₦airaland Forum

dmediator555:
Don't tell me you are this myopic ? so your boy friend is useless to you if he is not providing for you at the moment ? Chai! Who do you this??

May God save young ambitious promising guys with great visions from people like you,

xendra:
interesting, page 9 already. hard to believe this thread was opened today.
but seriously self made or not apart from providing for a lady what else is the use for a boyfriend abeg.

xendra:
loll.. what do you mean at the moment when dating is no guarantee for marriage.

Caprigal:
I have laughed so much after reading the comments on this thread

i am very glad that my thread provided an opprtunity for all the broke guys to vent their frustration. Glad to be of service to you broke ass niggas. No need to thank me. Don't mention.

And, after weeping and wailing the truth still remains that women will always desire men that can protect and provide for them.

Even the Bible says the man should till the earth and provide so you brokees berra start hustling hard so women can find you attractive.

mizzbouqui:
Okay, and only broke guys attack ladies like me

Caprigal:
@Nairaland broke dudes please feel free to vent and pour your frustrations on the thread because truth hurts.

As a lady what you have to deal with while dating a broke guy

1. Having to take public transport after seeing him. He can't drive you home cos no car.

2. The nicest date you've been on is at his house because when you two actually go out to fancy places you feel guilty about spending the little money he has.

3. No nice gifts, no random surprise presents to spoil you, he doesn't sporadically shower you with gifts.

4. The dudes shitty and embarrasing sense of style.

5. Him overcompensating by offering fake deep conversation and really really good sex.

6. He will also have the audacity to wonder why you are not madly, head over heels in love with his worthless ass. Hello? Why should you be? Men like submissive and obedient women while women like men that can protect and provide for them. Its biological and it isn't changing anytime soon so accept it and move on.

7. Prepare to hear him explain why its better to have your honeymoon in the comfort of your bedroom and not a fancy hotel or exotic country.

LuvU2:
Sorry if this sounds offensive.Did ur mum sort out her financial issues before settling for ur dad? did ur grandma do same? ur great grand mum? Did their husbands care if they were financially buoyant?

If ur answer is yes to all, they re not the rule.

[color=#1980BC]And that is why your father, grandfather, great grandfather always had the final say in their marriages.

They could easily kick your mother, grandmother or great grandmother out of the house because they were all liabilities. They had nothing of their own.

You feather brained nitwit, better work for yourself. Things are changing.

It is fellow women like you who are focused and they have assets. Houses, cars and even companies. They buy their husbands cars and islands.

Keep using your mother as a yardstick for a reason why your lazy and broke ass should sit at home doing nothing except to open your legs for a nigga to slide in.

You'll only die hopeless without any property to your name. Simply because you don't want to hustle for yourself.

Keep waiting....your savior is coming. [/color]

MrTruth4real:
Am a student, are u expecting me to be a millionaire or spending my little income on top one girl mata. If u cant date a broke guy or low income guy, Yahoo boys full everywhere. I cannot come n go n die because am trying to impress one b*tch.

wiwa96:
Talking shit, my friend go and die.. Who cares

Caprigal:
@Nairaland broke dudes please feel free to vent and pour your frustrations on the thread because truth hurts.

As a lady what you have to deal with while dating a broke guy

1. Having to take public transport after seeing him. He can't drive you home cos no car.

2. The nicest date you've been on is at his house because when you two actually go out to fancy places you feel guilty about spending the little money he has.

3. No nice gifts, no random surprise presents to spoil you, he doesn't sporadically shower you with gifts.

4. The dudes shitty and embarrasing sense of style.

5. Him overcompensating by offering fake deep conversation and really really good sex.

6. He will also have the audacity to wonder why you are not madly, head over heels in love with his worthless ass. Hello? Why should you be? Men like submissive and obedient women while women like men that can protect and provide for them. Its biological and it isn't changing anytime soon so accept it and move on.

7. Prepare to hear him explain why its better to have your honeymoon in the comfort of your bedroom and not a fancy hotel or exotic country.

songzDaniel01:
ain't lucky but blessed bro , holding her very tight

AlphaPegasi:
truth of the matter is that it is not wrong of her to desire what she does not have. in fact it is the sane thing to do. now whether she gets it is another story. seriously speaking i dont see the hassles in women desiring rich guys. its a natural tendency of all humans. men desire riches too which is why when you put them in politics they steal all the countries money. this is why people move drugs to indonesia. this is why niggaz are all over the western world scamming oyinbos. WE ARE ALL HUSTLERS and we all desire to be comfortable. her own way of hustling is looking for rich guys. me personally i aint mad at a woman who hustling for rich men. question is whether she will get it or not lol cuz not all hustlers succeed. thats just the story of life. everybody is hustling. like that nigga rick ross said EVERYDAY AM HUSTLING. dont knock a womans hustle lolzz

Luckymay:


Lol. Care for some?

Caprigal:
@Nairaland broke dudes please feel free to vent and pour your frustrations on the thread because truth hurts.

As a lady what you have to deal with while dating a broke guy

1. Having to take public transport after seeing him. He can't drive you home cos no car.

2. The nicest date you've been on is at his house because when you two actually go out to fancy places you feel guilty about spending the little money he has.

3. No nice gifts, no random surprise presents to spoil you, he doesn't sporadically shower you with gifts.

4. The dudes shitty and embarrasing sense of style.

5. Him overcompensating by offering fake deep conversation and really really good sex.

6. He will also have the audacity to wonder why you are not madly, head over heels in love with his worthless ass. Hello? Why should you be? Men like submissive and obedient women while women like men that can protect and provide for them. Its biological and it isn't changing anytime soon so accept it and move on.

7. Prepare to hear him explain why its better to have your honeymoon in the comfort of your bedroom and not a fancy hotel or exotic country.

LuvU2:
So because i am a girl i shouldnt hv a well to do man by my side? I shouldnt have a choice? But the broke dude shd hve the choice of having a girlfriend? Foul reasoning based on double standards.

Sorry, women hve been marrying rich responsible men for security since time immemorial. Nd there aint nothing u can do about it.

anigbajumo:
rosalieene let see yer view.

Jetjacky:
lol! That's how it suppose!

But not like super glue or you go to clingy oh...

rosalieene:
lol
why do you want to force words from my mouth.
Who wouldn't like it if her guy has money?
Money maintains a lady. If your guy has money, give glory to God. If he doesn't give glory to God and pray for upliftment. Most times I don't blame some girls that prefer already made guys because taking statistics a lot of girls date broke guys and at the end last get dumped when he has money and some end up marrying the lady that stayed with them throughout the trying times but they still go outside and cheat. But yet still a lot of girls want to date well to do guys because of greed.
But I wouldn't advise any lady to marry a guy that doesn't have anything. Money sustains a marriage. Love without money is hell. I don't mean having a lot of money at least be comfy, be able to afford the basic necessities of life. For those who believe that one day their husbands will make it, Amen. ladies are naturally recievers. This topic doesn't warrant any guy to insult girls that insist on dating well-to-guys. Its a well known fact that if you want girls to flock round you, you just have to make money.

anigbajumo:
I fink u av gone beyond the content.@op is underlining and specific on dating. The subject matter has nothing to do with marry a jobless man.Anyway yer comment has clearly shown that uvare on the same page with wag other female folks are saying, yer opinion thou.....



[s]This topic doesn't warrant any guy to insult girls that insist on dating well-to-guys.[/s]

But that dumb write up can condemn a broke dude trying to go into a relationship not knowing that no condition is permanent.

CrazyQuinn:
Op it depends on girl you are always getting involved with, not all girls are like that with time you would find a girls that accept your flaws and stay with you through your ups and downs

mizzbouqui:
And who is asking for your money

Haute:
Why are you opening threads out of frustration? What's stopping you from making your own money? Smh


Checkout Caprigal's boyfriend here:

https://www.nairaland.com/3309418/yahoo-boys-caught-girls-pants/1#48786227