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Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by wildQuincy(f): 4:01pm On Jul 03, 2016
GodblessNig247:


I am really touched to the bones. I truly have not heard ladies in Nigeria speak like this for a while. I really felt that sincerity in those lines of urs in ur quote. That's cool. Can I pm u if u don't mind. Thanks
I would have love to receive your PMs but the problem is I cannot read PMs because I'm not connected. I just mailed a supermod to rectify it! I have been a guest on this forum for some time but I just registered yesterday! Pls help me contact them if you can help. Thanx
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by CAPSLOCKED: 4:03pm On Jul 03, 2016
MrCork:



..bro if she gots nice booobsi plus nice nyansh...why not??...bro it seems u dont like women coozzz may I remind u that homosexxxuality in that Nigeria place is 14years imprisionment for u people..but hear in LOndon, if they arrrest u for homosexxxuality, they take u for counsellin. Married women are they best cuz when they come to u, no body know....we calllit Under Gee ...BUT..u can only get them if u hav moiney thou...I have moiney....Everytime i get single or divorce women, all they do is ask me for cheque for schkooool fees.....what the hell do i need schkoool fees for? (real talk) undecided
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Nobody: 4:04pm On Jul 03, 2016
Okay, sincerely, in my opinion, I really don't think you @ op did anything wrong in not giving her money. First and foremost, you work hard for your money not her so that gives her no right whatsoever to demand for anything. You took her out and you alone spent. Frankly, I don't see why it is so. For Me, when a guy and a girl go out, they both should split the bill. Truthfully, I don't approve of a guy spending at All on Me. We are both independent human beings so why then should you spend a dime on Me? I have my money, you have yours. If I don't have excess money to spend, to take myself on a treat, I sit in my house not depending on anyone else. But again, this is my opinion and my principles. Everyone is different, distinct even.
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Blessograo(f): 4:04pm On Jul 03, 2016
bruzrecordz:
Hi guys..
This is something that has being troubling me for some times now, infact it's one of the reasons I have practically stopped asking girls out on a date...just as the question goes...na gud tin to giv a bae money for d first tym as una finish una date either Mr Biggs or tantalizer or pepperoni etc..

Let me gist you what happened on Saturday...on Wednesday I met a very cute girl inside a bank (UBA ph) I was scared talking to her so I spied on her name..as a sharp guy opened my fb, search her and I sent a request..a day later she accept and we started chatting..I later open up to her about I got her name.. She was so impressed on my actions..I asked her out on a date, she agreed, we went out, a nice restaurant, couple of jokes, then later a movie..after everything I took her back to her house..when I got to my house..she called me and said am too stingy for her liking..so i asked her how...she said..y I no give her money as I dey go back.
Abeg help me did I do something wrong?.
Sorry to say the lady is the stupid one and please flee from her, she has been eating and taking care of herself before she met you and besides you owe her nothing so giving her money on a first date is crap and totally not your responsibility. Your responsibility was to pay for the meal and pay for her T fare but instead you dropped her at her home and I think that is gentlemanly enough and if she needs money that bad she can get it from wherever she has been getting it before not making you a money making machine. This is why guys are scared of even saying hi to a lady. Infact if you offer me money on a first date or any date I take that as an insult you rather pay for my transport than hand the Tfare over to me and that is more polite. If you both are already dating then giving money is not a problem so she can go Bleep herself now that she got no dime for you.
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Nobody: 4:06pm On Jul 03, 2016
@OP YOURS ITS BETTER
met a girl via facebook, all things going on well, went to the movies, went to pizza joint and a crazy chinese restaurant on the island in lagos, the next 2 days she called me complaining of less funds for her project that is 40k & was like its isn't up to a week we met u asking for money, asked for her parents to issue her the funds, she said she's an orphan, ok told my accountant of my company to deduct it from my monthly salary and issue her the funds, on going back home, was listening to some radio relationship talks of different people and then i remembered what this babe called me some time within the last 3 days we me when she spoke to her friend in my presence,remembered the kind of phone she uses, an S7. Though 40k is just about my monthly capital savings to my private account that i'm saving for my housing project since 3 years, so 1month payment into the account won't kill me but the fact that she uses a big phone and big items, why cant u borrow a loan or sell item to fulfil the need & dts was how i left her till today.

Invest in future not in a Woman

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Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by GodblessNig247(m): 4:06pm On Jul 03, 2016
wildQuincy:

I would have love to receive your PMs but the problem is I cannot read PMs because I'm not connected. I just mailed a supermod to rectify it! I have been a guest on this forum for some time but I just registered yesterday! Pls help me contact them if you can help. Thanx

OK. Sorry about that OK. Will be rectified soon. Meanwhile we could drop acquaintances and pleasantries here. grin
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by nnaemekanwachuk(m): 4:07pm On Jul 03, 2016
She is either 17 or she is a begger..for me l cant guve out money to a lady on the first date..
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Anabel(f): 4:07pm On Jul 03, 2016
Owliver:
why can't she drop me at home? why must I be the one to drop her? must there be financial dependency on a guy in every relationship in the universe?

Giving a lady fare now is financial dependency? Are you kidding me? What is the guy paying for? I don't ask for hair money, feeding and I make my clothes myself. I don't know about the type of ladies you date but when I visit man, I get my fare allowance for the week no matter how much he sees in my purse. And then he buys me once a while gifts which i appreciate and I do thesame too. It's just common sense! It has nothing to do with dependence. Stop dating children
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Coolgent(m): 4:10pm On Jul 03, 2016
Bros you should thank your God cos she exposed herself for you to know what kind of girl she is before you go think say u meet wife material.
Anyway she was indirectly telling u that with your money you can enjoy her honey pot
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Anabel(f): 4:12pm On Jul 03, 2016
Owliver:
devide 500 by 25 (=20) and distribute to beggers they'll wish you well and karma will even bless you.

but a anabel just said its disrespectful to give a girl 500 naira after spending some cash on eatery and cinema.

just for pvssi?

our dear nation is finished

Why don't you bang the beggars?

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Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Franky826: 4:12pm On Jul 03, 2016
bruzrecordz:
Hi guys..
This is something that has being troubling me for some times now, infact it's one of the reasons I have practically stopped asking girls out on a date...just as the question goes...na gud tin to giv a bae money for d first tym as una finish una date either Mr Biggs or tantalizer or pepperoni etc..

Let me gist you what happened on Saturday...on Wednesday I met a very cute girl inside a bank (UBA ph) I was scared talking to her so I spied on her name..as a sharp guy opened my fb, search her and I sent a request..a day later she accept and we started chatting..I later open up to her about I got her name.. She was so impressed on my actions..I asked her out on a date, she agreed, we went out, a nice restaurant, couple of jokes, then later a movie..after everything I took her back to her house..when I got to my house..she called me and said am too stingy for her liking..so i asked her how...she said..y I no give her money as I dey go back.
Abeg help me did I do something wrong?.

Oga better go thank God that girl just exposed who she is, An ammature!

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Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by snowking: 4:13pm On Jul 03, 2016
Naavah:
I don't understand women sometimes. Just a date and she's asking for money? shocked
May God continually give you sense.

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Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Owliver(m): 4:13pm On Jul 03, 2016
Anabel:


Why don't you bang the beggars?
so am paying for sex. that's prostitution.

then just say it. why the beating around the bush.

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Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by davibid: 4:17pm On Jul 03, 2016
That girl b like...

Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Nobody: 4:18pm On Jul 03, 2016
bruzrecordz:
Hi guys..
This is something that has being troubling me for some times now, infact it's one of the reasons I have practically stopped asking girls out on a date...just as the question goes...na gud tin to giv a bae money for d first tym as una finish una date either Mr Biggs or tantalizer or pepperoni etc..

Let me gist you what happened on Saturday...on Wednesday I met a very cute girl inside a bank (UBA ph) I was scared talking to her so I spied on her name..as a sharp guy opened my fb, search her and I sent a request..a day later she accept and we started chatting..I later open up to her about I got her name.. She was so impressed on my actions..I asked her out on a date, she agreed, we went out, a nice restaurant, couple of jokes, then later a movie..after everything I took her back to her house..when I got to my house..she called me and said am too stingy for her liking..so i asked her how...she said..y I no give her money as I dey go back.
Abeg help me did I do something wrong?.
Okay, sincerely, in my opinion, I really don't think you @ of did anything wrong in not giving her money. First and foremost, you work hard for your money not her so that gives her no right whatsoever to demand for anything. You took her out and you alone spent. Frankly, I don't see why it is so. For Me, when a guy and a girl go out, they both should split the bill. Truthfully, I don't approve of a guy spending at All on Me. We are both independent human beings so why then should you spend a dime on Me? I have my money, you have yours. If I don't have excess money to spend, I sit in my house not depending on anyone else. But again, this is my opinion and my principles. Everyone is different, distinct even.
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Mistermamus(m): 4:18pm On Jul 03, 2016
Dat1 only don scatter am. Naija gals sha no just sabi dats y i luv the 'other' girls
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by donMIG(m): 4:19pm On Jul 03, 2016
Na hungry girl....not even worth a dime...bosss flush her from ur mind jor...dats a mugu monster
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Nobody: 4:19pm On Jul 03, 2016
bruzrecordz:
Hi guys..
This is something that has being troubling me for some times now, infact it's one of the reasons I have practically stopped asking girls out on a date...just as the question goes...na gud tin to giv a bae money for d first tym as una finish una date either Mr Biggs or tantalizer or pepperoni etc..

Let me gist you what happened on Saturday...on Wednesday I met a very cute girl inside a bank (UBA ph) I was scared talking to her so I spied on her name..as a sharp guy opened my fb, search her and I sent a request..a day later she accept and we started chatting..I later open up to her about I got her name.. She was so impressed on my actions..I asked her out on a date, she agreed, we went out, a nice restaurant, couple of jokes, then later a movie..after everything I took her back to her house..when I got to my house..she called me and said am too stingy for her liking..so i asked her how...she said..y I no give her money as I dey go back.
Abeg help me did I do something wrong?.
Okay, sincerely, in my opinion, I really don't think you @ of did anything wrong in not giving her money. First and foremost, you work hard for your money not her so that gives her no right whatsoever to demand for anything. You took her out and you alone spent. Frankly, I don't see why it is so. For Me, when a guy and a girl go out, they both should split the bill. Truthfully, I don't approve of a guy spending at All on Me. We are both independent human beings so why then should you spend a dime on Me? I have my money, you have yours. If I don't have excess money to spend, I sit in my house not depending on anyone else. But again, this is my opinion and my principles. Everyone is different, distinct even. Everyone is entitled to theirs.
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Anabel(f): 4:20pm On Jul 03, 2016
Y
Owliver:
so am paying for sex. that's prostitution.

then just say it. why the beating around the bush.

How can you pay for sex when you didn't f**k her that day? It's amazing when guys think they can pay for a woman's body. You can't pay for sex. Women who collect money for sex are insulting themselves. When you think about how heavenly s*x feels, you will realise that all your life earnings can't cover it up
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Thobiy(m): 4:20pm On Jul 03, 2016
Very very wrong
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by UyiIredia(m): 4:21pm On Jul 03, 2016
Naavah:
I don't understand women sometimes. Just a date and she's asking for money? shocked

Abi o? As if she's an escort or something. @ bruzrecordz You didn't do anything wrong bro.

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Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by marv1: 4:25pm On Jul 03, 2016
wildQuincy:
I honestly don't fancy it atall undecided once you give me money after a date, I will never take you seriously because my head starts recieving some funny ideas about you and that could make me very uncomfortable! Even if I chose to have sex with you as a guy, pls don't give me money after the whole deal because you will never see me anywhere near you again! I know a lot of naija babes will not agree but that's just me.
If u are real. Ladies like u are rare.
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Anabel(f): 4:27pm On Jul 03, 2016
Hazkel:
Okay, sincerely, in my opinion, I really don't think you @ of did anything wrong in not giving her money. First and foremost, you work hard for your money not her so that gives her no right whatsoever to demand for anything. You took her out and you alone spent. Frankly, I don't see why it is so. For Me, when a guy and a girl go out, they both should split the bill. Truthfully, I don't approve of a guy spending at All on Me. We are both independent human beings so why then should you spend a dime on Me? I have my money, you have yours. If I don't have excess money to spend, I sit in my house not depending on anyone else. But again, this is my opinion and my principles. Everyone is different, distinct even. Everyone is entitled to theirs.

your principles are right by you and it suits you. And I'm glad it's your opinion. She did wrong asking tho. Agreed! Especially with the fact that he dropped her at home. But when a guy makes the move for a date, it's his bill. I spend on a daily budget, not everyone is loaded. I have my cash with me but it's the first time. There are things a man should be responsible for and one of such things is paying the bills for a date he asked me to. It's a wrong impression if a lady starts showing a man his incapability on a first date by splitting bills. As time goes on, when you get to know him,you can host him on a date and he'll be glad. Guys complain about ladies a lot but trust me, they take advantage of ladies that rush into their purses to split bills. I have an aunt who is paying that price now even in marriage
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by wildQuincy(f): 4:29pm On Jul 03, 2016
GodblessNig247:


OK. Sorry about that OK. Will be rectified soon. Meanwhile we could drop acquaintances and pleasantries here. grin
Yea sure! Anytime cool
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by titosantana(m): 4:30pm On Jul 03, 2016
MrCork:



ermm Sweet hat.. it has notin to do wit God..I love women too much but sadly 96% of them theif yor moiney and run away...thats why i settle for marrried women. The marrried women I ususaly go for are thoise who need help payin Schooool fees, rent or electricity or even sef, problems wit ther marraige. WHen i invite them to the hotel, the first thing they all ways say is that *my husband never takes me out and this hotel is nice*.. I treat women good coz i love to spend. I prefer marrraied women co all i do is pay them gerrrrin, gerrrout and pay for ther Taxi back home to ther husband.....am a well known London *plaYA* ((REAL TALK)) wink
They will soon design your face with broken bottle

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Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by missmary(f): 4:30pm On Jul 03, 2016
: angry Its Like the aunty is Spiritually stupid...Her brain is asthmatic ... grin
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by busyfishing(m): 4:33pm On Jul 03, 2016
Cutehector:
Wen u just got out of ban and u don't want to bash anyone grin
your comment made me laugh so much.thanks bro
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Nobody: 4:34pm On Jul 03, 2016
Hmm... Wetin man no go see.

Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by busyfishing(m): 4:35pm On Jul 03, 2016
cruz419:
I should have given her some thing beta Dan Dat bleeped so Gud sense into her,, I guessed she would have appreciated Dat more than money!!!!
my man.correct comment
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Cutehector(m): 4:35pm On Jul 03, 2016
busyfishing:
your comment made me laugh so much.thanks bro
wink
Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by Nobody: 4:36pm On Jul 03, 2016
Anabel:


your principles are right by you and it suits you. And I'm glad it's your opinion. She did wrong asking tho. Agreed! Especially with the fact that he dropped her at home. But when a guy makes the move for a date, it's his bill. I spend on a daily budget, not everyone is loaded. I have my cash with me but it's the first time. There are things a man should be responsible for and one of such things is paying the bills for a date he asked me to. It's a wrong impression if a lady starts showing a man his incapability on a first date by splitting bills. As time goes on, when you get to know him,you can host him on a date and he'll be glad. Guys complain about ladies a lot but trust me, they take advantage of ladies that rush into their purses to split bills. I have an aunt who is paying that price now even in marriage
Well you do have a point but I guess it varies and wisdom should also take precedence. It's not really about being rich, that's why I said, when there's excess, I treat myself out. Truly, everyone is entitled to their opinion.

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Re: Is It Right To Give A Lady Money After A Date? by GodblessNig247(m): 4:37pm On Jul 03, 2016
wildQuincy:

Yea sure! Anytime cool
OK. Thanks

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