nwigwemark:
How will a man abandon his two sons for over 30 years without caring, only for him to surface now and start making nonsense demands. That is madness.

daretodiffer:
What if he is telling the bitter truth about his father?


She could have told them things about their father or they could have seen things themselves.There are terrible mothers out there and there are terrible fathers. I
won't be quick judge.

SlayerSupreme:

You're being biased!!! Hugely biased!!! Don't paint the issue with money. The father was abusive. The father's family rejected them. Don't bring in the mother's money. He reached out to the stupid man,the man butted him off. Stop siding with evil. Say the truth as it is!

PaulIdu:
There is no bridge that money can't tear apart..the young man has to choose between his billionaire mum and his thousandnaire retired military pensioner father...your guess is as good as mine he chooses his mums wealth over his dad's blessings .

modath:



This boy was either not raised well or he deviated along the way, this is unbecoming and at the wrongest time..

When women work on children against men they are no longer on good terms with, it's always clear to see....

So sad!!

modath:



This boy was either not raised well or he deviated along the way, this is unbecoming and at the wrongest time..

When women work on children against men they are no longer on good terms with, it's always clear to see....

So sad!!

CSTR2:
There are levels he will never be able to attain in igboland. He should try running for politics for example which is always keenly contested in the east and even some chieftaincy positions.
His non-Igbo paternal roots would haunt him then. Sad but true.

obinoral1179:
Don't compare Europe with Nigeria.... We are far far different.... The igbos will never recognise that guy as their son Or can he become an igwe since his mother belongs to the royal family....

HungerBAD:
Just like that.

The man has just officially lost his children. And for this young man running his mouth,one day in the East he will be asked to "POINT OUT HIS FATHER'S HOUSE" there.

freshvine:


Really?

How did the guy knew the parents were having issues if not the version as told by his mum. Remember the marriage was short-lived not like the were teenagers when it happened.

Do you even realize that the first thing a woman do after having issues with husband is to run away with children?
Do you know that some women will never allow you near their children except you reconcile with them?

Oga, the reason people fight custody of children is to avoid a situation like this cos the custodian will use the children against the other partner

SmartChoices:
How's your family issue our business?

Xsmart22:


What sort of bitter truth will a young man be professing Dat will lead to him calling his father names in public and even calling himself a bastard? Truth be told, he is his father and nutin can change that. I'm sure the mum will not be at home with the boy's public outburst unless she has never been a good woman ab initio

freshvine:


Really?

How did the guy knew the parents were having issues if not the version as told by his mum. Remember the marriage was short-lived not like the were teenagers when it happened.

Do you even realize that the first thing a woman do after having issues with husband is to run away with children?
Do you know that some women will never allow you near their children except you reconcile with them?

Oga, the reason people fight custody of children is to avoid a situation like this cos the custodian will use the children against the other partner

SlayerSupreme:

You're being biased!!! Hugely biased!!! Don't paint the issue with money. The father was abusive. The father's family rejected them. Don't bring in the mother's money. He reached out to the stupid man,the man butted him off. Stop siding with evil. Say the truth as it is!

“Buwa and I were the product of a short and abusive marriage that ended almost 30 years ago"

eitsei:
even if it's the truth, is this the best way to handle the matter? Not even in public where there are few people but social media, but the boy has forgotten his own child too will see this post later in the future

modath:



This boy was either not raised well or he deviated along the way, this is unbecoming and at the wrongest time..

When women work on children against men they are no longer on good terms with, it's always clear to see....

So sad!!

cyrilamx:
Wait o...is this not this Stella Oduah that was until recently Mrs Stella ogiemwonyi? There is something wrong with this woman. She has a big ego that she can hardly remain a man's house. So Stella has been married twice and also been divorced twice. We hope one of the fruits of her romance with Egnr. Chris Ogiemwonyi will not also take his father to the cleaner soon.

manny4life:


There's a difference between "Father" and "Dad". As you rightly said, he's a sperm donor, a father and nothing else... But being a dad, requires commitment. An absentee father would NEVER be regarded as a dad. Plain and simple truth. The man did not act like an elder in the family, he knew the supposed thing to do before going public. Going public was his greatest undoing. When you point an accusing finger at someone, three other fingers are pointing right back at you.

Mykcool:
Some of you are here bringing culture/tradition into it, a father that only remembered he had a son after death. Is there any culture/ tradition that says a man should abandon or not take care of his kids. The children are even above 28yrs, isn't that old enough for them to know a substantial amount of the truth. It's now the man's family know he has children. I'm not saying he should insult his dad , but for the dad not to think it right to be part of his children's life, mehn that man deserves no respect

ikp120:

Why on earth would the man declare to the world that he didn't know the guy was dead whereas the son had called to inform him only for him to bash his mother? The man, if what that guy wrote is true, is truly a mischievous fellow. He is truly a shameless man. He needs to apologise to his generation for that. Who tells that sort of lie, if not a mischievous, bitter and shameless fellow?

jaxxy:

Africans and their customs. The father Ws never there and he came back only to cros d line and u say d boy is wrong to point out his fathers wrongs? I personally call a spade a spade. He said what he had to. A father is not just by biological birth bt by who raised u.
Also he is a man and can speak for himself based on the issue at hand which none of us know the details in full
I tired of this sentiments in our customs that drag us backward.
Hungerbad
Indigene

Mykcool:
Some of you are here bringing culture/tradition into it, a father that only remembered he had a son after death. Is there any culture/ tradition that says a man should abandon or not take care of his kids. The children are even above 28yrs, isn't that old enough for them to know a substantial amount of the truth. It's now the man's family know he has children. I'm not saying he should insult his dad , but for the dad not to think it right to be part of his children's life, mehn that man deserves no respect

Decryptor:
Mr Satchie Etoromi is a deluded clown! You did not ask about the wellbeing of your Son while he was under their mother's care for over 25 years and now the young man is dead, you suddenly remember that he is your son and that he should be brought back to your place for interment! Some people really need koboko. The young man is right to call himself a bastard than have a fool like you as a father! Delta Men can be so pathetic!!

manny4life:

I was raised by a single mother because men like you don't want to swallow the bitter pill called the "truth" about yourself... Please, don't bring my mom into this topic, if you have anything to say, direct it at me. Since you seem to know much about the truth and Noah in the Bible, please prove your point. Tell us more, perhaps I may learn something new.

ikp120:


Why on earth would the man declare to the world that he didn't know the guy was dead whereas the son had called to inform him only for him to bash his mother? The man, if what that guy wrote is true, is truly a mischievous fellow. He is truly a shameless man. He needs to apologise to his generation for that. Who tells that sort of lie, if not a mischievous, bitter and shameless fellow?

repogirl:
Women don suffer sha....! See double standard.

The father never acknowledged his children while they were alive,is it now when they are dead that they should become his children?

Why did he lie that he hadn't been notified? What kind of man is that to stir up controversy so publicly? Definitely not a man who has the best interests of his family at heart.

All the male's here have issues with the woman being married twice, forgetting that the man is polygamous but no o, it's allowed for a man to marry as many wives as he likes but a woman must remain in an abusive marriage and endure it until the day he kills her.

Absolute rubbish.

theophorus:
...That's why you may end up like your brother...

Xsmart22:



I never called him a sperm donor;that is tantamount to a Casanova. My point is that family issues especially as it has to do with a husband and wife should be threaded by care by the siblings. If they must involve themselves in it, let dem act as recinciliatory agents and not divisives. He is his father and that settles all. He is still indebted to him, knowingly or unknowingly