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Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by lielbree: 5:38am On Aug 09, 2016

torqque7:
This O.p na small pikin the worry am,it's your type that follows razz broke boys that expose their boxers sagging their jeans forming swag,better take hints and lessons from fabulocity cos she clearly has what you lack in abundance..fabulocity=wife material. Dumb ideology, dumb thread ..

You are still a child so I am not surprised by your comments and threads,hopefully when you are grown into a lady and you become wise someday, you'll look back and understand why everyone thinks you are naive now

Being young is not an excuse for being stweepid, op is just a silly untrained ediot.

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Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by Foxycute(m): 5:43am On Aug 09, 2016

I think is too early to start talking about cheating on ur man cos of looks what if is d other way round. We attract our kind of person, u will marry ur type
Wat if something goes wrong in ur personal life or child birth and you don't even have the strength to think of cheating talk more of doing.
Use this tym to plan how being a successful moda, mum, wife to ur hobby not talking abt cheating. Marry 1st den we can check and balance

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Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by Filmdirect: 5:43am On Aug 09, 2016

Read almost all the comments. Very interesting. I also deduce that a lot of men here are responding from a hurt ego. The fact is men don't want to imagine that women think like them and have expectations. They can complain about a fat woman or wife, and cheat with a young fit thing but it is shocking a woman can see them the same way. That is hypocrisy, but egos are hurt, I understand.

Bottom line cheating is wrong but being pot bellied, round puffy face is unattractive. It just is. I don't understand why a lot of Nigerian men let themselves go. Working out is not a chore, if anything it lowers cholesterol, high blood pressure and other medical ailments.

In my home we are fit. The whole family. I go to the gym three times a week with a personal trainer and run twice in addition. I don't live in the gym. These moments are 45mins a day. My hubby thrice a week for an hour and he is a very busy man, but most of it is we eat very healthy.

So egos and insults aside, the fact is letting oneself go is unattractive and so off the times we live in.

Op I know you will not cheat but if you prefer a healthy man date someone who has a lifestyle of fitness. There are men like that.

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Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by Nobody: 5:48am On Aug 09, 2016

firstking01:
Hello sugarhugs,,,what a moniker...you a male or female??

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Male

Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by Minemrys: 5:49am On Aug 09, 2016

LuvU2:
*musing-* For real i cant stand a pot-bellied man for long
I cant stand a scruffy looking man for long
I cant stand a smelly man
I cant stand a man who is wealthy but looks messy.

Why would a man be wealthy and erm unappealing to look at? If anything, he should look the best.

He can afford to gym. He has time too. He is in the best position to always eat healthy and stay fit.

Why would he want to look like my dad after 2,3 years of marriage?

If ive planned to look good even after having kids. Why not him?
Yes i plan looking good like my mum.

I remember my dad started to grow belly fat in his early 40s and my mum wasnt pleased. She didnt voice it bt my dad sensed her displeasure and hit the gym asap, continuously, until he trimmed completely. Till today, he still visits...

Well, if my hubby would be insensitive, I will try to caution him, if nothing works, its not i may cheat, i would cheat on him.

*How a man looks matters a lot*

why marry that pers0n fr0m the get go only to cheat on him? It means u were either after the m0ney or u are just a LovePeddler. Can't find how best to explain it.

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Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by Filmdirect: 6:05am On Aug 09, 2016

Minemrys:

why marry that pers0n fr0m the get go only to cheat on him? It means u were either after the m0ney or u are just a LovePeddler. Can't find how best to explain it.

Not necessarily. Caveat: cheating is wrong but

.... Let's look at human nature. A woman has needs, we can accept that right? She has emotions in which disgust can be one. Accepted?

She has a husband. He is double the size she married him, poor grooming, smells, hair growing out his nose. She tells him kindly he gets annoyed. She cooks healthy he complains wanting his Garri and soup, the very thing keeping him fat. Then he sleeps beside her, not fresh at all. Are you saying you honestly can not see temptation being a major problem for her outside?

Okay maybe you can't, after all you are a man. So close your eyes and imagine all I wrote and replace with your wife.

Then give me an honest answer.

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Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by Nobody: 6:25am On Aug 09, 2016

thats how people like this go about spreading the deadly hiv and aids.

Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by Nobody: 6:26am On Aug 09, 2016

LuvU2, true love is BEYOND the physical. Beauty fades. You should be more concerned about his character, and personality.

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Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by tonymania(m): 6:36am On Aug 09, 2016

Whatever d shape, u're the cause,whatever ur next move no b today u don dey plan am. If u cheat on him n whoever the new kid on the block that is attracted to u lately.won't he grow pot belly sometimes n what next the game keep on keeping on.my dear move closer to God.

Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by omoadeleye(m): 6:44am On Aug 09, 2016

OP... The person wey u go meet go come use him thing break dat ur anatomical contour... All this girls of now adays npw if the man vex use cutlass on her ot pour acid on her for infidel we will all be here saying

Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by Isryl02(m): 6:58am On Aug 09, 2016

Trina0936:
Kai! OP I feel like kissing you even if I am not a lesbian

Abeg keep on firing these hypocritical men jare! Nothing does you!
The fact still remains that as long as you aren't having sex in exchange for money,you aren't an olosho!
Its not a crime for a woman to demand what she needs in a relationship. What is good for the goose is good for the gander!
Thank God my boyfriend is based outside this dump called Nigeria filled with hypocrites.
The ones shouting prayers are even those who cheat most! Stupid things!!
Quote me and get burnt badly! I so much detest hypocrisy!
BTW OP na u biko,take am

Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by mofy1(f): 7:03am On Aug 09, 2016

All I can say is wow!!!. She didn't use the word if he stop loving me, caring, being closer to God. AWON omo irole aye. How are we so sure ur mum didn't cheat to send the msg across to ur now 6pack dad. Pls go to the gym to get a husband or rather stay single for ever or better still cheat for life.

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Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by firstking01(m): 7:07am On Aug 09, 2016

Sugarhugs:
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Male

CooL

Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by firstking01(m): 7:09am On Aug 09, 2016

HateU2:
Then work towards it

Nah, you ma have lotsa work to do on your feminist attitude.

Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by bollify(m): 7:32am On Aug 09, 2016

Luvu2 can you handle it when he start bringing home different ladies with better look and even younger than you to your matrimonial bed despite his look after your action?

You know two can play right? Won't you run to court then if in a bid to retaliate he starts cheating on you with different girls while making it a public knowledge. If he decided to start having different baby mamas who are even hotter than you and who will steal his attentions totally away from you no matter how you decide to look impressive. Will you not regret?

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Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by Gassa007: 8:06am On Aug 09, 2016

LuvU2:
Exactly

And "If" I happen to be your husband, when you age 50/45 years old I will dump and marry another younger lady because by then you would have lost all what I need in a woman.So I guess this makes everything equal .

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Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by timsonpreye(m): 8:06am On Aug 09, 2016

chaiii.... a bit.ch is a bit.ch even in marraige, neva truth a bit.ch cos those hoes ain't loyal undecided

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Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by thesuave10(m): 8:09am On Aug 09, 2016

Well, i don't know what you mean by that as it doesn't correlate with my initial response.

Back to the issue on ground. Let me give you more proofs.

See the case of the ugliest man in Uganda. He is currently with his second wife, he divorced the first one and married another one.

You need to see how ugly he his. Infact he looks scary, yet he is changing women like changing clothes. Because he has the money.

Let me tell you something, women are not wired to be sexually aroused/attracted by what they see, unless for maybe nymphomaniacs. It's only men that are wired that way.

I don't think i should be telling you this since you are a woman. Unless you are a dude impersonating a lady on this forum and I'm beginning to suspect you.

I still insist, women are commodities that can be purchased with money. Guys are much wiser now and are not spending too much of their time in looking good or acquiring six packs instead they use that time to make money.

Once you have the money, it doesn't matter how old you are (i have seen 70yr old man marrying a very young lady in her mid twenties)

See the case of Alaafin of oyo. So age doesn't matter. And how you look doesn't matter either. See case of the ugliest man in Uganda.

All what matters is the money!

Well let's change up Your mindset. Women aren't all about money. In fact it's crazy to think that because there are lots of rich men. I keep teAching men that What women want is security. All forms of it. Financial security emotional security psychological security physical security Sexual security . The percentage differs from girls depending on what they want. To think money will get a woman to love you is ridiculous. Why the hell do people still think like this.

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Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by Skmoda360(m): 8:22am On Aug 09, 2016

jeyselassie:
@ luvu2 its so I dont settle with ladies like u that I go to church. I mean I hv a good body but u sound lyk a part time wife.

i give you 80 claps and 20 from my grandma making 100, this op is so part time.

Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by Nobody: 8:29am On Aug 09, 2016

Not surprised though. OP is a cheat. In total, she has about five boyfriends.

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Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by timsonpreye(m): 8:29am On Aug 09, 2016

thesuave10:

Well let's change up Your mindset. Women aren't all about money. In fact it's crazy to think that because there are lots of rich men. I keep teAching men that What women want is security. All forms of it. Financial security emotional security psychological security physical security Sexual security . The percentage differs from girls depending on what they want. To think money will get a woman to love you is ridiculous. Why the hell do people still think like this.

girls love money that's why they are goods to be purchase wit money for example just yesterday a guy came to my place of work wit his latest Avalon waiting for his gf, he was there for abt 30mins be4 his gf came, he was mad at her n drive off slowly what happened next got us laughing, the gal started running after the car, the more she runs the more he moved the car until the guy pity's her n stop...u see assuming the dude was poor she wouldn't av neared him talkless of acting the way she did.. girls are goods purchased by money!!!!

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Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by thesuave10(m): 8:37am On Aug 09, 2016

timsonpreye:
girls love money that's why they are goods to be purchase wit money for example just yesterday a guy came to my place of work wit his latest Avalon waiting for his gf, he was there for abt 30mins be4 his gf came, he was mad at her n drive off slowly what happened next got us laughing, the gal started running after the car, the more she runs the more he moved the car until the guy pity's her n stop...u see assuming the dude was poor she wouldn't av neared him talkless of acting the way she did.. girls are goods purchased by money!!!!

Girls are not goods to be purchased joor. Just read about what I wrote. All those forms of security have to be in place in their right proportions for her to love you

Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by nairalife2013(m): 8:45am On Aug 09, 2016

I cant believe u people are still awake on this topic. Well, LuvU2, itz good to make yur standards and go for it before marriage. Thatz exactly what I did, cos I knew when I get married, I WILL NEVER divorce my wife. I went to the extreme in trying my wife on temperamental issues, because the last kind of wife I wanted was a woman that was temperamental in behaviour, wether mild, subconscious or high. I scrutinized other characters such as pride, greed, respect for other men and obsession. She scaled those hurdles with childish innocence. That was her nature. Others did not. Those that tried to fake a character or two were stealthily sniffed out and playfully dismissed without much ado.
Tho with a heavy heart, I went to an extent of cooking up issues, slapping and pushing out, just to acknowledge the impending extremity of her anger. Some wives can kill thier husband for one reason or the other. It comes from the heart cos the thing is in them. Regular, playful but inquisitive conversation also helps in ascertaining the peak of a woman's traits, desires and abhorrence. The same goes for the man. For example, if I tell u that I hate revenge, u can catch me once or twice in our unguarded spree of gist, u could know if I sincerely hate revenge or I was just polishing my traits.
To be able to commit adultery for the reason that yur husband didn't hav six packs again or has fallen short of his looks and be bold enough to shout it out to the hearing of yur family and yur kids and the world is an action that is reserved only for certain types of girls who can do anything to the husban they once loved.
I myself, I have six packs cos I do sports and am taking care of my self - (aside:dont ask for my pix, I dont know how long these 6pax will last i dont want u to steal me from my wife) - that means my wife should stay untill the much worshipped 6pax is gone. Now I turn and look at my brothers, both married and busy like hell. My younger brother is the worst for it and I hav seen his lower abdomen stretching his polo. Soon it will show, probably befor he clocks 40! It means if he was married to u, with 4kids and loving and worshipping u like a goddess as he does his wife now, u ll be planning secretly to elope with yur newly found 6 pax dude!
Think abt it bae, doesn't sound sane. There must be self control in marriage or folks will think u are possessed. Never compare yur libido with that of a man, good girls dont do so. U can say " I cannot marry a man without six packs! Or say I cannot marry a man who cannot maintain his six packs and stay clean!"
When u get into it, I mean marriage, damn all reasons and love headlong without looking back. Dont ever go into marriage with yur old self. If u were good then, become better. What ever u where before marriage, improve on it.
Beating or battery in marriage is the thing that could make one consider divorce not looks, pls young girl, if really u r a girl, cos som1 said u r a dude.

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Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by Chapi: 8:48am On Aug 09, 2016

Just pray that you are not caught by the man original wife, the Women will help you design that your beautiful face with hot bucket of water.

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Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by Beamborla(f): 8:50am On Aug 09, 2016

naijaboiy:

And if her man cannot reach her requirements cheating is the next option?

You ladies further prove how dumb you are with the way you articulate and bring out your points.

SIGH!

You really should have stopped at the first sentence...the insult attached to it is highly unnecessary.

The fact that I support what the OP is agitating for does not mean I support what she has made up her mind to do should her man be found wanting.

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Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by vengedre(m): 9:44am On Aug 09, 2016

i see

Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by whitestar01(m): 9:50am On Aug 09, 2016

A born to cheat must always have an excuse . Op, u be born to cheat .

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Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by Bishop(m): 10:00am On Aug 09, 2016

LuvU2:
*musing-* For real i cant stand a pot-bellied man for long
I cant stand a scruffy looking man for long
I cant stand a smelly man
I cant stand a man who is wealthy but looks messy.

Why would a man be wealthy and erm unappealing to look at? If anything, he should look the best.

He can afford to gym. He has time too. He is in the best position to always eat healthy and stay fit.

Why would he want to look like my dad after 2,3 years of marriage?

If ive planned to look good even after having kids. Why not him?
Yes i plan looking good like my mum.

I remember my dad started to grow belly fat in his early 40s and my mum wasnt pleased. She didnt voice it bt my dad sensed her displeasure and hit the gym asap, continuously, until he trimmed completely. Till today, he still visits...

Well, if my hubby would be insensitive, I will try to caution him, if nothing works, its not i may cheat, i would cheat on him.

*How a man looks matters a lot*

Looking at your picture,i wonder which man wouldn't want to keep fit just for you..a pot bellied man ,nahhhh.....I would have hit the gym right now for you..but i guess you came 10 year late.

Have fun dearie

Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by BoboFashion(m): 10:12am On Aug 09, 2016

LuvU2, my dear, this thread is something else o.

Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by alaskido(m): 10:19am On Aug 09, 2016

@LuvU2, the type of man you are looking for is not on planet earth o. grin

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Re: If My Husband Would Neglect His Looks I Would Cheat On Him by alaskido(m): 10:24am On Aug 09, 2016

LuvU2:
*musing-* For real i cant stand a pot-bellied man for long
I cant stand a scruffy looking man for long
I cant stand a smelly man
I cant stand a man who is wealthy but looks messy.

Why would a man be wealthy and erm unappealing to look at? If anything, he should look the best.

He can afford to gym. He has time too. He is in the best position to always eat healthy and stay fit.

Why would he want to look like my dad after 2,3 years of marriage?

If ive planned to look good even after having kids. Why not him?
Yes i plan looking good like my mum.

I remember my dad started to grow belly fat in his early 40s and my mum wasnt pleased. She didnt voice it bt my dad sensed her displeasure and hit the gym asap, continuously, until he trimmed completely. Till today, he still visits...

Well, if my hubby would be insensitive, I will try to caution him, if nothing works, its not i may cheat, i would cheat on him.

*How a man looks matters a lot*

This girl, you are very funny. You need a perfect and real man but you are not real. Fake hair, fake nails, fake eyelashes, fake boobs, fake hips, fake lips and fake nose. Yet you want your man to be perfect and real. Na wa for Nija girls o.

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