Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by omooba969(m): 10:42pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
fajani: there is. Ok. Mirage is what you see bro. |
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by omooba969(m): 10:43pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
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Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by Nobody: 10:44pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
omooba969:
Everything so you find a break up funny? , that's a first |
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by fajani(m): 10:46pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
omooba969:
Ok.
Mirage is what you see bro. whatever |
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by dyabman(m): 10:47pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
NairalandDSS: It is common to fail in relationships. There is nothing wrong in failing. It is important to learn from your mistakes in order to move further in your life.But at the same time, it is good to realise why we fail in relationships. When you look back, if you see any corrections to be made to your behaviour, go ahead and do so. This will help you avoid future relationship failures.Pain, hurt and depression are common reactions after a breakup. But soon after that small stage is over, it is better to rejoice.Here are some reasons why to be happy after a breakup.
Reasons why to be happy after a breakup are:
1.You Can Start Life Afresh: Remember that a breakup is a good chance to start everything again from scratch with a new person. This means that you can commit less mistakes this time as you have some experience.
2.You Can Learn From Your Mistakes: Treat it as an opportunity to learn what you have done wrong. In your future relationship, ensure that you don’t repeat mistakes.
3.You Can Do Well In Your New Relationship: Relationship experts say that those who generally have experience from past relationships tend to do well in future relationships as they tend to be more careful.
4.You Will Become Stronger: After you overcome the pain of a breakup and loneliness, you tend to be stronger. This will help you deal with many other ups and downs of life.
5.You Can Make Better Choices: The chances of making wrong choices will greatly reduce after a failed relationship. You tend to tread carefully after a miserable experience.
6.You Will Never Get Carried Away: Even if you come across the most attractive partner who promises the heaven to woo you, you won’t get carried away easily.
7.You Will Learn To Change Or Adapt: This is a very important quality to learn. We all must learn to be flexible to others around us and failed relationships teach us such qualities.
8.You Will Be Grounded: Some relationship failures tend to ground us a bit. Flying in clouds isn’t healthy. Dreaming of ideal relationships isn’t realistic. So, staying grounded is better.
These are the reasons to be happy after a breakup.
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Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by Chukazu: 10:51pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
one thing is certain!
"time heals every wound " 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by omooba969(m): 10:53pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
2dugged: so you find a break up funny? , that's a first When you get to the place where you realise that you don't have to lose sleep over such frivolities, then it becomes FUNNY! |
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by uzolexis(f): 10:56pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
the breakup from my 1st relationship was the only one that really affected me, took me so long to get over him but I got a rebound immediately after to ease the pain and broke up with the guy after I felt better, ever since then I have become so hardened, break ups are not a big deal anymore, I do it without looking back......it's not a good thing I know but I never want to feel the way I felt after I ended my 1st relationship, it was really bad |
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by Nobody: 10:56pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
omooba969:
When you get to the place where you realise that you don't have to lose sleep over such frivolities, then it becomes FUNNY! matters of the heart can never be frivolous, the truth is except you never liked the person, a break up will still shake up your emotions even if your heart is ice cold |
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by purem(m): 10:57pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
MuyiRano: My nigga really love dis girl bt she broke up wt him in 2014-15... My friend was heartbroken but he moved on. He gat himself another chic earlier dis year and dey're still rolling 2geda. But what baffles me dis former girl has been disturbing my nigga dey com back 2geda & start rolling again. She even confronted him in d presence of dis new babe telling him dey should start from where dey left it cos her bf dey deny her d care,, time & affection my guy dey give her b4 ...Imagine, what nonsense!
Even a girl dat told me she's no longer interested in dat care & affection I showered her some years back has been the one doing the calling now, even when i don't think I've called her up to 5 times dis year, stylishly wanting to come back. But I've already moved on... I pick her call now anytime I feel like. She think my life dey revolve around her fine face? Some girls/ladies are just confused Ano geh ya point |
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by NanciaKay(f): 10:57pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
Its not easy ooo op. Cuz even after 1yr and seven months of breakup with my ex, I still haven't fell for anyone yet. and I think of him almost every time. Its not easy please. especially when u both shared lots of beautiful moments together, and you truly loved him/her. 2 Likes |
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by omooba969(m): 11:00pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
olunmba: The post is for American....not for Nigerian...!! Am suffering from 3years broken relationship |
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by Nobody: 11:01pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
AntiWailer: he easy ?
you spend the good part of ur life with a basttard and they walk away and you think bullet points can help you heal ?
My dear Op, iz like your head iz paining you. woah. |
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by princetom1(m): 11:02pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
DavidEsq:
Cos u wld be too clingy, desperate to get over the pain with a wrong approach, so u won't c or notice the newbie's peculiarities dat u may not be ok with. That's how Vol II or ur disaster starts. But again, u might just meet a cool one who wld be the best tin dat happened to u. Again, the cool ones are rare, everybody just wanna take advantage of u whether u are female or male |
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by omooba969(m): 11:02pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
NanciaKay: Its not easy ooo op. Cuz even after 1yr and seven months of breakup with my ex, I still haven't fell for anyone yet. and I think of him almost every time. Its not easy please. especially when u both shared lots of beautiful moments together, and you truly loved him/her. Pick up the pieces & move on. |
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by purem(m): 11:05pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
Dis post no make sense |
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by HolyTitus(m): 11:06pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
Ask4Info: I will be very HONEST to you, Break ups are ONLY pleasant when you are still young, naive and with less pressure.
Believe me, for both Men and Women Break-Ups are no longer funny or something to just conclude from age 28years and above.
Sitting here under my chilling A/C while scrolling between tv stations with my take away Fries, Chicken and chilled Bottle of Pepsi and guess what? (for no particular reason) the thoughts of my exes popped up. I started to think of what i could have done to have made some of those relationships work.
I allowed some of the most loving people who loved me to the end of the world and back slip away. Maybe some because of youthful exhuberance, ego and fear of uncertainty. But in all, i have realized i made very terrible mistakes. Unfortunately, even if i have the opportunity to turn back this hands of time as R.Kelly sang, only this time i will be with either a divorcee, widow, or women with child or children. They are No longer the same.
My advice to the youths even though i know they won't listen: Look for True love while you are still young and struggling because the older and richer you get all that will come your way are opportunist and marriages of convinience or benefits.
Don't worry, if you don't understand what i wrote above, you will in some years from now. BIG UPS bro.. I'm with you in the realm |
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by omooba969(m): 11:08pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
2dugged: matters of the heart can never be frivolous, the truth is except you never liked the person, a break up will still shake up your emotions even if your heart is ice cold @bolded, That's the WORD baby , you HEART, guard it jealously. |
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by Nobody: 11:11pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
omooba969:
@bolded,
That's the WORD baby , you HEART, guard it jealously. like i said, except you never really liked the person, you must feel their absence |
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by solid3(m): 11:11pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
Ask4Info: I will be very HONEST to you, Break ups are ONLY pleasant when you are still young, naive and with less pressure.
Believe me, for both Men and Women Break-Ups are no longer funny or something to just conclude from age 28years and above.
Sitting here under my chilling A/C while scrolling between tv stations with my take away Fries, Chicken and chilled Bottle of Pepsi and guess what? (for no particular reason) the thoughts of my exes popped up. I started to think of what i could have done to have made some of those relationships work.
I allowed some of the most loving people who loved me to the end of the world and back slip away. Maybe some because of youthful exhuberance, ego and fear of uncertainty. But in all, i have realized i made very terrible mistakes. Unfortunately, even if i have the opportunity to turn back this hands of time as R.Kelly sang, only this time i will be with either a divorcee, widow, or women with child or children. They are No longer the same.
My advice to the youths even though i know they won't listen: Look for True love while you are still young and struggling because the older and richer you get all that will come your way are opportunist and marriages of convinience or benefits.
Don't worry, if you don't understand what i wrote above, you will in some years from now. Guy whats your age bracket? a) 28-30 b) 31-34 c) 35-37 d) 38-40 |
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by samdeyking01(m): 11:12pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
Senorprinz:
i feel your pain bro, having feelings for someone without it being reciprocated is heartbreaking, you just need to be more open-minded towards other girls(eggs and baskets), avoid things that'll remind you of her and next time try to be sure of a girls feelings towards you before you go full throttle on her, it's not gonna be easy, but time heals all wounds, i hope it heals ours too. Thanks bruh Time of cus will heal my wounds. 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by Stallione(m): 11:13pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
Twaci: It's not easy you know, easier said than done. If i loose someone like u,its better i commit suicide |
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by iAlvini(m): 11:13pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
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Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by omooba969(m): 11:15pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
uzolexis: the breakup from my 1st relationship was the only one that really affected me, took me so long to get over him but I got a rebound immediately after to ease the pain and broke up with the guy after I felt better, ever since then I have become so hardened, break ups are not a big deal anymore, I do it without looking back....it's not a good thing I know but I never want to feel the way I felt after I ended my 1st relationship, it was really bad @bolded, You are the surest & badest chick Nice 1 there girly. 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by samdeyking01(m): 11:15pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
DavidEsq:
U are on the right track bro I Believe relationships shld be about effective and interesting communication, which involves sharing quality time, appreciating each oda and the likes. So bro, u are fetching water in a basket; the result? U wld be drained of ur emotions. Preserve ur hrt with due care. Thank u U have no idea how helpful dis is to me |
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by omooba969(m): 11:21pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
2dugged: like i said, except you never really liked the person, you must feel their absence When you begin to go into relationships knowing that love's not enough to hold things together, then you will get my drift. Have fun sweetheart. |
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by princetom1(m): 11:23pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
uzolexis: the breakup from my 1st relationship was the only one that really affected me, took me so long to get over him but I got a rebound immediately after to ease the pain and broke up with the guy after I felt better, ever since then I have become so hardened, break ups are not a big deal anymore, I do it without looking back......it's not a good thing I know but I never want to feel the way I felt after I ended my 1st relationship, it was really bad U are still in d shadow of ur first relationship, one point that characterizes moving on, is, falling again and being happy. I bet u are afraid and all up till now. U need to feel that way again, that's d only way, all this hard woman feeling is crap, its being heartless. Same thing u are afraid of, u doing it to someone else, well, i don't blame u. U need to jam a guy like me, who will sweep u off ur feet no matter how strong u try to act, besides, wasn't d love sweet? I bet it was |
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by stubbornman(m): 11:25pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
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Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by Nobody: 11:25pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
omooba969:
When you begin to go into relationships knowing that love's not enough to hold things together, then you will get my drift.
Have fun sweetheart. oh I quite get your drift, but I have carefully avoided using the word love and used like instead, so i know exactly what you mean ,and I also know what I mean too, have fun too honeypie |
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by crystar: 11:25pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
Twaci: It's not easy you know, easier said than done. You are on point @Twaci. You just said my mind aloud. 1 Like |
Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by Senorprinz(m): 11:27pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
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Re: Reasons Why To Be Happy After A Breakup by omooba969(m): 11:28pm On Dec 28, 2016 |
2dugged: oh I quite get your drift, but I have carefully avoided using the word love and used like instead, so i know exactly what you mean ,and I also know what I mean too, have fun too honeypie So who left the other, wetin happen gan gan? You care to share? |