now marry her.....after two weeks or less her phone will now go back to being switched off every time he is not at home.

Well @OP, Since you have bought 3 phones, a power bank and gives her 5k every 2weeks for hair. Maybe you should consider buying her a Generator just to complete the TRINITY!

Just saying.....

dante300:

I am contemplating taking a hidden camera to her apartment fix it and study her every move from my phone....don't care how much it would cost me.

Ur own sef dey ur body...
S.I.D
Evil monitor

Lytech:

Everything work for good my sister...
I can't even advice my little sister to settle with a man without a job,neither will I as a man settle with a woman without supporting spirit...
But taking responsibility of her parent by a man is totally a huge risk which doesn't worth taking...
In the end,everything the guy does will look like monitoring...,everything he says will look like (is it because u r d one sponsoring me?)...

I undrstnd...God will help us

kinibigdeal:



Hi there! i'll advice you take my advice frankly. There is nothing wrong with her and your relationship is safe. If you know the hell of stress involved in a PhD program, you wouldn't have been suspecting any fowl play. When writing a thesis, the best time to concentrate is in the dead night. A PhD program entails at least a 100 publication within 2-3years nowadays which need a serious scrutiny by some panel. And she also need to be submitting a report every months to her supervisor if she really want to complete her degree within 5years. If she can't concentrate now, she might end up completing a 4-5years programme for 10years. Sometimes, all this assigned professor frustrate their candidate , so you don't know what's on her mind each time you call. Kindly note that you should expect more strange actions from her during her program because its entails full concentration especially for those that want to complete it within a fast paced time. It not what you think bro, don't forget you are dating a career lady in the making. At 32 she's no longer a baby dull

Abeeeegi

PhD mean say you no fit speak to your boo for 5 minutes. Even minutes before entering the room for almight PhD thesis defence sef, you can still pick your call and talk to the one you profess you love. Some of us sef dey do PhD o.

@ op, Why spend 2 million on a girl not yet your wife sef?

Love, see what u made me do, starrring on GOtv. The way love dey shack some people ehn, i no go like fall in love o.

Bros

U are single to stupor.

I doubt you know her enough to even think of marrying her. If she really want to marry you she will keep in touch all times even if she is doing multiple PhD program.
If I were you, that flimsy excuse won't hold. Look like she has little regard for you as well.
It appears she is only interested in the goodies she gets from you.
Don't be blinded by any love. Some ladies are ready to put the PhD program on hold for marriage. Get to the root of her actions before you think of marriage.



You can get her a phone that last for days when charged. A day or two of visit might not satisfy your curiousity.

Take you annual leave if you are the working type without her notice and take a trip to the neighboring state. Get an accommodation and try to monitor her to see what she is upto especially in the evenings. If you confirm she is cheating, don't say anything and don't let her know you have found out. Just be normal with her and make sure you bleep her to your satisfaction every single chance you get. Show so much love to her but start a serious search for a new girl if you are still interested in marriage. Then plan your wedding, get married and let her feel what you have felt. The heart break will be massive because she won't see it coming and she will feel it because you care and love is shifted to someone else you have wifed. It will be most painful to her because you have beaten her in her own game. But if your heart won't let you like most men that confuse love and reality, just end the relationship and move ahead. But make sure she is actually cheating if not never hurt a woman.

I had one girl I used to smash back then b4 I got married.




Her fiance who is a soldier was transfered to the north during the peak of boko haram nuisance.



Once I get to her place she would switch her phone off and cook for me b4 we begin el clasico.






What I'm trying to tell you is that your girl is smashing another guy so hard.




I dated no less than 15 girls b4 I got married and one thing I learned is that no matter how busy a lady is, she would want to hear your voice before she goes to bed if she's truly in love with you





Dump.that girl before you shed tears of pain

dante300:

I am contemplating taking a hidden camera to her apartment fix it and study her every move from my phone....don't care how much it would cost me.

you get time to waste, why not put that effort in getting another girl?? Its very obvious she is cheating on you

i hate tins botherin me,bros if i were to be in ur shoes, i would have traced her and call the whole tin off if she is messing around. all beta stil call her sit her down and ask her politely, she aint crazy to shout n qaurell all the time.

Lytech:

Everything work for good my sister...
I can't even advice my little sister to settle with a man without a job,neither will I as a man settle with a woman without supporting spirit...
But taking responsibility of her parent by a man is totally a huge risk which doesn't worth taking...
In the end,everything the guy does will look like monitoring...,everything he says will look like (is it because u r d one sponsoring me?)...

I understand. God will lead us to the right partner

dante300:

I wasn't drunk when I clearly wrote every evening....when she is with me in her 4lines are consistently active like cr7 but when she returns to school her line is inconsistent like memphis depay.

Let me help you from experience. She is likely into fwb with some dude while at the same time, she is interested in getting married to u. She may not yet be sure where the two of you are heady towards. Better still, she is so anxious about settling down with you considering her age. However, she might have agreed to a fwb with some other guy , in order to beat off the anxiety she has about getting married soonest, so as not to appear too desperate to get married to u.

it happens all the time. Lots of examples abound .

ronald4lif:


Have you been to her apartment of recent and how long did you stay? How about making friends with a neighbour and offer the person tip-off to monitor her movement or ask if anyone has been visiting her and staying over the night?

Ehhh!!! Double agent dey oooo. Especially for this era wey pple dey snitch anyhow.

dante300:

Thank u so much..God bless.

Sounds like you are looking for any excuse to go against what your gut is telling you. If this woman is really for you, she will pick your calls, if she is really busy with her programme, she will take time to explain and reassure you. If you are really thinking of marrying someone who does not pick your calls every day, have a think, maybe she isn't for you. If you are thinking of marrying someone and you have insecurity issues, maybe you are not ready for marraige. Is the problem with her or you?




Final note: Dont take "I am busy" as an excuse. One lesson you will come to learn in life is that people always have time for the things (AND PEOPLE) that really matter to them and you can tell how much you mean to people by how much of their time they give to you especially when they are busy.....it takes only a second to call, In my experience, from what youve said, you are no longer a big factor in her life. She probably has someone else or youve chocked her with your insecurities and she's mentally checked out.


Sorry to be mean but that's how it works...usually

'@ vicky are u trying to say that GUY is a maga.. seriosly i cn alsoo fall in his shoe.. do no Love is a beautiful thins..seriosly it can happen to any one.

Vickyydera:
Are you for real? you mean you spend such amount of money on a woman you are not sure will even marry you. wow! I never knew magas still dey naija.

Take it easy bro, i thought she wil play games with you at 32. What i think is, she might need some rest and space during evening time, and thats when u disturb her with calls, maybe she just have to switch off the phones to avoid that