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Re: Should I Tell My Friend I Caught The Girlfriend Cheating Or Mind My Business? by Nobody: 2:23pm On Nov 04, 2016

cronsberg:
what are friends for huh? remember bros before hoess. i am suprised how people are encouraging the guy to be linient with the girl by keeping her evil secret from his own buddy. consider if she was the one that is friends with ur girlfriend, then she saw you cheating, will she keep that secret for you without telling your babe? she will parrot it out in a heart beat. op have you forgetten women again? they are basically an enemy to us men, so dont make the mistake of taking them as friends. do quick go tell your buddy, let him hate you for it if he wants, but you have definitely done him a selfless service and saved him future heart ache.

God bless U bro
I was in a similar situation once
I was dating this girl who was all over the place
My friend found out and gave me the heads up
He saod there was no way he will see me going wrong and keep quiet
Ill remain forever grateful to him thats a good friend

Re: Should I Tell My Friend I Caught The Girlfriend Cheating Or Mind My Business? by condomuser: 2:24pm On Nov 04, 2016

Tell the girl to go and pay for hotel room, meet her there, wear a condom and lash her Toto. That's your own share.

Repeat this every two weeks until you are satisfied grin

Thank me later grin

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Re: Should I Tell My Friend I Caught The Girlfriend Cheating Or Mind My Business? by discman2k2(m): 2:24pm On Nov 04, 2016

Greenbullet:
op,you are a bastard,for you to contemplate and not telling your friend it means you want to do him harm,people like you arent real bros,you are just fake leeches, YOU BETTER GO AND TELL YOUR FRIEND EVERYTHING.

Haba Greenbullet, y insult the innocent boy foe his innocent request? Just drop ur #2Penny advice and let him be. We r all different in our perception of issues dats y candidly seeks the forum's advice.
Thnk u

Re: Should I Tell My Friend I Caught The Girlfriend Cheating Or Mind My Business? by Impeller(m): 2:24pm On Nov 04, 2016

I'd like to know: if you were actually the one banging this babe, would you confess to your friend?

Re: Should I Tell My Friend I Caught The Girlfriend Cheating Or Mind My Business? by DozieInc(m): 2:25pm On Nov 04, 2016

ElsonMorali:
Passy089

Give the lady a week ultimatum to come clean and confess to her boyfriend otherwise you'll tell him.

Tell her that you'll be close-by to help her cool the guy down. She has a better chance of being forgiven if she confesses than if he found out himself.

Put yourself in the position of your friend. You'd wanna know right?

Re: Should I Tell My Friend I Caught The Girlfriend Cheating Or Mind My Business? by MrBasketball: 2:25pm On Nov 04, 2016

mengho:
your d kind of friend I never wish to have, you are even "thinking" & "waiting for nairalanders" to advice you whether to tell ur friend or not.

if na Me, I will not only tell my friend but in will even offer video & photo evidence

Thanks man. Don't mind those idiots saying mind your business.

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Re: Should I Tell My Friend I Caught The Girlfriend Cheating Or Mind My Business? by Patto5050(m): 2:26pm On Nov 04, 2016

She will deny you, u can tell your friend if u cant hold ur mouth but do it indirectly

Re: Should I Tell My Friend I Caught The Girlfriend Cheating Or Mind My Business? by Ndukaikenna: 2:26pm On Nov 04, 2016

It's not your business you just mind yourself. Act like you know nothing. You so called friend may also be cheating too.

Re: Should I Tell My Friend I Caught The Girlfriend Cheating Or Mind My Business? by Charly68: 2:26pm On Nov 04, 2016

Will you talk if you know your friend is walking with a killer ? If your answer is yes,then tell your friend. But if your friend too is acssanova never bother to info him. It is tit for tat

Re: Should I Tell My Friend I Caught The Girlfriend Cheating Or Mind My Business? by bazzyblings: 2:27pm On Nov 04, 2016

Davash222:

If you are a Christian pls read 1 Thessalonians 4:1.

Wetin concern that verse with what's at hand ?

Re: Should I Tell My Friend I Caught The Girlfriend Cheating Or Mind My Business? by keleman992000(m): 2:28pm On Nov 04, 2016

YOU BETTER MIND YOUR BIZ AND ALLOW THE SLEEPING DOG TO LIE. YOU WETIN YOU FIND GO THERE? EFCC DISCOVERY OFFICER. YOU ARE LOOKING FOR WHERE TO CAUSE TROUBLE. MUMU.

Re: Should I Tell My Friend I Caught The Girlfriend Cheating Or Mind My Business? by DozieInc(m): 2:28pm On Nov 04, 2016

ElsonMorali:
Passy089

Give the lady a week ultimatum to come clean and confess to her boyfriend otherwise you'll tell him.

Tell her that you'll be close-by to help her cool the guy down. She has a better chance of being forgiven if she confesses than if he found out himself.

Put yourself in the position of your friend. You'd wanna know right?

Correct Gee.

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Re: Should I Tell My Friend I Caught The Girlfriend Cheating Or Mind My Business? by vincesleeky: 2:30pm On Nov 04, 2016

u want to be the good guy now, let me ask u, haven't your friend don the same thing to her before?

Re: Should I Tell My Friend I Caught The Girlfriend Cheating Or Mind My Business? by markbenny(m): 2:31pm On Nov 04, 2016

Hope you will not end up fvcking each other, she sounds like a very bad girl and can offer sex to shut you up, out of whichh she could still set u up

Follow your min. do the needful

Passy089:

I've told her that....but she think we should keep it a secret

Re: Should I Tell My Friend I Caught The Girlfriend Cheating Or Mind My Business? by Orikinla(m): 2:33pm On Nov 04, 2016

Passy089:
I caught my friend's babe cheating with another guy and she knew I saw her and she has been begging me not to talk. If I keep quiet now and My guy later finds out I knew about it I will become a bad friend...

If I talk it could be the end of a 4yrs old relationship!!!
I'm even scared the girl may set me up if I decide to talk.
guys Advice pls.

.

The earlier you tell the truth and set yourself free the better..

Lovers who cheat can also kill to hide the truth.

I have seen many cases.
I survived one of them.

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Re: Should I Tell My Friend I Caught The Girlfriend Cheating Or Mind My Business? by Nobody: 2:34pm On Nov 04, 2016

kITATITA:
[size=14pt] It is not cheating. He hasn't paid bride price[/size]

LOL, nice point. So the guy can cheat too right?, since no price has been paid on her yet

Re: Should I Tell My Friend I Caught The Girlfriend Cheating Or Mind My Business? by Orikinla(m): 2:35pm On Nov 04, 2016

vincesleeky:
u want to be the good guy now, let me ask u, haven't your friend don the same thing to her before?

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Re: Should I Tell My Friend I Caught The Girlfriend Cheating Or Mind My Business? by Princedaniel: 2:36pm On Nov 04, 2016

Passy089:

I've told her that....but she think we should keep it a secret

You are a very wicked friend!!!

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Re: Should I Tell My Friend I Caught The Girlfriend Cheating Or Mind My Business? by beautiful232(f): 2:36pm On Nov 04, 2016

MrBasketball:
I knew you people will say mind your business because it's the girlfriend that's caught in the act.

even it was to be the guy...I will still mind my own business

Re: Should I Tell My Friend I Caught The Girlfriend Cheating Or Mind My Business? by Princedaniel: 2:39pm On Nov 04, 2016

Orikinla:
.

The earlier you tell the truth and set yourself free the better..

Lovers who cheat can also kill to hide the truth.

I have seen many cases.
I survived one of them.

If I were the op, I would not be able to look my friend in the face until I tell him the truth.

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Re: Should I Tell My Friend I Caught The Girlfriend Cheating Or Mind My Business? by MrBasketball: 2:40pm On Nov 04, 2016

beautiful232:

even it was to be the guy...I will still mind my own business

You won't still mind your business. No be girls.

Re: Should I Tell My Friend I Caught The Girlfriend Cheating Or Mind My Business? by Jethrolite(m): 2:41pm On Nov 04, 2016

Passy089:
I caught my friend's babe cheating with another guy and she knew I saw her and she has been begging me not to talk. If I keep quiet now and My guy later finds out I knew about it I will become a bad friend...

If I talk it could be the end of a 4yrs old relationship!!!
I'm even scared the girl may set me up if I decide to talk.
guys Advice pls.

Mind your business.

Re: Should I Tell My Friend I Caught The Girlfriend Cheating Or Mind My Business? by UncutSk(m): 2:43pm On Nov 04, 2016

Tell my Nigga tell!!! grin

Re: Should I Tell My Friend I Caught The Girlfriend Cheating Or Mind My Business? by Horluwateewhy(f): 2:46pm On Nov 04, 2016

The question is will you do the same if u found out that ur friend was cheating on his girlfriend if so tell him and if not mind your business.......my view sha

Re: Should I Tell My Friend I Caught The Girlfriend Cheating Or Mind My Business? by vivaciousvivi(f): 2:51pm On Nov 04, 2016

Passy089 I would advice firstly that someone else ( a close family relative preferably) is also aware of this,simply to act as a witness to the truth (in case you are truly set up). Secondly, depending on the closeness of your relationship to your friend I will advice that you tell him. Better if he calls her immediately to verify in your presence so she doesn't spin tales. But break the news in a manner that shows the gravity of the situation...a fiance is not a joke because if left untended, she would commit adultery too
Goodluck

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Re: Should I Tell My Friend I Caught The Girlfriend Cheating Or Mind My Business? by staaari: 2:51pm On Nov 04, 2016

tell your friend but make sure you have SOLID evidence

A lady that does this surely have more tricks in the bag. watch out.

Solid evidence that your friend will doubt your sincerity, honest and reason.

Your may hate you now but later in the future, he will thank you.

Re: Should I Tell My Friend I Caught The Girlfriend Cheating Or Mind My Business? by badinfluence: 2:52pm On Nov 04, 2016

mengho:
your d kind of friend I never wish to have, you are even "thinking" & "waiting for nairalanders" to advice you whether to tell ur friend or not.

if na Me, I will not only tell my friend but i will even go dat extra mile offer video, audio & picturial evidence together with contact address of d fellow she is cheating with

Be like sey two lovers never use your matter settle their case

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Re: Should I Tell My Friend I Caught The Girlfriend Cheating Or Mind My Business? by sisisioge: 2:55pm On Nov 04, 2016

Hmmmm...very tricky especially since the babes know you know.

I would at this point distance myself from them with the hope that soon, her deeds would catch up with her. It is is very well o...what a burden she has placed on you. I would so hate to be in your shoe dude... especially with my expressive eyes grin

Re: Should I Tell My Friend I Caught The Girlfriend Cheating Or Mind My Business? by basingstoke: 2:59pm On Nov 04, 2016

Bro put your self in your friend's position. And check the matter. The truth is dat cheating girlfriend ends up as stubborn wife.

Re: Should I Tell My Friend I Caught The Girlfriend Cheating Or Mind My Business? by Nobody: 3:00pm On Nov 04, 2016

profolaolu:
who is dis 1 quoting a scripture for a wrong,bros go n work on ur salvation,attending church does nt make U a christian

what would Jesus do, I guess He rather ask her to repent and sin no more while someone like you(a pharisee) would report her .

Re: Should I Tell My Friend I Caught The Girlfriend Cheating Or Mind My Business? by chronique(m): 3:06pm On Nov 04, 2016

Ok. I would have loved to buy you a drink for your comment,but know you're about 2701.3 nautical miles from me and as such,that won't be possible... If I have the time and resources to spare to visit manor park anytime soon,I'd definitely make that happen.

Raine80:

I am a very likeable person .....it is not crime

Re: Should I Tell My Friend I Caught The Girlfriend Cheating Or Mind My Business? by trentslawson(m): 3:06pm On Nov 04, 2016

Passy089:
I caught my friend's babe cheating with another guy and she knew I saw her and she has been begging me not to talk. If I keep quiet now and My guy later finds out I knew about it I will become a bad friend...

If I talk it could be the end of a 4yrs old relationship!!!
I'm even scared the girl may set me up if I decide to talk.
guys Advice pls.

make sure you have a new girlfriend ready when he break up

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