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HungerBAD:
Interesting.

I mean to me,you did everything right except for the Konga thing you paid for.

I do not know you,but a man has to be very principled about a lot of things in his life.

It is okay for a man to say "NO" without explaining why. If a lady orders something without telling me,I will not pay for it,as I will not only consider that insultive,but I will feel she is also taking my simplicity for stupidity.

To the OP, I feel you had a part to play in this girl wanting to take you for a ride too. Women are not stupid,and are good at sizing up guys,and if they sense you are the type that can be toyed with,then they will go in for the kill.

This has nothing to do with whether you live in Nigeria or not. You can still be in Nigeria,and a lot of women will still do the same thing to you,from the odd asking for recharge cards to asking you to pay their school fees,or like one asked my friend,build a house for her parents.

And the sad thing,Is that when you get to know who she is in love with,he would probably be some dude,who still lives with his parents/squatting some where,and whatever they get from you and other guys,they spend on him.

Lastly,you know Imo State has a reputation for not just being the State with the highest bride price in Nigeria. But that Owerri girls,are very money conscious and materialistic people.

Next time look for a Kogi,Benue,Plateau and Mostly Northern ladies. They are not materialistic,and honestly will not give you headache,and yes I am a Niger Deltan saying this.

No Ishilove, I am not cheating on you with any Northerner I swear.Na who tell you?

obiwigan21:
Ok, guys, my story is this..... I am based in Europe, so the last time i came into Naija in 2012, i met this pretty babe... We have known each other since beginning of 2011 via face-book, so we met for the first time in 2012 when i came in. This babe is very pretty and i really liked her a lot!, but the problem is that she has a very serious boyfriend then and because of that we couldn't date. I went back to my base and we still remain very good friends. She tells me everything in her relationship and all that. Finally she broke up with her boyfriend and it was a very bad breakup that hurt her so much and probably because that i guess she joined the bad girl click, called naija runz girls.... but i did not know about her change in behaviour.... Fast forward to June this year, i came back again to Nigeria and apart from the contract i came to seal, she was one of the main reasons i came back.... I really had very good intention towards her.... i brought with me a lot of gifts for her and i always call her on the phone and send almost every day nice romantic text messg. and i told her so many times on the phone how much i missed her and cant wait to be with her again.
She is based in Owerri, but i flew in into Lagos and i had to fix some little things in Lagos , before moving to Owerri to meet her. While i was in Lagos, i started noticing some things about her.... one day she called me and said a courier from Konga and Jumia will be bringing some stuffs for to my hotel and i should pay them 50k for the stuffs and she will take them from me when i come in.... Well, 50k, is not really big amount, i was like she should have discussed this with me 1st before sending some random courier guys to bring something to my hotel and i have to pay for them too. Well, to cut long story short, i paid for her stuffs and i brought them with me to meet her in Owerri. When i got into my hotel in Owerri, i called her to come and she came with 4 other girls and though i was very tired after my flight, she pushed me to take her and her friends out.... This babes ate like they have never eaten before.... they ordered everything they could lay their eyes on and even some take away too. Finally, after her friends have gone, we were alone in my hotel room, and we got talking... She told me that she is not interested to have a relationship with me... that all she wants is just fun. i was very disappointed to hear this from her, because, i really like her and i wanted something more than just fun with her.... I tried to explain to her about my good intentions towards her, and she keep saying, all men are same, i dont want to have any relationship with you.... Then she said, i know that you want to sleep with me, but before you touch me, you will take me to a shop where i want to buy cloths and i will pick whatever i want and then you can fuxk me after.... i got pissed up after i heard that from her and i said well, its already late now, so we will go tomorrow but meanwhile, i tried to play with her and touch her, and she pushed me away and said, you will touch me after i have bought what i want to buy tomorrow.... Then i lost it.... i left alone through out that night and when we woke up in the morning, i asked her to leave my room that i am going out.... and she asked me what about the stuffs i bought for her from Lagos... I told i have changed my mind and i will not give it to her, i even showed her other good stuffs i brought for her from Europe, but i refused to give her any of them.... She got so upset, she cursed me and abused me and then she defrined me from fb and blocked on whatzapp.... So guys, if you were in my shoes... will you do same??

HungerBAD:
Interesting.

I mean to me,you did everything right except for the Konga thing you paid for.

I do not know you,but a man has to be very principled about a lot of things in his life.

It is okay for a man to say "NO" without explaining why. If a lady orders something without telling me,I will not pay for it,as I will not only consider that insultive,but I will feel she is also taking my simplicity for stupidity.

To the OP, I feel you had a part to play in this girl wanting to take you for a ride too. Women are not stupid,and are good at sizing up guys,and if they sense you are the type that can be toyed with,then they will go in for the kill.

This has nothing to do with whether you live in Nigeria or not. You can still be in Nigeria,and a lot of women will still do the same thing to you,from the odd asking for recharge cards to asking you to pay their school fees,or like one asked my friend,build a house for her parents.

And the sad thing,Is that when you get to know who she is in love with,he would probably be some dude,who still lives with his parents/squatting some where,and whatever they get from you and other guys,they spend on him.

Lastly,you know Imo State has a reputation for not just being the State with the highest bride price in Nigeria. But that Owerri girls,are very money conscious and materialistic people.

Next time look for a Kogi,Benue,Plateau and Mostly Northern ladies. They are not materialistic,and honestly will not give you headache,and yes I am a Niger Deltan saying this.

No Ishilove, I am not cheating on you with any Northerner I swear.

makydebbie:
girls like that exist?



guys like you exist?

LadyB1195:
Am here 4 u, let me ease your pains and make you 4get all about her. Winks

Thanks sweery, please come with condom

Lawlahdey:
I wonder oh Op Op

makydebbie:
you no trust am shey

Lawlahdey:
Ahbi iyaff trust him nih

makydebbie:
the story no follow to me

Lawlahdey:
i know right?

ErnieSmallzz:
bet why are some girls like this na?

obiwigan21:
Ok, guys, my story is this..... I am based in Europe, so the last time i came into Naija in 2012, i met this pretty babe... We have known each other since beginning of 2011 via face-book, so we met for the first time in 2012 when i came in. This babe is very pretty and i really liked her a lot!, but the problem is that she has a very serious boyfriend then and because of that we couldn't date. I went back to my base and we still remain very good friends. She tells me everything in her relationship and all that. Finally she broke up with her boyfriend and it was a very bad breakup that hurt her so much and probably because that i guess she joined the bad girl click, called naija runz girls.... but i did not know about her change in behaviour.... Fast forward to June this year, i came back again to Nigeria and apart from the contract i came to seal, she was one of the main reasons i came back.... I really had very good intention towards her.... i brought with me a lot of gifts for her and i always call her on the phone and send almost every day nice romantic text messg. and i told her so many times on the phone how much i missed her and cant wait to be with her again.
She is based in Owerri, but i flew in into Lagos and i had to fix some little things in Lagos , before moving to Owerri to meet her. While i was in Lagos, i started noticing some things about her.... one day she called me and said a courier from Konga and Jumia will be bringing some stuffs for to my hotel and i should pay them 50k for the stuffs and she will take them from me when i come in.... Well, 50k, is not really big amount, i was like she should have discussed this with me 1st before sending some random courier guys to bring something to my hotel and i have to pay for them too. Well, to cut long story short, i paid for her stuffs and i brought them with me to meet her in Owerri. When i got into my hotel in Owerri, i called her to come and she came with 4 other girls and though i was very tired after my flight, she pushed me to take her and her friends out.... This babes ate like they have never eaten before.... they ordered everything they could lay their eyes on and even some take away too. Finally, after her friends have gone, we were alone in my hotel room, and we got talking... She told me that she is not interested to have a relationship with me... that all she wants is just fun. i was very disappointed to hear this from her, because, i really like her and i wanted something more than just fun with her.... I tried to explain to her about my good intentions towards her, and she keep saying, all men are same, i dont want to have any relationship with you.... Then she said, i know that you want to sleep with me, but before you touch me, you will take me to a shop where i want to buy cloths and i will pick whatever i want and then you can fuxk me after.... i got pissed up after i heard that from her and i said well, its already late now, so we will go tomorrow but meanwhile, i tried to play with her and touch her, and she pushed me away and said, you will touch me after i have bought what i want to buy tomorrow.... Then i lost it.... i left alone through out that night and when we woke up in the morning, i asked her to leave my room that i am going out.... and she asked me what about the stuffs i bought for her from Lagos... I told i have changed my mind and i will not give it to her, i even showed her other good stuffs i brought for her from Europe, but i refused to give her any of them.... She got so upset, she cursed me and abused me and then she defrined me from fb and blocked on whatzapp.... So guys, if you were in my shoes... will you do same??

IamLEGEND1:
Na because she see say you no razz wella.
make she try that nonsense_with homeboys..... I no go give am the gift,come rob her join.
Where she been dey when boys dey waka with no shoe for street?
I hustle my money,then you wan come obtain my moola with pùssy wey God give you for free.
dem no born am well

knc:
Baba op plz give me her contact abeg make I do on your behalf. Owerri na our own no worry will give u live score just her contact will do

Hungry girls claiming wise

LadyB1195:
Am here 4 u, let me ease your pains and make you 4get all about her.
Winks

Samyj247:
see u are u an IMO girl? see en I wherever u go, people hv been condemning IMO girls but I always opposed them saying that not all of them are like that just bcus I kno 3 IMO girls that seems different but to my surprise when I came closer to them, they showed me that everything that people say abt them is true. All of them are the same. guys b warned b4 it will b too late. IMO girls are not for marriage if u marry them u do that at ur own risk u go tire for ur marriage.

Piercedclit:
All generations are false. How can you say imo girls like you've been with everyone of them? Well na una sabi

Piercedclit:
Sharp geh No time to waste time!

Samyj247:
if u like allow ur brother to marry an IMO girl maybe u will also enter the generalization team. Are u an IMO girl?

Presh900:
Actually sir you made a very stupid generalization, I am 4rm Imo and i have been living there 4 years. He met a runz girl and it will be a fallacy to use a runz girl and judge all girls in Imo.. There are runz girls in every state as well as decent girls. Thank you

Samyj247:
lols u are seriously not serious. I didn't make any generalization I made my decisions based on evidence from what I have heard nd seen these are pure facts. if u check all the story on Nairaland that involves girls misbehaving u will discover that 80% of the girls involved are from IMO state, if u go to d street u will see IMO girls misbehaving especially interns of ashawo. mind even after hearing all this stories, I have been defending IMO girls for many years saying that it is not good to generalize but for me to also see IMO girls as not good for marriage then u have to believe every negative things u hear abt the IMO girls.

Presh900:
Yea..i agree imo has a large percentage of runz girls bt yuu saying imo girls are not good for marriage is very bad, there are many decent girls in imo,its just unfortunate that the few indecent ones are the ones you guys get to meet

obiwigan21:
Ok, guys, my story is this..... I am based in Europe, so the last time i came into Naija in 2012, i met this pretty babe... We have known each other since beginning of 2011 via face-book, so we met for the first time in 2012 when i came in. This babe is very pretty and i really liked her a lot!, but the problem is that she has a very serious boyfriend then and because of that we couldn't date. I went back to my base and we still remain very good friends. She tells me everything in her relationship and all that. Finally she broke up with her boyfriend and it was a very bad breakup that hurt her so much and probably because that i guess she joined the bad girl click, called naija runz girls.... but i did not know about her change in behaviour.... Fast forward to June this year, i came back again to Nigeria and apart from the contract i came to seal, she was one of the main reasons i came back.... I really had very good intention towards her.... i brought with me a lot of gifts for her and i always call her on the phone and send almost every day nice romantic text messg. and i told her so many times on the phone how much i missed her and cant wait to be with her again.
She is based in Owerri, but i flew in into Lagos and i had to fix some little things in Lagos , before moving to Owerri to meet her. While i was in Lagos, i started noticing some things about her.... one day she called me and said a courier from Konga and Jumia will be bringing some stuffs for to my hotel and i should pay them 50k for the stuffs and she will take them from me when i come in.... Well, 50k, is not really big amount, i was like she should have discussed this with me 1st before sending some random courier guys to bring something to my hotel and i have to pay for them too. Well, to cut long story short, i paid for her stuffs and i brought them with me to meet her in Owerri. When i got into my hotel in Owerri, i called her to come and she came with 4 other girls and though i was very tired after my flight, she pushed me to take her and her friends out.... This babes ate like they have never eaten before.... they ordered everything they could lay their eyes on and even some take away too. Finally, after her friends have gone, we were alone in my hotel room, and we got talking... She told me that she is not interested to have a relationship with me... that all she wants is just fun. i was very disappointed to hear this from her, because, i really like her and i wanted something more than just fun with her.... I tried to explain to her about my good intentions towards her, and she keep saying, all men are same, i dont want to have any relationship with you.... Then she said, i know that you want to sleep with me, but before you touch me, you will take me to a shop where i want to buy cloths and i will pick whatever i want and then you can fuxk me after.... i got pissed up after i heard that from her and i said well, its already late now, so we will go tomorrow but meanwhile, i tried to play with her and touch her, and she pushed me away and said, you will touch me after i have bought what i want to buy tomorrow.... Then i lost it.... i left alone through out that night and when we woke up in the morning, i asked her to leave my room that i am going out.... and she asked me what about the stuffs i bought for her from Lagos... I told i have changed my mind and i will not give it to her, i even showed her other good stuffs i brought for her from Europe, but i refused to give her any of them.... She got so upset, she cursed me and abused me and then she defrined me from fb and blocked on whatzapp.... So guys, if you were in my shoes... will you do same??