asuo27:
I feel for her sha!, she just fell for a heartless demon as bf.

That's why most Yoruba men are demons at least she will learn her lesson....I hope

CrazyQuinn:
Get rid ASAP if you know what is Good for your life

Please don't listen to this crazyquinn. Don't get rid of the pregnancy. Talk to him and see see the parents too. Soon I will post my experience here u will see while I want u to keep the pregnancy. Don't touch it oooo.. I take God beg u.

Tinalex:

Thanks for being disappointed. I am just being realistic.

By calling the child 'a thing '?

That was realistic enough

CrazyQuinn:
Not every life oh! so are you saying terrorists like boko haram is worth saving?

U never can tell what exactly d future holds for dis particular one, at least he/she deserves a chance

CrazyQuinn:
That's why most Yoruba men are demons at least she will learn her lesson....I hope

Hehehe!, i don't like making tribal comments o!, hope she learns sha but the damage has already been done.

Chubhie:

In this case,an innocent baby? Pray tell what crime the baby committed to warrant such gruesome brutish death as sacrifice for peace and prosperity?

I wish to understand this logic you talk about.

May God bless you my bro

izzou:


By calling the child 'a thing '?

That was realistic enough

Yes i called it a thing cos of what the so called idiot that impregnated her is doing. The child born out of wedlock is referred to as a "bastard" either you like it or not! She doesn't have to bear the brunt of the mistake she and the silly guy made!!
She should get rid of it and learn from it....cos the guy will live his life,she deserve same too!!

Tega4B:
Ok.Tx for Reading.

Av been in a relationship with my so called bf for about a year nw. Heaven knws I love him, about a month ago I got pregnant and he insisted dat I kip d pregnancy.

My problem is,after much questioning on y he's finding it so difficult to tell his parents,he opened up to me dat he got bck with his x nd dey are planning on getting married in December shocked .

Am frm a very responsible home,if my mum gets to find out she would insist dat we get married(I dnt want it to look like am forcing him on me).
Am jst few months old in my first job after school,still tryin to settle.If my boss gets to find out its a 50/50 chance of me loosing my job.

Being a baby mama is nt an option for me. Do I keep dis baby n go to his parents or Get rid of it n move on with my life.

I beg you in God's name, please don't abort.. . Contact me.. I have a similar situation to share with you

jessykings:

U never can tell what exactly d future holds for dis particular one, at least he/she deserves a chance

I agree with you on the one

This is my opinion and it remains the best logical opinion.

The bible is strict on the issue of murder, to the extent that the bible stipulated that even if accidentally someone kills a foetus that they would pay an eye for an eye ( Ex 21:22-25). how much more a personally induced murder.

Let's leave bible aside cos how many of us today follow the principles strictly, cos if you did you wouldn't be in this baby mama delima .

I would beg you (am on my kneels) please don't kill that young soul, I have seen thousand and one ladies who didn't abort their babies and regard that some years later as the best decision they have ever taken in life lifetime. People would scorn you, your parents might be mad at you, you might lose your job, view that as a consequence of your actions and move on. Your moms madness would cease the day that child is born and she would soften.

Don't force that nigga to marry you, there is nothing much worse than an unhappy marriage more especially for a lady.

Darling keep strong, the best is yet ahead

Keep the baby, leave the rest to God and pray. Do not commit abortion , if you cannot handle the pressure of being a mother , Give your child up for adoption. Wish you success. Some women are barren and wish to have a child. Be grateful for what you have.

Tinalex:

Yes i called it a thing cos of what the so called idiot that impregnated her is doing. The child born out of wedlock is referred to as a "bastard" either you like it or not! She doesn't have to bear the brunt of the mistake she and the silly guy made!!
She should get rid of it and learn from it....cos the guy will live his life,she deserve same too!!

Justin Bieber
Genevieve Nnaji
Christiano Ronaldo

Am sure they were all bastards (excluding Genevieve. I meant her daughter) and their fathers lived their lives, leaving their mothers to go through excruciating pains and reproach

But all that isn't an issue today because they are outstanding. They are even more successful than most of their peers with a complete family tree

We can never know tomorrow. No matter how hard we try, we can't.

We never can tell what that child can be. He may be formed by mistake but that child is never a mistake.

Tega4B, take note

CrazyQuinn:
Get rid ASAP if you know what is Good for your life

dis babe you must be a champion in the getting rid off pregnancy business oh ,op abeg no listen to dis one oh ,take it as a result of ur drunk love , next time wen u not too sure of were u stand in a guys life babe use protection .the unborn child deserves life and not the major share of a miss step u took . Ler it live

From your expression with words it indicate that you a professional prostitute...... Abortion is Something You do all The time...... i advice you stop And live A normal Life like every other Lady cuz if you Eventually get married your secret Will Definitely trace their steps out

One chance

CrazyQuinn:
Get rid ASAP if you know what is Good for your life

Abortion is murder! Why is it easy for ladies to kill?

Florblu:


Can't find where she mentioned the guy is Yoruba. Make sure your brain is in the right frequency whenever you wanna address a public issue like this. #Shalom

Next time before you quote me,especially if you want to insult,make sure you read through previous comments before you make stupiid statements.

She edited her original post and that is why it doesn't appear any longer.I quoted the person below to show you it appeared there before.

bennyrazz:
why did you have to write "Yoruba deemon" and include no offense when you actually intended the offense. I can relate to reasons why he did not deem you fit to be his wife. This may just be part of the reasons. Coming from a responsible home doesn't make you responsible. Responsibility is a personal decision. I'm not scolding you but you are certainly going to leave with this scar if you abort for the rest of your life. You would have killed a full humanbeing. Now you pregnant with no hubby, that's bring shame to your family and stigma to yourself. You can pray to God to make you lose the pregnancy or get your mother involved while you chase after who got you pregnant. Marrying him though doesn't guarantee a happy marriage cuz he might not be happy with you. From the look of things, you were not a baby, how you got pregnant shows your carelessness. You engage in premarital sex and you get caught in the hook. I wish you luck sha cuz your only saving grace now is if you loose the pregnancy naturally, if not, welcome to the world of single mothers.

Daintelectual:

Abortion is murder! Why is it easy for ladies to kill?

because we've got guts, while guys are pvssies

izzou:


Justin Bieber
Genevieve Nnaji
Christiano Ronaldo

Am sure they were all bastards (excluding Genevieve. I meant her daughter) and their fathers lived their lives, leaving their mothers to go through excruciating pains and reproach

But all that isn't an issue today because they are outstanding. They are even more successful than most of their peers with a complete family tree

We can never know tomorrow. No matter how hard we try, we can't.

We never can tell what that child can be. He may be formed by mistake but that child is never a mistake.

Tega4B, take note

Yeah that's your view. But 've said mine too,left for the Op to chose.

Look @ them saying dat MURDER meanwhile potinor be like sugar wey dem dey use drink garri for der house....abeg wetin b d name of d pikin n how old is he or she Well na only u knw where dey pinch u so crash am by urself...

I will not advice you to kill someone

One of thousands implications of premarital sex.

Tinalex:

Yeah that's your view. But 've said mine too,left for the Op to chose.

My issue with your write up was you calling a child 'thing'

I think that's so unfair and inhumane

At least you heard me out sha

goingape1:
you came from a responsible family but yet open ya yansh for an irresponsible boy or man

what does that make of you?

pls open ya responsible yansh for the doctor at the hospital so that you can deliver the babe safely..


nonsense naija women everywhere

This post made me laugh so hard... dayum!

My dear.... I understand that while in a relationship, you never know that your partner was never in with you until the moment of truth arrives. Some girls are lucky to have men who stay with them in the relationship and are ready to go through the fire with them and only a matter of time before everything becomes fine.

Begin now to prepare for the arrival of your baby, the deed is done. While preparing, start planning up a business no matter how little. You have learnt this lesson in a hard way and you are about to embark on a journey of judgmental criticism. Be strong, keep your baby and trust God for the rest.

Sweetheart, pls I plead,do not flush it out..I am a single mother...its not easy, I know.. but pls do not cut short the joy set before cos of a low life man. we all make mistakes,don't make another mistake by aborting. I tell you,I have got my struggles too but I got a man that is ready to make me his wife even after having a 3yr old son. seek refuge in God, plead for forgiveness. your bf is not a father,he is a faada. let him be.20yrs to come, he will still suffer it. you are loved. I hope to talk to you.kindly chat me up on 07066618460. Remember you are loved

if you abort the baby and die, hell fire straight no debate, you suffer twice, your parent and loved ones will suffer your loss and your guy will happily get married, But if It's your womb that got spoilt, no baby again, your guy's kids will call you anty for the rest of your life. the baby was on It's own, you went to call her, the did has been done, take your responsibility and follow Jesus, His yoke is easy and His burden is light, He will find help for you and your kid, Don't abort the kid, no matter How bad the world gets to, there is no How a sin can undo another sin, two wrongs Don't make a right, please save the kid, I believe there is a reason Why you brought the issue here before taking any step. take your burden to God, He loves sinners and He's a reward to those that diligently seek him. please my sister!!!

Dont commit sin against God madam ok. Call the mother , tell her you want to see her about something, ask when she will be less busy. Explain to her, am pretty sure as a woman, she will have sympathy. And if you cant, still dont abort, you just have to carry the cross and continue your life, but let your own mother be aware please. Mothers are more experienced. Am sure if things work out, u wont be a baby mama and if u do, you will still find anoda man that will love you the way you are. The lesson here is, dont enter into relationship for the wrong reasons, u will always get a wrong results..cheers

Tega4B:
Ok.Tx for Reading.

Av been in a relationship with my so called bf for about a year nw. Heaven knws I love him, about a month ago I got pregnant and he insisted dat I kip d pregnancy.

My problem is,after much questioning on y he's finding it so difficult to tell his parents,he opened up to me dat he got bck with his x nd dey are planning on getting married in December shocked .

Am frm a very responsible home,if my mum gets to find out she would insist dat we get married(I dnt want it to look like am forcing him on me).
Am jst few months old in my first job after school,still tryin to settle.If my boss gets to find out its a 50/50 chance of me loosing my job.

Being a baby mama is nt an option for me. Do I keep dis baby n go to his parents or Get rid of it n move on with my life.

Tega4B:
Ok.Tx for Reading.

Av been in a relationship with my so called bf for about a year nw. Heaven knws I love him, about a month ago I got pregnant and he insisted dat I kip d pregnancy.

My problem is,after much questioning on y he's finding it so difficult to tell his parents,he opened up to me dat he got bck with his x nd dey are planning on getting married in December shocked .

Am frm a very responsible home,if my mum gets to find out she would insist dat we get married(I dnt want it to look like am forcing him on me).
Am jst few months old in my first job after school,still tryin to settle.If my boss gets to find out its a 50/50 chance of me loosing my job.

Being a baby mama is nt an option for me. Do I keep dis baby n go to his parents or Get rid of it n move on with my life.

You should have thought of 'not wanting to become a baby mama' when u were riding his cock. Why cry over spilled milk? Bikonu you know what to do.

Is that how you've been getting rid of yours?

CrazyQuinn:
Get rid ASAP if you know what is Good for your life

I dont knw if you will read my post but i will just ask a few questions: 1. are you God? 2. Do you knw why He offered you the unborn kid? 3. what if dats your only hope of being fruiful in life?(i pray not) you better think it right. maybe dats a LEADER in you. KEEP THE BABY!

yvelchstores:
its amazing how quick u are to tell her to" get rid of..." in order words, u are saying "kill that baby fast...." u shld really be careful. on behalf of d unborn child, receive forgiveness and pls no more

U dey mind her? Her monicker says it all