Herlyne:
How can you say we shouldn't date someone we know we won't marry, that's not possible

RETIREDMUMU:
CAN YOU USE USED BATTERY TWICE

dingbang:
Toks cmon don't tell me u haven't done the shii u advising against?

Toks2008:


U got it twisted

Dating someone you can marry is what I'm saying.. it does not mean it must end in marriage...it's different from dating someone you know you can't marry

Toks2008:


Of course I don't date a lady I can't marry let alone sleep with her...naahh!

Herlyne:
so you're saying "can't " and "wont" is what differentiates this situation now?

I still think it's the same thing

Tallesty1:
I honestly don't know how one can appreciate a good cook without eating around a bit

dingbang:
we all have said Dat line bro... and trust me, it never worked..



I just Wana be blunt for once, if a girl wants to offer d cherry for free, u make good use of the opportunity, dulling will only make the guy a coward..

Toks2008:


It's easy to decipher...if I woo you then I can marry you IF we last long enough for us to marry but it is a different ball game for me to just woo a lady I know I can't marry

It takes one glance at first meeting for a man or woman to know if there is a possibility of marrying each other and if in the course of the affair you discover it can't work out then take a walk.

Splinz:
Yeah, you're making sense. But unfortunately, Herlyne thinks you're high on Jamaican weed...

Herlyne:
you people do it all the time, so this one you've come to the realization that it's not good anymore, I'm happy for you.


It doesn't take one glance dear, love at first sight is what you're thinking and it doesn't always work. Most of the time

Toks2008:


And then you prove you are not a coward and the lady manipulates you sexually and she gets pregnant threatening that you must take the baby what will you do?

Note that it is not every lady you can just push aside as some are the queen of ogbanjes...your case will be a sorry one.

So just avoid flings with a lady you know you will not be cool with if marriage ever happens.

Toks2008:


Don't be too quick to judge..I have never been involved in chop n clean mouth and I was not even talking about love at first site.

We all have our standard and if I see a lady at first glance I will know IF THERE IS A GOOD POSSIBILITY of marrying her IF she proves to be worthy.

But some people just date for crazy reasons with no possibility of marrying that person at all.

That is the chop and clean mouth act.

RETIREDMUMU:
CAN YOU USE USED BATTERY TWICE

Herlyne:
lol okay, one of the few good people. I think you were.


Haha you can? How? How does someone determine such from just first glance. You men that can easily get distracted by ass and conclude she's the type for marriage.

We don't always date to get married dear.

Toks2008:


Another wrong conclusion..not all guys are into ass and boobs. .

I don't fancy big ass or big boobs in fact anything above 36dd is too much and a lady with a moderate ass with good curves will do.

Now taking into cognisance the above criteria it becomes apparent that when I see a lady that has super large ass and the cosy type of boobs I know instanta that she is a No so why should I date such?

That is my point.

Herlyne:

So your point is, if I concluded right, women with super large ass and cosy boobs are not marriage ready?

Toks2008:


Na you talk am no be me...I just gave my preference

There are too many ladies in the world for a man to pick one that is not his taste.

I love full boobs which is not the same as being busty. . cos you can be a 34 cup and have full bustline.

I love well rounded as which may necessarily not be big...this is my choice and cosy may be the choice of another...that is life for you.

Toks2008:
Chop and clean mouth is a regular pidgin phrase used in Nigeria to describe a sinister act of taking advantage of a situation or someone.

Unfortunately this syndrome can be applicable to romantic affairs and iit has been the cause of many troubled marriages today as many couples in marriage are total mismatch.

We have had cases where a guy just decides to catch fun with a lady he would never consider his bae just for the lady to get pregnant or blackmail as well as threaten him diabolically and at the end he is forced to marry the lady which inadvertently breeds an unhappy union.

The same case happens to a lady where she just decides to take advantage of a man she never sees the possibility of marrying just for her to find herself in an unfortunate situation.

Many baby mamas and daddies are springing up day by day and several children lack parental care as a result of this act. Lives have been lost through complicated abortions and several other reasons all because a man or woman decides to indulge in chop and clean mouth act.

Except you are a gigolo or a call girl, the simple truth is that we must avoid this act at all cost...never date someone you know you can not possibly marry and if you must sleep with anyone,let that person be the type you can marry.

I don't know if this makes any sense.