I'm confused even though I wish to get married too but still, I don't know what to do. Please I need mature advise if I should just go ahead or shun marriage for now.

Your mind is made up. What do you want from us again?

Get married n enrol in school. Who are these people saying 30years is too young to get married. You want him to marry at the age of 40.

Answer ur own question first

Op search you heart the answer is there not here.


See people saying 30 is too young for a man to Marry . Lol


I machine get Tim married at 40 and you have 3 kids. With one year space each. By the time you are 60 your oldest child would be 20 still in school with two younger siblings just out of secondary school. ( maybe).

Then you start telling the eldest one to work and help with the younger ones. Then the cycle continues.

Better marry on time if recession isn't holding.you back.

J

If you have the money and a soul mate, you re good to go....


If you don't have a soul mate....Dont rush into it cos you will sprint out of it

Everything bouys down to income and time. You are in best position to determine your level of income if it's capable to take you through marriage and your schooling at the same time.

For me, I would rather suggest since you want to go back to school, take your time, go to school and concentrate on booming your business, maybe in your final year you can get married.

It's gon be hard for ur wife if u ain't travelin wit her....dat shld be ur priority...30 is ideal for marriage...

so many things involved... If u get married now, know u r not alone anymore, u can't make decisions anyhow, which might make u forfeit ur edu and before u know, kids will roll in... On the other hand, u aint gettin any younger... Buh being a guy, u have that leverage to settle down anytime u want. I'll advice u go study first, u'll have more exposure, more advantage, and somehow, a better woman to settle with... My opin though

my brother, remember it will not be funny , when they still call you for PTA meeting at age 60,

@ MrTour:
OP
For now, forget marriage. Start your school if in your second year you discover that being married will help you, then get married but if not, finish your school.

Do you even have a steady relationship? If No, pls absolutely forget marriage for now. If Yes, is she the one you really want? Would she be willing to wait for about 2 years?

Pls don't rush into marriage else, you will rush out.

femi4:
Na your type dey pay children school fees at age 70 when you should be enjoying your pension

lolz exactly o! Smh at folks saying 30 is young for a guy.

Let's do the maths.. get married at 30 have a kid by 31( for instance) by the time that child is ready for secondary school the guy is around 42! Add 6 years to that and he is 48.
Uni starts for the child at age 18-19 add 4years uni and 1year NYSC the child is 23-24 ish and the father is 53-54 ish.

And yet some people want him to wait?

ChemicalReaction:
my opinion! you hear? And yes! 30 is young for a guy!

But im be like say u go like old men well well oo

Abegii Op marry jaree...we dey ur back

if you are truly pursuing education i will advise you to forget about marriage now because marriage will hinger your plans at the long run. and when kids start flowing,that will be the end of your education because they will earn your time and resources at the same time. Go for educatiion first.

Oga if u can get married now, get married. But don't do it under pressure.

Ask Mr. Ikemba

If you are not prepared for marriage please dont venture into it. Combining family with education wont be easy bro

I will advice u to go to school, then when ur back,u can marry cos if u marry now i don't see u focusing on ur education cos she will be part of u . orless u will give her shot and score then travel if the relationship is that strong.

Op, ever heard of the statement " life begins @ 40?" Anything u choose doesn't matter. As far as ur heart is inline with what you want, go for it!

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MrTour:
OP I suggest you go abroad when you get there marry Oyibo chikena.

You can have as many children as possible with the Oyibo and the kids have a brighter future.

Which kind of advice is this uhn

ChemicalReaction:
You can kill two birds with a stone. Follow your heart. In this era, If I'm in your shoes, i'll choose education. You're still a young man, your time isn't ticking yet and you may likely change your mind when kids start coming.#my opinion tho. @Cornoil, say something!

Young man at 29

femi4:
Na your type dey pay children school fees at age 70 when you should be enjoying your pension

Mogbe!! why evuls nah??

But, seriously that guy goofed for saying 30years is still young..

Who said 30 is too young to get married

Okeyyyyy una want make im reach 40 abi

As for education, its overrated...u might be a graduate and still suffer, how many youth when be grads whey get work 4 this country..

And who says if you get married you cant go to school



My advice,true they say marraige should not be hurried, but @ that age, i will advise u to go and marry, because if u follow all dis pipo wey carry education 4 head,...like say na gauranty for better life, YOU MIGHT JUST END UP BEEN 70 AND STILL PAYING CHILDRENS SCHOOL FEES
My 2kobo

Don't listen to any friends or even family. Do what you think is best for you. All these people will never feed or provide for a wife and kids. If education is your priority right now, pursue it. It's good to listen to advice, but also follow your plan for your life. When you want to do something great for yourself. Envious people have an opinion that will take you back.

The First Question i will ask you, even if you have all the decrees in the world, You will still seattle down, I love the fact that you said you are doing well in your business, and with your school skill, you are good to go, you are not like others with huge expectation of leaving school today and starting work after NYSC. My brother, Get married, You can school anytime and getting married even as at when you want to enroll in school wont be a problem...My take though

By asking us alone to decide for you if youre ready says it all. I bet youre the type that keeps coming to nairaland for advise on every family matter. Bro, better ask for vote u hia. stuffs like click or share, if you blive I should or not. mtcheeew

Dude,go and marry; Jesus will soon come. Abi, you want make rapture take place without you even having an offspring; what will you say you came to the world to do?..... Lol.

But seriously, you're not too young age-wise to get married. However, you must be sure you are emotionally and psychologically ready for it. Since you have a good job, and can run a home, there shouldn't be a reason to delay it, and start having kids at old age. If you're truly ready, get married and start part time school.

Bros wetin happen 2 skools wey dey naija,abi people wey sknl here no succeed.Bros everytin depends on GOD&ur determinatim. If i were u i will marry here,skool here nd enjoy my life wit my family.(if aoy typo error pls pardon me typin wit blind phone)