I feel your pains and confusion, I was once in this situation, it disorganized me, I listened a lot to friends and today I regret my decision, things has never been okay with me, and I have never been able to forgive myself....so don't be like me

If I may get you right from the context of you story, he insisted you keep the baby while he is planning to marry is ex by December? Wow! Come off the childish game , it is a logical means of telling you to get rid of the pregnancy or you become a baby mama. Reason very well and conclude in what is best for you.

Foolish girl keep it... Women and fvck are like Rice and stew

Tinalex:
@ Op,please get rid of that thing before one guy will spoil your life. Don't mind all those guys forming saint on their comment most of them already aborted 7pregnancies for their so called girlfriends and still did not marry them. They will now come to this forum forming "pillar of truth and uprightness".

I used to read your comments here on nairaland. They were quite brilliant

But I don't understand what happened to you tonight

Am disappointed sha

CrazyQuinn:
human beings make mistakes we are not perfect and this is one of those mistakes so are you saying we are not allowed to make mistakes again? No matter how stupid or expensive the mistake is, mistake is still a mistake

You drive or walk to a man's house. Take off your clothes. Take off your underwear. Get into his bed. Open your legs wider than 180 degrees. Do these steps repeatedly AND YOU CALL ALL THIS A MISTAKE!!!!!! Na wa ooooo

God i hate dis cos its mess u got ursf in2. D God fearing part in me keep telin me its a sin 2 abort coz u might b killing next wizkid bt d street mind is sayin d step is nt goin 2 b easy. Ur mum cant kill ya coz its a 9month tin. Face it chick it might b ur 1st or last baby.

femi4:
oya tell me......how many have you ??

how many have I what?

ur pregnancy might be the best thing & the happiest thing that might has ever happened to you, don't think of the trauma u are going to pass through or the stress... think of the consequence that might follow if u abort. don't even think about forcing yourself on the guy, take it as a cross that only you has to carry... think of the future, don't think of the present... lastly consult with the faith u acknowledge
wish u all the best

CrazyQuinn:
Amen

honestly, I'm mad at you for that post. You should take it down

CrazyQuinn:
So? sometimes in life you just have to sacrifice something for the benefit of many, it's called logic it will result to peace and prosperity

Like seriously?seriously?

Why not, if I was in her shoes my conscience will be very clear after the abortion and I will have peace

OLUJOSHINS:






U murder an innocent baby & U expect peace

twinskenny:



dont get rid of the baby... i will advice you keep it. hope he will agree to take care of you and the baby when u deliver... there is more to life after that.. dont commit sin.

you are naiv...i know,the woman always ends up alone with the child,struggling to survive...

nigeria doesnt have any laws i know that punish irrespossible men like him....

TrainingCEOs:


If by any chance, all you wrote above there are real??, I love you. As a matter of fact, i would love to marry you. Others wont understand me, but i know you would...

if you are considering an abortion there are 2 things involve, (1) its either you die during or after the abortion OR (2) your womb get damage 4ever, it does not matter if its your first abortion.
Pls do not abort it, you dont know what that child might become in future.

Chubhie:
That's murder

lol

Chubhie:
That's murder

lol

mimee9:
I feel your pains and confusion, I was once in this situation, it disorganized me, I listened a lot to friends and today I regret my decision, things has never been okay with me, and I have never been able to forgive myself....so don't be like me

i totaly understand u. GOD forgive us all

jessykings:

Like seriously?seriously?

Yes I'm serious

naniawini:
so u xpect her 2 kip it even wen it's soo glaring dat d guy doesn't hv any plans 4 her.

My sista pls get rid of it b4 1 useless guy subject u 2 pains

IT is not a rodent on Ur farm or a cockroach in Ur cupboard.


IT is a HUMAN BEING.

A happy baby with poppy cheeks, curly hair & a very loud cry.

A living soul with the potentials to do exploits.


My dear, don't be quick to condemn another human to a death sentence simply because U made a passionate mistake.



Haa, Omo seriously, to marry theses 21st century ladies is actually scary ooooooo


So if I make a mistake in my marriage, my wife will just wake up in the middle of the night & trust a knife into my enemies chest!!!

goingape1:
you shall know them (oloshi) those people who have aborted great men and women and ended up giving birth to imbec1le.

you are the generation of imbec1le which your mother had already given birth to.

So much hate just for a dissenting view ?
It is hypocritical for a "sinner" to feel that
he/she is better than other "sinners"

izzou:


Inasmuch as I don't agree with her comments, her parents shouldn't be brought into it

Seun, Lalasticlala, Dominique, Rocktation, Mynd44 must apologize to me if you no go exile

if her parents didn't brought her up the right way she would know that abortion is not an alternative to a solution.

her parents is into this.

@ Tega4B :
Keep the baby. When its born, give him up for adoption at an orphanage. Or make enquiries, do your research and find a couple looking for a baby to adopt.
Even if you have to take it to littlesaintsorphanage.org and lie that you found the baby somewhere. Please do not abort the child.


I also need you to examine the psychological effects the abortion will have on you. Depression, mental torture, and eventual suicide, etc often come as side effects of an abortion. Things like the baby's 'birthday' will disturb you for a long time. This is pure psychology I'm talking about here. I also suggest you watch a few abortion videos to know how its done, then decide if you want to carry through with it.


Taking the easy way out never solves anything.

goingape1:
you shall know them (oloshi) those people who have aborted great men and women and ended up giving birth to imbec1le.

you are the generation of imbec1le which your mother had already given birth to.

So much hate just for a dissenting view ?
By their fruits , you shall know them

WebSurfer:
honestly, I'm mad at you for that post. You should take it down

I'm so sorry thatt you feel mad at my post but I have no power to take it down

CrazyQuinn:
If I were in her shoes, it won't be worth it to me ..... and you are actually being selfish because the child will be traumatized emotionally for the rest of his/her life because he/she doesn't have a dad

DEVIL.

This kind risk is always expected from desperate girls.

CrazyQuinn:
Get rid ASAP if you know what is Good for your life

You're as crazy as your name. It's obvious...What if she dies in the process? What if that's the ONLY baby God has purposed for her life? If you were a man I would have been silent because women love children more than most irresponsible men do. SMH!

chineloSA:


You drive or walk to a man's house. Take off your clothes. Take off your underwear. Get into his bed. Open your legs wider than 180 degrees. Do these steps repeatedly AND YOU CALL ALL THIS A MISTAKE!!!!!! Na wa ooooo

are you any better? Scratch that..... Are you perfect?

TheManfromKenya:


lol

kenyan...ahhhhhhh..

i want to ask a question to a kenyan: why the hell are you kenyans sooo obsessesed in be better in something or whatever than nigerians??...


do you want to be better than us in pisssing and shiiting too??..why are you people soo obsessed with nigerians??..