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Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by Nobody: 11:01am On Jul 16, 2016
mascot87:


That girl will kill u with hypertension bro I swear. Break it NOW before it is too late.
Do u want to know why she responded late?
Truthful to yourself..... She got bleeped
Those hoes aren't loyal bro.
Take your mind off this once & for all cos there is no need confirming anything again.
The truth is that guy called his uncle is the hit man
It will pain u for a while like 2 weeks to a month both it's worth d pain.
There are more than a million ladies out there beautiful, loyal , humble, respectful & have the fear of the Lord than for u to stick to that hoe u called a fiancée
Who she EPP?
Use your brain bro that's what God created it for
Marry her & for the rest of your life become an unhappy man.
Is it worth it?

Word

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Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by Trendy247: 11:03am On Jul 16, 2016
SecretAgent:
Install what. I know other spy apps but they are quite expensive. Please what is the name of the app? i urgently need it.

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Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by Nobody: 11:04am On Jul 16, 2016
PaulKillerman:
simply put, I was being skeptical and surprised you were asking that question about, your fiancee and her "uncle"

If u are still unsure of what is going on between them. Sorry to say bro, u are dumb.. Stop being foolish... It is obvious he is her sugar daddy, "uncle" is the name these hoes call their sugar daddies, when telling friends about them, . I'm surprised you don't know this, it's pitiable... This same thing I keep on preaching to you loverboiz niggaz, wisen up, and get enlightened, but no, instead you choose to wallow in timidity and tomfoolery (I'm not trying to insult you, just telling you the hard truth to your face)

Anyway, just be careful, I'll advice you use her as your sex tool, just be forking her when u are done, please pass her over to me, let me continue, (if she's very cute and in PH).. That's what they are used for nothing more...

And do not expect response from ladies here, you will rarely see their responses, because it isn't alien to them, that's what they all do, they fork different men(sick,old,young) and dickss for as long as you have the cash ,and when I come out to call them who they truly are and tell them their use to their faces they get offended, SMH at such hypocrisy and stupidity...


Women are all just sex tools, nothing more, treat them as such, failure to do so, you should please carry your cross...

God bless you all breh... I still remain Paulkillerman..

C.C babzilla, xendra, Mrobontami, obontami, vincent41

Come and see a Brother, experiencing the shot firsthand...

Amen Bro Pailkillerman. As usual you have expaciated with an eloquence even I couldnt match at my very best.

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Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by obontami2: 11:07am On Jul 16, 2016
PaulKillerman:
simply put, I was being skeptical and surprised you were asking that question about, your fiancee and her "uncle"

If u are still unsure of what is going on between them. Sorry to say bro, u are dumb.. Stop being foolish... It is obvious he is her sugar daddy, "uncle" is the name these hoes call their sugar daddies, when telling friends about them, . I'm surprised you don't know this, it's pitiable... This same thing I keep on preaching to you loverboiz niggaz, wisen up, and get enlightened, but no, instead you choose to wallow in timidity and tomfoolery (I'm not trying to insult you, just telling you the hard truth to your face)

Anyway, just be careful, I'll advice you use her as your sex tool, just be forking her when u are done, please pass her over to me, let me continue, (if she's very cute and in PH).. That's what they are used for nothing more...

And do not expect response from ladies here, you will rarely see their responses, because it isn't alien to them, that's what they all do, they fork different men(sick,old,young) and dickss for as long as you have the cash ,and when I come out to call them who they truly are and tell them their use to their faces they get offended, SMH at such hypocrisy and stupidity...


Women are all just sex tools, nothing more, treat them as such, failure to do so, you should please carry your cross...

God bless you all breh... I still remain Paulkillerman..

C.C bab zilla, xe ndra, Mr obontami, obo ntami, vinc ent41

Come and see a Brother, experiencing the shot firsthand...

Infact I weak for the guy
Somebody dey pack ur girl leg, dey lie for u say na her uncle

Him sef mumu him self believe am. My brother mugu no fit finish for this life Ooooooo grin

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Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by Nobody: 11:07am On Jul 16, 2016
Randyhot:
ok bro,many thanks to you for ur advice, but i want to make a few corrections. This man in question is related to her by blood, what is my concern is if he might be taking advantage of her, just becos of the sponsorship even before i met her.
Secondly, i am not getting any younger and i refuse your advice of Bleep and drop, i am not a teenager, btw...if you choose your pattern, then definitely you will forever remain single.
Nigga how do you know they are related vy blood?
Did you do a DNA test?
You know you are not foolish rather you seem to be a guy who has chosen ( of his own freewill) to act foolish

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Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by obontami2: 11:10am On Jul 16, 2016
Randyhot:
radically blunt coolradically blunt
You can say that again my brother cheesy
Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by Nobody: 11:11am On Jul 16, 2016
Babzilla:

Nigga how do you know they are related vy blood?
Did you do a DNA test?
You know you are not foolish rather you seem to be a guy who has chosen ( of his own freewill) to act foolish
i have a friend that is both related with them, but u see my fears bro, i dnt know if this uncle is taking advantage of her due to his financial contributions towards her education.

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Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by Abydehme(m): 11:14am On Jul 16, 2016
Bros, you are not married yet you saved her contact with my wife. That alone is already giving her leverage over you, what you should do is call her and let her know what's on your mind instead of dying in silence.....

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Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by first2shop(m): 11:14am On Jul 16, 2016
I have seen her selfies in this uncles apartment and most of the pictures are not so "funny" as what she wears around in the house.

Can you drop one of the selfies?

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Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by Nobody: 11:14am On Jul 16, 2016
Trendy247:
simply install "....." in her fone... its N900 in playstore. it has 'hidden feature' which means u can hide it after installation and she won't know somtin like dat is in her fone. leave it for at least one week, it will do d work for u...
But whatever happen next, u're on ur own.... The app have succeeded in destroying two of my friend's relationship..


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Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by Nobody: 11:15am On Jul 16, 2016
Randyhot:
i have a friend that is both related with them, but u see my fears bro, i dnt know if this uncle is taking advantage of her due to his financial contributions towards her education.

*sighs
Bro taking advantage of what?
Girls who are being taken advantage of ( pressured into sex) are usually miserable and reluctant to go visit their predator.
Does your girl sound like she is under stress? .She willingly goes to visit the man
Who is this friend that is related to them? How did you meet this friend?

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Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by royalfamily(m): 11:17am On Jul 16, 2016
Bro wake up you 've been place on local scam I swear to be candid that uncle is really blessing her company. ..I can tell from this I swear in fact I even spoke with the uncle. ...obinrin wan le kure.

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Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by egorov(m): 11:18am On Jul 16, 2016
You need no advice op. This is so audible to the deaf and visible you the blind

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Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by Nobody: 11:19am On Jul 16, 2016
Randyhot:
i understood all that you said, and i do shoulder some of her responsibilities as well. But this uncle according to her, has been there for her from the world go.



My question to u is, are u willing to quit that lady going by all indications she is cheating on you?

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Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by cleansystem(m): 11:20am On Jul 16, 2016
be a man confront her and if she refuses to oblige to your feelings then look elsewhere. careful not to fall for her tears when she comes begging. she is not your wife.
Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by wellmax(m): 11:21am On Jul 16, 2016
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Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by benjanny(m): 11:23am On Jul 16, 2016
I have no other advice to suggest,guys have already say everything

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Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by hollyayo(m): 11:24am On Jul 16, 2016
I'm interested o
Trendy247:
simply install "....." in her fone... its N900 in playstore. it has 'hidden feature' which means u can hide it after installation and she won't know somtin like dat is in her fone. leave it for at least one week, it will do d work for u...
But whatever happen next, u're on ur own.... The app have succeeded in destroying two of my friend's relationship..


Quote me if u're interested lemme giv u d name
Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by WebSurfer(m): 11:24am On Jul 16, 2016
Randyhot:
I have this issue that i have been pondering on for sometime now, and the more i think about it, the more i get confused.

Its about this man my fiancee always call's her uncle, she said that this man is a relation to her grandma and honestly, this particular man is the one sponsoring her education since both parents are divorced.

My problem is this, everytime this man is in town, she goes over to his house to clean up, and will spend the night over there as well, and this man has never for once visited with his wife. Secondly whenever this man calls her on phone, and she happens to be anywhere expect her house or in school, he will start accusing her of sleeping around, something i am suspecting might be a 'lover's jelousy' than a mere concern for her well being. I might be wrong in my suspecions but i cant just bring my mind to rest when he stoped paying her school fees for a while when it was reported to him that she was caught coming from a guys house by a friend. I knew that day in particular , cause i was escorting her when she bumped into someone she remarked as her uncle's bossom friend, it took the intervention of her mother and sister to placate him.
I was shoked one day when she remarked that if you dont know well, you might think that they where dating, and futher said that his wife might be suspecting them atimes. I was thinking, what must be running through her mind for saying all these? I have seen her selfies in this uncles apartment and most of the pictures are not so "funny" as what she wears around the house.

Now today, the man is around and as usual she will be up there cleaning and stuff, but what is worrying me this night is the " swtheart,my husband good nite" sms i got from her after all the missed call i gave her earlier tonight. Its unlike her, cause we never fail to call eachother and say our goodnights every night.
I replied her asking if shes spending the night in her uncle's house which she did not reply.
I dont know how to confront her on this, about my fears and suspicions.
Your advice is kindly needed, as the imaginations alone is giving me sleeples night.
bros i take God beg you..
Dont continue to get fooled like this,
That guy is not her uncle,

She doesnt even respect you, shes sure fuckinh the hell out of the man as he remained her sponsor, you will send yourself to an early grave faster if you still even consider her as your fiance, please go and hustle while shinning the hell out of her puss-y while you can cos youve been played for a very long time, its painful but please struck ger out of your mind as a wife, im using my last battery power to type this cos i wouldnt like to allow a brother fall for this shit.

Women and lies eh, they dont even know what they want

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Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by masskeemz: 11:24am On Jul 16, 2016
As a journalist, my suggestions might be costly but worthwhile.

1. Try following her around, patiently and discretely.

2. If you can, plant a chip on her device to help you track their conversations while together. Or betterstill, check her phone call settings, activate auto answer mode and set its time to maybe 1second. During that period, you only call her at odd hours so that the device can answer the call before she knows it and then you pay keen attention to the conversation or sound in the background.

3. Pay an unannounced visit to the house (uncle's) whenever he's around. Her reaction will tell you where you belong.

4. Or simply tell her you met with the uncle and had a long chat with him. She'll express shock and suddenly become restless once that happens if she's snooping.

5. Steal the uncle's number and call when she's with you before she knows it. Place the call on loud and talk to him as an in-law to be. Watch her reaction.

NB: successful investigation is largely hinged on patience, objectivity and balance, giving equal treatment to all sides involved. Thanks

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Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by Ibro2005: 11:24am On Jul 16, 2016
Follow her seceretly to the house and find out.
Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by royalfamily(m): 11:25am On Jul 16, 2016
Randyhot:
I have this issue that i have been pondering on for sometime now, and the more i think about it, the more i get confused.

Its about this man my fiancee always call's her uncle, she said that this man is a relation to her grandma and honestly, this particular man is the one sponsoring her education since both parents are divorced.

My problem is this, everytime this man is in town, she goes over to his house to clean up, and will spend the night over there as well, and this man has never for once visited with his wife. Secondly whenever this man calls her on phone, and she happens to be anywhere expect her house or in school, he will start accusing her of sleeping around, something i am suspecting might be a 'lover's jelousy' than a mere concern for her well being. I might be wrong in my suspecions but i cant just bring my mind to rest when he stoped paying her school fees for a while when it was reported to him that she was caught coming from a guys house by a friend. I knew that day in particular , cause i was escorting her when she bumped into someone she remarked as her uncle's bossom friend, it took the intervention of her mother and sister to placate him.
I was shoked one day when she remarked that if you dont know well, you might think that they where dating, and futher said that his wife might be suspecting them atimes. I was thinking, what must be running through her mind for saying all these? I have seen her selfies in this uncles apartment and most of the pictures are not so "funny" as what she wears around the house.

Now today, the man is around and as usual she will be up there cleaning and stuff, but what is worrying me this night is the " swtheart,my husband good nite" sms i got from her after all the missed call i gave her earlier tonight. Its unlike her, cause we never fail to call eachother and say our goodnights every night.
I replied her asking if shes spending the night in her uncle's house which she did not reply.
I dont know how to confront her on this, about my fears and suspicions.
Your advice is kindly needed, as the imaginations alone is giving me sleeples night.









Bro wake up you 've been place on local scam I swear to be candid that uncle is really blessing her company. ..I can tell from this I swear in fact I even spoke with the uncle in my own time ...obinrin wan le kure.
Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by arantess: 11:25am On Jul 16, 2016
The op is playing ostrich....poor soul

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Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by Nobody: 11:25am On Jul 16, 2016
mrkayusfit:




My question to u is, are u willing to quit that lady going by all indications she is cheating on you?
thats what am afraid of bro..i am deeply inlove with her. All my family members and friends has taken a particular liking to her. Infact of about the over 32 ladies i have dated since teenage/adulthood, she is the first to pass a night in my family house and help in chores and stuff. I just cant loose her
Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by toyomars(m): 11:25am On Jul 16, 2016
Trendy247:
simply install "....." in her fone... its N900 in playstore. it has 'hidden feature' which means u can hide it after installation and she won't know somtin like dat is in her fone. leave it for at least one week, it will do d work for u...
But whatever happen next, u're on ur own.... The app have succeeded in destroying two of my friend's relationship..


Quote me if u're interested lemme giv u d name
Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by Cmeo(m): 11:26am On Jul 16, 2016
Randyhot:
I have this issue that i have been pondering on for sometime now, and the more i think about it, the more i get confused.

Its about this man my fiancee always call's her uncle, she said that this man is a relation to her grandma and honestly, this particular man is the one sponsoring her education since both parents are divorced.

My problem is this, everytime this man is in town, she goes over to his house to clean up, and will spend the night over there as well, and this man has never for once visited with his wife. Secondly whenever this man calls her on phone, and she happens to be anywhere expect her house or in school, he will start accusing her of sleeping around, something i am suspecting might be a 'lover's jelousy' than a mere concern for her well being. I might be wrong in my suspecions but i cant just bring my mind to rest when he stoped paying her school fees for a while when it was reported to him that she was caught coming from a guys house by a friend. I knew that day in particular , cause i was escorting her when she bumped into someone she remarked as her uncle's bossom friend, it took the intervention of her mother and sister to placate him.
I was shoked one day when she remarked that if you dont know well, you might think that they where dating, and futher said that his wife might be suspecting them atimes. I was thinking, what must be running through her mind for saying all these? I have seen her selfies in this uncles apartment and most of the pictures are not so "funny" as what she wears around the house.

Now today, the man is around and as usual she will be up there cleaning and stuff, but what is worrying me this night is the " swtheart,my husband good nite" sms i got from her after all the missed call i gave her earlier tonight. Its unlike her, cause we never fail to call eachother and say our goodnights every night.
I replied her asking if shes spending the night in her uncle's house which she did not reply.
I dont know how to confront her on this, about my fears and suspicions.
Your advice is kindly needed, as the imaginations alone is giving me sleeples night.


@OP

If she is a particularly minority tribe from Kogi state, I can be it with you that she is most likely sleeping with the person, most especially if she is calling that her uncle "bodam" when speaking in their dialect. If she falls into this assertion, pls run and re-run. Always allow them marry themselves.

This happened to a ex-girlfriend and those I have shared the experience with said its common in that part of the world.

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Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by Charmarlegne: 11:26am On Jul 16, 2016
Smell the coffee before you end up in a coffin. Your are just an assistant boyfriend. The uncle is fucking your girl.

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Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by dejavubobo1(m): 11:28am On Jul 16, 2016
Codedboy95:
tho i didn't read what you wrote well.. but next time the uncle is around tell your girlfriend that you want to pay him a visit just to thank him for all he has been doing .....
LOL my mind exactly

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Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by tivta(m): 11:28am On Jul 16, 2016
Girls will not commentnow but if it was the man that was cheating all hell will be let loose, hypocrits

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Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by Obiohai: 11:29am On Jul 16, 2016
No need for all this long premier guy. She is and will keep fucking that old guy. He is not her uncle. It's called sugar daddy.
You are just the fall guy she is waiting to marry after fooling you for years with your eyes open.
Wise up

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Re: Could My Fiancee's Uncle Be Sleeping With Her? by Nobody: 11:30am On Jul 16, 2016
masskeemz:
As a journalist, my suggestions might be costly but worthwhile.

1. Try following her around, patiently and discretely.

2. If you can, plant a chip on her device to help you track their conversations while together. Or betterstill, check her phone call settings, activate auto answer mode and set its time to maybe 1second. During that period, you only call her at odd hours so that the device can answer the call before she knows it and then you pay keen attention to the conversation or sound in the background.

3. Pay an unannounced visit to the house (uncle's) whenever he's around. Her reaction will tell you where you belong.

4. Or simply tell her you met with the uncle and had a long chat with him. She'll express shock and suddenly become restless once that happens if she's snooping.

5. Steal the uncle's number and call when she's with you before she knows it. Place the call on loud and talk to him as an in-law to be. Watch her reaction.

NB: successful investigation is largely hinged on patience, objectivity and balance, giving equal treatment to all sides involved. Thanks
nice write up.. Cheers bro.
Happy that brothers in the house are showing solidarity to a lost brother.

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