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Florblu:
I was feeling your pain abnitio until you started dishing out your unsought for advice.The fact that someone dies in his sleep doesn't mean sleep is harmful to the body.Same way you've gotten your share of heart break doesn't mean other men has not been responsible for ladies heart break.Just move on as she has said and stop misleading the already misled sane minds.

Like seriously. What a comment.

Kachisbarbie:
Your previous topics shows she BEATS you, is destructive, stopped loving you_ shouldn't you be happy the witch is gone?

Make una dey pity persin na. Your first line of thought is confusing.

acxlers2014:
My experience buttresses the point that human nature is such that they look out for self first. I met, dated, proposed and did introduction with a lady in her thirties with the anticipation to marry her three months after that. Well I was charged up and ready to go and I was excited about the whole thing. She came over to my station in one of these northern states and she left after few weeks. I had thought everything was fine when I saw her off to the airport. Well a week after her attitude became funny, she started by asking for a postponement on the wedding, then she became very aggressive and later on she barred my numbers and started acting funny. Before I knew what was happening she started insulting me and saying different things about my capabilities as a man. Well by the grace of God I am a doctor in A government hospital and I own a flourishing practice in my domicile. Sadly no matter how much I tried she never seemed to be ready to come back. Well at a point in the deterioration of our relationship she returned my rings engagement and wedding bands and all the gifts I had given her
She was interviewed by her pastor, my pastor, my folks and she reiterated that she was not coming back. I did not relent even after all these but I had even a stronger resolve to carry on with the whole process. I thought it was a moment of temporary set back that maybe she may come through. How wrong was I. Several texts afterwards. She came out with a bold statement " MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE AS I HAVE MOVED ON WITH MINE". IT hurt but is didn't matter to me. Then the deal breaker.......... she sends me conversations between her and a guy who was chiking her via whatsapp and was professing his love to her and she was tripping. With the caption " I WOULD RATHER MOVE ON WITH THIS GUY, HE IS A BETTER MAN TO YOU". She calls up my folks and tell them that I should stay off her back as well as my siblings. That was the CLOSURE I needed and I must say it was a tough call.

As for her family, they supported their own.
Lessons learnt.
The truth is when it is gone don't fight it, just move
on.

Never put your eggs in one basket, the concept of a side chick for every guy is valid, it is for your sanity, little wonder our fathers always seemed to have one

Old women, middle aged women, girls and baby girls are all the same their psyche is way different maybe it has something to do with hormones.

Never stick to an opinionated women, you can't be so silly to think feminism can work in our society

Beautiful women always feel they have an option.

Lastly never compromise your hustle for a woman.

Is this another verse of Lamentation?
search yourself,you probably didn't treat her well .You aint saying the truth Doctor

yuzedo:
"Interesting" thread. Incomplete without the comments of MRBrownJ and BuddhaPalm...

Uzo my man, just another day at the office...

Potatoes potating, as one Chief would say.

Tintinnoty:
I've been at the lookout for responds like this, you'll definate try disagree with his suggestion and advice while in the real sense he might have posted this with a bittered heart. What do you expect from an embittered heart. You might say worst if in his shoes

Guy, why you dey waste energy on English Language. You for kukuma just type in pidgin. Period.

Oga doctor no go 4get scissors inside person body all in d name of heartbreak Õoº°˚ ˚°ºoo

wilybebsy:
Dis hoe's ain't loyal

Who sleeps with them hoe (s) ? No be una?

Codyt:
Like seriously. What a comment.

It is not everyone you insult with your fishing for likes image Temper teenage vapidity with little wisdom and decorum

Florblu:
I was feeling your pain abnitio until you started dishing out your unsought for advice.The fact that someone dies in his sleep doesn't mean sleep is harmful to the body.Same way you've gotten your share of heart break doesn't mean other men has not been responsible for ladies heart break.Just move on as she has said and stop misleading the already misled sane minds.

This guy wasn't telling the chic what she wants to hear.Better still,he isn't fvcking her properly

Florblu:
I was feeling your pain abnitio until you started dishing out your unsought for advice.The fact that someone dies in his sleep doesn't mean sleep is harmful to the body.Same way you've gotten your share of heart break doesn't mean other men has not been responsible for ladies heart break.Just move on as she has said and stop misleading the already misled sane minds.

Are one of those that are misled already?
Coz, from what I can see, no one is misled here except. So please if u don't know what to write, just waka pass.

Thank you

These days that a nigerian lady would give her left arm and leg just to date and get married to a Doctor and someone is telling us a lady jilted him.You working in a govt hospital and and u have a flourishing private practice.That means u must be a fuckin rich doctor so why would a lady leave u? I find it hard to believe this story.Money is enough compensation for her even if u impotent or ur tin is very tiny like small worm.

iLegend:
Sowie, love is beautiful. Enjoy your pains.

Modify: Typing...

I'm back. Listen NICE GUYS.

Every woman in this world has a remote control with 6 mumu buttons on the remote.

They all respond whenever you press any of these buttons. Women are not fools, they're humans with emotions and they operate based on emotional push not intellectual push. If you press the buttons anyhow you go see anyhow. Period.

Rich men, intelligent men, nice men and timid men press these buttons anyhow because they think they're doing the right thing. Ignorance is not always a bliss. I dey laugh una. Thank God my heartbreaks happened at age 13 and 19. It sucks.

The buttons can be remembered with the acronym ESCOFi and each stands for Emotional mumu button, Sexual mumu button, Comical mumu button, Other-adventures mumu button, Financial mumu butto, and finally Intellectual mumu button.

Bad boys press these buttons from Emotional to Intellectual, but rich, nice, needy, intelligent, and timid boys/men press these buttons from Intellectual to Emotional.

Some women in here will be angry if I reveal what's on my mind, so if you want the full package Whatsapp me iLegend with +2347014853887. No calls allowed, and if I don't reply you it's because I'm busy.

Look for troubles, but make sure it's nonviolent.

Keep safe.

Stumbled on this. You seem to have a lot. I just realized I press the buttons from intellectual --- To emotional.. In fact I don't like being emotional. I say and do the wrong things at that stage. so I don't press such buttons. I'm i silly?

acxlers2014:
My experience buttresses the point that human nature is such that they look out for self first. I met, dated, proposed and did introduction with a lady in her thirties with the anticipation to marry her three months after that. Well I was charged up and ready to go and I was excited about the whole thing. She came over to my station in one of these northern states and she left after few weeks. I had thought everything was fine when I saw her off to the airport. Well a week after her attitude became funny, she started by asking for a postponement on the wedding, then she became very aggressive and later on she barred my numbers and started acting funny. Before I knew what was happening she started insulting me and saying different things about my capabilities as a man. Well by the grace of God I am a doctor in A government hospital and I own a flourishing practice in my domicile. Sadly no matter how much I tried she never seemed to be ready to come back. Well at a point in the deterioration of our relationship she returned my rings engagement and wedding bands and all the gifts I had given her
She was interviewed by her pastor, my pastor, my folks and she reiterated that she was not coming back. I did not relent even after all these but I had even a stronger resolve to carry on with the whole process. I thought it was a moment of temporary set back that maybe she may come through. How wrong was I. Several texts afterwards. She came out with a bold statement " MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE AS I HAVE MOVED ON WITH MINE". IT hurt but is didn't matter to me. Then the deal breaker.......... she sends me conversations between her and a guy who was chiking her via whatsapp and was professing his love to her and she was tripping. With the caption " I WOULD RATHER MOVE ON WITH THIS GUY, HE IS A BETTER MAN TO YOU". She calls up my folks and tell them that I should stay off her back as well as my siblings. That was the CLOSURE I needed and I must say it was a tough call.

As for her family, they supported their own.
Lessons learnt.
The truth is when it is gone don't fight it, just move
on.

Never put your eggs in one basket, the concept of a side chick for every guy is valid, it is for your sanity, little wonder our fathers always seemed to have one

Old women, middle aged women, girls and baby girls are all the same their psyche is way different maybe it has something to do with hormones.

Never stick to an opinionated women, you can't be so silly to think feminism can work in our society

Beautiful women always feel they have an option.

Lastly never compromise your hustle for a woman.

1 Orijin Zero for u my brother ..... i dont drink alcohol no more ..no vex

2undeee:
So sorry for your lost, every disappointment is a blessing but my brother in case of next time never beg for a relationship because u will end up been a slave to that union, dont pray for next but if a gal is meant to b yours she will always stay and fight for her place

Well said.

I agreew ith never compromising your hustle for a woman... its her loss sha

Florblu:
I was feeling your pain abnitio until you started dishing out your unsought for advice.The fact that someone dies in his sleep doesn't mean sleep is harmful to the body.Same way you've gotten your share of heart break doesn't mean other men has not been responsible for ladies heart break.Just move on as she has said and stop misleading the already misled sane minds.

And u think ur IQ is high enough? you're wrong, i would only think so if you had rather sit on the fence, i.e Now that he didnt have a spare tyre, how do you expect him to move on in the middle of nowhere? be rational

Bro...you fall my hands.... as a man...and as a doctor.... you should know better. And now you have jumped to conclusions and giving out advice all based on your experience with one woman. I would expect this kind stuff from a teenager. I wouldn't be surprised to learn that she was your first gf ever.... or by farrrrr.... the first pretty one. At thirty whatever... she is experienced... you are not... a young boy to her. Three months into knowing her and the wedding was about to take place! Next time.... think about what you said in your first statement... about man being selfish.... self first....did you for a moment stop to think if she loves you?...or were you thinking about self only...what you want? Never forget...Love is a two way street....and never ignore warning signs along the way.

My prescription:

Rent/buy a lot of porn movies, watch how the actors handle business. Then when you get a new girlfriend, use the knowledge acquired. Thereafter no lady will say that another man is a better man than you.
It is not always about finance. I think you are lacking in "bedmatics"

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Motolank:
Who sleeps with them hoe (s) ? No be una?

Broz forget that thing

Lastly never compromise your hustle for a woman.

Word...

It has happened,,painful but true,lonely but must admit,angry but must concur...I believe life has its own side chick too.....things happen...a side boo isn't the best tho

Florblu:
It is not everyone you insult with your fishing for likes image
Temper teenage vapidity with little wisdom and decorum

We all know you're an expert with words. You're doing what you know how to do best- Make melodious noise. This is a faceless forum abeg, you can say whatever you want. Good riddance.
Who likes Don epp?

acxlers2014:
My experience buttresses the point that human nature is such that they look out for self first. I met, dated, proposed and did introduction with a lady in her thirties with the anticipation to marry her three months after that. Well I was charged up and ready to go and I was excited about the whole thing. She came over to my station in one of these northern states and she left after few weeks. I had thought everything was fine when I saw her off to the airport. Well a week after her attitude became funny, she started by asking for a postponement on the wedding, then she became very aggressive and later on she barred my numbers and started acting funny. Before I knew what was happening she started insulting me and saying different things about my capabilities as a man. Well by the grace of God I am a doctor in A government hospital and I own a flourishing practice in my domicile. Sadly no matter how much I tried she never seemed to be ready to come back. Well at a point in the deterioration of our relationship she returned my rings engagement and wedding bands and all the gifts I had given her
She was interviewed by her pastor, my pastor, my folks and she reiterated that she was not coming back. I did not relent even after all these but I had even a stronger resolve to carry on with the whole process. I thought it was a moment of temporary set back that maybe she may come through. How wrong was I. Several texts afterwards. She came out with a bold statement " MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE AS I HAVE MOVED ON WITH MINE". IT hurt but is didn't matter to me. Then the deal breaker.......... she sends me conversations between her and a guy who was chiking her via whatsapp and was professing his love to her and she was tripping. With the caption " I WOULD RATHER MOVE ON WITH THIS GUY, HE IS A BETTER MAN TO YOU". She calls up my folks and tell them that I should stay off her back as well as my siblings. That was the CLOSURE I needed and I must say it was a tough call.

As for her family, they supported their own.
Lessons learnt.
The truth is when it is gone don't fight it, just move
on.

Never put your eggs in one basket, the concept of a side chick for every guy is valid, it is for your sanity, little wonder our fathers always seemed to have one

Old women, middle aged women, girls and baby girls are all the same their psyche is way different maybe it has something to do with hormones.

Never stick to an opinionated women, you can't be so silly to think feminism can work in our society

Beautiful women always feel they have an option.

Lastly never compromise your hustle for a woman.

So sorry Doc for your loss or I'll rather say liberation... You don't have to cry over spilled milk. Maybe this is a way God opened your eyes to see that she's not yours. Relax hope in God and believe him your right woman will come by then you won't even think of a side Chic.
I pray Jesus to heal your broken heart and not make you derail from the right path.
Ndo o

Don't worry brother, nah this medium we will still read it that the same gal is sending everybody to you to beg on her behalf. But the story be like when she came to you, you didn't dig or koboko her very well or you're forming work stress and the other guy does better. Everything is not about Mr. Big, Tantalizer, Folk and Knife.

She was never yours and you should be glad she let you in on it on time. Life is a teacher, I guess you just learnt one of its lesson.

acxlers2014:
My experience buttresses the point that human nature is such that they look out for self first. I met, dated, proposed and did introduction with a lady in her thirties with the anticipation to marry her three months after that. Well I was charged up and ready to go and I was excited about the whole thing. She came over to my station in one of these northern states and she left after few weeks. I had thought everything was fine when I saw her off to the airport. Well a week after her attitude became funny, she started by asking for a postponement on the wedding, then she became very aggressive and later on she barred my numbers and started acting funny. Before I knew what was happening she started insulting me and saying different things about my capabilities as a man. Well by the grace of God I am a doctor in A government hospital and I own a flourishing practice in my domicile. Sadly no matter how much I tried she never seemed to be ready to come back. Well at a point in the deterioration of our relationship she returned my rings engagement and wedding bands and all the gifts I had given her
She was interviewed by her pastor, my pastor, my folks and she reiterated that she was not coming back. I did not relent even after all these but I had even a stronger resolve to carry on with the whole process. I thought it was a moment of temporary set back that maybe she may come through. How wrong was I. Several texts afterwards. She came out with a bold statement " MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE AS I HAVE MOVED ON WITH MINE". IT hurt but is didn't matter to me. Then the deal breaker.......... she sends me conversations between her and a guy who was chiking her via whatsapp and was professing his love to her and she was tripping. With the caption " I WOULD RATHER MOVE ON WITH THIS GUY, HE IS A BETTER MAN TO YOU". She calls up my folks and tell them that I should stay off her back as well as my siblings. That was the CLOSURE I needed and I must say it was a tough call.

As for her family, they supported their own.
Lessons learnt.
The truth is when it is gone don't fight it, just move
on.

Never put your eggs in one basket, the concept of a side chick for every guy is valid, it is for your sanity, little wonder our fathers always seemed to have one

Old women, middle aged women, girls and baby girls are all the same their psyche is way different maybe it has something to do with hormones.

Never stick to an opinionated women, you can't be so silly to think feminism can work in our society

Beautiful women always feel they have an option.

Lastly never compromise your hustle for a woman.

I laf wen I read dis, if we ladies say all we have gone tru esp in d name of love, u sef go fear, if not for good friends around, only God knows where I wud b today... ladies have gotten their own share of heartbreak d same men have... I keep on wondering if something is wrong somewhere, its not easy, no one ever said it was, so we just keep trying, keep being strong, one day we all gonna recall dis and laf, cos den it won't matter anymore...

Proudlesbiangal:
Good girl meets bad boy who in turn makes her bad and she meets a good guy who turns bad and the cycle continues. Such is life. You won't find a 100 percent perfect individual. There will always be good and bad. You just have to find the one you can live with whose pros outweighs their cons.

bgam. You just finished the talk..

Vickyydera:
WHAT IS WRONG WITH MY DP?

the color combination is something not of this world...

The Love of my life flipped on me I'm in the process of letting go as well its not easy especially if you cared but it's necessary someone who respects your love will come don't wait just live love

Naughtysite:
After saying sorry, you will still do it again.
Kwantinue..

wat i do?

Judeoxide:
the color combination is something not of this world...

lolzzzzzzxxxxxz omgeee!