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Re: How To Be Independent In A Relationship by Blair18(f): 11:51pm On Dec 16, 2016
AfonjaStinks:


Hurt ??
I'm too rich to be hurt

In your mind, you think you did everything to please him ??

I have a degree in psychology
Can you tell a lion not to kill ??

That's exactly how it is with with females, they can't do right, they always do wrong

As for guys, there are some natural behavior they posses, even if he's a pastor, he must involuntarily show the behavior
uhmmm...that's good to know but for me i think living in my own world i won't have BP and also won't border myself thinking of anyone
Re: How To Be Independent In A Relationship by eph12(m): 11:51pm On Dec 16, 2016
shakes101:
them go meet u for even their electrical bills
Electrical bills better na. Even when she's a salary earner and has collected salary she go ask for tfare to work just 1 week into the month.

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Re: How To Be Independent In A Relationship by markbenny(m): 1:16am On Dec 17, 2016
Pls tell it to my GF, we neva marry fear don de catch me.
Re: How To Be Independent In A Relationship by tiswell(m): 4:16am On Dec 17, 2016
Carrissa:
Thank God am an independent lady.
Howsad
Re: How To Be Independent In A Relationship by mastermaestro(m): 4:52am On Dec 17, 2016
The way some guys talk contemptuously about women shocks me. It forces me to believe that their mothers are dead. Not just dead but died wastefully with zero impact on their upbringing. Also it forces me to believe that they have no sisters, or if they did, they are irrecoverably lost somewhere in the dark tunnel of prostitution. In addition, I am inclined to believe that they have rid themselves of all female-producing sperm.

Only dumb men have no respect for women! sad

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Re: How To Be Independent In A Relationship by Vapiti(f): 5:39am On Dec 17, 2016
mastermaestro:
The way some guys talk contemptuously about women shocks me. It forces me to believe that their mothers are dead. Not just dead but died wastefully with zero impact on their upbringing. Also it forces me to believe that they have no sisters..
Only dumb men have no respect for women! sad

Ooo My Respect!
Re: How To Be Independent In A Relationship by herlarho(m): 6:22am On Dec 17, 2016
[b][/b] nice write up

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Re: How To Be Independent In A Relationship by Nobody: 6:44am On Dec 17, 2016
AfonjaStinks:


Hurt ??
I'm too rich to be hurt

In your mind, you think you did everything to please him ??

I have a degree in psychology
Can you tell a lion not to kill ??

That's exactly how it is with with females,
they can't do right, they always do wrong

As for guys, there are some natural behavior they posses, even if he's a pastor, he must involuntarily show the behavior

Hmm...
A degree in Psychology.
Do you like dark ladies?
Re: How To Be Independent In A Relationship by Barigaboy(m): 6:48am On Dec 17, 2016
Carrissa:
Thank God am an independent lady.
Are u serious? Well I like that if u don't mind we can b friends or what do u think.
Re: How To Be Independent In A Relationship by Barigaboy(m): 6:51am On Dec 17, 2016
luscioustrish:
I agree with all except number 5...
I agree with u too. When there is trust their wud be no need for jealousy n wen there is no jealousy no love.

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Re: How To Be Independent In A Relationship by Codedrock(m): 6:58am On Dec 17, 2016
TINALETC3:
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Re: How To Be Independent In A Relationship by Smyblueboy(m): 7:08am On Dec 17, 2016
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Re: How To Be Independent In A Relationship by pussyAvenger: 7:23am On Dec 17, 2016
NairalandDSS:
There is always an amount of responsibility and obligation that drives you to think that you are no more independent and this raises several relationship problems including insecurity. While being in a relationship, it is important that you retain your individuality in your own way. It must never occur to you that now living life without your partner is impossible or difficult.

Here are 5 ways to be independent in a relationship.

1. Give him space – It is critical that you give him abundant space to be on his own. It is something every man needs and something he will love you for. Do not nag him continuously and if he has said “no” for something, let him be. If he does not like to accompany you for some party, do not pester him and go alone. You will earn respect in his eyes and this in turn will strengthen your relationship.

2. Make your own money – You must be financially independent. For the purpose of household expenses, it is fine to live on the expenses made by your partner but never become wholly dependent on him for cash. You should always have a source of income that will keep supplying you with a certain amount of money on a regular basis which will not let you slip into financial dependency, which will not let you be independent.

3. Never check up – This is a habit you must discard if you have at once. Never ever call up your partner and ask him where he is or what is taking him so long. Do not send text messages saying: “Why haven’t you called back?” because he might be enjoying a nice chat with old friends and answering your ridiculous query might turn him off. When you let him be, it shows how much you trust him and the same will be reciprocated when you will need to be on your own.

4. Spend some time alone – Learn to spend time alone. Think of the time when you had not met your partner. There were ways in which you kept yourself busy or spent your free time. Go back and do those things again and do not always stick your partner every time. You will discover that there is plenty of stuff you would want to do without your boyfriend/husband. Also, encourage your partner to do his own thing.

5. Trust him – Last but the not the least, you have to trust your partner. The very fact that you trust him and let him be will give enough encouragement to both of you to be independent in the relationship. Do not become so needy that you cannot stay for more than 5 minutes without talking to him and you constantly need to check up where he is or what he is up to. Trust him and you will see how healthy your relationship will become.

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Re: How To Be Independent In A Relationship by Nobody: 7:23am On Dec 17, 2016
[quote author=AfonjaStinks post=51998648][/quote]are you that hurt that you had to quote yourself on the same thread?, eyah, kpele, but transferring the aggression to all women will not take away your pain, getting hurt is part of life, we all at one time have been hurt but we don't go around blaming the world
Re: How To Be Independent In A Relationship by Nobody: 7:32am On Dec 17, 2016
Barigaboy:

Are u serious? Well I like that if u don't mind we can b friends or what do u think.

smiley

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Re: How To Be Independent In A Relationship by Nobody: 7:34am On Dec 17, 2016
Re: How To Be Independent In A Relationship by tartarus(m): 7:44am On Dec 17, 2016
mastermaestro:
The way some guys talk contemptuously about women shocks me. It forces me to believe that their mothers are dead. Not just dead but died wastefully with zero impact on their upbringing. Also it forces me to believe that they have no sisters, or if they did, they are irrecoverably lost somewhere in the dark tunnel of prostitution. In addition, I am inclined to believe that they have rid themselves of all female-producing sperm.

Only dumb men have no respect for women! sad

You should know most "males" on nairaland are kids. smiley

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Re: How To Be Independent In A Relationship by PrettyClare7(f): 7:47am On Dec 17, 2016
I don't agree with not checking up on him. he might even lie about that one if he feels like. I will do it to ensure he is not in danger particularly when he stays longer than anticipated doing anything.
Re: How To Be Independent In A Relationship by pussyAvenger: 8:10am On Dec 17, 2016
mastermaestro:
The way some guys talk contemptuously about women shocks me. It forces me to believe that their mothers are dead. Not just dead but died wastefully with zero impact on their upbringing. Also it forces me to believe that they have no sisters, or if they did, they are irrecoverably lost somewhere in the dark tunnel of prostitution. In addition, I am inclined to believe that they have rid themselves of all female-producing sperm.

Only dumb men have no respect for women! sad
ass licker...
Re: How To Be Independent In A Relationship by obi4eze(m): 8:20am On Dec 17, 2016
eph12:

Electrical bills better na. Even when she's a salary earner and has collected salary she go ask for tfare to work just 1 week into the month.
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Re: How To Be Independent In A Relationship by Nobody: 8:21am On Dec 17, 2016
mastermaestro:
The way some guys talk contemptuously about women shocks me. It forces me to believe that their mothers are dead. Not just dead but died wastefully with zero impact on their upbringing. Also it forces me to believe that they have no sisters, or if they did, they are irrecoverably lost somewhere in the dark tunnel of prostitution. In addition, I am inclined to believe that they have rid themselves of all female-producing sperm.

Only dumb men have no respect for women! sad
as in eh...it beats my imagination as well..
Re: How To Be Independent In A Relationship by obi4eze(m): 8:22am On Dec 17, 2016
eph12:

Electrical bills better na. Even when she's a salary earner and has collected salary she go ask for tfare to work just 1 week into the month.
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Sometimes I wonder what they do with their money...
Many of them see a relationship as a way of making money. Only 0.5% of them are different.
Re: How To Be Independent In A Relationship by Alezy(m): 8:40am On Dec 17, 2016
myzzudenyisarah:

as in eh...it beats my imagination as well..
you could easily tell she zz tiv
Re: How To Be Independent In A Relationship by EJanni(f): 8:46am On Dec 17, 2016
AfonjaStinks:


Hurt ??
I'm too rich to be hurt

In your mind, you think you did everything to please him ??

I have a degree in psychology
Can you tell a lion not to kill ??

That's exactly how it is with with females, they can't do right, they always do wrong

As for guys, there are some natural behavior they posses, even if he's a pastor, he must involuntarily show the behavior
change your ideology about women and the right one will surface. if only you're not married already. I hate it when men generalise things about women. besides, sometimes, many men and women do not know what they actually want in relationships. so stop seeing things in one direction for good people (women) still exist.
Re: How To Be Independent In A Relationship by Alezy(m): 8:47am On Dec 17, 2016
Raine80:
Finally ......Someone who sees life through my eyes. And to the person who is comparing women to goats I don't know what sort of women you have been fraternising with but I am certainly not in that category whatever category that is. There are women who give,support, share, motivate, kick ass and are rewarded greatly. Not all women are all about being wanting what they never worked for. Some know how bring it!
Are you saying you work for what you want irrespective of what your man has?
Re: How To Be Independent In A Relationship by Nobody: 10:47am On Dec 17, 2016
Alero3Arubi:


Hmm...
A degree in Psychology.
Do you like dark ladies?


Yes of course
Re: How To Be Independent In A Relationship by Nobody: 10:57am On Dec 17, 2016
Alezy:
you could easily tell she zz tiv
lol..is it written on my forehead?
Re: How To Be Independent In A Relationship by Barigaboy(m): 2:13pm On Dec 17, 2016
Carrissa:

smiley
Dis is ma whatsapp number (08135044474) u can say hi on your free time.
Re: How To Be Independent In A Relationship by Nobody: 3:28pm On Dec 17, 2016
Alezy:
Are you saying you work for what you want irrespective of what your man has?
Most definitely, I am not adding another layer to his problems , I am not another mouth to feed that expect's and demands a lot but brings nothing to the table. I am there to add to his success. I am not coming from a feminist perspective but a real perspective life is a challenge why should it be solo approach when there is two of you in a marriage/relationship? You can be in either but you can still be your own person. Some women "park their lives" once they find someone but their demands and wants don't stay parked they multiply tenfold
Re: How To Be Independent In A Relationship by Nobody: 5:23pm On Dec 17, 2016
AfonjaStinks:



Yes of course
Ok let us start dating now now.
I have been looking for a Psychologist to date.
I will not let you slip off.
After so long.
Biko make we begin.
Re: How To Be Independent In A Relationship by Nobody: 5:45pm On Dec 17, 2016
Alero3Arubi:

Ok let us start dating now now.
I have been looking for a Psychologist to date.
I will not let you slip off.
After so long.
Biko make we begin.

Okay

Give me your contact

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