tushgirl:
That why I said he doesn't have much,he has never send me money or cards.
I just have this feelings for him

bitchcrafts:
I will gleefully jump at a keeper that's healed. For Reals!, I need that rare female species to complete me!! Most other real men too!!!

PaulKillerman:
I wonder why I was never invited to this discourse....

Anyway, I hate all this love talks and seeing niggaz falling for it further infuriates me, but all the same...
I think the guy has waken up from his doldrums and humdrum and decided to be a more responsible nigga...

But yet, I'll say, forget the nigga, carry on with your life, do your things, if he is for you, then he will come back...

tushgirl:
I haven't slept with him

makydebbie:
hmmm...lemme call the elders..slyisaa.c..airsul.tan..muv.ah..come oo

slyIsaac:
Lol.. Tis one pass me.....o... How you dey na...

BrideOfDracula:


LMAO. That's the thing with most people, we want everything ready-made & not put in any hard work. How about you help her heal by showing her you're not out to get her like her ex or whomever is the cause of her pain & distrust. Sometimes we also need reassurance & someone who'll comfort our fears that not all men are this or that. I know it requires patience but a lot can go a long way with the right amount of effort from the guy's side. Expecting it to miraculously happen is kind of a reach imo.

"Real men" should roll up their sleeves & do, real work

bitchcrafts:
Smart line ,should make a people's favorite if u were some Maya Angelou . Anyway, I understand it takes two to make a us, but then us won't achieve the feat of us if only me is doing all the work. She should possess that eagerness to trust and let go too. I don't have all years to prove a simple point . That's the kind of lady on my referral earlier. No lady is all made up even if I'm her first. You all need reassurances, POINT IS , Be HEALED FIRST BEFORE YOU PRESS NEXT ON YOUR RELATIONSHIP SCROLL.

BrideOfDracula:


Well, it's much more complex than that. Sometimes, after taking some time off, you may believe you've sorted out some of the issues, until one little thing & you're back to square one. It's like a domino effect. I don't care how strong & positive someone is, but it sure does take a long time to reverse some of the psychological damage, hence some people spend YEARS in therapy. There's no magic bean to make it all go away overnight. It takes only one jerk-ass to make it all come back with vengeance

I concur with one thing you said though, the girl must admit she has issues or nothing will change.

bitchcrafts:
That's why we have so many baby mamas lol

BrideOfDracula:

Hahaha. Touché

bitchcrafts:
The Special Advisers Association of Nairaland are landing! Let's seee what d self-acclaimed relationsh.!ts experts have for us on this matter op just pulled out of her glorious arse... Watching...

tosyne2much:
Kuku call their names in case they don't stumbled on this thread

Estharfabian:
Hey.....Be Nice..

makydebbie:
am good dear...when will mim.zy have her interview?

Feranchek:


If I get the answer to your dp right, will I have your number? Plus BBM pin? Plus Facebook ID?

Lol.



It depends?

Estharfabian:
Lol.



It depends?

makydebbie:
am good dear...when will mimzy have her interview?

Feranchek:


You know my next kwesion

LoL.


what?

MiMzYFiEd:
Good morning dear. Its thursday

slyIsaac:

Friday I think... I hope nobody stole you from me while I was away o...

Estharfabian:
LoL.



what?

Feranchek:

Ajuju. "It depends"


On what!!

how pink Are your lips?

Estharfabian:
how pink Are your lips?

Feranchek:


Hahahahahahahaha! Buh we're talking mathematics here!!!

lol
.....



sorry. I'm just saying, If You get it right....I might Be Real quick to give you those if You've got breathtaking lips...

Estharfabian:
lol
.....



sorry. I'm just saying, If You get it right....I might Be Real quick to give you those if You've got breathtaking lips...

tushgirl:
Good day all,
I met a guy around February,initailly someone gave him my bbm pin so we were chatting but I wasn't into him then(because I haven't seen him then),i would always ignore him or reply sometimes....i. Began to feel something for him toward April ending so the chat and calls were regular...we started dating and the relationship was going on smoothly,we met and I fell in love immediately...my feelings for him was so strong,i told him him I felt and he told me same too.

We were suppose to meet last week but he suddenly text me and told me about a meeting he was to attend so I accused him going to see other girls and not the said meeting.
I told him my mind,how I felt he is a womaniser,i said many things but I never insulted him,i later called and apologise even when I know he might have been with another girl that weekend....i have been begging this guy since Friday,he said he had heard bit he refused to ping or call me
I'm not exaggerating but I get admires everyday..i have someone seeking for my hand in marriage,a very comfortable person.

Nb:This guy don't have much,but I still don't c care.

Pls talk sense into my head,insult me,i want to forget about him totally.

Rocktation,lalasticlala help a sister out

Feranchek:


Unfortunately, I don't.

Automatic disqualification, right

It still depends....

makydebbie:
ok...dem no fit...i wrote ur name on my forehead..

slyIsaac:

Ha ha ha..you sabi better thing joor!