No problem nah...... As long as we share all expenses equally... End time ideas!

This is unacceptable!uche is guilty of treasonable felony my lord,
I put it to you Mrs Uche Jombo,that lives at no:001 feminist street in womensville town is hereby charged for treason,the punishment is no sex for you for 40 days and 40 nights

one question for those claiming equality who paid for their bride price then if they ans it then they can Bleep their self to the lagoon gender ko xender ni

No b small thing

Gender equality is not feminism. It is not about LGBT. Gender equality is meant to protect ur mother, ur sister, ur daughter, ur cousin, ur friend from being taken for a ride! Its is not to scratch out gender roles! A woman should cook and take care of her family because she loves them... based on her agreement with her husband. It is about equal work/credentials means equal pay. Its to reduce using women as 'marketers' in banks and reducing trafficking . Its about a company not doing a pregnancy test on u before giving u a job. Or sacking u because u are pregnant. Its about a young girls right to choose her husband and not be married off at below 18 yrs to whoever her father chooses. Its about a woman choosing a surgery over trying for labour based on discussions with her doctor. Its about a widow not being forced into marriage with her brother -in-law, a widow not having her children taken away from her by in-laws. It a womans right to sue an abusive/violent husband. May our sisters and friends not have their rights taken from them and we have no way to legally defend or protect them. Its not to belittle men. Please google and read this bill before you talk.

bloodyBLOGGER:
i almost fell for your comment till I gave it's second thought.

You definitely think the bill is just for a woman to have equal rights with men in public alone, but in a family setting she is to be submissive to her husband. You don't seem to see how giving her the so-called equal rights will affect her marriage. The right will make her lose respect for men and gradually her husband.

You spoke of a boss sending her to go make tea for the men when they are male workers who are even below are in the scheme of things that should be sent. Is cooking no longer a woman's joy? If it was a huge generator the boss needed someone to lift for him, you selfish people will start to point to the fact that such heavy duty is for men.

As for inheritance, you can't tell a family or a tribe to change their belief just because some western law crept into Nigeria. If it is a taboo for women to inherit properties, then so be it. Not all tribes do such Why does you folks want us to throw away our own values for their white man?


I have never seen where a landlord rejects renting an apartment to a lady before. It can't even happen in Nigeria where landlords are hungry.

Clearly you are sick, cooking is the joy of a woman so she should be turned into a cook at work if she wanted a job as a cook she would have gotten one. i have never seen a man getting called from his office or in a meeting to go put on the generator so what crap are you on about. so the fact that a woman has equal rights with her colleagues means blah blah at home what the heck you talking about it it not a normal thing for her to be equal to her colleagues She spent the same years in school with them but shouldn'tlmao, , everyone is talking this albino is putting mouth (no offense to albinos jare) Freeze you are a retard, why is it that once you mention gender equality the only thing these simple minded people think about is marriage? not once did this ignorant clown talk about the pertinent issues the bill is seeking to address. who cares if you marry a feminist ? who is even talking about marriage here? instead of wasting your days writing stupid articles about other people's business how about you first go and find out what gender equality is?Any man that is afraid of a woman standing up to him is a weakling but we already know that about Freeze anyway. You have to marry a weak woman, no woman with half a brain can listen to the diarrhea that comes out of your mouth on a daily basis. Please do yourself a favor and marry a woman with the IQ of a biscuit just like you . Chai he's ex tried. Whoever cursed this man should please forgive him and release him o have the same rights because? so you insecure twats want to keep women subservient everywhere lmao you are dreaming. when a woman is the owner of the company and superior to everyone that means she gives her husband attitude abi so all women must be inferior in the office regardless of qualification you are ill . Also clearly you don't know what respect is, so having equal rights as men will make her lose respect, do you disrespect other men because you have the same rights

concerning inheritance, which stupid tradition. most of these so called tradition where put in place to cheat women. why didnt you keep killing twins? and all the other nasty traditions. that is why you lot a backward, you are simply an insecure man thats afraid women will overtake you and its already happening. At the end of the day you can only run your mouth at your wife at home you dont dare try rubbish with your female boss Also you are nothing but a hypocrite , this tradition is okay riht but when northerners tell you its their tradition to marry little girls you say they should move away from that backward tradition but you can keep yours right since it helps you cheat your sisters Pathetic

talking about landlords please that happens regularly, ask any agent and he'll tell you that many landlords tell them ahead sef

If the man is the head of the house, does that mean every woman must submit to every man even the one that is not her husband? So because the man is the head a woman should allow her male colleague at work to make all the decisions for her to follow.If you claim to be the head, that is in your own house and your own cup of tea. Both genders are equal and should have equal rights.Go and read about Ellen Johnson Sirleaf, Hillary Clinton, Condolenzza Rice and likes then tell me again that genders are not equal.rubbish!

macherie1:
If the man is the head of the house, does that mean every woman must submit to everyman even the one that is not her husband? So because the man is the head a woman should allow her male colleague at work to make all the decisions for her to follow.If you claim to be the head, that is in your own house and your own cup of tea. Both genders are equal and should have equal rights.Go and read about eEllen Johnson sirleaf, Hillary clinton, condolenza rice and likes then tell me again that genders are not equal.rubbish!

the mumu above says if you have equal rights with your colleagues you will lose respect for men can you imagine this is the daftest thing i've ever heard

Sylvester70:
one question for those claiming equality who paid for their bride price then if they ans it then they can Bleep their self to the lagoon gender ko xender ni

in my family we don't collect bride price and many people don't these days so next

bloodyBLOGGER:
i almost fell for your comment till I gave it's second thought.

You definitely think the bill is just for a woman to have equal rights with men in public alone, but in a family setting she is to be submissive to her husband. You don't seem to see how giving her the so-called equal rights will affect her marriage. The right will make her lose respect for men and gradually her husband.

You spoke of a boss sending her to go make tea for the men when they are male workers who are even below are in the scheme of things that should be sent. Is cooking no longer a woman's joy? If it was a huge generator the boss needed someone to lift for him, you selfish people will start to point to the fact that such heavy duty is for men.

As for inheritance, you can't tell a family or a tribe to change their belief just because some western law crept into Nigeria. If it is a taboo for women to inherit properties, then so be it. Not all tribes do such Why does you folks want us to throw away our own values for their white man?


I have never seen where a landlord rejects renting an apartment to a lady before. It can't even happen in Nigeria where landlords are hungry.

Guy be reasonable, so you would be okay for you daughter to invest so much into her education only to be regarded as inferior to her male colleagues and turned into a cook/maid at work so that she will "respect men" No wonder many girls would rather be runs girls , thats just flipping ridiculous. i'am am sure you had female classmates that were smarter than you and you have female colleagues that better at their work than you but because you have a diik they should be inferior to you what kind of thinking is that

The inheritance think is just a thing of greed on the part of lazy men. if you consider your self truly superior to women that's why you should even make you make sure your sisters gets the inheritance while you go hustle for yours or your own superiority is only to bully women which is what i see everything you've said as.

concerning the topic anyone that thinks women should not be equal to me should not be offended when whites think you are inferior to them. so you don't want to be discriminated against but you are okay with other's (women) getting discriminated against as long as it benefits you abi

remexy:
Gender equality is not feminism. It is not about LGBT. Gender equality is meant to protect ur mother, ur sister, ur daughter, ur cousin, ur friend from being taken for a ride! Its is not to scratch out gender roles! A woman should cook and take care of her family because she loves them... based on her agreement with her husband. It is about equal work/credentials means equal pay. Its to reduce using women as 'marketers' in banks and reducing trafficking . Its about a company not doing a pregnancy test on u before giving u a job. Or sacking u because u are pregnant. Its about a young girls right to choose her husband and not be married off at below 18 yrs to whoever her father chooses. Its about a woman choosing a surgery over trying for labour based on discussions with her doctor. Its about a widow not being forced into marriage with her brother -in-law, a widow not having her children taken away from her by in-laws. It a womans right to sue an abusive/violent husband. May our sisters and friends not have their rights taken from them and we have no way to legally defend or protect them. Its not to belittle men. Please google and read this bill before you talk.

gbam

who the gender equality don epp

JOYOSITA:
The schooler is Uche while the schoolee is the Ooni's wife. Happy weekend to you too dear.

Hahahaha! The schooler should remember that the schoolee's view is quite popular with guys,lol

Shym3xx:


Lol, that's the African booty scratcher experience lol. She must've thought she was donating to unicef, but she didn't know you're Akeem Jaffe Joffer of Zamunda lool.

Honestly, I don't take these e-feminists seriously - I just clown them when I'm bored, like I've been doing on a next thread since afternoon.

These people's noise is more or less like hearing birds chirp to me. Boys and girls are given the same opportunities from birth. They attend the same schools from nursery to university level - without special treatments for boys. And after uni, opportunities abound for both sexes. So where's the inequality? If guys outsmart you and tend to be ahead of you after having the same opportunities, why not work on ya craft and stop appealing for special treatment? Shouldn't equality be about a level playing field?

If it's about certain societal views. Then the onus is on you to change that by leading by example. Start with spending ya own money on dates. And stop scrounging around, while being needy, with claims that you're a girl and a guy is meant to provide. Etc.. Once you start taking the initiative, men would've no other choice than to start giving you ya just due.

Most of the lousy clowns are folks with other issues and are anti-men. The whole ideology these days is more of trying to be superior to men and nothing to do with equality. They're like LGBT groups and PETA. While LGBT groups are trying to put gays over straight people - PETA cares more about animals than human beings. That's where the crass feminism falls and it's one part of the three-headed monster trying to destroy the natural order of humanity lol.

I don't even understand the noise these days when more and more women in the west are even embracing semi-housewife roles to raise kids. A lot of women don't work more than 5/6 hours nowadays. When you come to LDN, the reason why you'll see gazillion of Land Rover discovery out on the when schools close is cos most of these women are trying to pick up their kids from school. And most of them only do part time jobs - with their spouses spoiling them with decent whips.

Fvck outta here with that internet feminism - let's meet you in person loooooool. A lot of these clowns will go back to their hussies after logging off to cook his food and bow down to him. And the unmarried ones would still expect a guy to foot all their bills cos they're always needy, despite having a job. Yet they'll come here to disturb sane people wth noise about feminism loool.

yeah truly that feminism thang is just an online agitation. kinda like how the biafra thang is more of an online agitation. i am sure on the ground in reality they realize this thing is not workable cuz it is in opposition to receiving free drinks in the club and freebies from men. but in all actuality i think the agitation is started by women have have made it and are neck to neck with their male counterparts in achievements so they want equality and they are using the ordinary ones ( who have everything to lose if this thing picks off ) as pawns and foot soldiers in their agitation. kind like how politicians have agberos fighting for them on the streets while they are at the top. yeah these feminazis with everything to lose are just pawns and foot soldiers for the likes of mo abudu who are the ones who have everything to gain from feminism

Be warned miss Uche!!! Don't insult the king indirectly.

Zico5:
This gender equality is why some women have and will still continue to have marital problems. Uche jombo, I know this is one of the reason u married white. In as much we are still Africans then African women have no options but to abide by the dictate of our culture. Bringing alien and foreign culture to bear in Africa is tantamount to war. Men are the head and will still be no matter the women status. That is why u celebrities cannot stay in marriage cos u are not ready listen to the dictate of men.

Guy you dull. It's only men with self esteem issues that will condemn what uche jumbo listed. Self interest and the wickedness of men to women have brought about it African men have abused being the head too much that they feel like gods. Irrespective of your gender we will all die and there's no special judgement for men in heaven so get it right both men and women deserve to be treated fairly. Olodo

ON POINT

sukkot:
yeah truly that feminism thang is just an online agitation. kinda like how the biafra thang is more of an online agitation. i am sure on the ground in reality they realize this thing is not workable cuz it is in opposition to receiving free drinks in the club and freebies from men. but in all actuality i think the agitation is started by women have have made it and are neck to neck with their male counterparts in achievements so they want equality and they are using the ordinary ones ( who have everything to lose if this thing picks off ) as pawns and foot sldiers in their agitation. kind like how politicians have agberos fighting for them on the streets while they are at the top. yeah these feminazis with everything to lose are just pawns and foot soldiers for the likes of mo abudu who are the ones who have everything to gain from feminism

Loool. I can see "feminazi" there. That's only good word that has ever come out of the mouth of the rabid nutter, Rush Limbaugh.

These clowns aren't even pawns - they're illiterate sheeple on a bandwagon to hell. Just read the tripe the other clown spouted on the first page and shake ya head. Like seriously, in which countries do women get paid less money than men for doing the same job? Perhaps in tennis at one point and that's cos men play more sets and men tennis matches sell more tickets than the female ones. And she also alluded to marriage as being slavery lol. I don't know when following the natural order involved in team work, with a team leader, which is the natural position for men, became slavery. These clowns are just illiterates looking for something to jump on lol.

The funniest thing is that women are their own worst enemies. A classic example is Beyonce. She screams feminism and girl power everywhere to get these gullible dunderheads to buy her records, yet she can't walk out of her marriage, despite claims that her man is cheating on her. And the same clown calls herself the Queen that other women must bow down to - hence she used her Hiiipower in the music industry to blackball Ciara and Keri Hilson, while stealing their shine in the process. How can you scream girl power and empowerment for women, then destroy other women? And where's the equality in woman-dom, when you want other women to bow down to you? GTFOHWTB. There are equal opportunities for men and women out there - if you can't compete - shut the fvck up, suck it in, and go to ya natural habitat in the kitchen where no one can compete with you and rule kitchen-dom. Ain't no nyggah tryna hear ya chirping noise looooool.

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Oi, game 7 is tomorrow - I gat take that £100, fam. I know some needy cyber-feminist is somewhere waiting for a free meal. Gatts feed her with that money loooooool.

I bet you saw that nyggah, Bron Bron the black King James, put in work in game 5 & 6, no?

bebe2:
Uche pls Shut up,

must u answer everything?

see the yeye nollywood wey una dey, its crumbling fast and u are here fighting equality.

Men are women can NEVER be equal ,we all have our strenghts in diffrent areas, Unless u marry a Weak man.

Uhm..... this from a woman's mouth? but you contradicted yourself. The fact that we have strength in different areas shows that men are weak in the areas where women have strength, and vice versa. If you believe the fact above, then it shouldn't be difficult for you to believe in gender equality. Men are women are to complement themselves. Men can't do what women can do easily, while women cannot do what men can do effortlessly.

The fact that men have more physical strength does not say they have higher mental strength. It takes more of mental strength to make more money, rule a nation, etc than physical strength.

#Ipledgeforparity

What makes a dick equal to a pussy? The day I see a man perform cowgirl sex position during heterosexual intercourse is d day I will believe dere should be gender equality abi wetin be that English self

Bantino:
God made man before woman.

Case closed, next!!

punana and kpekus are not equal now

Scatterscatter:
Mumu talk every where.

Peeps, I'm sorry I'll have to come from the religious point of view here:

God created us equal but He made the man "the head" just as Christ is the head of the church.

The wife is the man's responsibility; for this reason, it is written in the Bible that a man that can't provide for his family is worse than an infidel.

Women respect your husband and you husband, love your wife,. So says the Bible.


The family is the first institution created by God and it is through this institution He intends to populate and replenish the earth, raising children that will be God fearing and responsible.
The Devil's assignment aside to kill, steal and destroy is also to attack the family institution.
One of illuminati's grand plan is to reduce world population and the feminism trend that is all around is part of the plan of the devil.

If you attack the family, the church will be weak, the children will be rebellious, the home will be in shambles and the world at large will be easy for the devil to manipulate.

Ever wondered why divorce and depression rate is higher in the developed countries despite the booming economy?

My dear feminist, every man is egoistic that is the reason a man that is in love with is wife, either responsible or not will go to any length to provide for is home simple because he doesn't want another man to take his place. God put the ego in man for a reason(to work harder to earn more for the family and also to defend his famiky) ever wondered why the man will lock-up the children and wife in the room while he goes out to face the armed robbers even if it a suicide mission.

The moment you challenge a man or you aim to be equal with him, trust me u'll never get the best from that man.

Women, learn to love, respect and trust your men.
You married him because you know he is capable to lead, don't drag the steering with him.

Offer words of encouragement, advice, support, take care of him because he is your big baby, and don't ever make him feel less than the man of the home.

Dear Nlanders, let's all pray against the wave of feminism and let's pray for more love and understanding in the home.

God bless you all





SCATTERSCATTER DON COME BACK AGAIN

long thing. Abeg help me ask who God gave control of everything after d creation of d earth and what he created d woman to do...cos only bitches will support equal left, equal equality whateva

Since men and women cannot be equal, why is the Olori talking? she needs to hand over the mic to her husband to do the talking for her

So Madam uche jombo, what of our culture of paying bride price?
In the light of equality for all should we introduce groom price for the bride to pay too?

Zico5:
This gender equality is why some women have and will still continue to have marital problems. Uche jombo, I know this is one of the reason u married white. In as much we are still Africans then African women have no options but to abide by the dictate of our culture. Bringing alien and foreign culture to bear in Africa is tantamount to war. Men are the head and will still be no matter the women status. That is why u celebrities cannot stay in marriage cos u are not ready listen to the dictate of men.

Even the white men too are regretting signing that rubbish into their law .They are trying everything possible to rectify it . Different rules out there in the divorce court these days. .. no more mugu

They all want this sign into law, is there any law out there that says men are superior and why must this bill be signed into the law ? .. bunch of cry babies

Edwife better wife and pikin, what's your opinion on this gender equality wahala. ..

Araoluwa005:
veteran you say? I think you need the dictionary meaning of veteran: A person with long experience of a particular activity.

*sigh. What manner of blockheads are we breeding oo always fast to jump at someone's comment even when they have nothing sensible to add to it! Arrgh!! Uche Jumbo i'm sure has been acting for over 14yrs, that is long and qualifies her a "veteran" in CONTEXT for God's sake. What do u know about wuraola d olori aside the king "helping" her by marrying her? Well, the things I know abt her are not even worth her having an opinion about women because she isn't a good role model, but that's none of my business. So, Uche can't have differing opinion to the olori that suddenly got promoted to dat position without anything tangible to show she is worth anything? Hian! Una matter tire me abeg.

cococandy:
That's the gender inequality at play.

Olori is now more of a somebody than Uche because she married a man who's a king. .i.e the quality of her husband defines her. Not her achievements.

Meanwhile a man who married up will not be considered more of an achiever than his counterpart who struggled to make it to the top.

When women talk crap like this I don't know if they really think about what they are saying. To endorse a value system that doesn't consider you anything until you have a man to validate you.

SMH.

too pathetic. Hardwork is not important oo. Even if u're from the gutter and a serial lover to plenty men, just "hustle" ur way to the heart of the king. Voom!!you will suddenly have opinions about folks that are well grounded, groomed, learned and exposed than you because a king pitied u from the gutter and married you.typical case of wuraola olori. Not about talking about her past, but plss she is not a mouthpiece nor a standard for women. Smh!

Uche Jombo's argument is so on point.
Most women do not know the how much struggle has gone past for them to be where they are to day. Days when women were denied education, denied the right to work, denied even the right to live , where a man has only female kids and neglects them and there is no law to enforce him to take care of his responsibilities,

A time where women are still been denied equal pay. (na this one pain me pass, HR will factor woman join for your salary). Seek knowledge of great women who have strived so you can take this things for granted. I don't want to be superior to a man. But I want the same rights (as dictated in the constitution). I want a female president someday, with no objections from the men.




PS: Nairalanders should learn how to attack the argument and not the person. Demeaning the person of Uche Jombo is not right and is mean and only belittles you. Seeing comments like she cant cook, married a white man, she is an actress You have a right to your opinion and she has hers. That's part of the gender equality we want.

nikenry:


Uhm..... this from a woman's mouth? but you contradicted yourself. The fact that we have strength in different areas shows that men are weak in the areas where women have strength, and vice versa. If you believe the fact above, then it shouldn't be difficult for you to believe in gender equality. Men are women are to complement themselves. Men can't do what women can do easily, while women cannot do what men can do effortlessly.

The fact that men have more physical strength does not say they have higher mental strength. It takes more of mental strength to make more money, rule a nation, etc than physical strength.

#Ipledgeforparity

You know it's not true deep down inside of you. What equality are you looking for? Modern women are not oppressed! You guys have a single Nobel laureate in science I.e Marie Curie for her work in discovering/ inventing Geiger counter. How much had women contributed to the world in every aspect of modern world? Do have more heroins than heroes in this country or even in the world? Who goes to war? Even in America, which gender is prominent in the armed forces? To be fair, equality is not fair because you females are just going about spreading propaganda... Are you ready to pay the price for the so called equality?

bluestone2015:
All my life, I had always been privileged to be ahead of men of my age.

In the University, I had lots of men asking to sit with me to copy my answers.

At Work, I often have lots of men as subordinates.

In life generally, most of my male friends and colleagues come to me for investment advice because they are impressed with my performance.

I am trying to understand the issue of gender equality because it seems that I am superior to a lot of men of my age. I rather think the men are trying to catch up with me.

From my experience, I concluded that the most intelligent remains the most superior.

So fellow women. Try to enhance yourselves and strive for the best. Remain at the top of anything you are doing. You will see that people will give you a lot of respect. Males and females alike.

I am writing from experience.

True talk! Yes it is true that whatever we are determined to achieve,we can achieve but one major problem is "hindrance" ....for some the journey is smooth but for others it is bitter or should I say unfortunate based on the environment they find themselves. What would a girl do,a little girl who is told by her father that "my 1kobo will not drop for your education..focus on getting married and leaving this house...it is only the men I'll train" ?(Dreams shattered). Or a lady who's in charge of her families business, a company limited by shares of which she's the next highest share holder after her dad...but after the death of her father the whole family(her uncles) has ganged up against her,demanding that she step aside for her younger brother...reasons being she's a "woman".....
The struggle to pursue ones dream or seek out opportunities is real for some women and when they speak out the next thing they'll be tagged #feminist,but they are just fighting for their right ,same way men can fight for theirs too because men are objectified too,esp. when women view them daily as money machines,when they talk about violence against women does not mean they'll justify violence against men.....every gender deserves respect and opportunity (live and let live)

foladara777:

Actually, you are the one who made an a*** of yourself... In most parts of the world even developed countries, women are generally paid less for doing d same work. Pls carry out a little research

That's their issue. Do you have an instance where women are paid lower for the same position as men here in Nigeria?