Daniel2289:
No 2 ways about it. This man is dating ur girl. Are u really sure if dis man is her Uncle? U have to do a research on dis. Be dat as it may, It is unfortunate dat u can't stop ur girl from going to his house anytym he comes home, cos if u do, u can't sponsor ur girl. But is dis d kind of life u want to live? What baffles me is dat ur girl do spend d night there. If I were u my broda, but am not u, I would not mind ending dis relationship. What a world we live in

evegran:
I am glad I am blunt and not afraid to express myself anytime.

Op, you shouldn't even be with someone if you're so afraid to ask em questions about something that is bothering you, number one!

Number two, what Uncle? (Who should be playing the role of a father) Wouldn't want his daughter to be engaged and get married in the nearest future?

Number three, what Uncle doesn't realise she is a grown woman and has every right to have a boyfriend if she even has plans of marriage in the future. Her Uncle should even encourage her and meet her "serious" boyfriend, giving him rules and asking him to treat her right because she is his daughter.

Op, your suspicious are sensible. I am equally convinced she is having a sexual relationship with her Uncle.

Ask her the questions and tell her, you will not be able to cope. Somehow, you're going to have to threaten to leave her if she doesn't stop and realise threatening to leave her means you will propose to be paying her bills ( at least the bills her Uncle pays-which clearly keeps her indebted to him because he is a dirty sick man).

Try that, if she agrees to stop it and even start avoiding her uncle. Please, seriously pay her bills and allow her focus on just you. If she gets mad and doesn't even give you a sensible explanation, prepare yourself for a break up. Because even after you marry her, she will continue fucking her Uncle and might possibly Bleep your own Uncle too.

Bonjour.

May19th:

This man again... Lols

Randyhot:
ok bro,many thanks to you for ur advice, but i want to make a few corrections. This man in question is related to her by blood, what is my concern is if he might be taking advantage of her, just becos of the sponsorship even before i met her.
Secondly, i am not getting any younger and i refuse your advice of Bleep and drop, i am not a teenager, btw...if you choose your pattern, then definitely you will forever remain single.

Lily4star:


Sorry I am not trying to insult you but what you just said here sounds very dumb, I swear I can bet my life if you make deep findings that man is not related to her by blood, she knows your weakness hence using it skillfully against you

And please don't marry a hoe cos you feel you not getting any younger, from every of your post till this very one what I have come to understand is that she's in control of the relationship, you don't have the balls to confront her and tell her some certain things, you had better man up

I can help you here, I use to lie to my man when newly started cos then I didn't know his real intentions or how serious he was about me, but my God the guy is so smart to the extent even if I try to lie on the phone now he cuts me off Immediately and tells me it's a lie, he says he has studied me like a book to the extent he knows when am telling him to truth and I am not, and I respect and love that about him, I respect him alot and I can boldly say he built me to the woman I am today,

Please try and be in control, stop taking bullshits


I hardly comment on romance but I just had to cos of how you been sounding

Trendy247:
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bitchcrafts:
He be like say your story true , so i go try talk sense this tym ... Now, Sheybi u are fukcing her too?... That aside, Guy man, if you know u can't handle the bills this her uncle is bearing better dey your lane and dey enjoy life as it comes. Don't complicate a complicated issue for yourself. From all indications yo still an hustling Nigga. If u know how to play your games right this 'uncle' can be helpful... Don't goan love up oh, its not good for your health, Na ladies dey love, Na brains niggaass dey get. Noff said

Trendy247:
simply install "....." in her fone... its N900 in playstore. it has 'hidden feature' which means u can hide it after installation and she won't know somtin like dat is in her fone. leave it for at least one week, it will do d work for u...
But whatever happen next, u're on ur own.... The app have succeeded in destroying two of my friend's relationship..


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Randyhot:
I have this issue that i have been pondering on for sometime now, and the more i think about it, the more i get confused.

Its about this man my fiancee always call's her uncle, she said that this man is a relation to her grandma and honestly, this particular man is the one sponsoring her education since both parents are divorced.

My problem is this, everytime this man is in town, she goes over to his house to clean up, and will spend the night over there as well, and this man has never for once visited with his wife. Secondly whenever this man calls her on phone, and she happens to be anywhere expect her house or in school, he will start accusing her of sleeping around, something i am suspecting might be a 'lover's jelousy' than a mere concern for her well being. I might be wrong in my suspecions but i cant just bring my mind to rest when he stoped paying her school fees for a while when it was reported to him that she was caught coming from a guys house by a friend. I knew that day in particular , cause i was escorting her when she bumped into someone she remarked as her uncle's bossom friend, it took the intervention of her mother and sister to placate him.
I was shoked one day when she remarked that if you dont know well, you might think that they where dating, and futher said that his wife might be suspecting them atimes. I was thinking, what must be running through her mind for saying all these? I have seen her selfies in this uncles apartment and most of the pictures are not so "funny" as what she wears around the house.

Now today, the man is around and as usual she will be up there cleaning and stuff, but what is worrying me this night is the " swtheart,my husband good nite" sms i got from her after all the missed call i gave her earlier tonight. Its unlike her, cause we never fail to call eachother and say our goodnights every night.
I replied her asking if shes spending the night in her uncle's house which she did not reply.
I dont know how to confront her on this, about my fears and suspicions.
Your advice is kindly needed, as the imaginations alone is giving me sleeples night.

Trendy247:
simply install "....." in her fone... its N900 in playstore. it has 'hidden feature' which means u can hide it after installation and she won't know somtin like dat is in her fone. leave it for at least one week, it will do d work for u...
But whatever happen next, u're on ur own.... The app have succeeded in destroying two of my friend's relationship..









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eddypatekky:
you're scared of losing her dats y u dnt wanna confront her...pls do urself a favor by confronting her and tell your fears....+ you said her mum and siblings are aware of her helping d 'uncle' out wiv his haus chores...it myt b a cover up...and she myt b telling you d truth....still investigate and check ur chats wiv her...if she deletes dem weneva d "uncle" is around,den somefin is fishy.....#mytotsthough# gudluck dearie

Randyhot:
currently iam awake and thinking seriously about this, this is a woman am about paying her bride price in few months time.

Randyhot:
Above is the sms of tonite that futher roused my suspicions.

Homguy:

Let me list out some facts from your story.
1. That man is not her uncle. Its simply a title that shows her respect and solely aims to deflect your suspicion.

2. No uncle would ever be mad or angry about his nieces relationship. The best/worst he can do is to occasionally advise her not hound her like thus ARISTO is doing.

3. This man is her lover, and her mum and sisters definitely know about it. Its possible that she was bethrowed to him while younger.

4. May i also ask does this man also cater to the educational needs of the other sibling "wholly "like he does hers? If no, its possible she's special in a particular way to him judging from his mentioned behaviour.

5. She would never admit to sleeping with this man, so dony bother asking.

If i were you, i know its hard to do, but i will but my emotions on hold , have the mindset that u might lose her and start diligent investigation. Neighbours and closfriends are always a good source of information as regards your wife to be.

BlackMystery:
Investigate on ur own or hire someone to do it for you

Randyhot:
thanks all d same, but i dnt understand what u meant by her controllin the relationship.

Trendy247:
simply install "....." in her fone... its N900 in playstore. it has 'hidden feature' which means u can hide it after installation and she won't know somtin like dat is in her fone. leave it for at least one week, it will do d work for u...
But whatever happen next, u're on ur own.... The app have succeeded in destroying two of my friend's relationship..


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Curlieweed:


Guy,

Whether the uncle is shaggiing her or not is a non issue. If the babe gives only you that puzzy, can you finish it?

If you want to marry you better ignore all these faceless clowns and go ahead and do the deed. You need to ask yourself if all these advisers are going to be marrying the woman together with you.

Shun all these idle minds and get on with your life jawe. If marriage dey fear you (aka cold feet) face your fears like a man and stop shopping for excuses.

Trendy247:
simply install "....." in her fone... its N900 in playstore. it has 'hidden feature' which means u can hide it after installation and she won't know somtin like dat is in her fone. leave it for at least one week, it will do d work for u...
But whatever happen next, u're on ur own.... The app have succeeded in destroying two of my friend's relationship..


Quote me if u're interested lemme giv u d name

Trendy247:
simply install "....." in her fone... its N900 in playstore. it has 'hidden feature' which means u can hide it after installation and she won't know somtin like dat is in her fone. leave it for at least one week, it will do d work for u...
But whatever happen next, u're on ur own.... The app have succeeded in destroying two of my friend's relationship..


Quote me if u're interested lemme giv u d name