How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? - Romance (3)

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Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by pweetylivia(f): 6:02pm On Jul 17, 2016

I call my boo boo

Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by Yewandequeen(op): 6:04pm On Jul 17, 2016

ariyebaba:
Pls dont let ur '' IMU '' get twisted.

There are a lot i av to think of better than pondering over one little thing.

Life is short,brutish,nasty n fun filled as well.

I Know#just pulling your trouser grin

Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by mizzbouqui(f): 6:10pm On Jul 17, 2016

I play music or watch cartoons

Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by Nobody: 6:14pm On Jul 17, 2016

Yewandequeen:
Good idea

Thanks dear. ..that's my own strategy

Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by AbuMikey(m): 6:16pm On Jul 17, 2016

I stay away from People. undecided

If that's not Possible, I opt not to talk to anyone. tongue

Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by firstking01(m): 6:44pm On Jul 17, 2016

pcguru1:
i know this shi.t everytime but still, the constant thinking about money and bills stuff and the fact of living this rat-race of a life.

Lol, you funny nobi small...so, thinking about money and how to make it in life strips you of your happiness huh undecided

??...mehnnn, you suck big time.

Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by Nobody: 7:52pm On Jul 17, 2016

Yewandequeen:
Ohk ooo

You really should do something about your binge eating, especially now that ur still "young".
My 2kobo though

Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by Yewandequeen(op): 8:09pm On Jul 17, 2016

sapiosexual1:
You really should do something about your binge eating, especially now that ur still "young".
My 2kobo though

Yes daddy

But you making it look like it's everyday affair, it's not ooo and it's not like I get sad everyday Na.

Its just once in a blue moon the eating thing occurs.

Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by Nobody: 8:42pm On Jul 17, 2016

Yewandequeen:
Yes daddy

But you making it look like it's everyday affair, it's not ooo and it's not like I get sad everyday Na.

Its just once in a blue moon the eating thing occurs.

Yes mummy, no offenses meant.

Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by okhiai1(m): 4:17am On Jul 18, 2016

If am sad i take a very long walk like from dugbe where i stay i could trek to molete or challeng
OR
i go to the chapel and just sit relax or sleep off in the church alter when i wake up i get my self again

Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by ThinkingOutLoud(m): 5:01am On Jul 18, 2016

I hit the gym or go for a run. Or a drink - clear my head n sleep

Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by Nobody: 5:24am On Jul 18, 2016

tosyne2much:
Well, I will say that I'm already used to disappointments and betrayal in life which has made me a better and stronger person.. I have been betrayed by countless times by male friends, girlfriends, family members and perhaps, those I thought would be the last people to betray me. Even here on Nairaland, I'm already used to the fact that some people unleash their hatred towards me by posting untrue and ridiculous stories just to defame me. Most people feel that silence is an admission of guilt without knowing that it's sometimes the best way to show maturity and make hater look frustrated.

Despite the fact that I accord both young and old with love and open arms according to my inbred manner, people often pay me back with betrayals and crucification and I begin to wonder if I'm the only one on earth to be treated that way.

The only thing that has been making be overcome life disappointments and tribulations is that, I have this natural spirit of perseverance, ability to overlook certain things, strive and inability to give up no matter the situation

tosyn10lists, how can anyone be mean to you shocked

you are so adorable and one of my favorite virgins grin

chop this

because for every 1 hater you have 10 lovers wink

Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by Nobody: 5:29am On Jul 18, 2016

When I'm sad I observe the feeling rather than covering it up. I just accept it as a natural part of me but I don't identify with the feeling, I let it pass.

Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by Nobody: 5:52am On Jul 18, 2016

When I feel sad I shove my earphones in my ears, crank my music up to an ungodly volume, and take a walk.

Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by firstking01(m): 7:24am On Jul 18, 2016

TrapQueen77:
I hate to admit this but when I'm sad or disappointed I locked myself in my room and cry til I fell asleep

A typical attribute of a teenager in her early puberty.

Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by Nobody: 7:25am On Jul 18, 2016

firstking01:
A typical attribute of a teenager in her early puberty.

It's better than whining around coz u upset grin

Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by firstking01(m): 7:27am On Jul 18, 2016

tosyne2much:
Well, I will say that I'm already used to disappointments and betrayal in life which has made me a better and stronger person.. I have been betrayed by countless times by male friends, girlfriends, family members and perhaps, those I thought would be the last people to betray me. Even here on Nairaland, I'm already used to the fact that some people unleash their hatred towards me by posting untrue and ridiculous stories just to defame me. Most people feel that silence is an admission of guilt without knowing that it's sometimes the best way to show maturity and make hater look frustrated.

Despite the fact that I accord both young and old with love and open arms according to my inbred manner, people often pay me back with betrayals and crucification and I begin to wonder if I'm the only one on earth to be treated that way.

The only thing that has been making be overcome life disappointments and tribulations is that, I have this natural spirit of perseverance, ability to overlook certain things, strive and inability to give up no matter the situation

Na you type this thing embarassed

Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by firstking01(m): 7:33am On Jul 18, 2016

TrapQueen77:
It's better than whining around coz u upset

Is that you on ur display pix??

Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by Nobody: 7:35am On Jul 18, 2016

firstking01:
Is that you on ur display pix??

Why? Does it look familiar to u wink

hush

Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by firstking01(m): 7:41am On Jul 18, 2016

TrapQueen77:
Why? Does it look familiar to u hush

Just answer the question.

Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by supernet4(f): 8:17am On Jul 18, 2016

FlawlesRebirth02:
.you know when you said 'Eat anything you come across” u know one day you go waka jam GRASS

hahhahahahahhaha that's very funny grin

Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by FlawlesRebirth02(f): 8:37am On Jul 18, 2016

supernet4:
hahhahahahahhaha that's very funny

.lolz.. Goodmorning grin

Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by tosyne2much(m): 8:54am On Jul 18, 2016

nubian999:
tosyn10lists, how can anyone be mean to you you are so adorable and one of my favorite virgins chop this because for every 1 hater you have 10 lovers

Virgin abi?

Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by supernet4(f): 8:55am On Jul 18, 2016

FlawlesRebirth02:
.lolz.. Goodmorning

morning

Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by tosyne2much(m): 8:57am On Jul 18, 2016

firstking01:
Na you type this thing

Egbon na me oooo... Why u dey surprised?

Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by Nobody: 8:57am On Jul 18, 2016

I talk to mum

Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by firstking01(m): 9:11am On Jul 18, 2016

tosyne2much:
Egbon na me oooo... Why u dey surprised?

I been no knw say e dey happen to you too o, i think say na only me...anyway i 've adopted some strategy like i stated above.

Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by Nobody: 1:16pm On Jul 18, 2016

tosyne2much:
Virgin abi?

They took that away from you as well shocked

Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by Nobody: 12:15am On Jul 19, 2016*

EroticAngelina:
Whenever I'm sad, I feel really depressed as if the world's gonna end.

I always manage it by keeping to myself, like locking myself up for hours or days, watching comedies... Something that'll make me laugh and smile(natin romantic tho)
I also eat a lot. Gosh. Cos to me, food drowns all sorrows.

Finally, if you want me to recover, just provide your cheeks for two hot slaps. When I slap, all anger fades automatically. Weird.

@ the bolded, Yewandequeen

@ EroticAngelina,
On the bolded, I don't see it as weird. Just that it might be considered as an unconventional yet highly effective way of managing and dissipating of anger. tongue

Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by tosyne2much(m): 12:39am On Jul 19, 2016

nubian999:
They took that away from you as well

I'm very much intact cool

Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by Nobody: 1:27am On Jul 19, 2016

firstking01:
Sorry but i hardly go into depression cos i'm already used to how life works and i knw how to manage and adjust to circumstances and make myself happy....

Now listen to this, happiness is earned..
it's you who chosed to be sad.

Sometimes circumstances beyond one's control could cause a person to be sad without him or her intentionally choosing to be so.
However, where one always has a choice is :
whether the person chooses to do nothing about it;
or,
whether the person chooses to do something that will move him up the emotional ladder to a clear state of happiness;
or,
whether the person chooses to do something that would make him or herself sink even lower, down the emotional ladder.

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Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by Yewandequeen(op): 6:32am On Jul 19, 2016

obadizena:
@ the bolded, Yewandequeen

@ EroticAngelina,
On the bolded, I don't see it as weird. Just that it might be considered as an unconventional yet highly effective way of managing and dissipating of anger.

I know you love the bolded grin

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