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fajani:
there is.

2dugged:
what is funny?

omooba969:
Everything

omooba969:
Ok.

Mirage is what you see bro.

NairalandDSS:
It is common to fail in relationships. There is nothing wrong in failing. It is important to learn from your mistakes in order to move further in your life.But at the same time, it is good to realise why we fail in relationships. When you look back, if you see any corrections to be made to your behaviour, go ahead and do so. This will help you avoid future relationship failures.Pain, hurt and depression are common reactions after a breakup. But soon after that small stage is over, it is better to rejoice.Here are some reasons why to be happy after a breakup.

Reasons why to be happy after a breakup are:


1.You Can Start Life Afresh: Remember that a breakup is a good chance to start everything again from scratch with a new person. This means that you can commit less mistakes this time as you have some experience.

2.You Can Learn From Your Mistakes: Treat it as an opportunity to learn what you have done wrong. In your future relationship, ensure that you don’t repeat mistakes.

3.You Can Do Well In Your New Relationship: Relationship experts say that those who generally have experience from past relationships tend to do well in future relationships as they tend to be more careful.

4.You Will Become Stronger: After you overcome the pain of a breakup and loneliness, you tend to be stronger. This will help you deal with many other ups and downs of life.

5.You Can Make Better Choices: The chances of making wrong choices will greatly reduce after a failed relationship. You tend to tread carefully after a miserable experience.

6.You Will Never Get Carried Away: Even if you come across the most attractive partner who promises the heaven to woo you, you won’t get carried away easily.

7.You Will Learn To Change Or Adapt: This is a very important quality to learn. We all must learn to be flexible to others around us and failed relationships teach us such qualities.

8.You Will Be Grounded: Some relationship failures tend to ground us a bit. Flying in clouds isn’t healthy. Dreaming of ideal relationships isn’t realistic. So, staying grounded is better.

These are the reasons to be happy after a breakup.

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2dugged:
so you find a break up funny? , that's a first

omooba969:
When you get to the place where you realise that you don't have to lose sleep over such frivolities, then it becomes FUNNY!

MuyiRano:
My nigga really love dis girl bt she broke up wt him in 2014-15... My friend was heartbroken but he moved on. He gat himself another chic earlier dis year and dey're still rolling 2geda. But what baffles me dis former girl has been disturbing my nigga dey com back 2geda & start rolling again. She even confronted him in d presence of dis new babe telling him dey should start from where dey left it cos her bf dey deny her d care,, time & affection my guy dey give her b4 ...Imagine, what nonsense!

Even a girl dat told me she's no longer interested in dat care & affection I showered her some years back has been the one doing the calling now, even when i don't think I've called her up to 5 times dis year, stylishly wanting to come back. But I've already moved on... I pick her call now anytime I feel like. She think my life dey revolve around her fine face?
Some girls/ladies are just confused

olunmba:
The post is for American....not for Nigerian...!! Am suffering from 3years broken relationship

AntiWailer:
he easy ?

you spend the good part of ur life with a basttard and they walk away and you think bullet points can help you heal ?

My dear Op, iz like your head iz paining you.

DavidEsq:
Cos u wld be too clingy, desperate to get over the pain with a wrong approach, so u won't c or notice the newbie's peculiarities dat u may not be ok with. That's how Vol II or ur disaster starts. But again, u might just meet a cool one who wld be the best tin dat happened to u.

NanciaKay:
Its not easy ooo op. Cuz even after 1yr and seven months of breakup with my ex, I still haven't fell for anyone yet. and I think of him almost every time. Its not easy please. especially when u both shared lots of beautiful moments together, and you truly loved him/her.

Ask4Info:
I will be very HONEST to you, Break ups are ONLY pleasant when you are still young, naive and with less pressure.

Believe me, for both Men and Women Break-Ups are no longer funny or something to just conclude from age 28years and above.

Sitting here under my chilling A/C while scrolling between tv stations with my take away Fries, Chicken and chilled Bottle of Pepsi and guess what? (for no particular reason) the thoughts of my exes popped up. I started to think of what i could have done to have made some of those relationships work.


I allowed some of the most loving people who loved me to the end of the world and back slip away. Maybe some because of youthful exhuberance, ego and fear of uncertainty. But in all, i have realized i made very terrible mistakes. Unfortunately, even if i have the opportunity to turn back this hands of time as R.Kelly sang, only this time i will be with either a divorcee, widow, or women with child or children. They are No longer the same.


My advice to the youths even though i know they won't listen: Look for True love while you are still young and struggling because the older and richer you get all that will come your way are opportunist and marriages of convinience or benefits.

Don't worry, if you don't understand what i wrote above, you will in some years from now.

2dugged:
matters of the heart can never be frivolous, the truth is except you never liked the person, a break up will still shake up your emotions even if your heart is ice cold

omooba969:
@bolded,

That's the WORD baby , you HEART, guard it jealously.

Ask4Info:
I will be very HONEST to you, Break ups are ONLY pleasant when you are still young, naive and with less pressure.

Believe me, for both Men and Women Break-Ups are no longer funny or something to just conclude from age 28years and above.

Sitting here under my chilling A/C while scrolling between tv stations with my take away Fries, Chicken and chilled Bottle of Pepsi and guess what? (for no particular reason) the thoughts of my exes popped up. I started to think of what i could have done to have made some of those relationships work.


I allowed some of the most loving people who loved me to the end of the world and back slip away. Maybe some because of youthful exhuberance, ego and fear of uncertainty. But in all, i have realized i made very terrible mistakes. Unfortunately, even if i have the opportunity to turn back this hands of time as R.Kelly sang, only this time i will be with either a divorcee, widow, or women with child or children. They are No longer the same.


My advice to the youths even though i know they won't listen: Look for True love while you are still young and struggling because the older and richer you get all that will come your way are opportunist and marriages of convinience or benefits.

Don't worry, if you don't understand what i wrote above, you will in some years from now.

Senorprinz:
i feel your pain bro, having feelings for someone without it being reciprocated is heartbreaking, you just need to be more open-minded towards other girls(eggs and baskets), avoid things that'll remind you of her and next time try to be sure of a girls feelings towards you before you go full throttle on her, it's not gonna be easy, but time heals all wounds, i hope it heals ours too.

Twaci:
It's not easy you know, easier said than done.

uzolexis:
the breakup from my 1st relationship was the only one that really affected me, took me so long to get over him but I got a rebound immediately after to ease the pain and broke up with the guy after I felt better, ever since then I have become so hardened, break ups are not a big deal anymore, I do it without looking back....it's not a good thing I know but I never want to feel the way I felt after I ended my 1st relationship, it was really bad

DavidEsq:
U are on the right track bro I Believe relationships shld be about effective and interesting communication, which involves sharing quality time, appreciating each oda and the likes. So bro, u are fetching water in a basket; the result? U wld be drained of ur emotions. Preserve ur hrt with due care.

2dugged:
like i said, except you never really liked the person, you must feel their absence

uzolexis:
the breakup from my 1st relationship was the only one that really affected me, took me so long to get over him but I got a rebound immediately after to ease the pain and broke up with the guy after I felt better, ever since then I have become so hardened, break ups are not a big deal anymore, I do it without looking back......it's not a good thing I know but I never want to feel the way I felt after I ended my 1st relationship, it was really bad

samdeyking01:
I don't understand number eight.




I need advise on this.
Well have been single
There's a girl I like bn course mate, it took me three month to keen on her, asking her out, this girl don't call nor chat with me nor hangout with me, all i get hugs

Well I decide to just end the chase bcus I don't see a purpose of chasing someone who doesn't care about me, I mean my last relationship I was d one doing all the calling, caring and loving. It was boring as hell. Until I end it and find my purpose for my life.

The thing is, am trying to get over her, thou is hard but am fighting it and I know I will win cos am strong.

But I want to be sure am not doing right thing. Can anyone advise me?

omooba969:
When you begin to go into relationships knowing that love's not enough to hold things together, then you will get my drift.

Have fun sweetheart.

Twaci:
It's not easy you know, easier said than done.

2dugged:
what is funny?

2dugged:
oh I quite get your drift, but I have carefully avoided using the word love and used like instead, so i know exactly what you mean ,and I also know what I mean too, have fun too honeypie