Vinshu:
First, who confirmed that you are the dream man?

Do you communicate with her?

How often do you see her? Only when you have money to take her out? Or when you want to fvck?

Do you ask her questions? Do you have your eyes on her? Can she see you anytime she wish? Without you making 3 days arrangement?

Who loved who first? Did she even tell you she loved you? How did you fall in love ? What did she have? What do you have she fell in love with? What is her IQ? What is your own IQ?

What does she do? Where does she live? Do you know? Even if she is a student, are you guys living together? DO you observe her phone communications and social media? Is she even available on social media?
yeah
we were always togeda,
and she always told me i am the man she wants
and we did love eacgh oda
just baffled that she could still cheat

Did you love her or you lusted after her?

Answer the above questions then we can move forward.

If you cannot answer all at which you get stuck or "hang" in between, then sorry it's your fault she cheated.

Vinshu:
First, who confirmed that you are the dream man?

Do you communicate with her?

How often do you see her? Only when you have money to take her out? Or when you want to fvck?

Do you ask her questions? Do you have your eyes on her? Can she see you anytime she wish? Without you making 3 days arrangement?

Who loved who first? Did she even tell you she loved you? How did you fall in love ? What did she have? What do you have she fell in love with? What is her IQ? What is your own IQ?

What does she do? Where does she live? Do you know? Even if she is a student, are you guys living together? DO you observe her phone communications and social media? Is she even available on social media?
yeah
we were always togeda,
and she always told me i am the man she wants
and we did love eacgh oda
just baffled that she could still cheat.

Did you love her or you lusted after her?

Answer the above questions then we can move forward.

If you cannot answer all at which you get stuck or "hang" in between, then sorry it's your fault she cheated.

konklud22:
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Vinshu:
First, who confirmed that you are the dream man?

Do you communicate with her?

How often do you see her? Only when you have money to take her out? Or when you want to fvck?

Do you ask her questions? Do you have your eyes on her? Can she see you anytime she wish? Without you making 3 days arrangement?

Who loved who first? Did she even tell you she loved you? How did you fall in love ? What did she have? What do you have she fell in love with? What is her IQ? What is your own IQ?

What does she do? Where does she live? Do you know? Even if she is a student, are you guys living together? DO you observe her phone communications and social media? Is she even available on social media?

Did you love her or you lusted after her?

Answer the above questions then we can move forward.

If you cannot answer all at which you get stuck or "hang" in between, then sorry it's your fault she cheated.

Vinshu:


Nope. It's not adequate and material enough.

Sorry it's your fault.

konklud22:

okay
buh we neva had any ish about material wateva
like i said, i was not perfect
but does it really justify d fact dat dey bleeped someone else?

Vinshu:


No it doesn't. Cheating is bad.

However, you may not have been a man! You may have been a bf only available when you wana lay or when you want to be around.

Most men who dated one girl for long and ended in marriage, go check.. they ensured there was a difference between wife material and side chick. Yes she is a gf but If you held her like a wife, she won't do jack if she loves you truly. She won't have any reason to. At which you provide whatever anyone else may want to use. Especially good sex.

If you did that, she would be the one asking you to go see her dad. But if you didn't she would take you as just another guy. So it's your fault.

Period

konklud22:

I said earlier DAT I was not perfect.
buh wat if I told u I was great for em
always choosing dem first ova friends ..
and d sex part
lol
it doesn't get better when u are wit me!!
and dey did Invite me ova to their families
the thing is, the way I find out always looks crazy,
d first one was weird
she Neva expected it
buh she told the guy she has someone she loves and wants to b wit, and d guy told my gee all DAT, she even told him my name
my question is if she loved me to DAT extent
why cheat??

Laveda:
So, you're the dream man, how you know that?
One thing I know for sure is, we've all got our flaws, don't act like you're just perfect..

I detest cheating anyway, but in this case where so many have been cheating on you, you need to sit and ask yourself questions if you really getting it right.

Vinshu:


Why did the guy go ahead after hearing all that from her?

Also, maybe you were not romantic enough. It's not like I'm justifying her actions but you faulted somewhere. No one is perfect but we work towards perfection. And working towards perfection means locating our faults and fixing things to be better next time.

The way you handled Girl A and she cheated, if you handle Girl B same way, she would cheat too. It's not a women thing. It's you. Did you bother asking her why she did that? I guess not. Instead you come to nairaland

I know a guy that used force on his girl. As much as she hated his strict nature(no Facebook, no party, bla bla), she loved him still and no room to cheat. They are married now. At least his own worked for him. He may have been Mr Nice guy before and when it didn't work, he changed gear.

Vinshu:


Why did the guy go ahead after hearing all that from her?

Also, maybe you were not romantic enough. It's not like I'm justifying her actions but you faulted somewhere. No one is perfect but we work towards perfection. And working towards perfection means locating our faults and fixing things to be better next time.

The way you handled Girl A and she cheated, if you handle Girl B same way, she would cheat too. It's not a women thing. It's you. Did you bother asking her why she did that? I guess not. Instead you come to nairaland

I know a guy that used force on his girl. As much as she hated his strict nature(no Facebook, no party, bla bla), she loved him still and no room to cheat. They are married now. At least his own worked for him. He may have been Mr Nice guy before and when it didn't work, he changed gear.

konklud22:

okay
so I have faults
and I ll always av emm
buh does it justify cheating
lemme ask u
if ur guy has his faults which u know of and still decide to love him
would u still consider cheating?

WackyJ1:
What kinda of rubbish talk is this Vinshu saying?

The girl cheated and it's the guy's fault for not doing something right?
That's the problem with majority of your females. There must always be one exact way to handle them to make sure they don't cheat.

Either you give them, just the right amount of attention, or you give them money, or good sex or whatever and if you don't do that, they will Cheat.

There is no perfect guy out there. Forget all that nonsense about striving to perfection. At the end of the day she will get married to someone that is no more perfect than he is.
If there are things he lacks, why didn't she bring it up with him? Discuss and them adjust knowing that she too isn't perfect.

What do you mean by you weren't romantic enough?
How old are you?

You want him to be laying our a red carpet with roses when she goes on dates with him eveey single time?
The girl will still cheat!

konklud22:

okay
buh bliv me most ladies would still cheat even if u chop off ur head for emm
I av been wit some good ones too
just dis two cases DAT seem so strange to me cos I Rilly saw us happenin
buh it is wat it is
cheats will always be cheats
and dey would always tryna justify it by claiming u are not doing enof

Vinshu:


He works on them whenever they are identified. And they are identified because he communicates with me.

Do you communicate with your woman? If you don't communicate she won't tell you anything.

Vinshu:


He works on them whenever they are identified. And they are identified because he communicates with me.

Do you communicate with your woman? If you don't communicate she won't tell you anything.

konklud22:

and who told. u I didn't work towards my faults??
I did
buh like I said
cheats will always be cheats

WackyJ1:


You didn't finish what happened with the first girl..
Did you confront her with what you found out?
What did she say about it?
Come finish up jor

Vinshu:


Do you even know the faults? By communicate, I don't mean

"Baby how are you? Have you eaten? How was yourday "

"How was the night? Did you like the sex?"

NO!

I mean crucial discussions. Even discussions that can shake the relationship the moment you are having the discussions. Have you ever cared to ask her if she likes your d!ck? A silly question yes, but have you asked? I guess no.

Have you cared to ask what she really wants in a man? No. You think you have it because she just said some things.

CindyeMerAld:
dream man ko,sleep man ni...
If u were really her dream man,nothing wld ve made her cheat on you...
At ur siggy,i concur..she is dating you cos she is foolish..#heart broken pus*y niccur.

konklud22:
I will just let your own wahala pass

Vinshu:
First, who confirmed that you are the dream man?

Do you communicate with her?

How often do you see her? Only when you have money to take her out? Or when you want to fvck?

Do you ask her questions? Do you have your eyes on her? Can she see you anytime she wish? Without you making 3 days arrangement?

Who loved who first? Did she even tell you she loved you? How did you fall in love ? What did she have? What do you have she fell in love with? What is her IQ? What is your own IQ?

What does she do? Where does she live? Do you know? Even if she is a student, are you guys living together? DO you observe her phone communications and social media? Is she even available on social media?

Did you love her or you lusted after her?

Answer the above questions then we can move forward.

If you cannot answer all at which you get stuck or "hang" in between, then sorry it's your fault she cheated.

Vinshu:
First, who confirmed that you are the dream man?

Do you communicate with her?

How often do you see her? Only when you have money to take her out? Or when you want to fvck?

Do you ask her questions? Do you have your eyes on her? Can she see you anytime she wish? Without you making 3 days arrangement?

Who loved who first? Did she even tell you she loved you? How did you fall in love ? What did she have? What do you have she fell in love with? What is her IQ? What is your own IQ?

What does she do? Where does she live? Do you know? Even if she is a student, are you guys living together? DO you observe her phone communications and social media? Is she even available on social media?

Did you love her or you lusted after her?

Answer the above questions then we can move forward.

If you cannot answer all at which you get stuck or "hang" in between, then sorry it's your fault she cheated.

konklud22:

lol
lemme ask u
av u ever begged ur guy not to cum even after almost two hours of passionate ssx
cos dats wat she says anytime I hit d damn spot so good .
just so u know
our sx life was a chart topper!!!
or do u need a video evidence ni
lol
buh even after all my jet li bed skills
wat did I get
cheating wit some 5mins dude

Vinshu:


@embolden did she confirm your s3X life was a chart topper? Or you think it was because she always ask you not to cum means it was so great? And has she ever admitted after the sex how satisfied she was?

Lol I am a lady bro. You can never estimate women or think ahead. If it's not admitted verbally, it's not what you think.