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Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Cutehector(m): 2:39pm On Jul 03, 2016

Adegbenro7643:
Jxt make it less conc nah

lol my bashing na 100percent

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Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by egedege1(m): 2:40pm On Jul 03, 2016

Cutehector:
thank Bruv.

Team falconey bro. Ur support will be highly appreciated.

no wahala

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Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by LuveU2(f): 2:40pm On Jul 03, 2016

Cutehector:
if I konk u eh... see her small yarnsh be shouting team fal. Shebi he has collected from u na.

U will not giv me my own

Your catapult head there grin

Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Lovelynature(m): 2:40pm On Jul 03, 2016

Not necessary. But when giving, make it clear it's for transport fare, so as not to appear as if you are trying to entice her with your money

Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by MrCork: 2:41pm On Jul 03, 2016

ichommy:
Depends on our agreement

correction..we only pay marrried women for sexxxxc everytime we Londoners come on holiday to Nigeria....every Londoner known the easy way to get any Nigerian woman (marrried or single) is to show them pounds sterlin. I sleept wit 3 marrried women at a hotel when I waz in Nigeria 3 month ago & i do this everytime am in Nigeria.I all ways pay them £100 thou!!(real talk)

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Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Cutehector(m): 2:42pm On Jul 03, 2016

LuveU2:

Your catapult head there

Cmon set ur yarnsh make I collect my own jor. grin

Who dey smile with u here angry

Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by LuveU2(f): 2:45pm On Jul 03, 2016

Cutehector:
Cmon set ur yarnsh make I collect my own jor.

Who dey smile with u here

You don craze finish

abeg shift make i see road cheesy

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Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by plaetton: 2:45pm On Jul 03, 2016

bruzrecordz:
Hi guys..
This is something that has being troubling me for some times now, infact it's one of the reasons I have practically stopped asking girls out on a date...just as the question goes...na gud tin to giv a bae money for d first tym as una finish una date either Mr Biggs or tantalizer or pepperoni etc..

Let me gist you what happened on Saturday...on Wednesday I met a very cute girl inside a bank (UBA ph) I was scared talking to her so I spied on her name..as a sharp guy opened my fb, search her and I sent a request..a day later she accept and we started chatting..I later open up to her about I got her name.. She was so impressed on my actions..I asked her out on a date, she agreed, we went out, a nice restaurant, couple of jokes, then later a movie..after everything I took her back to her house..when I got to my house..she called me and said am too stingy for her liking..so i asked her how...she said..y I no give her money as I dey go back.
Abeg help me did I do something wrong?.

Well, in case you didn't know, giving money or gifts in return for female companionship is an ingrained part of the social contract of dating.

Now, whether it is done openly or in a subtler manner, it's still the same.

Guys have to pay for companionship one way or the other, either in cash, gifts, promises of everlasting love or any other form of IOU.

So basically, toasting should be simplified to " come with me babe, IOU.

Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by BrosMayowa(m): 2:45pm On Jul 03, 2016

Feminists will avoid this thread like plague

Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Cutehector(m): 2:47pm On Jul 03, 2016

LuveU2:
You don craze finish

abeg shift make i see road

snakey, scorpion.. make we hijack dis babe carry am enta uncompleted building.

Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by guntranno(f): 2:47pm On Jul 03, 2016

Well, we ladies gat different sense of reasoning.

Firstly, you don't show a lady how fat your pocket is because that first impression goes a long way.

Secondly, you shudda told her you're outta cash but only had your atm card. Ask her to take a taxi to your hauz telling her you'll pay her tfare to n fro n see the result.

Some girls r cheap n blunt sha!!!

Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by guntranno(f): 2:49pm On Jul 03, 2016

MrCork:

correction..we only pay marrried women for sexxxxc everytime we Londoners come on holiday to Nigeria....every Londoner known the easy way to get any Nigerian woman (marrried or single) is to show them pounds sterlin. I sleept wit 3 marrried women at a hotel when I waz in Nigeria 3 month ago & i do this everytime am in Nigeria.I all ways pay them £100 thou!!(real talk)

Sleeping with married women? Not even divorcee nor single mothers...

You never see curse wey pass Tsunami

Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by sunny442: 2:49pm On Jul 03, 2016

How come I have not asked this question, thanks for this OP

Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by AreaFada2: 2:51pm On Jul 03, 2016

Naavah:
I don't understand women sometimes. Just a date and she's asking for money?

My dear, I'm surprised that you're surprised. The vast majority of girls expect now. The consequence is it makes women look cheap generally.

Sadly, including the ones who are different. Because if you have met 5 and all behaved that way, it's hard to know that not all girls actually do so.
It is monetisation of courtship & love. shocked

It has got to the level that a large number of guys now believe in "make moni first and girls go dey flow".

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Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by OgahCHARLES(m): 2:53pm On Jul 03, 2016

bruzrecordz:
Hi guys..
This is something that has being troubling me for some times now, infact it's one of the reasons I have practically stopped asking girls out on a date...just as the question goes...na gud tin to giv a bae money for d first tym as una finish una date either Mr Biggs or tantalizer or pepperoni etc..

Let me gist you what happened on Saturday...on Wednesday I met a very cute girl inside a bank (UBA ph) I was scared talking to her so I spied on her name..as a sharp guy opened my fb, search her and I sent a request..a day later she accept and we started chatting..I later open up to her about I got her name.. She was so impressed on my actions..I asked her out on a date, she agreed, we went out, a nice restaurant, couple of jokes, then later a movie..after everything I took her back to her house..when I got to my house..she called me and said am too stingy for her liking..so i asked her how...she said..y I no give her money as I dey go back.
Abeg help me did I do something wrong?.

DONT EVER GIVE A GIRL TRANSPORT MONEY AFTER A DATE UNLESS SHE ASKS YOU IN PERSON OR YOU PAY FOR A DROP TO TAKE HER HOME. GIVING HER CASH IS A NO NO YOU ARE NOT A SUGAR DADDY

Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by arch111(m): 2:53pm On Jul 03, 2016

Aviero:
Lol. I can't even believe this.

d tin just tire me...

Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by kcynho(m): 2:54pm On Jul 03, 2016

bruzrecordz:
Hi guys..
This is something that has being troubling me for some times now, infact it's one of the reasons I have practically stopped asking girls out on a date...just as the question goes...na gud tin to giv a bae money for d first tym as una finish una date either Mr Biggs or tantalizer or pepperoni etc..

Let me gist you what happened on Saturday...on Wednesday I met a very cute girl inside a bank (UBA ph) I was scared talking to her so I spied on her name..as a sharp guy opened my fb, search her and I sent a request..a day later she accept and we started chatting..I later open up to her about I got her name.. She was so impressed on my actions..I asked her out on a date, she agreed, we went out, a nice restaurant, couple of jokes, then later a movie..after everything I took her back to her house..when I got to my house..she called me and said am too stingy for her liking..so i asked her how...she said..y I no give her money as I dey go back.
Abeg help me did I do something wrong?.

My brother u no do any error at all, on a 1st day of date all u owe d bae is to pay 4 d treat bills,if u've gat a ride drop her off or pay 4 her cab home, if actually it's a cab oh!,bt dnt gv her money "on thanks 4 coming basis"or for her to enter a cab on her own.that's hw it Wrks mate she musn't get it and mostly gals don't usually get it,neither does being pwettie make her right chap

Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by MrCork: 2:55pm On Jul 03, 2016

guntranno:

Sleeping with married women? Not even divorcee nor single mothers...

You never see curse wey pass Tsunami

bro truss me...marrried women r the easiest to sleep wit.....They dont give stress..they dont do resturant, no cenima..Nu Bull $hit ..juss show them pounds sterlin....they meeet u in the hotel, u pay them....u gerrrrin...u gerrrrrrrout...i do this all the time. THEY ARE MY FAVOURTIE!!!! (((REAL TALK)) wink

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Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by ronald4ever(m): 2:55pm On Jul 03, 2016

LuveU2:
Ive had to call it off with a guy after he tried giving me money immediately past our first date.

Firstly, its cheapening
Secondly, disrespectful and rude
Thirdly, it just shows i made a mistake dating a boy.

Well, as for the Op, sluts would always be sluts and they must live too.

Good, very apt at the embolden. But does it just end on the first date? Don't you think the highlighted applies at all times, first or whatever date?

Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Abodunrin07(m): 2:56pm On Jul 03, 2016

3Dee:
You stingy o, you should have given her tfare at least.

As you be her papa now.

Haba, after chopping free food she still dey expect money.

After she don enjoy the date she still dey expect money, I swear if you date dat kind gel she go just dey collect from you ni grin

Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Nobody: 2:56pm On Jul 03, 2016

titosantana:
You did the right thing. Let her be pls except if you want her as "pay as you go".

Only girls that believe their private part is a factory have such mentality.

Yels & dats about 89% of chics on NL...INFACT AM TIRED THEIR BOOSIT!!

Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by peter(m): 2:57pm On Jul 03, 2016

Cutehector:
Wen u just got out of ban and u don't want to bash anyone

Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by CAPSLOCKED: 2:59pm On Jul 03, 2016

Vincad:
No way. First date and she's already asking for money, nawa ooh.

LOL, YOUR PEOPLE ARE SCAVENGERS NOW....

THEY WALK AROUND WITH MATTOCKS AND DIGGERS LOOKING FOR A PLACE TO "GOLD-DIG" cheesy

Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Nobody: 3:01pm On Jul 03, 2016

bruzrecordz:
Hi guys..
This is something that has being troubling me for some times now, infact it's one of the reasons I have practically stopped asking girls out on a date...just as the question goes...na gud tin to giv a bae money for d first tym as una finish una date either Mr Biggs or tantalizer or pepperoni etc..

Let me gist you what happened on Saturday...on Wednesday I met a very cute girl inside a bank (UBA ph) I was scared talking to her so I spied on her name..as a sharp guy opened my fb, search her and I sent a request..a day later she accept and we started chatting..I later open up to her about I got her name.. She was so impressed on my actions..I asked her out on a date, she agreed, we went out, a nice restaurant, couple of jokes, then later a movie..after everything I took her back to her house..when I got to my house..she called me and said am too stingy for her liking..so i asked her how...she said..y I no give her money as I dey go back.
Abeg help me did I do something wrong?.

I understand her maybe she meant u refuse to give her ur dick, u refuse to touch her, is not all about money, think outside the box

Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Abodunrin07(m): 3:01pm On Jul 03, 2016

ichommy:
Depends on our agreement

Baba mi, no agreement o, dat kind gel go just turn you to ATM

Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Nobody: 3:01pm On Jul 03, 2016

not surprised most of them are coded hustlers smbh angry

Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by graci(f): 3:02pm On Jul 03, 2016

You stink...I doubt Weda u hv sisters abi na

RichYoungNigga:
I be father Christmas ??
She no get father ??

Did she work for me ??
She ought to be the one to give me money to buy malt and milk to regain the thing wey i release.

Why should i give her money ?? What does she bring to the table ?? Her p ssy ?? What else ?? Nothing.

How much dem dey sell Vaseline sef ??

Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by pepigeorge(m): 3:03pm On Jul 03, 2016

wildQuincy:
I honestly don't fancy it atall once you give me money after a date, I will never take you seriously because my head starts recieving some funny ideas about you and that could make me very uncomfortable! Even if I chose to have sex with you as a guy, pls don't give me money after the whole deal because you will never see me anywhere near you again! I know a lot of naija babes will not agree but that's just me.

Hmmmmmm......are u sure

Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by 3Dee(m): 3:04pm On Jul 03, 2016

Abodunrin07:

After she don enjoy the date she still dey expect money, I swear if you date dat kind gel she go just dey collect from you ni

Baba I swee some girls no get joy o, after chopping free food faa grin

Make ladies dey pity guys small small na. grin

Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by formator: 3:05pm On Jul 03, 2016

y u go give am moni.her name na Monica?

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Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by ademusiwa5: 3:06pm On Jul 03, 2016

I am a man. In Yoruba culture. Yes. Men give woman money during dating. Not after

Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by eldav(m): 3:08pm On Jul 03, 2016

bruzrecordz:
Hi guys..
This is something that has being troubling me for some times now, infact it's one of the reasons I have practically stopped asking girls out on a date...just as the question goes...na gud tin to giv a bae money for d first tym as una finish una date either Mr Biggs or tantalizer or pepperoni etc..

Let me gist you what happened on Saturday...on Wednesday I met a very cute girl inside a bank (UBA ph) I was scared talking to her so I spied on her name..as a sharp guy opened my fb, search her and I sent a request..a day later she accept and we started chatting..I later open up to her about I got her name.. She was so impressed on my actions..I asked her out on a date, she agreed, we went out, a nice restaurant, couple of jokes, then later a movie..after everything I took her back to her house..when I got to my house..she called me and said am too stingy for her liking..so i asked her how...she said..y I no give her money as I dey go back.
Abeg help me did I do something wrong?.

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