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As much as I'd like to criticize the OP, there's an element of truth in what she's saying...A lady needs to be independent,no guy wants a liabilty and you should realize been broke is temporary..if a guy is ambitious, you should encourage him...Broke dudes deserves a relationship too..it depends on the type of girl...

CrazyQuinn:
Op it depends on girl you are always getting involved with, not all girls are like that with time you would find a girls that accept your flaws and stay with you through your ups and downs

thumbs up

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Lemme av ur attention pls, do u knw dat 2day does not matter, wat matters most is d future. When you‘re with a guy or gal observe him/her, u‘ll be able 2 predict d future, if nt 90% but like 60&-79%. Pray to God for H/H, be loyal, faithful, satisfied wit wat H/S av 4 u. Here stories of blessed couples, not only d man can provide d woman too can(patience&jonathan), i‘m broke 2day does not mean i no go ride latest cars in d future. My broda my sister “patience&prayer“ is the best solution for any relationship of this 21 century bet it with me.
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songzDaniel01:
so because he's broke, he shouldn't have a girl . wah bout u broke ass girls , lookin for already made niggas, why don't u sit ur scrawny ass down nd build yourself cos no sane responsible dude is gonna marry a gold digging liability

I don't know why you're wasting spit on these broke, futureless and non ambitious bimbos on nairaland... They don't deserve a reply, guys with real funds know what they want..... We know where the ambitious and hardworking girls that deserve to be spoilt are at, leave all this children alone biko.

Zceesneh:
only insecure guys woo girls with money, because in the future when he runs broke she will leave him for another guy

Just like our smart OP

mizzbouqui:
I can't date a broke dude
And I might if he is ambitious

Nigerian gals & poverty mentality! So regardless of the high unemployment rate, bad economy etc you still have such mindset? Little wonder there are so many old spinsters who wasted their youth waiting for E-money that never came! What is the ratio of rich guys to the women population in Nigeria?? Nigerian girls will forever continue to learn the hard way!!

mizzbouqui:
I can't date a broke dude
And I might if he is ambitious

Aunty,
You are confused.

But seriously a broke guy shouldn't have anything to do with dating.
Being in a relationship is a distraction itself.

songzDaniel01:
op why can't u be financially independent too., mind u I'm not broke but I was once nd I'm still with my girl that was with me when I was broke AF .. and she was independent. Now she's begging me to stop buying her gifts. Op u re a broke ass , gold digging biatch

some girls just need to grow up.. money does not grow on trees..

Tanyabee:
That is true. My ex boyfriend was a broke ass nigga,

Being broke is temporal, i advice you date a guy with prospect, there may not be cash in his bank account today, it doesn't mean there won't be tomorrow.

monlawal:
The fact is even the guy would not feel comfortable in the relationship because some little things he can do would become hard for him to. Op no guy is broke, just that his hustle has not paid off yet. That guy that is struggling to drink garri with salt today might be having breakfast in dubai lunch in paris and dinner in london.

Thats the thing

Caprigal:
@Nairaland broke dudes please feel free to vent and pour your frustrations on the thread because truth hurts.

As a lady what you have to deal with while dating a broke guy

1. Having to take public transport after seeing him. He can't drive you home cos no car.

2. The nicest date you've been on is at his house because when you two actually go out to fancy places you feel guilty about spending the little money he has.

3. No nice gifts, no random surprise presents to spoil you, he doesn't sporadically shower you with gifts.

4. The dudes shitty and embarrasing sense of style.

5. Him overcompensating by offering fake deep conversation and really really good sex.

6. He will also have the audacity to wonder why you are not madly, head over heels in love with his worthless ass. Hello? Why should you be? Men like submissive and obedient women while women like men that can protect and provide for them. Its biological and it isn't changing anytime soon so accept it and move on.

7. Prepare to hear him explain why its better to have your honeymoon in the comfort of your bedroom and not a fancy hotel or exotic country.

Any girl that heed your advice is closed to being converted to naira notes. She will definitely end up as ingredient for money rituals.

Haute:
Why are you opening threads out of frustration? What's stopping you from making your own money? Smh

Lwkmd bartender give this niqqer a bottle of beer

STILESGANG:
You don't have a car and you expect your boyfriend to have one,yet you will be the screaming equality...

Who even gives these broke girls the audacity to call guys broke?..Really mind baffling

No na, they've managed to buy Tecno C9 and sub 1k,they feel they've arrived...

firstking01:
In this 21st century, no guy is broke...we just temporarily run out of money...it could be for 1year, 2year, a day, 2days, 1week, 1month...it varies based on your momemtum of hustlings

Very true guy, very true

me date naija gal....tufiakwa...Make money bang d sh1t out of dis naija bitches then go marry a foreigner#
team foreign wife..

no wam, just found my team #teambrokedudes

Behira:
Am coming, let me finish my breakfast

Shouldn't you be on a diet?

monlawal:
The fact is even the guy would not feel comfortable in the relationship because some little things he can do would become hard for him to. Op no guy is broke, just that his hustle has not paid off yet. That guy that is struggling to drink garri with salt today might be having breakfast in dubai lunch in paris and dinner in london.

There are some guys that have unrealistic hustles tho and refuse to hear word lol...

Caprigal:
A woman wants a man that can provide because it is the Primary duty of men to provide for families so she wants to be sure he can do that while they are dating

So you don't know you're embarrassing your family abi? This is clearly as a result of growing from a poor and hungry home and so scared of it. Bless your hustle. Hungry LovePeddler

songzDaniel01:
op why can't u be financially independent too., mind u I'm not broke but I was once nd I'm still with my girl that was with me when I was broke AF .. and she was independent. Now she's begging me to stop buying her gifts. Op u re a broke ass , gold digging biatch

bro... My thoughts exactly... You're correct. Africa, most especially Nigeria has wired most girls into thinking the man should be the income bringer for two people to spend... It's trash. If you wanna spend, make money for yourself and buy your things. No one is holding em

Which wan is dark side again?? What if the dude is fair in complexion.... confused o

MrEverest:
Nigerian gals & poverty mentality! So regardless of the high unemployment rate, bad economy etc you still have such mindset? Little wonder there are so many old spinsters who wasted their youth waiting for E-money that never came! What is the ratio of rich guys to the women population in Nigeria?? Nigerian girls will forever continue to learn the hard way!!

So I should date a broke guy without an ambition abi
Okay, I'm coming

Gold dick-ass gyalz

JohnieWalker:
me date naija gal....tufiakwa...Make money bang d sh1t out of dis naija bitches then go marry a foreigner#
team foreign wife..

I don dey believe this #TeamForeign babes o.. ..... But then again we have ambitious 9ja babes too lol.

JohnieWalker:
me date naija gal....tufiakwa...Make money bang d sh1t out of dis naija bitches then go marry a foreigner#
team foreign wife..

I dont know whats inside the head of some of our naija gals,some are as dumb as Bleep... Seriously u could clearly feel the level of stupidity...

if ur working ... pretend ur d rich guy n he is d babe.... show d nigga some love

Hehehehehe, this is not hard at all. Treat me like shyt when I'm broke believing I'm not in your class, when I become made I'm definitely going for a girl who doesn't have your type of shallow mindset. Who loses at the end? Berra goan make your own money too.

These are the kind of girls nairalanders post "heiya r.i.p chai sad world" when a post comes up about a girl's body dumped in the bush after going on a date....
Look let me just spell it out for you, if you don't contribute and havnt contributed anything to that guys life, you have absolutely no right to expect him to spend on you....... Period... Shunn all opposing comments.
Silly wags just walk into niggas life outa nowhere when he is already made after they dumped him because he was broke....
The real question is " is the guy making an effort at all to hustle"? If he is then you have nothing to complain about....
I wonder when Annie idibia for dey now if to say she no stick around to her man......somewhere wishing if she had known abi?
If your man is hustling forget all temporary financial setbacks. Advice him, help him male some money decisions....
Some ladies are just round balls of fufu, sitting in a relationship, dont/cant advice you, dont even hav a clue of what the business world looks like but want the soup prepared with fat chicken innit....tell me why he wont make money roll your ass off into the ditch in favour of even a village gurl....
Madam have an independent mind so you don't miss your chances in life. you and your man should support each other.......

Keep telling the lies..as for me i wnt marry a liability like the o.p...goan find work, and stop been dependant...like attract like...

** dating a broke guy
Whatever happened to making your own money?
Young girls today need a total revamp of their mindsets, relationships have become synonymous with give me, buy this, which is why many get into the wrong marriages because the foundation has been wrong all the way through.

Girl, respect yourself by earning your own income. You don't need to wait for a guy to 'buy you credit'. He is not obliged to.

Caprigal:
@Nairaland broke dudes please feel free to vent and pour your frustrations on the thread because truth hurts.

As a lady what you have to deal with while dating a broke guy

1. Having to take public transport after seeing him. He can't drive you home cos no car.

2. The nicest date you've been on is at his house because when you two actually go out to fancy places you feel guilty about spending the little money he has.

3. No nice gifts, no random surprise presents to spoil you, he doesn't sporadically shower you with gifts.

4. The dudes shitty and embarrasing sense of style.

5. Him overcompensating by offering fake deep conversation and really really good sex.

6. He will also have the audacity to wonder why you are not madly, head over heels in love with his worthless ass. Hello? Why should you be? Men like submissive and obedient women while women like men that can protect and provide for them. Its biological and it isn't changing anytime soon so accept it and move on.

7. Prepare to hear him explain why its better to have your honeymoon in the comfort of your bedroom and not a fancy hotel or exotic country.

we know your Father was not broke when he started dating ya mother and we know he is richer than dangote.



poverty women coming here and be talking rubbish.

date a naija women at your own risk and as for me and my family, we shall never date a naija woman.