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Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by Oluwalosheleyi(m): 12:08pm On Aug 25, 2016
LuvU2:
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U desire a submissive and well behaved woman but she doesnt deserve security frm u?
I'm a guy and though I have not reached my potential financially I agree with u; it's the truth in black&white cos life runs on a kind of quid pro quo basis,nothing goes for nothing.Any guy can get laid if you've got d looks & u are averagely good with words but nothing more; u get laid as much as u want but thats it,she or they will most likely treat u as a second fiddle with no serious feelings whatsoever 4 u & they wont hesitate to break your sorry broke heart unless u realise early that u are a fifth wheel so it wont hurt when they break ur heart. I understand girls perfectly its just that I will find it hard 2 trust any girl/lady/woman that comes along when things are better.Many guys cope by viewing it as a game but they often end up being addicted to the game.#abstainancebychoice
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by comeandmarry: 12:08pm On Aug 25, 2016
Broke girls giving dumb ass advice.
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by Nobody: 12:09pm On Aug 25, 2016
Caprigal:
@Nairaland broke dudes please feel free to vent and pour your frustrations on the thread because truth hurts.

As a lady what you have to deal with while dating a broke guy

1. Having to take public transport after seeing him. He can't drive you home cos no car.

2. The nicest date you've been on is at his house because when you two actually go out to fancy places you feel guilty about spending the little money he has.

3. No nice gifts, no random surprise presents to spoil you, he doesn't sporadically shower you with gifts.

4. The dudes shitty and embarrasing sense of style.

5. Him overcompensating by offering fake deep conversation and really really good sex.

6. He will also have the audacity to wonder why you are not madly, head over heels in love with his worthless ass. Hello? Why should you be? Men like submissive and obedient women while women like men that can protect and provide for them. Its biological and it isn't changing anytime soon so accept it and move on.

7. Prepare to hear him explain why its better to have your honeymoon in the comfort of your bedroom and not a fancy hotel or exotic country.
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Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by addictiv(m): 12:09pm On Aug 25, 2016
songzDaniel01:
abeg rest in fact disappear, before he asked u out ? who was providing for u ?
[size=14pt]A million likes for you...hit the nail with a sledge hammer. [/size]
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by MrEverest(m):
mizzbouqui:
So I should date a broke guy without an ambition abi
Okay, I'm coming
How did you arrive at the conclusion that he has no ambition? Is it because he is unemployed or underemployedhuh Is it because he has no ride or house?? Have you considered his potential or hustleshuh Most Nigerian girls are short-sighted, myopic & like fake lifestyles/lies. I once was involved with a gold digger who never appreciated me & always called me stingy despite the fact that I did everything to make her comfortable by providing both her needs & wants, she frustrated me into dumping her & now she is full of regrets, while i'm living large, she has been struggling to make ends meet. She thought she could do better since she is pretty but I raised the bar so high when i was with her & i doubt any man, except a sugar daddy would do more than i did for her, even at that, na her pvssy go suffer am!
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by mizzbouqui(f): 12:12pm On Aug 25, 2016
anigold:
yes every Nigerian gal above 25 all says "am engaged" when most dont even have a common boyfriend..

some have been engaged for 5 years.. I hope you engagement no be long term engagement hahahahahaha. the type of engagement that will raise jamb questions.. grin grin grin grin grin
Is it your engagement? cheesy
Wetin concern you smiley
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by Certifiedboss: 12:12pm On Aug 25, 2016
Caprigal:
@Nairaland broke dudes please feel free to vent and pour your frustrations on the thread because truth hurts.

As a lady what you have to deal with while dating a broke guy

1. Having to take public transport after seeing him. He can't drive you home cos no car.

2. The nicest date you've been on is at his house because when you two actually go out to fancy places you feel guilty about spending the little money he has.

3. No nice gifts, no random surprise presents to spoil you, he doesn't sporadically shower you with gifts.

4. The dudes shitty and embarrasing sense of style.

5. Him overcompensating by offering fake deep conversation and really really good sex.

6. He will also have the audacity to wonder why you are not madly, head over heels in love with his worthless ass. Hello? Why should you be? Men like submissive and obedient women while women like men that can protect and provide for them. Its biological and it isn't changing anytime soon so accept it and move on.

7. Prepare to hear him explain why its better to have your honeymoon in the comfort of your bedroom and not a fancy hotel or exotic country.
The part of not having a car to take her home is funny. Does a girl forbids going in to a car shop to purchase a car ?
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by Lordkylie(f): 12:13pm On Aug 25, 2016
all of you shouting gold digger abeg goan sit down.It's not by force to marry broke niggars,am i a soothsayer to knw d future mtchew.Everyone is entitled to her or his opinion afterall many of you want wives that have big booties and boobs,are submissive etc and women cnt state their own preference?
Dear op,please stop dating broke guys it's not a crime,set your standards and ball out#awononiranuoshi
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by geronimoedeh1(m): 12:15pm On Aug 25, 2016
Caprigal:
@Nairaland broke dudes please feel free to vent and pour your frustrations on the thread because truth hurts.

As a lady what you have to deal with while dating a broke guy

1. Having to take public transport after seeing him. He can't drive you home cos no car.

2. The nicest date you've been on is at his house because when you two actually go out to fancy places you feel guilty about spending the little money he has.

3. No nice gifts, no random surprise presents to spoil you, he doesn't sporadically shower you with gifts.

4. The dudes shitty and embarrasing sense of style.

5. Him overcompensating by offering fake deep conversation and really really good sex.

6. He will also have the audacity to wonder why you are not madly, head over heels in love with his worthless ass. Hello? Why should you be? Men like submissive and obedient women while women like men that can protect and provide for them. Its biological and it isn't changing anytime soon so accept it and move on.

7. Prepare to hear him explain why its better to have your honeymoon in the comfort of your bedroom and not a fancy hotel or exotic country.
...

were ar d feminists wen u need dem..
so now dat it hv com to money n protection.. u guyz hav suddenly accepted dat we are d men n are superior...
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by yaksmon: 12:15pm On Aug 25, 2016
comparing animal kingdom to man, i see your kinda person... oshololo.. ashi.... going from 1 man to another for protection.. who dey pursue you
CrazyQuinn:
This is reality tho, even in the animal kingdom the female go for the most dominant and powerful male, you can't change nature grin grin
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by mizzbouqui(f): 12:16pm On Aug 25, 2016
MrEverest:
How did you arrive at the conclusion that he has no ambition? Is it because he is unemployed or underemployed?? Is it because has no ride or house?? Have you considered his potential or hustles?? Most Nigerian girls are short-sighted, myopic & like fake lifestyles/lies. I once was involved with a gold digger who never appreciated me & always called me stingy despite the fact that I did everything to make her comfortable by providing both her needs & wants, she frustrated me into dumping her & now she is full of regrets, while i'm living large, she has been struggling to make ends meet. She thought she could better since she is pretty but I raised the so high when i was with her & i doubt any man, except a sugar daddy would do more than i did for her, even at that, na her pvssy go suffer am!
Please check my first comment, and come back to modify this post
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by anigold(m): 12:17pm On Aug 25, 2016
mizzbouqui:
Is it your engagement? cheesy
Wetin concern you smiley
no vex ooo just a brotherly advice..
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by Nobody: 12:19pm On Aug 25, 2016
yaksmon:
comparing animal kingdom to man, i see your kinda person... oshololo.. ashi.... going from 1 man to another for protection.. who dey pursue you
grin if that's what you think I am, that's your own business, you can think whatever you want darling kiss
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by goodgood2(m): 12:20pm On Aug 25, 2016
Caprigal:
@Nairaland broke dudes please feel free to vent and pour your frustrations on the thread because truth hurts.

As a lady what you have to deal with while dating a broke guy

1. Having to take public transport after seeing him. He can't drive you home cos no car.

2. The nicest date you've been on is at his house because when you two actually go out to fancy places you feel guilty about spending the little money he has.

3. No nice gifts, no random surprise presents to spoil you, he doesn't sporadically shower you with gifts.

4. The dudes shitty and embarrasing sense of style.

5. Him overcompensating by offering fake deep conversation and really really good sex.

6. He will also have the audacity to wonder why you are not madly, head over heels in love with his worthless ass. Hello? Why should you be? Men like submissive and obedient women while women like men that can protect and provide for them. Its biological and it isn't changing anytime soon so accept it and move on.

7. Prepare to hear him explain why its better to have your honeymoon in the comfort of your bedroom and not a fancy hotel or exotic country.
Lamentations of a lazy, frustrated girl. Oh, what a pity! Tell me more, honey.
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by Ranchhoddas: 12:22pm On Aug 25, 2016
Caprigal:
Let me be frank here and say its different if he is genuinely trying to come up and still does what he can to make you feel special but some dudes are just perpetual failures and try to make it seem like you are asking too much.
Broke girl spotted.
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by buffalowings: 12:24pm On Aug 25, 2016
Caprigal:
@Nairaland broke dudes please feel free to vent and pour your frustrations on the thread because truth hurts.

As a lady what you have to deal with while dating a broke guy

1. Having to take public transport after seeing him. He can't drive you home cos no car.

2. The nicest date you've been on is at his house because when you two actually go out to fancy places you feel guilty about spending the little money he has.

3. No nice gifts, no random surprise presents to spoil you, he doesn't sporadically shower you with gifts.

4. The dudes shitty and embarrasing sense of style.

5. Him overcompensating by offering fake deep conversation and really really good sex.

6. He will also have the audacity to wonder why you are not madly, head over heels in love with his worthless ass. Hello? Why should you be? Men like submissive and obedient women while women like men that can protect and provide for them. Its biological and it isn't changing anytime soon so accept it and move on.

7. Prepare to hear him explain why its better to have your honeymoon in the comfort of your bedroom and not a fancy hotel or exotic country.
What is this one saying?.
Your boyfriend dey disappoint you hehe

Come here for my konji
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by Nobody: 12:26pm On Aug 25, 2016
Wicked!
LuvU2:
Who only screams equality these days more than the men when it has to do wif finance? grin

Why not scream the same equality for men to become stay-at-home dads, nursing dads? or even cooks?
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by Damfostopper(m): 12:29pm On Aug 25, 2016
am far from broke... I don't do jobless hoes..... BTW ....at my Age... I don't comment on stewpid post
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by Nobody: 12:34pm On Aug 25, 2016
Most of those girls shouting I can't date a broke guy are from poor homes,abeg ask your mama why she marry your papa.woman wey no follow me hustle,doesn't deserve a kobo from my pocket.i have friends that woo girls with money,I tell them you are only being a fool,dis same girl will roll with another guy once you no sort am again.Babe wey I use my mouth scope wey no gree,I move on to the next one...if I dare flash you money before you gree,you are in hot soup!like the guy above me said,I don't do parasites and jobless girls,they hardly appreciate anything because they believe they have a God given warehouse between them thighs
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by JeffreyJamez(m): 12:37pm On Aug 25, 2016
monlawal:
Abi? Anyhow d hustle go still pay one day, and any bae wey fit endure with the guy na she go enjoy pass.
Word!
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by Caprigal(op): 12:49pm On Aug 25, 2016
I have laughed so much after reading the comments on this thread grin

i am very glad that my thread provided an opprtunity for all the broke guys to vent their frustration. Glad to be of service to you broke ass niggas. No need to thank me. Don't mention.

And, after weeping and wailing the truth still remains that women will always desire men that can protect and provide for them.

Even the Bible says the man should till the earth and provide so you brokees berra start hustling hard so women can find you attractive.
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by Reeberry: 12:56pm On Aug 25, 2016
anigold:
go and wait for E-money so that by age 48 all the fake prophets will yaash out your ass in the name of husband finding assignment....
grin grin grin grin
One funny lie most gold digger use is "he is not ambitious" instead of saying I left him because "he has no money"
grin
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by Reeberry: 12:56pm On Aug 25, 2016
Caprigal:
I have laughed so much after reading the comments on this thread grin

i am very glad that my thread provided an opprtunity for all the broke guys to vent their frustration. Glad to be of service to you broke ass niggas. No need to thank me. Don't mention.

And, after weeping and wailing the truth still remains that women will always desire men that can protect and provide for them.

Even the Bible says the man should till the earth and provide so you brokees berra start hustling hard so women can find you attractive.
Broke girl. Sorry.
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by WilliamsChelster(m): 1:01pm On Aug 25, 2016
Caprigal:
I have laughed so much after reading the comments on this thread grin

i am very glad that my thread provided an opprtunity for all the broke guys to vent their frustration. Glad to be of service to you broke ass niggas. No need to thank me. Don't mention.

And, after weeping and wailing the truth still remains that women will always desire men that can protect and provide for them.

Even the Bible says the man should till the earth and provide so you brokees berra start hustling hard so women can find you attractive.
And you think a guy like me will marry someone like you huh....Hell no. it doesn't happen anymore we go for people of same class....That's why you will still come here and cry that someone used you and dumped you.....You're just like my ex....She kept telling me I'm broke dis, i'm broke dat, you're not hustling blah blah blah. That she can't date me anymore because I had no cash....But here she is today begging to come back to me, which will never happen, if you can't stay while things was hard, you shouldn't stay now that have made it
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by AlphaPegasi: 1:03pm On Aug 25, 2016
Zedoo:
#teamMoneyRitualMaterial material members spotted everywhere....

People cant even have something they hold above tangible money.....the human race is lost.....some gurls live for nothing...thats why they die for just pure nothing...bought by stupidity.....
If a nigga is hustling making real effort aunty if you cant stay simply leave and dont ever cme back...period.......
If you come back.....you will just be my househelp.......cleaning my shoes and washing ALL my clothes..... you sleep in the boy's quaters.....tell the gateman to keep you company and God help your ass that I am your "last" hope....chai....literally you go just wash main road for no just cause....with shoe brush and one pack of omo.......the whole of Lagos-ibadan express....before I go listen to whatever bull you have to say.....
HMMMMMMMMMMMMM strong knowledge. i lift my left yansh to salute you sir
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by Lexxyburg(m): 1:03pm On Aug 25, 2016
Wetin concern agbero with overload? All I do is carry my ride enter UNILAG, pick one set girl for road, carry am go ball, use her for the night, drop her at her hostel next morning, delete her number, and unto the next one. Hmm I remember when I used to be broke, Owu na bastard sha, no girl wanna date now they all wanna enter motor but the nigga got no time for love.
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by WilliamsChelster(m): 1:06pm On Aug 25, 2016
Lexxyburg:
Wetin concern agbero with overload? All I do is carry my ride enter UNILAG, pick one set girl for road, carry am go ball, use her for the night, drop her at her hostel next morning, delete her number, and unto the next one. Hmm I remember when I used to be broke, Owu na bastard sha, no girl wanna date now they all wanna enter motor but the nigga got no time for love.
abeg tell dem bro
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by Lexxyburg(m): 1:08pm On Aug 25, 2016
Caprigal:
I have laughed so much after reading the comments on this thread grin

i am very glad that my thread provided an opprtunity for all the broke guys to vent their frustration. Glad to be of service to you broke ass niggas. No need to thank me. Don't mention.

And, after weeping and wailing the truth still remains that women will always desire men that can protect and provide for them.

Even the Bible says the man should till the earth and provide so you brokees berra start hustling hard so women can find you attractive.
Aunty you have no right to call anyone broke. I made my first million overnight (crook or hook), that broke guy can be a baller tomorrow. If you want a rich guy go for one. I'd love to take you out sha, are you in Lagos?
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by Chuksemi(m): 1:11pm On Aug 25, 2016
firstking01:
In this 21st century, no guy is broke...we just temporarily run out of money...it could be for 1year, 2year, a day, 2days, 1week, 1month and etc...it varies based on your momemtum of hustlingsundecided
I like Your line of thought. Anyhow, a broke guy has no reason to keep a girlfriend. Instead, keep friends with benefit.
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by AlphaPegasi: 1:15pm On Aug 25, 2016
Menzy86:
Serious poverty (of both mind and body) is d biggest problem of most Nigerian ladies. U go outside d country and see really sophisticated independent women not caring how much u earn and just flow with you in a rship based on ur basic qualities (humour, simple care, ambition and adventure). U come back here and meet a girl who lives in a face me I face u flat, cooks with firewood and has never in her twenty something years on earth seen her father buy a car want all those things from u. Truth is as a guy, d day u meet a WORTHWHILE woman, u won't needa soothsayer to tell u!
truth of the matter is that it is not wrong of her to desire what she does not have. in fact it is the sane thing to do. now whether she gets it is another story. seriously speaking i dont see the hassles in women desiring rich guys. its a natural tendency of all humans. men desire riches too which is why when you put them in politics they steal all the countries money. this is why people move drugs to indonesia. this is why niggaz are all over the western world scamming oyinbos. WE ARE ALL HUSTLERS and we all desire to be comfortable. her own way of hustling is looking for rich guys. me personally i aint mad at a woman who hustling for rich men. question is whether she will get it or not lol cuz not all hustlers succeed. thats just the story of life. everybody is hustling. like that nigga rick ross said EVERYDAY AM HUSTLING. dont knock a womans hustle lolzz
Re: Dark Side Of Dating Broke Dudes by Nobody: 1:18pm On Aug 25, 2016
LuvU2:
my friend answer my question nd see how silly ur first post was.
If a guy is broke he shd get his broke ass seated nd quit seeking for babes until he gets his priority right.

U desire a submissive and well behaved woman but she doesnt deserve security frm u?
If she deserves security,i can get her Aboki Mai Guard nah....Farmished jezebels
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