Flyingngel:
multikolour post=: OP, which work do you do for a living?
which work do your wife do for a living?
who provide for the house the more?

I asked this question because from your narration you do most of the house chore, like washing her clothes, sweeping and bathing the baby.

you also agreed to cook the soup but you declined because you have forgotten how to, if not you will have.
from the look of things she control you and every thing in the house, sorry I don't know what to say to bring solution to your problem because you gave us little information.




I am a Civil servant but she is not working thou she has a Masters Degree.

SirAweezy:
This is unbelievable! whattttttt? Ooooh see as this guy dey make me dey vex sef... haaaaa for reallll you do took this shiit and call it loveeee?

I am even lost for words, I dey vex
Man remember you are the driver of the home... you are obviously sleeping on the steering. Please man up abeg... you have taken this bull shiit too far. With time your wife will be looking at you as a weakling and she might go out to be with the man with Authority.

krauss:
Finally, I can now agree that some people can go any length to fabricate stories here on nairaland, but my question is, why do that? smh disappointed.

pocohantas:
As at April 4, 2015, you said you guys play like babies.

July 19, 2015...she was pressurising you for marriage

Fast forward to few weeks later, you proposed a little before Aug 26, 2015.

You said you're a teacher and she's a part time worker in a hospital.

You got married Jan 2, 2016.

This is Jan 26,2017, a little over 1yr and it has gone this sour.

I had to confirm this isn't fiction.

multikolour:
then the truth is you are allowing her to control you too much, having a masters is nothing but a certificate.
how can she be doing nothing but you will be the one to wash her cloth and cook when you come back from work, you have to man up and change the way some things go on in your married life.
am not saying don't give her helping hand but she should do most of the work since she not doing anything rather than sleep and wait for you too do everything for her.

BUT PLEASE NO DIVORCE, LOVE YOUR WIFE AND HER BABY AND MAKE YOUR FAMILY YOUR PRIORITY

delishpot:


Have you cared for a new born baby before? You cant even sleep at night talk less of during the day. If you think a nursing mother is just sitting and doing nothing, then you are very wrong. I believe he doesn't was every single cloth of hers.maybe he did when she just gave birth which is understandable if she has only him around her. Typically women who just put to birth need a lot of help. Back in the day her mom and/or younger female family member would come to help until the woman can stand on her two feet again. But these days, husband's may have to put in time if they can't go the old route.
But yes, she needs to calm the Bleep down and work hand in hand with the nice man she has married to help the family work as a single unit. Some women don't get to enjoy half of what this brother is doing for her. Some would even top it with slaps and kicks. She needs to appreciate what she has.

truthsayer007:


Inspector general poco hantas

I'm at your service Ma ! Welldone

ojun50:
Were did u meet yr wife?

Flyingngel:
Pls i will make this very brief. Since when i got married to my wife i have tried to be helpful in the home front but it seem she want to capitalize on that.

She has been doing these many times and i overlook, yesterday own got me mad which i begin thinking if marrying is bad. I came back frm work and she ask me to help her with our baby which i did; but when she came she now told me that i am going to cook the soup, which i told her it has been long i did that rather she can tell what what do - like preparing the ingredients then she will cook. Pls note i wake up everyday by 5am wash d plate, sweep the house and d outside even wash her cloth anything she can't.
Yesterday she said if i don't cook which i stood my ground, then we are going to sleep empty stomach and that was what she did.
My people pls is there any wrong i have done. I am a faithful husband, i assist her in anyway i can but she alway want me to submit to everything she says.
Pls help me with ur opinion because i am weak.

Modified: to those that says am lying, well it is up to you to believe but i need ur opinion. I seldom post since 2012 i registered officially here.

If u are not married, pls pray to whatever God that u serve to give u a woman that understand and respect u no matter the circumstances.

Flyingngel:
Pls i will make this very brief. Since when i got married to my wife i have tried to be helpful in the home front but it seem she want to capitalize on that.

She has been doing these many times and i overlook, yesterday own got me mad which i begin thinking if marrying is bad. I came back frm work and she ask me to help her with our baby which i did; but when she came she now told me that i am going to cook the soup, which i told her it has been long i did that rather she can tell what what do - like preparing the ingredients then she will cook. Pls note i wake up everyday by 5am wash d plate, sweep the house and d outside even wash her cloth anything she can't.
Yesterday she said if i don't cook which i stood my ground, then we are going to sleep empty stomach and that was what she did.
My people pls is there any wrong i have done. I am a faithful husband, i assist her in anyway i can but she alway want me to submit to everything she says.
Pls help me with ur opinion because i am weak.

Modified: to those that says am lying, well it is up to you to believe but i need ur opinion. I seldom post since 2012 i registered officially here.

If u are not married, pls pray to whatever God that u serve to give u a woman that understand and respect u no matter the circumstances.

dingbang:
Please be a man.... Dont allow a woman to be trampling on you like a doormat... Get into d kitchen, cook d food, if she steps in there to eat, give her a hot slap and remind her who d is d man of the house!

miqos02:
bros, are you the wife or husband in this marriage? something tells me you are the wife oh

Opakan2:
so you didn't notice she was stubborn before you married her.. medicine after death

Edwinmason:
you have spoken the mind of the elders

Tazmode:
na so dem dey advice?

Flyingngel:
Pls i will make this very brief. Since when i got married to my wife i have tried to be helpful in the home front but it seem she want to capitalize on that.

She has been doing these many times and i overlook, yesterday own got me mad which i begin thinking if marrying is bad. I came back frm work and she ask me to help her with our baby which i did; but when she came she now told me that i am going to cook the soup, which i told her it has been long i did that rather she can tell what what do - like preparing the ingredients then she will cook. Pls note i wake up everyday by 5am wash d plate, sweep the house and d outside even wash her cloth anything she can't.
Yesterday she said if i don't cook which i stood my ground, then we are going to sleep empty stomach and that was what she did.
My people pls is there any wrong i have done. I am a faithful husband, i assist her in anyway i can but she alway want me to submit to everything she says.
Pls help me with ur opinion because i am weak.

Modified: to those that says am lying, well it is up to you to believe but i need ur opinion. I seldom post since 2012 i registered officially here.

If u are not married, pls pray to whatever God that u serve to give u a woman that understand and respect u no matter the circumstances.

Flyingngel:
Pls i will make this very brief. Since when i got married to my wife i have tried to be helpful in the home front but it seem she want to capitalize on that.

She has been doing these many times and i overlook, yesterday own got me mad which i begin thinking if marrying is bad. I came back frm work and she ask me to help her with our baby which i did; but when she came she now told me that i am going to cook the soup, which i told her it has been long i did that rather she can tell what what do - like preparing the ingredients then she will cook. Pls note i wake up everyday by 5am wash d plate, sweep the house and d outside even wash her cloth anything she can't.
Yesterday she said if i don't cook which i stood my ground, then we are going to sleep empty stomach and that was what she did.
My people pls is there any wrong i have done. I am a faithful husband, i assist her in anyway i can but she alway want me to submit to everything she says.
Pls help me with ur opinion because i am weak.

Modified: to those that says am lying, well it is up to you to believe but i need ur opinion. I seldom post since 2012 i registered officially here.

If u are not married, pls pray to whatever God that u serve to give u a woman that understand and respect u no matter the circumstances.

Tazmode:
I don't think he mentioned it but no one's perfect

pocohantas:
As at April 4, 2015, you said you guys play like babies. In your words, "we play like babies, running and throwing pillows... Finally we promise ourselves to be happy no matter what.

July 19, 2015...she was pressurising you for marriage and you were confused about marrying her, after dating for 7yrs. She said she'll marry you on her own conditions, because she thinks you'll change when you make money.
What conditions?

Fast forward to few weeks later, you proposed a little before Aug 26, 2015.

You said you're a teacher and she's a part time worker in a hospital.

You got married Jan 2, 2016.
This is Jan 26,2017, a little over 1yr and it has gone this sour.
Her character is despicable, but what changed?
Has she always been like this?

I had to confirm this isn't fiction.