hibiscus76:
Nawa oo..bros no vex but you don't know me naa..this generalization is just what I hate about some guys... both those that haven't even experienced hurt are ranting...listen Mr, beauty isn't a yardstick for immorality, neither is ugliness an attribute of a virtuous lady...you're like the 1000th person calling me a sex worker cuz of the looks I don't even know when God gave me.. change your perspective sir..plzz

Lol. People are funny.

Anyway, look at it this way.

Falling in love is a whole lot like falling asleep. When you are awake around 1a.m unable to sleep, the worst thing you can do is to start fretting about How you'd like to sleep and trying to force yourself to sleep. It won't work.

But If you take your mind off it and pick up a book and start reading, sleep comes.

Same thing with love. Take your mind off it. Develop yourself. Learn some new skills, piano, cooking gourmet, lawn tennis, chess etc and see If you won't meet the right person.

Love is what happens when you're not expecting it.

ElsonMorali:


Lol. People are funny.

Anyway, look at it this way.

Falling in love is a whole lot like falling asleep. When you are awake around 1a.m unable to sleep, the worst thing you can do is to start fretting about How you'd like to sleep and trying to force yourself to sleep. It won't work.

But If you take your mind off it and pick up a book and start reading, sleep comes.

Same thing with love. Take your mind off it. Develop yourself. Learn some new skills, piano, cooking gourmet, lawn tennis, chess etc and see If you won't meet the right person.

Love is what happens when you're not expecting it.

So on point bro.......that is what I am doing now, working on myself physically, psychologically nd emotionally......with what my eyes have seen, I so much want to cross to the dark side but I am fighting the urge.
they just don't want your honesty

coltaine:


So on point bro.......that is what I am doing now, working on myself physically, psychologically nd emotionally......with what my eyes have seen, I so much want to cross to the dark side but I am fighting the urge.
they just don't want your honesty

Thumbs up.

Don't give another human being the key to your happiness.

Keep working on yourself. The girls who have disappointed are not worthy of what you've got to offer.

All the best. And don't cross over to the dark side. You won't meet HER there.

hibiscus76:
[size=8pt][/size]I really need to know?? All the guys I've ever met turned out to be very different from what they always portray when they first meet you... my observations though...question is I know there are still good guys looking for a relationship that'll work out but where are they? Why can't I find one?

You probably met them earlier on but you rejected them because they either were not tall enough or have a lot of money. Unfortunately, no situation remains the same. This guys have probably grown up more (physically and financially) while you are still here asking "Where have all the good men gone?"

humilitypays:
‎After checking your profile picture, I can tell u why it has been difficult for u to meet a good guy who is completely single and ready to start a future-bound relationship.

You look good from your profile pic.

Many guys won't admit this online, but the truth is: majority of cool-headed guys who are really single are usually shy and scared to woo ladies. Their only saving grace nowadays is online dating, that's where u can find most of them though the bad guys have also taken over the internet.

It's mostly playboys with lots of experience with women that can have the courage to walk up to u to woo u, and u maybe adding to the difficulty of nice guys reaching u by being to uptight, too rigid and unfriendly to strangers.

Another issue u maybe having is high expectation, which makes u to fall and agree for the wrong guys.

I will advice u, stop accepting to date guys who approach u in flamboyant ways...try meeting guys on very low key...stop expecting to date only guys that own a car...cos most have serious date and only after fun.

You are fair in complexion, reduce the way u wear flashy or bright color dresses or outfits and wear colors that will make u look moderate or average-looking.

Note: the more expensive and flashy u dress/look as a lady, the more u chase away cool-headed guys with good intention and attract fun guys and married rich men disguised as single guys.

Lastly, be friendly and don't ever underrate any place as a place u could meet your better half. Be friendly, smile and be humble.‎
‎
When u meet a nice guy, don't take advantage of him, don't be too demanding, be reasonable and also pray.‎
‎

Best post ... I hope you took this advice

ElsonMorali:


Thumbs up.

Don't give another human being the key to your happiness.

Keep working on yourself. The girls who have disappointed are not worthy of what you've got to offer.

All the best. And don't cross over to the dark side. You won't meet HER there.

thanks bro, yeah i figured....

hibiscus76:
[size=8pt][/size]I really need to know?? All the guys I've ever met turned out to be very different from what they always portray when they first meet you... my observations though...question is I know there are still good guys looking for a relationship that'll work out but where are they? Why can't I find one?

Your problem here is that you are not ready if you are you will see a serious man.

hibiscus76:
[size=8pt][/size]I really need to know?? All the guys I've ever met turned out to be very different from what they always portray when they first meet you... my observations though...question is I know there are still good guys looking for a relationship that'll work out but where are they? Why can't I find one?

send me ur digits.

hibiscus76:
[size=8pt][/size]I really need to know?? All the guys I've ever met turned out to be very different from what they always portray when they first meet you... my observations though...question is I know there are still good guys looking for a relationship that'll work out but where are they? Why can't I find one?

Have you found one now?

hibiscus76:
[size=8pt][/size]I really need to know?? All the guys I've ever met turned out to be very different from what they always portray when they first meet you... my observations though...question is I know there are still good guys looking for a relationship that'll work out but where are they? Why can't I find one?

There are everywhere. Ask God to reveal them to you.

hibiscus76:
[size=8pt][/size]I really need to know?? All the guys I've ever met turned out to be very different from what they always portray when they first meet you... my observations though...question is I know there are still good guys looking for a relationship that'll work out but where are they? Why can't I find one?

am here....what kind of relationship do you want....hope you don't mind long distance

After checking your profile picture, I can tell u why it has been difficult for u to meet a good guy who is completely single and ready to start a future-bound relationship.

You look good from your profile pic.

Many guys won't admit this online, but the truth is: majority of cool-headed guys who are really single are usually shy and scared to woo ladies. Their only saving grace nowadays is online dating, that's where u can find most of them though the bad guys have also taken over the internet.

It's mostly playboys with lots of experience with women that can have the courage to walk up to u to woo u, and u maybe adding to the difficulty of nice guys reaching u by being to uptight, too rigid and unfriendly to strangers.

Another issue u maybe having is high expectation, which makes u to fall and agree for the wrong guys.

I will advice u, stop accepting to date guys who approach u in flamboyant ways...try meeting guys on very low key...stop expecting to date only guys that own a car...cos most have serious date and only after fun.

You are fair in complexion, reduce the way u wear flashy or bright color dresses or outfits and wear colors that will make u look moderate or average-looking.

Note: the more expensive and flashy u dress/look as a lady, the more u chase away cool-headed guys with good intention and attract fun guys and married rich men disguised as single guys.

Lastly, be friendly and don't ever underrate any place as a place u could meet your better half. Be friendly, smile and be humble.‎
‎
When u meet a nice guy, don't take advantage of him, don't be too demanding, be reasonable and also pray.‎
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I fell in love with this piece...you sound very mature and experienced.

Great advice

hibiscus76:
[size=8pt][/size]I really need to know?? All the guys I've ever met turned out to be very different from what they always portray when they first meet you... my observations though...question is I know there are still good guys looking for a relationship that'll work out but where are they? Why can't I find one?

Sorry for being a late comer on your thread but I have this to say - it depends on what each lady interprets to be 'good/responsible' but in general, the bitter truth is - ladies actually don't like good/responsible guys which is why I am still single and incase you're still searching I am still available while stock last.

y3mi:
Sorry for being a late comer on your thread but I have this to say - it depends on what each lady interprets to be 'good/responsible' but in general, the bitter truth is - ladies actually don't like good/responsible guys which is why I am still single and incase you're still searching I am still available while stock last.

lol, I hear u

hibiscus76:
[size=8pt][/size]I really need to know?? All the guys I've ever met turned out to be very different from what they always portray when they first meet you... my observations though...question is I know there are still good guys looking for a relationship that'll work out but where are they? Why can't I find one?

Maybe you just got lucky this time. Are u still availabe? Do u reside in Lag?

hibiscus76:
lol, I hear u

I'm not into Lols! Unless one has found you I'm serious ooo! Are you a botanist or have a thing for nature ?

y3mi:
I'm not into Lols! Unless one has found you I'm serious ooo! Are you a botanist or have a thing for nature ?

I'm no Botanist buh I love flowers though, they're feminine kinda..about that, I really am not a fan of internet hookups, don't take it the wrong way though

hibiscus76:
I'm no Botanist buh I love flowers though, they're feminine kinda..about that, I really am not a fan of internet hookups, don't take it the wrong way though

Ofcourse I won't take it wrongly but asking "where all the good and responsible guys are" over the internet gave such impression. One pops-up and suddenly you don't do internet hook-up. Guess what ? I too don't but you can't tell me you don't do internet hookdowns cos I'm down with that. Let's be friends and maybe I'll let you in on the mysteries of flowers cos I love plants and cats too.

hibiscus76:
[size=8pt][/size]I really need to know?? All the guys I've ever met turned out to be very different from what they always portray when they first meet you... my observations though...question is I know there are still good guys looking for a relationship that'll work out but where are they? Why can't I find one?

Girl you look like a bucket of trash paint fell on ur face. Who the Fvck are you to come to this conclusion?

hibiscus76:
I'm no Botanist buh I love flowers though, they're feminine kinda..about that, I really am not a fan of internet hookups, don't take it the wrong way though

what's the point of dem pushing this to Section FP now after everything don set?

Hiby bae, you nor tell them say God don do am; say your MrPerfect-Good-Responsible-Caring-Kind&Loaded go soon whisk you off to the altar in the most epic wedding ceremony of the century yet?

tell dem because we don dey celebrate your testimony in advance!

Honips:
Girl you look like a bucket of trash paint fell on ur face. Who the Fvck are you to come to this conclusion?

yeah trash paints that you're delivering to your mum..idïot

hibiscus76:
[size=8pt][/size]I really need to know?? All the guys I've ever met turned out to be very different from what they always portray when they first meet you... my observations though...question is I know there are still good guys looking for a relationship that'll work out but where are they? Why can't I find one?

IdeyFindWife:


what's the point of dem pushing this to Section FP now after everything don set?

Hiby bae, you nor tell them say God don do am; say your MrPerfect-Good-Responsible-Caring-Kind&Loaded go soon whisk you off to the altar in the most epic wedding ceremony of the century yet?

tell dem because we don dey celebrate your testimony in advance!

eehya..if only your profile wasn't faceless

hibiscus76:
where are they??

Seriously? After how loading for how long, it's only "lightskin females all the way" you could come back with? I thought you had maybe upgraded your 2011 Range to the latest model or sontin

MrCork:

any pious hajia in this thread?

MrCork:

continue frowning ooo

well, I am here