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LadyGuinivere:
Biola 1 of life! Congrats o! U went, saw and conquered. We bless God.

@Ftm ah ah, why you andd Neff dey do like this na?! Una must answer PM oo!
Well, for me its always been my policy that if you are on visa matters,here is no reason why you can't post your kweshun here.
Somebody actually buzzed me on the health thread and when I replied, na visa kweshun. I referred her back here and till today she nevr ask the kweshun so apparently it wasn't important. Darris how someboy will now send me to be cracking ma brain on matter wen no important

Someone said and I quote "na wa o I sent that msg since morning and u r just replying ( after 5 hrs) that's not Nice"
I now said wow u didn't assume I'm busy? Anyway I'll reply at my free time and it's not even compulsory I do.
He now said is that how I speak to my husband at home?
I ignored. Next he sent an email the next day asking questions I added him to spam. He sent me emails with his other emails and I kept adding to spam. He actually said I won't apologize if that's what you are looking for such nerve. I said I'm not ur wife go and pour ur tantrums on her.

Then one hormonal brat
I replied her the next day Inshort I managed to reply her was really down cos of ms. And she said
Ftm so it took u so long to respond. I now said sorry jare u know how this morning sickness can b. She now said we women like exaggerating... So I can't just take my phone and quickly answer her.
It was as if she was paying me.
I now said no way, I will reply when I can. She said I'm feeling like I have all d information. She will get her info without me. I said Ok then... later and God bless. She shamelessly sent me a msg about a week later apologizing nd asking me for the pages of bla bla bla I shld just snap my jotter for her. I ignored and added her to spam.

People have eaten up their humanity and are so insensitive and selfish.

nefertitiram:
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God will put it in my heart to help who genuinely needs help. If I am not moved by the spirit, then nothing will move me.

Maybe I should put auto response, 'thanks for your email Nef will not respond except she has heard from the Spirit on your case. The Spirit is available for consultation 24hrs a day 7 days a week. While waiting for Nef's response, please go through part 1 to part 4 of the US birthing thread. If it's about cheap tickets... please consult the airline office nearest to you! Thank you and have a nice day"

auto response sounds good o

Please I need your expert advice.

I'm 12 weeks pregnant and want to have the baby in the us.
I and hubby applied for visiting visa but we were denied.
I don't know why.
Hubby and I have good jobs and this is not the first time he's traveling.
His elder brother who is a Dr sent us an invite but the Vo didn't ask all these.

I'm guessing it's because we ain't wedded yet.
We've done just trad and the wedding is scheduled for Oct.
I'm thinking of us doing court and applying alone this time.
Please I need your advice.
I'd hate to been turned down again.

So today I was thinking... If u go through the ttc thread and ivf especially ivf thread Hmmm.... You'll melt...

So I felt if u can freely and willingly donate eggs especially if u know one who's in need pls do.
I wanted to discuss surrogacy but that'll take personal conviction.
These people are spending alot... OMG a whole lot. So pls I indulge us to visit and pray and do what you can as d spirit leads (like donate eggs, surrogacy) . During ur devotion pray for them or even if it's only one person.. Pick a name and pray.

God bless us all.

wapu:
Please I need your expert advice.

I'm 12 weeks pregnant and want to have the baby in the us.
I and hubby applied for visiting visa but we were denied.
I don't know why.
Hubby and I have good jobs and this is not the first time he's traveling.
His elder brother who is a Dr sent us an invite but the Vo didn't ask all these.

I'm guessing it's because we ain't wedded yet.
We've done just trad and the wedding is scheduled for Oct.
I'm thinking of us doing court and applying alone this time.
Please I need your advice.
I'd hate to been turned down again.

post ur transcript

firsttymum:
So today I was thinking... If u go through the ttc thread and ivf especially ivf thread Hmmm.... You'll melt...

So I felt if u can freely and willingly donate eggs especially if u know one who's in need pls do.
I wanted to discuss surrogacy but that'll take personal conviction.
These people are spending alot... OMG a whole lot. So pls I indulge us to visit and pray and do what you can as d spirit leads (like donate eggs, surrogacy) . During ur devotion pray for them or even if it's only one person.. Pick a name and pray.

God bless us all.

As I reach there. I see say them de fight. Na so I close page.

nefertitiram:
As I reach there. I see say them de fight. Na so I close page.

One lady is trying to scam them o. Promising 100% fertility. Mainwhile she don try scam them before. Did u go to ivf thread

Firsttymum, don't mind dem jare... some people feel you owe dem duty of care to accomplish their give birth in US mission! what nonsense! I keep saying to people, I got ALL info from this thread. I've been to other cities in the US bt goin to Houston was my 1st time and it was for birthing. Even every1 in my house tot I was crazy for goin on such adventure but I was fully armed and prepared. Infact they were so surprised hw I went about everytin smoothly in a completely strange land.

IGNORE anyone that comes across as nasty! U read thru dats why u av the pages to wat dey are askin, dey should do same. Even now, I still update my notebook.

Later, they will blab rubbish about clique and no clique.

Nef, u sef av tried ur best. Forget them. I remember how you and modath combed Chicago and posted all the info yet some1 will not read and be asking plenty question!

Hi guys,

Any mum coming to Houston soon and can help me bring malaria drugs or can I send it through DHL?

nefertitiram:
You

Are

Kidding!!!



It goes back to this conversation that came up a while back! The bladdy Zero balance y'all carry about is what yoruba's call Alakoba!

Why? How do you explain the discount? It has fancy names like adjustment, discount etc, but in the VO's head it keeps ringing, who paid for this discount if not the tax payers? What you need from the hospital is a Zero Balance letter / Letter of non_indebtnedness and nt the computer printout showing all the millions that was struck out just for you. To a lay man, it's hogwash looking at figures disappearing from $15,000, adjustment to $3,000, so where did the $12,000 vanish too? Obviously you have $15,000 of services in value which you paid $3,000 so someone must have suffered for the discount.

Even though it makes perfect sense that you got a discount but these people are there to preserve their country's interest and get defensive when they see stuff like this sometimes.

Me thinks hubby should reapply, and just that plenty talk may enter the situation when he's explaining himself and what the discounts mean.

yep I made sure i got a letter even though they wanted to force the statement down my throat yarning thatt they dont give letters, for where i no gree. i kept asking. The statement had 22k as total bill and after 75% discount it went down to 5k, the naration used was prompt payment adjustment[/b], immediately i got the letter i ditched the "alakoba" itemised statement where it can never be found

hotmummy2015:
yep I made sure i got a letter even though they wanted to force the statement down my throat yarning thatt they dont give letters, for where i no gree. i kept asking. The statement had 22k as total bill and after 75% discount it went down to 5k, the naration used was prompt payment adjustment[/b], immediately i got the letter i ditched the "alakoba" itemised statement where it can never be found

Smartmommy2015

nefertitiram:
Smartmommy2015

lol.

firsttymum:
Someone said and I quote "na wa o I sent that msg since morning and u r just replying ( after 5 hrs) that's not Nice"
I now said wow u didn't assume I'm busy? Anyway I'll reply at my free time and it's not even compulsory I do.
He now said is that how I speak to my husband at home?
I ignored. Next he sent an email the next day asking questions I added him to spam. He sent me emails with his other emails and I kept adding to spam. He actually said I won't apologize if that's what you are looking for such nerve. I said I'm not ur wife go and pour ur tantrums on her.

Then one hormonal brat
I replied her the next day Inshort I managed to reply her was really down cos of ms. And she said
Ftm so it took u so long to respond. I now said sorry jare u know how this morning sickness can b. She now said we women like exaggerating... So I can't just take my phone and quickly answer her.
It was as if she was paying me.
I now said no way, I will reply when I can. She said I'm feeling like I have all d information. She will get her info without me. I said Ok then... later and God bless. She shamelessly sent me a msg about a week later apologizing nd asking me for the pages of bla bla bla I shld just snap my jotter for her. I ignored and added her to spam.

People have eaten up their humanity and are so insensitive and selfish.

Ahan! This one be like home video O ma ga o. People need help and are talking like overblown balloon.. Thank God im not ' hot cake' here oh, cos if someone had the effontery to try that with me the fumes of my preggie plus fx wahala go burn them badly.
Some people are animals in human form #verylonghiss

firsttymum:
So today I was thinking... If u go through the ttc thread and ivf especially ivf thread Hmmm.... You'll melt...

So I felt if u can freely and willingly donate eggs especially if u know one who's in need pls do.
I wanted to discuss surrogacy but that'll take personal conviction.
These people are spending alot... OMG a whole lot. So pls I indulge us to visit and pray and do what you can as d spirit leads (like donate eggs, surrogacy) . During ur devotion pray for them or even if it's only one person.. Pick a name and pray.

God bless us all.

Thank you

firsttymum:
Someone said and I quote "na wa o I sent that msg since morning and u r just replying ( after 5 hrs) that's not Nice"
I now said wow u didn't assume I'm busy? Anyway I'll reply at my free time and it's not even compulsory I do.
He now said is that how I speak to my husband at home?
I ignored. Next he sent an email the next day asking questions I added him to spam. He sent me emails with his other emails and I kept adding to spam. He actually said I won't apologize if that's what you are looking for such nerve. I said I'm not ur wife go and pour ur tantrums on her.

Then one hormonal brat
I replied her the next day Inshort I managed to reply her was really down cos of ms. And she said
Ftm so it took u so long to respond. I now said sorry jare u know how this morning sickness can b. She now said we women like exaggerating... So I can't just take my phone and quickly answer her.
It was as if she was paying me.
I now said no way, I will reply when I can. She said I'm feeling like I have all d information. She will get her info without me. I said Ok then... later and God bless. She shamelessly sent me a msg about a week later apologizing nd asking me for the pages of bla bla bla I shld just snap my jotter for her. I ignored and added her to spam.

People have eaten up their humanity and are so insensitive and selfish.

What?! Hmmmm. U patience quotient is bigger than mine o!
Me I am a teacherr. The daughter of a tracher. And grand daughter of a teacher. So e de my blood not to aid indolence. If you can't work hard for your own sef, I won't.
Imagine the effontery. Person go gimme atitude on top ma pm

jinglesbaby:
Hi guys,

Any mum coming to Houston soon and can help me bring malaria drugs or can I send it through DHL?

My wife should be in Houston in 2 weeks if that's fine.

Bia Nwanyi ahhh!!!

Teacher too? I bin tink say you be lawyer... And one time i bin tink say you be consultant...

I hail you oh! ... In fact i commot cap for you... Plus my virgin peruvian wig...

... In fact make i loose my "patewo" hairstyle join...?

Happy Sunday dear

LadyGuinivere:
What?! Hmmmm. U patience quotient is bigger than mine o!
Me I am a teacherr. The daughter of a tracher. And grand daughter of a teacher. So e de my blood not to aid indolence. If you can't work hard for your own sef, I won't.
Imagine the effontery. Person go gimme atitude on top ma pm

Nef Nef!
Pls, we highly respect your decision jor!

Abeg, all the ushers in the house, you people should go and stand behind her oh...

I know by the time Holy Spirit decides to move her now, she will fall yakata on the ground!

Somebody should also carry tape recorder in case she starts quoting the parts and pages!

nefertitiram:
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God will put it in my heart to help who genuinely needs help. If I am not moved by the spirit, then nothing will move me.

Maybe I should put auto response, 'thanks for your email Nef will not respond except she has heard from the Spirit on your case. The Spirit is available for consultation 24hrs a day 7 days a week. While waiting for Nef's response, please go through part 1 to part 4 of the US birthing thread. If it's about cheap tickets... please consult the airline office nearest to you! Thank you and have a nice day"

Nnystc:
Bia Nwanyi ahhh!!!

Teacher too? I bin tink say you be lawyer... And one time i bin tink say you be consultant...

I hail you oh! ... In fact i commot cap for you... Plus my virgin peruvian wig...

... In fact make i loose my "patewo" hairstyle join...?

Happy Sunday dear

Lol! Na part time teacher. Unpaid work. For God.
So mbok if u get lawyer, consultant or even doctor work call me o! I be area. I de do everything o
Nne kee udi rice isii taa? Jollof ka o fried ka o stew ka o crayfish na ugu? Aguu ji m !

Okwa "flied lice" level ka anyi nokwa taa...

Ngwa Weta efere gi o...

LadyGuinivere:
Lol! Na part time teacher. Unpaid work. For God.
So mbok if u get lawyer, consultant or even doctor work call me o! I be area. I de do everything o
Nne kee udi rice isii taa? Jollof ka o fried ka o stew ka o crayfish na ugu? Aguu ji m !

firsttymum:
So today I was thinking... If u go through the ttc thread and ivf especially ivf thread Hmmm.... You'll melt...

So I felt if u can freely and willingly donate eggs especially if u know one who's in need pls do.
I wanted to discuss surrogacy but that'll take personal conviction.
These people are spending alot... OMG a whole lot. So pls I indulge us to visit and pray and do what you can as d spirit leads (like donate eggs, surrogacy) . During ur devotion pray for them or even if it's only one person.. Pick a name and pray.

God bless us all.

Hmmmmm,have been there&I 10000% understand what u are saying. I did it twice in a space of 5months&I tell u it's a roller coaster ride. I saw women both old&young that can't produce eggs. If u don't have liver don't even go there becos if it fails it can also lead to depression.
I saw young ladies who also sell their eggs for as little or much for N200,000 but the couple that want the egg will be the one to pay for her treatment,it can make one have ohss (that one is not funny at all).
I saw couples who have tried it 7,8,9 tines and it still did not work even with surrogacy. The last one I did,it was with a woman who used her egg plus surrogacy and it eventually both failed after spending more 5milllion. I saw the pain,fear and rejection in her face and I pitied her.
Even with ivf, I can tell u that it's still God that gives and I pray that other women looking for bundles of joy shall soon rejoice.
See why I jumped on the plane when Nigeria hospital were telling me rubbish. It is eell

Do u know that A guy sent me 500 airtime and he was promoted at work?
The next day, a lady sent me 1000 and got engaged to a very rich man.
The next day, another guy sent 2000 and he was granted a visa to d U.S.A.
Don't b left out! Why not send yours now and give your testimony.
The higher the amount you send, the bigger your miracle.
Don't be left out! Hurry now b4 I stop collecting...#etisalat only.

LadyGuinivere:
What?! Hmmmm. U patience quotient is bigger than mine o!
Me I am a teacherr. The daughter of a tracher. And grand daughter of a teacher. So e de my blood not to aid indolence. If you can't work hard for your own sef, I won't.
Imagine the effontery. Person go gimme atitude on top ma pm

U know when you are too shocked to talk en... Hmmm that's it. I try so hard to be polite so as not to start exchanging words even at that e no dey work.

Nobody shld try u... Remain to use Cain.

Temyb Hmmmm I can only say Hmmmm. I'm praying for two people there. This year they must conceive. Amen

Momo13:
Ahan! This one be like home video O ma ga o. People need help and are talking like overblown balloon.. Thank God im not ' hot cake' here oh, cos if someone had the effontery to try that with me the fumes of my preggie plus fx wahala go burn them badly.
Some people are animals in human form #verylonghiss

no b small hot cake. Kikikikikikikikiki
Big animals Mscheew

Feddy27 that's why I'm not doing pm again. If the moniker doesn't click I won't reply. Let me blab... Rubbish.

temyb:
Hmmmmm,have been there&I 10000% understand what u are saying. I did it twice in a space of 5months&I tell u it's a roller coaster ride. I saw women both old&young that can't produce eggs. If u don't have liver don't even go there becos if it fails it can also lead to depression.
I saw young ladies who also sell their eggs for as little or much for N200,000 but the couple that want the egg will be the one to pay for her treatment,it can make one have ohss (that one is not funny at all).
I saw couples who have tried it 7,8,9 tines and it still did not work even with surrogacy. The last one I did,it was with a woman who used her egg plus surrogacy and it eventually both failed after spending more 5milllion. I saw the pain,fear and rejection in her face and I pitied her.
Even with ivf, I can tell u that it's still God that gives and I pray that other women looking for bundles of joy shall soon rejoice.
See why I jumped on the plane when Nigeria hospital were telling me rubbish. It is eell

Na person when no know. Na wa o! Surrogacy no come werk? Shuoooooo!

firsttymum:
Temyb Hmmmm I can only say Hmmmm. I'm praying for two people there. This year they must conceive. Amen no b small hot cake. Kikikikikikikikiki
Big animals Mscheew

Feddy27 that's why I'm not doing pm again. If the moniker doesn't click I won't reply. Let me blab... Rubbish.

AMEN
AMIN
Iseeeee

Wow...
Speechless. ..

firsttymum:
Someone said and I quote "na wa o I sent that msg since morning and u r just replying ( after 5 hrs) that's not Nice"
I now said wow u didn't assume I'm busy? Anyway I'll reply at my free time and it's not even compulsory I do.
He now said is that how I speak to my husband at home?
I ignored. Next he sent an email the next day asking questions I added him to spam. He sent me emails with his other emails and I kept adding to spam. He actually said I won't apologize if that's what you are looking for such nerve. I said I'm not ur wife go and pour ur tantrums on her.

Then one hormonal brat
I replied her the next day Inshort I managed to reply her was really down cos of ms. And she said
Ftm so it took u so long to respond. I now said sorry jare u know how this morning sickness can b. She now said we women like exaggerating... So I can't just take my phone and quickly answer her.
It was as if she was paying me.
I now said no way, I will reply when I can. She said I'm feeling like I have all d information. She will get her info without me. I said Ok then... later and God bless. She shamelessly sent me a msg about a week later apologizing nd asking me for the pages of bla bla bla I shld just snap my jotter for her. I ignored and added her to spam.

People have eaten up their humanity and are so insensitive and selfish.

firsttymum:
Someone said and I quote "na wa o I sent that msg since morning and u r just replying ( after 5 hrs) that's not Nice"
I now said wow u didn't assume I'm busy? Anyway I'll reply at my free time and it's not even compulsory I do.
He now said is that how I speak to my husband at home?
I ignored. Next he sent an email the next day asking questions I added him to spam. He sent me emails with his other emails and I kept adding to spam. He actually said I won't apologize if that's what you are looking for such nerve. I said I'm not ur wife go and pour ur tantrums on her.

Then one hormonal brat
I replied her the next day Inshort I managed to reply her was really down cos of ms. And she said
Ftm so it took u so long to respond. I now said sorry jare u know how this morning sickness can b. She now said we women like exaggerating... So I can't just take my phone and quickly answer her.
It was as if she was paying me.
I now said no way, I will reply when I can. She said I'm feeling like I have all d information. She will get her info without me. I said Ok then... later and God bless. She shamelessly sent me a msg about a week later apologizing nd asking me for the pages of bla bla bla I shld just snap my jotter for her. I ignored and added her to spam.

People have eaten up their humanity and are so insensitive and selfish.

Wow!!! It's sad when people spoil show for others cos I just don't understand why we can't all be humble in our ignorance especially when we find people who are always ready and willing to help. Lol @ snap ur jotter! The person for ask u to mail d whole jotter na lol. I feel you firstymum but pls find it in your heart to help the humble ones and ignore the others, guess the thread is not for everyone after all.

Hi , August H town bound preggy mamas please I need someone to help me with liquid body lotions less than 2 kg for picks in lagos ,, will give u a Free airport pickup to anywhere in houston .. I mean it....inbox if u can .thanks

firsttymum:
Do u know that A guy sent me 500 airtime and he was promoted at work?
The next day, a lady sent me 1000 and got engaged to a very rich man.
The next day, another guy sent 2000 and he was granted a visa to d U.S.A.
Don't b left out! Why not send yours now and give your testimony.
The higher the amount you send, the bigger your miracle.
Don't be left out! Hurry now b4 I stop collecting...#etisalat only.

Hahahahahah, you know I enjoy reading your comments.... Lol. Very funny!

St mary hospital in new jersey is affordable

kellikross:
Hello just wise, i have been following and reading all your comments and advise on trips to the US and giving birth there. I just applied for a B1/B2 visa but have the intention of giving birth there. my husband also applied together with me for his renewal and we choose to stay in new jersey. our interview is next month in Abuja and am yet to locate a hospital in new jersey that will be affordable and not on the high side.
i was also advised by a colleague to send an email to the embassy indicating my intention to give birth in the US since am already pregnant and did not apply for B1/medical. i am yet to find the email address to send the mail to.

Please can you advise and also be of help.

i will really appreciate your response.

Thank you

Can you kindly pm me Dr. E.'s contact. crestedroc@yahoo.com. God Bless

biollar1:
My people...devil no wan gree me enter Nairaland but God pass am. Bin trying to sign in after I gave my POE story. I got in May 17th and left June 29th.
Had my baby on the 10th of June
I used Oakbend Medical Centre and Dr E( fab as usual) and una sabi d usual bill and all. I wanted to get back to naija with United last flight (29th June), so I decided to change my return ticket from July 5th to 29th June, leaving me with just 19days to process all docs but God was super fateful.

Processed all my baby's docs in less dan a week. Only SSN took longer and it took 8working days to drop.

1. Picked up birth certificate at fort bend county and paid $23 for a copy
2. Same day, Headed straight to passport office in downtown on 1919 smith street . Took passport photograph for $17 (2 copies) directly opposite passport office in downtown. Paid $165 for expedited and was asked to come pick up ffg day.
3. Scanned baby's birth certificate to Mrs Stella with all necessary docs. I did ETC and paid $300. It arrived after 5days via FedEx
4. I called United to attach baby to my tic
5. Headed back to Naija.

Stayed with my host but left for Soulcare Concierge when my mum arrived. Make all of us no becum liability.


Supa Dupa grateful to all... Omodadi( my main Pal..we sure rocked Houston together, I'm glad our ways crossed )LadyG , Firsttymum, Feddy27, Happytbaby,Modath, Nefertitiram and all. I met wonderful mamas but I've forgotten their monikers and l don't want to mention their real names.

You all made my second missionary journey a successful and stress free one.

God bless us all and May we all not labor in vain over our kids in Jesus name.