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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by prettyJoy22(f): 10:47am On Nov 27, 2016 |
Am bored i need female friends... anyone want to hang out? am in makurdi at the moment. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by gidjah(m): 4:50pm On Nov 27, 2016 |
misterh:the issue of space won't be any problem in as much as you gat plen ty wads to build up the kinda space you need ,like have your special room ,where you can always read,pray and go through rigorous brain thinking and recharging.I use to do such once a while,I have my personal space till date where I do my recharging and charging and always look up for holidays ...my family go for summer and other holidays,I am a Home Boy,I love been at home,thats hw I dig it.so you just pray to get plenty plenty money and you will still always enjoy all the space you always had while you were a bachelor.my people went to SA this sept holiday,I am working on where they Will be going to,they are already asking me plenty plenty??,so they might still travel this season again,but this time to our country home.most of us intro enkoy this space alot,but it reduces as time passes by.once you get married,your space begins to close up,your kids begin to intrude in to your privacies, and been a clergy,I get visitors lots of time so my space closes up the more thus,I do my recharging mostly at night and with lil time at the day. 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by DonOms(m): 1:16am On Nov 28, 2016 |
Oahray: Lol. Don't mind this my brain joor. Yeah, I totally understand as it is the same with me. I guess life just happens to us. But I sincerely hope to go back to my poetry soon and maybe publish a book sometime. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by ModestGal(f): 5:40am On Nov 28, 2016 |
misterh:wow, me too, |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by ModestGal(f): 5:44am On Nov 28, 2016 |
gidjah:Am sorry replying you late,my phone got spoit somhow,how are you sir,i tot d group is jx about sharing who we are, do i realy need help, i think i already love myself,infact i hv self obsession,bt am young girl, i wouldnt mind som advice 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by ModestGal(f): 5:53am On Nov 28, 2016 |
Hi,think this room is for sharing how we do nd mayb Knowing whether what we ae doing is right or not, my neighbour,we gat to tlk cz he said he jx like talking to me,but i knock him off,we gat tlkng due to no water stuffs in d house, then he was goin to work nd told me to see him off which i did,then d nxt day he askd me take his room key till he comes,i dodge it,i kept doing those pretending shits until i finally knockd him off, i cnt jz cope with having to smile whn i dont rily wanto, having to tlk when i dnt feel lik,so sinc like a week we hvnt seen,whnever he knocks my door,i wnt answer,he did for som days til he stopped,nd i dodge him whnvr i am going outside, not like a hate or dislike him, thats jx me, are mine a bad person please? 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by ModestGal(f): 5:58am On Nov 28, 2016 |
gidjah:Yes we can talk offline but on what and for what?u can pm me, am mostly harsh to ppl dt i met online esp whn they dont have any meanigful thing dat could better mylife to talk to me about 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Akposb(m): 7:58am On Nov 28, 2016 |
@modestgal, your vibes are not relational. Anyhow you take it but I know every human being has that element of encouraging relations with others unless you want to be a recluse. Your vision for your life matters, if you intend to achieve great things and lead, you must learn people skills. Yes, introverts can do just that. 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by ModestGal(f): 8:41am On Nov 28, 2016 |
Akposb:yes o,i wish to achieve great things and be a leader,a speaker etc.I dnt realy understand you,pls enlight me more |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by DonOms(m): 3:49pm On Nov 29, 2016 |
ModestGal: What defines us as bad or good is often subjective. So while Mr. A considers your withdrawal and reclusion as "bad," Mr. B might see it as a choice and hence neither bad nor good. The honest truth is, you have complete power over your choices and it matters less what others think. You don't have to smile or talk when you don't feel like but everything has its implications. As Akposb told you, your vision and aspirations truly matter. Everyone leads at one point or another - whether introvert or extrovert - only subordinates differ in size and you need people management skills to be an excellent leader. At least as a mother, you'll lead your offsprings. And you can't afford to frown at that lovely child because your mood says "don't smile" and you don't want to do any "pretentious sh*ts." We must learn tolerance and love and acceptance. In conclusion, Mr Neighbour may be trying hard to be a nice neighbour or a man with a motive, it's therefore your call to know where to draw the line. However, how you draw that line without coming off as an arrogant recluse who is hated by her neighbours is a very important skill you must have at your disposal. "Better is a neighbour who is near than a distant brother." - Holy Bible (Prov. 27:10) 3 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by gidjah(m): 8:57pm On Nov 29, 2016 |
ModestGal:hmmm it is well with you young lady, not to worry, I wont let you get rude at me,trust me, there wont be space for that fora.I am strongly beleving God that you are gonna be what ever HE has programmed you to be, HIS eternal Will,shal manifest in you soonest.God bless you sis. 3 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by SuccyJ(f): 10:53pm On Nov 30, 2016 |
:Dwoooooow. I first met this thread in 2013 b4 I deactivated my account . I was touched by it , I thought I was weird acting the way I do... and I totally forgot about this thread until now. I had to create and acct again just so I could be a part of this Nice bn here... 4 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 9:14am On Dec 01, 2016 |
Liamm: It is very very true that being an introvert has its ups and downs. I grew up myself as one. Didn't like joining conversations, showing what I have and making contributions. But everything suddenly changed when I discovered that I had to love myself the way I am (we didn't create ourselves). And voila I was a self-confident introvert. Introverts are usually creative and gifted in one way or the other, it's important to always appreciate and work on these gifts. 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 10:50pm On Dec 01, 2016 |
I'm an introvert and I love my quiet time. |
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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by steph0(f): 5:00pm On Dec 04, 2016 |
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Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Mumben(f): 5:11pm On Dec 05, 2016 |
i love ds thread. I used to be a very chronic introvert before i got married, i hardly talk, i couldnt look people in d face when talking to dem, it was dat bad. I woudnt say iv changed but iv adjusted a whole lot cos my husband is my opposite, u cant stay wt hm and not talk, its not possible. Secondly my kids re hyperactive, ther is no way ull b wt them n not talk. Sometimes i feel like locking them up in a room so i can have my peace. Its well sha 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by DonOms(m): 5:28pm On Dec 05, 2016 |
Mumben: I'll be lying if I say I don't seriously dread how family can change one's personality especially those little look-alikes that roam around the house |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Melsan: 9:57pm On Dec 05, 2016 |
DonOms:True but one has to adapt by fire by force |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by DonOms(m): 10:09pm On Dec 05, 2016 |
Melsan:Yeah, by fire or by force o. Adaptation is very key. Just like Mumben said, she hasn't considered herself changed but she's well adjusted. One can't afford to be seen as some distant unloving parent or spouse. Things we do for love. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Melsan: 10:19pm On Dec 05, 2016 |
DonOms:Yes oo.. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 10:56pm On Dec 05, 2016 |
Its been quite some time , great shoutout to those here who have tied the knot and already have children to them... Just a little question though, As an introvert, very introverted one, which personality do yoy think suits me best for a happy marriage .... NB: I naturally dont like talkatives especially if its from the female folk.... Not ready for marriage though but a man has to start clearing the land now |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Mumben(f): 10:51am On Dec 06, 2016 |
GloryIsaac:.Speaking frm xperience, ull need an extrovert to compliment u. U said u dont like talktives but ull learn to live wt it cos two introverted partners wl make a very dull and boring marriage. My opinion though |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 6:07pm On Dec 06, 2016 |
Mumben: Wow , thanks for the reply though , but i really really dont like talkatives and i highly doubt if i can stay with one for the rest of my life |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Akposb(m): 7:11pm On Dec 06, 2016 |
GloryIsaac:Not to hype love but it could change your view about people that are talkative. Also who said all talkative are annoying, what about the one who tends to talk sensible things and eventually work and other events would follow that would make you relish every moment you spend with her? Man I would love a beautiful talker but I hope you don't want your home to be too quiet. Believe you will get the best no matter the personality. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 11:36pm On Dec 06, 2016 |
Akposb: Thanks man ... i've always believed that talkatives blab a lot and thats one of the main reasons behind my dislike for them, but i'll be intrigued to see one that wouldn't blab every now and then, we could kick off from there |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by SuccyJ(f): 10:32pm On Dec 07, 2016 |
Mumben: Very true... 1 Like |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by PetiteB: 3:31pm On Dec 08, 2016 |
SuccyJ: Awww, I think you can work out something with your boyfriend. just take the bold step and tell him what you don't like. I have seen too introverts marry and they are good. They may seem boring but every couple know how to have their own fun. So you can always take the bold step to persuade him to talk, that way, you are coming out of your shell. I wish you the best as you try. |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Troubleking: 7:25am On Dec 09, 2016 |
If you are introverted and you have a problem communicating with your partner, you just suck at interpersonal communication... Like alot. Don't blame your introversion, but how you respond to it. It's like an obese person blaming the natural need to eat for his obesity. It's good to bring balance into the home by getting someone different, but be careful you aren't too different or too similar. If you are very introverted, don't go for someone very introverted or very extroverted. A slightly extroverted person who can draw you out at times and also knows how to enjoy some me-time, would be fine. 3 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by Nobody: 11:02am On Dec 09, 2016 |
Troubleking: Thanks a lot for this.... its definitely gonna go a long way |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by LaClicKLaBenDin(m): 6:26am On Dec 11, 2016 |
Hi people, it's really nice being here. I'm an introvert, and I have come to embrace it, fine tune it and keep it balanced as much as I can. But to be honest, my major challenge is meeting new people, especially making new friends: I have tried so much but it's always difficult. It's not like I don't have people's skills, I do, I even led a couple of groups back in school. It could take me a whole year or more to make friends after moving to a new neighborhood, and that's because I hardly come out: I'm always indoors reading, learning new stuff, and sometimes just engaging in creative thinking. I would honestly say that being introverted has brought more advantages than disadvantages, it has enabled me learn more, read more, know more, and has helped me discover the many talents and potentials in me, but I still need to improve on being outgoing, even though I know I'm receptive. I would appreciate any advice. 2 Likes |
Re: Introverts Lounge (Extroverts Pls Keep Off !!) by chimdi101: 11:14am On Dec 12, 2016 |
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