freecocoa:
I know you to sabi mumu well well, no bring am near me at all, I dey beg you.

How can you even ask such a question? Mschew.

SmartChoices:


how is it greed? when a guy pretends he's loaded just to attract a female? is it by force?
did she open his purse to extract money? he spent out of freewill she should also be allowed to make her choice out of freewill please stop impugning things to the lady.....she's not at fault to trust a supposed friend! the trauma of rape is not something to be taken lightly!

Hmmmmmm fafafa fail, am a girl so as thus know d truth. D moment u know u want nothing to do with a guy den don't go accepting gifts from him. She accepted he's money, comfortably ate it, then foolishly went to he's house. She gave room for that to happen. Just as I am not in support of rape am also not in support of greed and stupidity. She got wat she asked for

exactly my point guy. I can't report my friend to the police but I really chastised him for his actions. The girl in question has even at some point tried to use my head.

My day has been so messed up. I went to see a friend of mine in his house. I was surprised the door wasn't locked and even the gate wasn't locked. I decided to help myself to a drink from his bar as soon as I entered the living room. As I was about serving myself, something told me to check on him in his room to see if he's there. As I approached his room I started hearing sounds. I decided to know what the noise was all about without making a sound.

Only for me to see a girl begging my friend to please have mercy on her and my friend was telling her to shut-up and comply. He was even beating the girl and have even torn her clothes. The girl was weeping bitterly and after about 20mins I decided to pretend I was just coming in by calling his name.

lozanni:


She tried to use your head? Forget about reporting to the Police, the girl na correct manipulator and runs babe.
I dont support rape, but the girl got.what she deserved.

My day has been so messed up. I went to see a friend of mine in his house. I was surprised the door wasn't locked and even the gate wasn't locked. I decided to help myself to a drink from his bar as soon as I entered the living room. As I was about serving myself, something told me to check on him in his room to see if he's there. As I approached his room I started hearing sounds. I decided to know what the noise was all about without making a sound.

Only for me to see a girl begging my friend to please have mercy on her and my friend was telling her to shut-up and comply. He was even beating the girl and have even torn her clothes. The girl was weeping bitterly and after about 20mins I decided to pretend I was just coming in by calling his name. He then told me to please wait for him in the living room. He joined me in the living room after about 10mins. I asked why he was breathing heavily and he told me that he just finished having sex with a girl. I confronted him with the truth and he opened up. He said he has been dating this girl for and that he has been spending money on her but she refused him sex. He said he used today's incident to recover all the money he has spent on her.

I'm really stuck between the devil and deep blue sea right now. The girl in question wants me to help report the issue to the police cos she's scared of being stigmatized. On the otherhand, the guy in question is my childhood friend. I can't imagine snitching on my homie and brother. I know it's wrong for him to have raped her but why would a girl be demanding for stuffs from a guy when she knows she's not willing to play ball.

VikingsOO7:

No normal human being will see a girl being raped and do nothing about it. Its just not normal. This is evil.

Regardless of the circumstance(s). It just doesn't make any sense. I honestly dunno how else to describe this act.

lozanni:


She tried to use your head? Forget about reporting to the Police, the girl na correct manipulator and runs babe.
I dont support rape, but the girl got.what she deserved.

freecocoa:
Wow! There's nothing I've not seen on NL and a woman wrote this, just wow!

I really doubt that people like this are remotely sane.

thekingisback:
From the Op's write-up, no crime whatsoever was committed here. I also noticed some of you here screaming NGOS and Human Rights activists should be contacted. Contacted over what? Was her hands or legs tied and taken to the guy's house? Why would she be collecting money and gifts if she knew she wasn't willing to return the favour? As for his friend, he committed no crime. He decided not to meddle in their business and the last time I checked that wasn't a crime under the Nigerian constitution.

daretodiffer:
You are a rapist sir!

Wtiukd you say you child list her bargaining rights if she starts making monetary demands? Did she put a gun to the Mo.rons head for the money.
Well , seems like monetary demands or not your poor girl may be raped too

Check my signature

sukkot:
its a very valid question though lolzzz. why you dey lafff ? cococandy go take corner eye dey look you after that laugh. ireneony has a point lolzzz. but hey ? dont shoot the messenger yall. am just the fly on the wall observing

RennyX:
All these st00pid and hungry girls be forming smart!

If you will not have sex then why depend on the guy to cater for you? This life is give and take. She can't tell me she didn't know what the guy wanted cos I'm dead sure he must have made signs. But she wanted to play sharp.

If someone is helping you in anyway and you know he/she will demand something from you that you can't give away then it's better and wiser to cut yourself off before it gets bad. But people are too greedy. They will want to keep eating and eating even when it's clear things may turn bad.

Abeg make we hear word!

abimic:
CrazyQuinn, yemsai.. ... what are your take on this.? .... .. .
I feel he shouldn't report, the guy erred as such should be consensual, but the lady goofed If she never bargained with the guy for a no sex relationship knowing fully well they were lovers. I feel the lady was just thinking she could play smart and use the guy's head by sucking him dry while being serviced by the other lover she has most definitely. Yorubas would say, whatever u won't eat, don't use your nose to smell it.. .. .

smellingmenses:

even in deactivation he can..he will....he must be traced and surely brought to justice... we do not condone rapes..... meanwhile his other moniker numericalguy is still active

CrazyQuinn:
I think the victim(girl) should report to the police, the guy was wrong for beating and forcefully engaging in sex without his partner's consent, the girl too is at fault for milking the guy without giving anything back. So both is at fault.