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Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by goingape1: 10:02pm On Sep 06, 2016
neocortex:


So much hate just for a dissenting view ?
It is hypocritical for a "sinner" to feel that
he/she is better than other "sinners"
hate gave birth to murder (abortion) she must have did that and let advising others to join in her way.

in your right sense of mind, will you tell someone to murder another person? undecided
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by izzou(m): 10:02pm On Sep 06, 2016
goingape1:
if her parents didn't brought her up the right way she would know that abortion is not an alternative to a solution.

her parents is into this.

Calm down sir

You can actually make your points without insulting people

I disagree with her totally, but that isn't a reason for me to insult

It makes you no better than her

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Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by creepsyme(f): 10:03pm On Sep 06, 2016
Tega4B:
Ok.Tx for Reading.

Av been in a relationship with my so called bf for about a year nw. Heaven knws I love him, about a month ago I got pregnant and he insisted dat I kip d pregnancy.

My problem is,after much questioning on y he's finding it so difficult to tell his parents,he opened up to me dat he got bck with his x nd dey are planning on getting married in December shocked .

Am frm a very responsible home,if my mum gets to find out she would insist dat we get married(I dnt want it to look like am forcing him on me).
Am jst few months old in my first job after school,still tryin to settle.If my boss gets to find out its a 50/50 chance of me loosing my job.

Being a baby mama is nt an option for me. Do I keep dis baby n go to his parents or Get rid of it n move on with my life.
pls dearie keep it against all odds, the joy u will experience in the future cannot be compared to the suffering now pls and pls have the baby. who knows what the baby might become in the future.

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Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Jackrich: 10:03pm On Sep 06, 2016
CrazyQuinn:
Get rid ASAP if you know what is Good for your life angry
And if she dies in the process ?
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by leoblacky: 10:03pm On Sep 06, 2016
U Are very stupid by telling us that u are from responsible family olobo sufe sufe.
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by chineloSA(f): 10:04pm On Sep 06, 2016
CrazyQuinn:
are you anoy better? Scratch that..... Are you perfect? undecided

Yes, because i can never call all this a mistake. I will swallow my pride and stop playing victim and admit I was stupid. This is never a mistake.

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Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by OLUJOSHINS(m): 10:04pm On Sep 06, 2016
CrazyQuinn:
Why not, if I was in her shoes my conscience will be very clear after the abortion and I will have peace cheesy grin


my dear, kindly advice Ur husband to type His death certificate when He is preparing to make arrangements for Ur wedding certificate.

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Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Nobody: 10:05pm On Sep 06, 2016
Spirit1:


Get rid of a human being ? Why don't you say it better; KILL YOUR CHILD ASAP.

How wicked and heartless. God forgive you
sometimes it's good to be wicked and heartless for the greater good grin Adolf Hitler is an example grin cool
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Nobody: 10:05pm On Sep 06, 2016
CrazyQuinn:
Get rid ASAP if you know what is Good for your life angry
you're a disgusting person.

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Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Nobody: 10:05pm On Sep 06, 2016
Tega4B:
Ok.Tx for Reading.

Av been in a relationship with my so called bf for about a year nw. Heaven knws I love him, about a month ago I got pregnant and he insisted dat I kip d pregnancy.

My problem is,after much questioning on y he's finding it so difficult to tell his parents,he opened up to me dat he got bck with his x nd dey are planning on getting married in December shocked .

Am frm a very responsible home,if my mum gets to find out she would insist dat we get married(I dnt want it to look like am forcing him on me).
Am jst few months old in my first job after school,still tryin to settle.If my boss gets to find out its a 50/50 chance of me loosing my job.

Being a baby mama is nt an option for me. Do I keep dis baby n go to his parents or Get rid of it n move on with my life.

Common sense should take precedence in this matter and not sentiments. It's unfortunate you got into this but no gain getting urself dug deeper than you already are. For ur sanity and that of ur parents, don't keep the pregnancy.

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Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by goingape1: 10:05pm On Sep 06, 2016
izzou:


Calm down sir

You can actually make your points without insulting people

I disagree with her totally, but that isn't a reason for me to insult

It makes you no better than her
if a lovely parents is beating his child to correct him wouldn't he call him idi0ts?
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by leoblacky: 10:06pm On Sep 06, 2016
No responsible girl from responsible family get pregnant out of wedlock pls stop decieving urself ok.

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Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by thedarkside: 10:06pm On Sep 06, 2016
creepsyme:
pls dearie keep it against all odds, the joy u will experience in the future cannot be compared to the suffering now pls and pls have the baby. who knows what the baby might become in the future.


well...whatever...i dont blame you women...i blame your great.great,great,grand-mother "eve".....that mofo.......


whatever......she is punished enough......
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by jessykings(f): 10:06pm On Sep 06, 2016
CrazyQuinn:
Yes I'm serious angry
Well, like they say 'different strokes for different folks' but for me, even life is precious and worth saving
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Nobody: 10:07pm On Sep 06, 2016
[quote author=WindUpMerchant post=49135722] you're a disgusting person.[/quote. Hahahaha *takes a bow* kiss
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Lolaabokoku(f): 10:08pm On Sep 06, 2016
Chubhie:
http://clinicquotes.com/abortion-at-10-weeks-pictures/
Go through the graphic pictures and tell if you still wish to proceed with murder.
Graphic indeed!!!
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Florblu(f): 10:08pm On Sep 06, 2016
thorpido:
Shouldn't you have asked yourself all these questions before rolling in the sack with your bf?
I'm sure you know he doesn't really want to marry you and you can't really force him.

By the way,how come you chose to date a 'yoruba demon'?Are you a demon too?

Can't find where she mentioned the guy is Yoruba. Make sure your brain is in the right frequency whenever you wanna address a public issue like this. #Shalom

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Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by jessykings(f): 10:09pm On Sep 06, 2016
CrazyQuinn:
Yes I'm serious angry
Well,like they say 'different strokes for different folks', to me, every life is precious and is worth saving
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Tinalex(f): 10:09pm On Sep 06, 2016
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by izzou(m): 10:09pm On Sep 06, 2016
goingape1:
if a lovely parents is beating his child to correct him wouldn't he call him idi0ts?


Since you refuse to be open minded, I can't force you

Keep hauling insults at Crazyquinn

Cheers

cool

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Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Nobody: 10:09pm On Sep 06, 2016
grin whatever you say Goddess! grin
chineloSA:


Yes, because i can never call all this a mistake. I will swallow my pride and stop playing victim and admit I was stupid. This is never a mistake.
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by creepsyme(f): 10:10pm On Sep 06, 2016
thedarkside:



well...whatever...i dont blame you women...i blame your great.great,great,grand-mother "eve".....that mofo.......


whatever......she is punished enough......
meaning?
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by chineloSA(f): 10:10pm On Sep 06, 2016
CrazyQuinn:
grin whatever you say Goddess! grin

I am glad you know wink wink

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Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by thedarkside: 10:11pm On Sep 06, 2016
jessykings:

Well, like they say 'different strokes for different folks' but for me, even life is precious and worth saving

eve... smiley...whatever,eve..just dont cross the way of the darkforce...... smiley

keep your whatever......whatever... smiley
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Nobody: 10:11pm On Sep 06, 2016
Jackrich:
And if she dies in the process ?
oh well she tried grin grin at least she will be out of this wicked world grin grin grin cheesy
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by VajanahDischaj(f): 10:11pm On Sep 06, 2016
Tega4B:


Being a baby mama is nt an option for me. Do I keep dis baby n go to his parents or Get rid of it n move on with my life.
see eh!!!if you 'get rid ' of that child e no go better for you. are you this selfish?is that the only option?!
no just make me vex oh!

before you spread legs for deeper ramming, you seek our advice? come!babe, just carry that bele 9months and Shit-out the kid ,train the kid in the way of the Lord and live and let live.
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by niyi123: 10:11pm On Sep 06, 2016
You are from responsible home, but you are not responsible for opening your dirty yansh for someone whom you are not married to. Shameless hoe
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by WebSurfer(m): 10:12pm On Sep 06, 2016
CrazyQuinn:
I'm so sorry thatt you feel mad at my post cry but I have no power to take it down cheesy grin kiss

You can simply just modify it..

You have no idea until someone in similar situation find it useful without checking the consequences , you are abating murder without knowing
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Nobody: 10:12pm On Sep 06, 2016
[quote author=CrazyQuinn post=49135789][/quote] I wish it was funny. have you pondered for a moment the consequences? smh
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by Nobody: 10:13pm On Sep 06, 2016
kiss
madgoat:


DEVIL.
Re: I Am In A Dilemma. I Don't Want To Be A Baby Mama by thedarkside: 10:14pm On Sep 06, 2016
CrazyQuinn:
oh well she tried grin grin at least she will be out of this wicked world grin grin grin cheesy

me like you long time... grin grin grin grin grin.......

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