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WEN IT BECOMS a constant,DAT ERUPTS SUSPICTION
MAKE A VARIABLE.STOP HER, WEN desire becoms an obsession,expetialy wen its negative,evil deeds are inevitable.save ur home.pls madam,fly okada,if ur man,cant afford a car.u are attracted to wat u c,often.being nice in close coners can erupt intimacy.

^^^^ EDENOFLORA @
I beg to disagree with you, when it become constant is when the mind gets used to it and nothing will be attached. When you start playing tricks, like missing a day or two and the guy got to know that you were riding public bus after telling him not to worry today. He too is not stupid not to put two and two together to arrive as four. If you play that on me I would outrightly stop the freebee. I would not be insulted for being nice.
Anyway, to the "Husband of Golden Lady": Before you stop your wife's helper, have you got alternative arrangement of the same level of convenience for her? I want you to consider the suffering at Lagos bus stop, you need to see the way people look at car owners at bus stops for possible free ride , then you would know that suffer dey?

Wow!!!!  NYSC na the same story year after year, una stories imilar to mine in Rivers State in  1991, lol

Like play like play that is how it starts, what you cannot not finish don't start. Stories abound how this type of help has turned out to be something else. In my opinion I will outrightly disapprove of my wife from accepting such help. It is worse of if you are the one that approve of it and when it happens you will never forgive urself but if u say no initially and she goes ahead and accept the offer when it happens you will be right justified. You never know when it comes to women they can pull any stunt at any time trust me I know them very well. They can never be trusted when it comes to that area. Enjoy

This problem was existing between me and my fiancée, and I was not comfortable allowing her to join her colleague in the morning or close of job. Buying her a car is not the problem; we have not married and agreed that I will buy her one as soon as we get married by first quarter 2010.

I would have drop her off in her office everyday, but my problem is very unfortunate as we live in different directions; she lives in Ago Palace Way, Okota and works in Marina, while I live in Punch Estate, Along Lagos – Abeokuta Expressway and works in Lekki Expressway. You would see we are in different directions.

I have made a point of duty to be giving her monthly stipend of fifty thousand naira for transport, and advise her to always pay for two or three seats instead of taking a cab. If I call her she would close late, I will tell my driver to wait for her and drop her in her house, then I would go home with staff bus.


Men have really spoiled this world, and will never trust my fiancée getting so close to any man.
I have a car + a driver and made a stipulated rule not to carry any lady in my car except her condition is pitiable. I am a man and was once in the world, I see ladies as un-trusted people especially in Lagos. I have experienced them so loose that I kept wondering if we are heading to the end time.

bros, your in a tight one oooooo!

Deres no big deal abt it but 2b on a safer get a car 4ur wife (even if its a jallopy): prevention is beta dan cure

I have made a point of duty to be giving her monthly stipend of fifty thousand naira for transport, and advise her to always pay for two or three seats instead of taking a cab. If I call her she would close late, I will tell my driver to wait for her and drop her in her house, then I would go home with staff bus.

u give ur gurl 50k for transport per month

i dont think a transporter makes that much a month. so hw much is Ago Palace to Marina?
and she takes bus? to pay for 2-3 seats?

i see

Dandas:
Everybody is shouting TRUST,TRUST,TRUST.Is that the issue here.Atimes we do try to maintain what we are not.Question!.Why do some born again men or women fall?,are they not trustworthy?.Why are some men and women just becuase they found themselves alone in a lonely place say a room with only two of them,before you know it,it will become a story?,why is it that some married man/women that you claim they have the spirit of God in them and you can trust them,but all of a sudden you heard a different story?.Have you ever heard of a story of an opposite sex that come to preach to you the word of God in a lonely room,and before you know it, no wonder they will send both male and female to come for such work because Satan can strike you and something unbelievable will happen between them?.Now will you tell me that all these people are NOT TRUSTWORTHY or DONT have the spirit of God in them?.Please stop shouting Trust,trust,trust, for its not a matter of trust.What of some married men and women that are working in same place and are into office romance?,why does it happen?,can you believe if they tell you that your wife or husband do have romance in the office with his/her colleague.Dont you trust her/him?.Lets talk with sense of maturity for Satan is a wicked master.Anything can happen.Poster,pls think twice!!

Well spoken. you deserve an award. This is what has been on my mind while running down the post.

People are taslking about trust trust trust forgeting the fact that some people are seriously cheating their husbands or wives despite the fact that the cheats are highly trusted.

Get a brain you pro-trust group

Maaan, you need to empower your wife. To avoid all suspicion, its better she drives to work herself. Though I understand that its not all rossy. Sometimes in a relationship, there comes this grip of suspicions but as a man, you need to nip this by the bud and to do this, GET YOUR WIFE A CAR! Dont leave anything to Chance, You are over exposing your wife by allowing her follow this guy everyday to work, Dont forget that , by virtue of her working with this guy in same office and also going to work with him, SHE now spends more time with him than SHE spends with you both in the TRAFFIC and also in the office, Dont forget they will also have lunch together. These are possible,

Be a man!!!!!! dont over expose your wife cos it will only lead so chaos. It might not be her fault afterall!

Wish you all da best,

All dese ladies here shouting about trust and calling the OP an insecure guy - how many of you can 'trust' your hubby or BF to be giving a ride everyday to and from work to a hot, young, sexy female colleague? Talk true now now!!!

@ Original Poster

I guess you can't afford for now to buy a car for her and its painful to see her accepting from another man what you cannot provide for her.

Bros, either which way you're s c r e w ed. If you stop her, she'll resent you and complain you are jealous and insecure. If care is not taken, she'll call her mother and sisters to abuse us a poor, hungry and jealous man.

If you allow her to continue accepting the ride (as you will be forced to), please accept the reality that you are absolutely helpless to stop anything. Its just a matter of time before the guy is banging your wife. There is no such thing as free lunch. No two ways about it.

So please comot your mind from that issue. There is ABSOLUTELY nothing you can do. And it will surely happen. Women like comfort and most women are very easily seduced with luxurious and expensive cars. That's why the bad niggers with the cool rides get the most babes.

Ever since time Imo river, it has the been the law that the rich man shall oppress the poor man including banging and seducing his woman.

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If your wife is the ugly type, you know fat orobo and short walking anyhow, with big tummy, no problem don't bother your head. I am sure by now the man giving her the free ride must be praying for a deliverance but if on the other hand she is a stunning beauty like the Omo Sexy's of this world hmm my brother fight for your dear wife 'cos you may wake up oneday and she is gone for good to the man you thot was just helping her with a free ride.
Enjoy

Ladies and gentlemen, i will like to ask if the woman will die of using public transport? The issue here is not about trust or insecurity on the man's part, its about what could happen. look at this:

If they spend 4 hours in traffic every day going and coming for a month=they are spending 39 days days together in a year.

the fact that they work in the same office does not matter, nothing can happen cus they might be in different department or too busy to talk, But inside the car alone?

I wont allow my wife go with a man evry day, and pls ask any man if opportunity of 'digging' a married woman they give lift happen wont they do it?
you know as women they siddon inside car, u go look yellow laps etc the guy fit misbehave. Beside your wife could develop this kind of likeness you know want for the guy. Why the guy dey call am come outside? he should be careful around another man's wife now.

prevention is better than cure

Bromine: Please i want to ask if it is advisable to allow your wife to be having free ride every morning from her male colleague working in the same office with her.The man is staying in the same side with her and every morning on his way going to work,will call her to come out and enter his car so that two of them can go to work instead of her going to park and queing for public bus.Hope its advisable and cannot lead to another thing?,or will you stop her if you re in that shoe?

TRUST! TRUST!! TRUST!!!!

queenesthr:
Even if he stops giving her the ride, they are still colleagues, right? They will still spend the day together in the same office, hope you catch my drift?

office is different .they cant do anything there.but in the car or in traffck small small tins fit they go on

hafees:
Ladies and gentlemen, i will like to ask if the woman will die of using public transport? The issue here is not about trust or insecurity on the man's part, its about what could happen. look at this:

If they spend 4 hours in traffic every day going and coming for a month=they are spending 39 days days together in a year.

the fact that they work in the same office does not matter, nothing can happen cus they might be in different department or too busy to talk, But inside the car alone?

I wont allow my wife go with a man evry day, and pls ask any man if opportunity of 'digging' a married woman they give lift happen wont they do it?
you know as women they siddon inside car, u go look yellow laps etc the guy fit misbehave. Beside your wife could develop this kind of likeness you know want for the guy. Why the guy dey call am come outside? he should be careful around another man's wife now.

prevention is better than cure

gbam! 3 gbosa for you

hafees:
Ladies and gentlemen, i will like to ask if the woman will die of using public transport? The issue here is not about trust or insecurity on the man's part, its about what could happen. look at this:

If they spend 4 hours in traffic every day going and coming for a month=they are spending 39 days days together in a year.

the fact that they work in the same office does not matter, nothing can happen cus they might be in different department or too busy to talk, But inside the car alone?

I wont allow my wife go with a man evry day, and pls ask any man if opportunity of 'digging' a married woman they give lift happen wont they do it?
you know as women they siddon inside car, u go look yellow laps etc the guy fit misbehave. Beside your wife could develop this kind of likeness you know want for the guy. Why the guy dey call am come outside? he should be careful around another man's wife now.

prevention is better than cure

gbam! 3 gbosa for you

totorimi:
If your wife is the ugly type, you know fat orobo and short walking anyhow, with big tummy, no problem don't bother your head. I am sure by now the man giving her the free ride must be praying for a deliverance but if on the other hand she is a stunning beauty like the Omo Sexy's of this world hmm my brother fight for your dear wife 'cos you may wake up oneday and she is gone for good to the man you thot was just helping her with a free ride.
Enjoy

so on point