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Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by Nobody: 10:53pm On Oct 31, 2016 |
i got this for u. "By all means marry; if you get a good wife, you'll become happy; if you get a bad one, you'll become a philosopher." |
Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by skywalker240(m): 10:54pm On Oct 31, 2016 |
soloroyality: No,...35 actually, ....(no be me tok am oo, na wetin one reaction babe suggest to OP ok oo.. ) 1 Like |
Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by moshino(m): 10:57pm On Oct 31, 2016 |
Young03: He cannot successfully get married and enter school at the same time, both endeavors bear enormous responsibilities and demands on his time, energy, finance, emotional and mental well being. You cannot serve those 2 masters equally well at the same time. 1 Like |
Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by deltateam: 11:03pm On Oct 31, 2016 |
ucsparks: What makes marriage a burden most times is finance. Since op is buoyant enough let him marry. He gets to enjoy his family more than when he's 40. |
Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by warmachine(m): 11:03pm On Oct 31, 2016 |
Young03: Gbam!...you nailed it....I wonder y they can't understand that education is a tool for success and not success in its self....and that also shows many of this ladies don't know the aim of marriage ..marriage is not something you do after school...its something you do when you find someone who makes you happy...its because of the financial culture that kindoff mandates school so that you can pay bills...its not some sort of nysc or job hunt... 2 Likes |
Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by warmachine(m): 11:04pm On Oct 31, 2016 |
ucsparks: I see...I smell ignorance |
Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by Barigaboy(m): 11:06pm On Oct 31, 2016 |
Funfair001:If u think u r fit to get marry pls do but don't do it because your friend said so. Do it because u r married. |
Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by HCF(m): 11:09pm On Oct 31, 2016 |
There are certain things you can not have back in life-time wasted is one of such. Personally, I dont think the OP is too young to get married. In fact he should have been married by now all things being equal...However, I do not belong to the school of thought that says if he marries much later in life(perhaps at 35 and above) 'he would spend his pension on his children's school fees'...or 'when he is sixty his child will just be twenty'...etc With all due respect, that is a myopic way of thinking. We have seen instances where people married early,in their twenties and could not even have a child till their late forties/early fiftees. If their aim of getting married then was to have children early to avoid such problems, then has the aim not been defeated?....I have seen instances where a man in his late thirties is still a liability to the parents, while another boy in his early twenties has already become successful,making his own parents proud-Both parents of the man and the young boy are agemates..meaning one married atleast 10years before the other!... In short, getting married early is not a guarantee you would be relieved of your children's financial or social burden early, it does not even mean you would become a grandparent before someone who married much later in life.... I am not saying getting married late is good...but we need to understand that,'life has no manual'..and the 'end justifies the means' @Op. Do you have someone you really like enough to get married to?. I mean someone who also shares in your values and ideals. If yes, then go ahead, marry her and regardless of the challenges you face, both of you can weather the storm together and u would emerge victorious...such stories are sweet to tell.. But, if u are asking this question because some of your colleagues, relatives or friends are married, and you think u should also marry, then you might be making a grave mistake-a kind of mistake which is becoming a recurring decimal in our society today...In as much as I support getting married as and when due, I won't encourage you to marry just because others are doing it. Cheers. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by oribi(m): 11:19pm On Oct 31, 2016 |
Marriage ain't a key to happiness nor self satisfaction My advice focus in making your EDUCATION a priority and in process if you "TRULY" fall in love then get married(someone who loves YOU for YOU & ready to be with no matter the circumstance "LOYALTY") |
Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by Taryur3(m): 11:31pm On Oct 31, 2016 |
Benita27:Young at 29, stop this pls.am younger than him and am having the zeal to marry now if the chosen one show up...pls...he is old to marry. |
Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by Taryur3(m): 11:35pm On Oct 31, 2016 |
OlajumokeBread:Dnt mind them, so surprising how guys here posting that 30yrs old man is too young to marry...Nigerians can think anything stupid...besides...you don't marry at 20,you impregnate someone at 20.stop lieing |
Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by samtopwisdom(m): 11:52pm On Oct 31, 2016 |
Pls do not marry cos ur friends r sayin u shud do oooo
its not dem dat will help u in d marriage
*A broken relationshop is better dan a broken marriage*
if i were U i will go for my education first |
Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by moshould(m): 11:54pm On Oct 31, 2016 |
you dey consider only the age factor,what of the economy of our country?? cost of feeding your family, bros e no easy to feed other people o... especially in naija where ur take home pay can no longer take you home.....age na numbe for poor people.. |
Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by ogtavia(m): 12:01am On Nov 01, 2016 |
Benita27:very young at 35..really |
Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by Nobody: 12:09am On Nov 01, 2016 |
ogtavia:Very young @29 and still young at @30 for marriage, he should focus on pressing things now. |
Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by Category1: 12:15am On Nov 01, 2016 |
Funfair001:Nwadialor arinze |
Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by Drdonzeez(m): 12:17am On Nov 01, 2016 |
Coldfeet:Life is just beyond what you presume..I'm aware you've only done your calculations with the belief 'all things being equal' but you failed to understand that things don't work for different persons the same way. How are we sure the op will have children as soon as he gets married;no one prays for unfortunate situations anywhere.I will still reteriate on the op chasing his academic career for now if he's so ardent about it.I might have being jaundiced in my views though but Its just an opinion. |
Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by DrinkWater10: 12:18am On Nov 01, 2016 |
OlajumokeBread:Anthony martial isnt married, get your facts right. 1 Like |
Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by DrinkWater10: 12:18am On Nov 01, 2016 |
OlajumokeBread:Anthony martial isnt married, get your facts right. 1 Like |
Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by Youngzedd(m): 12:24am On Nov 01, 2016 |
Formal education at the age of 30 Bro you dey smoke something strong, no vex. Apply for e-learning if you must go to school. University is overrated. At 30 you're still asking childish question. When e go set, none of them here giving you stup1d advise will be there. |
Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by Youngzedd(m): 12:26am On Nov 01, 2016 |
Taryur3: Bros maka why naa |
Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by evatee(m): 12:30am On Nov 01, 2016 |
Funfair001: I am also in your shoes. I will advise u don't get married now if u are sure u want to further your studies. If u get married now it will make u lose focus. It will also pull you down. It won't make u achieve your aim on time. I will advise you to be focus with ur study for now. Many people made that mistake years back. Now they are mere secondary school teachers. If you really want to go far with ur academics and business don't give marriage a thought now. Presently am out of the country for my post graduate study...when it comes to marriage am over due for it but I won't give it a thought till the next few years. So decide well. |
Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by Runsome(m): 12:59am On Nov 01, 2016 |
Please my brother go marry leave the rest for ur children |
Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by misscall247: 12:59am On Nov 01, 2016 |
ChemicalReaction:30yrs is a young man.......hmmmmm |
Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by Taryur3(m): 1:12am On Nov 01, 2016 |
Youngzedd:Lols...sorry...buh how u go say u marry at 20 |
Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by macminista(m): 1:17am On Nov 01, 2016 |
Benita27:which kan advice b dis? Get married @35? |
Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by ogtavia(m): 1:24am On Nov 01, 2016 |
Benita27:well for me,i feel,if one can,if the circumstances permit,set out on marriage early,marriage is best enjoyed and savoured in youth...I am 26 and I am praying to get married before I hit 30...hopefully 29.. |
Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by Cecero(m): 1:26am On Nov 01, 2016 |
Guy the best advice for you is to shun that marriage for now. You probably are not planning to travel abroad with the young wife and yet who do you want to keep her here for? You are young bro and worse still going back to school. You may not be making a sound judgement going into uni already with a baggage. You are definitely going to meet a lot of beautiful creatures there and your mind might sway. Forget the love, I bet you'll fall into it a million times and you'll only have regrets and unsettled mind. Bro be free, you still have the time. Don't listen to these shitty about you being old enough, it might end in regrets. Go get the education and when you've sampled a lotta waists there, you may wish to pick one that meets your taste at the tail end of your course if you still gat the cash or leave it you finish and get job. |
Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by proudlyNigeria2(m): 2:11am On Nov 01, 2016 |
Its relative. For me 30 is old. Is it wen he strt to grow grey hair that he will settle down? All this girls asking him to go to school...will u marry him ni? Abeg oo. Oga settle down n still go to school. Shikina. |
Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by hollypagan: 3:02am On Nov 01, 2016 |
Wait let me read all your comments and tell wether your matured to get married |
Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by cc150615(f): 5:00am On Nov 01, 2016 |
HCF:This is a million dollar advice. funfair001, look no further, this is the advice you're looking for. |
Re: I'm I Qualified To Get Married Or Not? by valnelly(m): 5:11am On Nov 01, 2016 |
I'm 29 also. Feb 14th next year makes me 30. I just got admitted for my degree programme. Marriage is something I wanna do right after education. |
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