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Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by Anietie1: 4:09pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
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Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by dominique(f): 4:12pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
bukatyne: The message goes a long way in inspiring single mums that they can turn their lives around positively despite the stigma attached to their situation. Except if you think that a woman's biggest achievement in life is getting a man to marry her that you will say this story doesn't help single parents. 6 Likes |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by Teeshine: 4:14pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
there always be people to criticise...even if u are doing d right thin, pple will still raise their "not well constructed" nose... #i salute her courage sha# 2 Likes |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by Nobody: 4:15pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
This is a complete nonsense, @11 you were already comfortable having sex,your nothing but a corrupt child, your never a good example to the society and to our young girl child. Nothing is inspiring about this immoral story. 4 Likes |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by babyfaceafrica: 4:17pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
@Acidosis.....you have made a valid point...but feminist will never agree 3 Likes |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by kabrud: 4:19pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
gocac:She is success personified, stop ranting. U that started sex at 50, what have u achieved compared to her? 7 Likes |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by ateketom(m): 4:22pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
She de lie |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by dominique(f): 4:25pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
Acidosis: Her parents and grandmum all played a role in her success story, but she chose her son as her biggest inspiration. Deal with it 3 Likes |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by olubenjazzy(m): 4:26pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
She totally trained her mind to become something despite d situation around her. More Grace iJN |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by Acidosis(m): 4:28pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
dominique: ahahaha well done, a nice way to run away from the hard truth. 3 Likes |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by DANSANI2423(m): 4:36pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
SORRY LIFE AT 11 1 Like |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by Chikwado1991(m): 4:43pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
So a 11yrs old girl can be impregnated? Ayam coming |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by Nobody: 4:46pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
wow interesting, ur background or predicament shouldn't be the reason why ur back should touch the ground. stay focus! |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by forreelinc(m): 4:52pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
dollyjoy: That's so digusting! Who impregnates an 11year old? I guess Monsters really exist We thank God for her life tho, na the present wey matter the most 2 Likes |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by Fash20: 4:52pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
Joavid: You're not your dad. I'm very certain you dad wouldn't do that because at 11 years old you are still a baby you know nothing 1 Like |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by bsideboii(m): 4:52pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
Wow.... inspiring story. But at 11 damn she got pregnant at 10.Was her reproductive organs fully developed by then |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by Nobody: 4:52pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
Harbosede02:it's a possible risk.... depends on when she started menstruating and ovulating |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by 2mNaira: 4:53pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
Its nice of the women to support there fellow woman.If you dont't know that it is a big deal for A SINGLE MAN to marry a SUNGLE MUM in nigeria then it is most likely that you are a foreigner or you grew up outside Nigeria. It takes a lot of courage for a sungle man to marry a single mum. Even when you accept her she or both she and you may face rejection and persecution for that acceptance of her by you from ALL your folks. I sense that those saying its not a big deal are not being sincere. Some one said the world has moved on. I pray it is true,but the last time I checked it is not yet generally so in. Nigeria, and the last time I checked was 30mins ago. The most important reason why it is a big deal is because of the pre-existence of a child. Now if after a single mum gets married and says her son is her life and makes no mention of her husband. Itcls very true, like some said, that she is not helping the cause of the yet to be married single mums. Married single mums should additionally sing the praise of their husband so as to help men at the cross road to garner the courage and boldness to stay true to the single mum in their life that they have come to love. I really don't know about other parts of Nigeria, but in the west single mums and husbands of single mums are subtly stigmatized. So, when are man goes ahead to marry a single mum it is a courageous act that demostrates true love if that man was single and not a 'picked up' or 'helpless' or gold-digger man. As such the woman should not forget to appreciate him in addition to her child and others. 2 Likes |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by LorDBolton(m): 4:56pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
I must commend her popsy. He gave her a situational choice become useless or make something of yourself. She chose the latter. While some mumu here will open mouth to rationalise criminality n blame buhari. If a robber can loose sleep to carry gun at night and break into peeps crib what stops him from finding a gateman gig? 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by MedicalSamwise(m): 5:00pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
Acidosis: [color=#990000][/color] acidosis .. . Bro wetin b the pH of ur blood... |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by OLUWATILA: 5:05pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
So moral lesson:
Get pregnant early and stay focused abi. I yaff hearí ½í°°. Well I'm out. 2 Likes |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by eniolaamoda: 5:07pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
It like all of u dont even know what u r saying It seems u have forgotten this is nigeria U think it easy for a man to marry a woman with a child I swear forget wat u watch in movies It is hard for a man to adapt to d fact that his wives womanliness has been Mutilated, especially d fact she even has a son out of it, especially d fact she had d son at age 11. At 11 i am sure she did not give birth normally, it either her vagina was torn for d head to come out or something, Look d husvand will always have it in his mind dat she has a son at 11. Do u kno d insults d man wud hv takeN from His home about marrying a single mum, not just a single mum, but one who had a child at age 11... It seems u guys dint know d exact situation here. 3 Likes |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by Jethrolite(m): 5:10pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
Acidosis:It must be a mistake. |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by TV01(m): 5:12pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
Is it too difficult to parse situations with objectivity? The core question should be; is single parenthood a good thing? We are all touched and grateful for seemingly heart-warming stories such as this one. But for every one we can give thanks for, there are a hundred that left poorer outcomes for both the parent and child/ren involved. Is it overly difficult to separate the personal from policy? All the data is already in, single parenthood (and I refer mainly to wilful single-parenthood, not widowhood or rape, which in any event are a relative minority) underpins many social pathologies. It’s a major indicator of poverty, high-profile celebrity instances non-withstanding. It more likely to lead to issues for the children, especially as they approach their teenage years. Males being more likely to be delinquent, and females being more likely to be promiscuous, are two of the most well known outcomes. Search data for the presence of fathers in the lives of prison inmates. But there are numerous others, inter-alia, feelings of abandonment, self-worth/esteem issues, developmental and socialisation issues, poorer academic achievement, etc. And yes, for your average person it has to have a potential impact on future relationships; from the financial burden, babymama/dada issues, all around acceptance etc. The stigma surrounding single-parenthood may hurt, but at the societal level it is a protective mechanism, not intended to be wilfully malicious to individuals. There is a net cost, which society bears. It’s why families tread warily. Who grows up dreaming of being or marrying a single parent. And yes, women bear the brunt here, so it behoves them to act more circumspectly and, make wiser choices, as opposed to unthinking indignation and the push for its acceptance which seems to prevail here? Yes single parents should be given all the support possible, everything should be done to ameliorate the situation, especially to ensure positive outcomes for the child/ren. But no, single parenthood should not be sold as an attractive alternative to intact biological families, or even, as it seems to be today, preferable, even aspirational And in the rush to herald this, the intimacy at 11 seems to have gone singularly unremarked upon TV 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by Kosy79(f): 5:16pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
menix:Lmao! Guy u wicked oooo 1 Like |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by jokerphilics(m): 5:18pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
D son get Apollo abi Wetin dey do him eye. Snapping madness |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by hUmaneOne: 5:19pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
kabrud: My friend, it seems you have a comprehension problem common to those from a particular part of Nigeria who detest schooling. She didn't get married at 12. She fùcked illegally and got preggers, and was shunned by her folks who didn't agree with her ways. Sex between two immature folks isn't pedophilia. Sec between an adult and a child is pedophilia.okay. **** 3 Likes |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by Mayflowa(m): 5:30pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
Amelian: Too many complication. The other man's home is at risk of breakdown if the wife become aware. A whole first son women are afraid of. I hope she isn't sleeping with her ex. They shouldn't allow the love resurface 1 Like |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by sorepco(m): 5:30pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
I think u read some bits n pieces of the story but u did not comprehend a whole lot Acidosis: |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by temi2008: 5:32pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
The moral lesson of the story? |
Re: She Got Pregnant At 11 But Today She Is Married And Also A Masters Holder by luminouz(m): 5:34pm On Oct 01, 2016 |
zeb04:U well so? 1 Like |
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