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Re: Why Are You Still Single? by creativity4real: 9:28pm On Oct 21, 2016
Presh900:
babe,if thah is you on ya dp,i won't mind dating you....u're my lost rib
ofcourse she's the one...we leave on the same street at emmm!!
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by Nobody: 9:29pm On Oct 21, 2016
Aderola15:

Lol. I'm actually taking my timecheesy, finding it hard to love even the good guys embarassed

I will like to send you a pm
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by mrsfavour(f): 9:32pm On Oct 21, 2016
Next month wil make my union 10years. singles pls pair up. kiss Next month wil make my union 10years. singles pls pair up.

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Re: Why Are You Still Single? by crown08(m): 9:32pm On Oct 21, 2016
Because Its Worth It.
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by zionwest(m): 9:34pm On Oct 21, 2016
Stalker365:
Nobody likes me cry
no one will..until you stop stalkin'
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by creativity4real: 9:35pm On Oct 21, 2016
dasparrow:


See epistle. I have always wondered why Nigerians are so obsessed with other people's relationship status? Like how does that affect the price of fish in the market? Newsflash, your country Nigeria is going down the abyss, your currency is turning into a worthless piece of paper, your leaders have no clue what the hell they're doing, prices of food stuff are going through the roof leaving many Nigerian families hungry and all you are worried about is why a person is single? Alright, here are some reasons why some people are single:

1. They do better on their own than in a team.

2. They have not found that special person that they can picture spending the rest of their lives with.

3. They hate or abhor sex and as such cannot be in a relationship where sexual intercourse will be required of them.

4. They were sexually abused either as children or adults and as such, they don't trust people with their bodies.

5. For religious reasons: They want to spread the good news of the kingdom of God like Apostle Paul in the bible did and being in a relationship will be a distraction for them.

6. They just don't want marriage, period.

7. They are afraid of contracting sexually transmitted diseases especially at the rate with which people cheat on their significant others in relationships nowadays. This especially seems to be the case in Nigeria where most married men cheat on their wives at some point anyways. We all know abstinence is the best form of protection from those nasty sexually transmitted diseases and unwanted pregnancies.

8. They don't want to fornicate and most people nowadays require that you Bleep them once you choose to date them so they choose to remain single rather than offend God and risk hell fire after death.

9. They want to focus on their studies or career for now and don't need any distraction.

10. They are not emotionally ready for any relationship right now.

11. They are gay and being in a same-sex relationship here in Nigeria will land them in jail for 14 years. So they rather stay single rather than date someone of the opposite gender whom they are not sexually attracted to.

So there you have it. The above are some reasons why people are single or have chosen to remain single and we should all learn to respect their choice. After all, pressuring anyone into a relationship they are not ready for helps no one.
madness or better still Trumpism! grin
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by Nobody: 9:35pm On Oct 21, 2016
Being singlemakes me free...no one cares about me and I care about nobody
I don't have to scare guys away with the "am seeing someone" talk
U know? While am free am also focused cool
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by JeffreyJamez(m): 9:35pm On Oct 21, 2016
Not interested in dating till further notice grin
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by Saint52(m): 9:37pm On Oct 21, 2016
kaboninc:


Your sins are haunting and hunting you bro
Thank you.
But i love my girl and she loves me, more than anyone.... She is not very good in loving. even if another guy buy`s Range Rover for her, she will still be with me, something similar to that has happen. she is still with me, We lived together in a Room and parlor, before we graduated for 2yrs.
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by Topestbilly(m): 9:38pm On Oct 21, 2016
Iamhatey:
I'm still single because guys are complicated.
I'm afraid I will be faithful and he will cheat on me.
I'm afraid that he will change to something else.
Im afraid that after all the fvcking and all that, he won't marry me angry sad

Hatey!!! U can lie for Africa, bet why? U told me it will happen soon, now u saying u're single...
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by creativity4real: 9:39pm On Oct 21, 2016
Talk2Bella:


And you accuse me of writing an epistle cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
abi?like trying to get a peck out of your eyes when he's got a log in his... cheesy

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Re: Why Are You Still Single? by bobbybrown007: 9:40pm On Oct 21, 2016
Talk2Bella:
Don’t you get tired when people ask you this question? But here I am asking you, why are you single? Most people don’t know being single sometimes is a choice, but what’s a choice without a purpose or a reason? If you don’t know why you’re single then you need to know why no one is asking you out.


Everyone these days is single, a guy comes up to you and says he’s single, you know this very pretty girl and she tells you she’s single and you open your mouth in awe because you don’t believe such a beaut could be single.


What is the reason behind that decision you’ve taken to be single


Work?


Heartbreak?


Sexual preference?


Finance?


Time?


Lack of a dating type?


Honesty?


Location?


School?


Waiting on someone to notice you?


Age?


Gender?


Lack of interest?


Self-Searching?


Character?


Family Background?



Tell me your reason and purpose, being single is no fun without a purpose, it sometimes lead to depression, envy, suicidal thoughts and lonesome nights.


You begin to question yourself and your existence, most people who always scream team single {without a purpose} are dying inside, they need that companionship, someone to talk to, someone to listen to, someone to touch, someone to play with, they just need someone and most times because there’s a lack of someone they begin to give everyone a chance which becomes a cycle and leads to more heartbreak and then we hear the Forever Single Phrase all over again.


You need to know why you’re single, there’s enough people in the world to go around for everyone, heck people are getting married every Saturday, every day, and you’re there scream “SINGLE LADIES” “SINGLE MEN CREW” wake up, you need help ASAP screaming Team No Hoes won’t alleviate the loneliness you feel inside, screaming Team No Dykes won’t make you feel any better, you need a purpose for being single or without that you’re just someone who isn’t able to get a man or a woman.


While I was in the University, I didn’t date, not that I didn’t have a play companion, I just didn’t want anything serious because I wanted to finish school without distractions and I saw that as one, and when I finished school I said nah, I need a job before I’d date, no one wants to date a liability, when I finally got a job I was ready to date, I did for a while and realized I wanted more things in life than dating and I went for it.


This isn’t a write-up to make you feel bad, for everything there’s a season and a reason and without these you’re just floating on the plane of reality, not making an impact, not contributing, you’re just sliding in and out without realizing how opaque your life is.


This doesn’t apply to dating alone, why do you do the things you do? What’s the reason behind the purpose that’s motivating you? Don’t forget to drop your comment and encourage someone.


Thanks.


Isabella Ibeji


Talk2Bella

http://www.talk2bella.com/2016/10/why-are-you-still-single.html?m=1
nah money ooooooooo and also character of the girl, but at times I find it difficult to meet them because at the end of their statement is am not your type and also most of the girls are dying for one fine bobo
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by smallmufta(f): 9:41pm On Oct 21, 2016
am single new cos am yet to meet d man dat completes me..d one who wud love and accept me for who I am..I believe dat special one is out dere and we shal meet wen d tym is ryt or rather wen we re destined to meet.
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by adedehinbo(m): 9:42pm On Oct 21, 2016
am single because
1.am always shy to talk to girls
2.am single because the ones I want doesn't want me nd the ones who wants me I dont want them
3.afraid of being rejected
4.single because am tired of dating girls who are only interested in money not love but every one who sees me never knew m still single

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Re: Why Are You Still Single? by emprorfk(m): 9:43pm On Oct 21, 2016
no love loss.... no love fund.... love is dead
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by Nobody: 9:43pm On Oct 21, 2016
grin
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by Johnsown1(m): 9:44pm On Oct 21, 2016
ItsQuinn:
Can't remember the last time I was single cheesy
What!!!, i was even trying to toast u but ur statement changed my thought,
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by idesylvester(m): 9:44pm On Oct 21, 2016
Iamhatey:
I'm still single because guys are complicated.

I'm afraid I will be faithful and he will cheat on me.
I'm afraid that he will change to something else.
Im afraid that after all the fvcking and all that, he won't marry me angry sad
permit me to love n b faithful to u
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by creativity4real: 9:45pm On Oct 21, 2016
JackieMay:

and I'm how old?
e tire me ooo!
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by Immorttal: 9:47pm On Oct 21, 2016
Marriage is overated.

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Re: Why Are You Still Single? by Johnsown1(m): 9:47pm On Oct 21, 2016
I think is not always cool being single but what am i gonna do.
I have not seen the ideal lady for my liking,
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by Taryur3(m): 9:47pm On Oct 21, 2016
Aderola15:
I don't even know why I'm single lipsrsealed cheesy
There is 3days crusade going on in Abeokuta...titled.."i won't be single before the end of 2016".Rush and grab your husband
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by creativity4real: 9:47pm On Oct 21, 2016
youngestmilly:
I swr I can't do dat to u. Av been sayin dis from d beginning. I'll Bleep u right nd treat u right
the more reason why she shoudn't date you dude!must you bleep a girl b4 marrying her?haba
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by tete7000(m): 9:49pm On Oct 21, 2016
OBTSubtle:
what pain?




Thanks smiley

You are welcome.

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Re: Why Are You Still Single? by creativity4real: 9:50pm On Oct 21, 2016
kessco:



how crazy are you?
to a fault i guess! grin
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by Djbond(m): 9:50pm On Oct 21, 2016
Brandnewme:
Being singlemakes me free...no one cares about me and I care about nobody
I don't have to scare guys away with the "am seeing someone" talk
U know? While am free am also focused cool
truth
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by Taryur3(m): 9:51pm On Oct 21, 2016
JackieMay:
I'm still looking for a guy that's 6 feet tall, cute, not fat, not necessarily with 6 packs, not necessarily rich, but not a parasite biko, sweet, charming, romantic, faithful, calm, smart, fun. and must speak at least three foreign languages. interested candidates, please apply grin
Aanu aiye re n shemi...just simply wait till you are 41 biko...
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by sekundosekundo: 9:51pm On Oct 21, 2016
OBTSubtle:
Dating is a waste of time, you spend money and time on someone you might never marry.. The unthankful bitçh still sometimes has the nerve to bitçh to you about little things..


Fuçking annoying..

100% right, each time I remember how foolish I was by dating those girls, wasting my money and risking my life and that of my unborn children I begin to hate my self for being that stupid. I even trained one in school yet I didn't marry her. May God show me Mercy for my past foolishness. I'M NOT HAPPY RT NOW.

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Re: Why Are You Still Single? by Djbond(m): 9:53pm On Oct 21, 2016
adedehinbo:
am single because
1.am always shy to talk to girls
2.am single because the ones I want doesn't want me nd the ones who wants me I dont want them
3.afraid of being rejected
4.single because am tired of dating girls who are only interested in money not love but every one who sees me never knew m still single
dude you nailed it,, we're in same shoes

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Re: Why Are You Still Single? by Blessograo(f): 9:53pm On Oct 21, 2016
You right about us dying inside but sometimes been single is better than been heart shattered not even heartbroken. If you ask my reason for been single they are so much and here are few of them:
Heartbroken
Time
Location: sometimes the closest you me is 4 hrs drive now it's worst that I'm outta the country
School
Character
Scared of been attached.
Profession too: military men are the only ones asking me out
Sometimes i actually try to accept a date but at the last minute i realize i can't for reasons like what if he's not into me, what if I'm misunderstanding his kind gesture, what if thus is not the real him, what if this and that. Probably due to my last break up, the guy introduced me to his family and later sent me a picture of her and someone else on bed grin

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Re: Why Are You Still Single? by Nobody: 9:53pm On Oct 21, 2016
I'm not married if that's what you're thinking smiley
Johnsown1:

What!!!, i was even trying to toast u but ur statement changed my thought,
Re: Why Are You Still Single? by Topestbilly(m): 9:56pm On Oct 21, 2016
TerrorSquad147:
yea, free from nagging, free from having to bother my mind concerning one beautiful girl that I know how stiff the competition was before getting her, I'm still building my career, free from being monitored all the time...etc. I'll still get into another relationship, but for now lemme b enjoying freedom and peace of mind cool

Seconded.

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