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Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by DonGalilo(m):
There is nothing bad with your request but he didn't welcome the idea, so it is better u wave it away, because there is no way u can force him to do it against his wish.
The guy took it too far by saying, is he your Barber, he failed to understand that, the statement could go a long way to have a negative effect on your self confidence n self esteem by declaring it disgusting, perhaps he has been there severally feeling heaven on earth.
What is wrong by saying "babe you know I love you but what you asked me to do is against my personal philosophy, am sorry."
Above all. u need to bury the hatchet, because his refusal might not be a true reflection of not loving u or loving u less.
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by Tomjazzy2: 9:46am On Jan 27, 2017
Honestly, both of you aint mature enough to settle down together if stuffs as petty and trivial as this could make you both stop communicating.
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by Mustiboy(m): 9:50am On Jan 27, 2017
if I were a lady, I wouldn't allow a guy do that to me, even my husband. sounds disgusting to me
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by Nobody: 10:21am On Jan 27, 2017
Don't follow everything you read online like a zombie. Always use your discretion.
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by Sammiel:
You need to learn how to study a man's mood and know what favour to ask of him. Why do you even think what you read on a blog which must have been copied from a foreign source will help to build your relationship? He must have thought you were trying to start using his head.
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by Nobody: 12:08pm On Jan 27, 2017
kateskitty:
Ok so my fiancé and I are back together after much argument but I have since seen how what caused our problem was serious and decided to change my ways. However, we now have a new problem.
So I was reading this blog post by some marriage counselor and it was about something like things to do with your spouse before you get married to know just how strong your bond will be. And what caught my attention was about shaving, it said that couples should be comfortable with shaving each other.

So I asked my fiance if he could shave me "down there" and to my greatest surprise he said and I quote "you no get hand" huh
I always thought that my fiance was the one who loved more between the both of us, but I'm beginning to doubt that.
Now I'm not too bothered about him not wanting to shave me "down below" but he is now begin defensive, asking me why would I ask him to do something that disgusting and if he is a barber.
This got me pissed and we are no longer talking.
Do you play scrabble ?
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by princeemmma(m): 12:49pm On Jan 27, 2017
u mean he should shave the particles on the way to your falopiun tuberculousishuhhuhhuhhuh am not understanding ooooo

Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by ang4156(f): 1:36pm On Jan 27, 2017
That would not be a deal breaker for me because I don't shave. grin
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by Nobody: 1:52pm On Jan 27, 2017
kateskitty:
Ok so my fiancé and I are back together after much argument but I have since seen how what caused our problem was serious and decided to change my ways. However, we now have a new problem.
So I was reading this blog post by some marriage counselor and it was about something like things to do with your spouse before you get married to know just how strong your bond will be. And what caught my attention was about shaving, it said that couples should be comfortable with shaving each other.

So I asked my fiance if he could shave me "down there" and to my greatest surprise he said and I quote "you no get hand" huh
I always thought that my fiance was the one who loved more between the both of us, but I'm beginning to doubt that.
Now I'm not too bothered about him not wanting to shave me "down below" but he is now begin defensive, asking me why would I ask him to do something that disgusting and if he is a barber.
This got me pissed and we are no longer talking.
You this gey, you are just too confused. Infact, Your confusion is hilarious to me. I had follow you again so i could continue to read stupid posts from you which makes me laugh cheesy

If you having problems with little things as him saying NO to shaving you. Then what will happen when you marry undecided

Please continue with stupid posts like this, so you can get me entertained continuously.
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by Nobody: 2:01pm On Jan 27, 2017
firstking01:
Still on still, i still think people who claim to love themselves shouldn't see it as a biggie shaving themselves...too many ego and pride problems in today's relationship, misef tire...the kitty you wag with your dick you can't shave itsad...honestly, if i were the girl i 'll start doubting your love for me and he go tay before you see that kitty.
Guy, You are too funny. So if you ask your babe to give you mouth action..and she says NO. it means she doesn't love you?

In short, this whole thread is hilarious grin grin grin cheesy
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by Erums(m): 2:09pm On Jan 27, 2017
but why cant you just shave yourself....must he shave u...lwwd

i used to tell one of my EX...pls always get your cloths on ...i dont like you staying naked near me even if you got a perfect body.

lemme imagine whats dere even if i saw it yesterday...common

dem go just enter house dey naked like kilode.

abegg my mama no train me dat way ooo
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by firstking01(m): 2:39pm On Jan 27, 2017
truthsayer007:
Guy, You are too funny. So if you ask your babe to give you mouth action..and she says NO. it means she doesn't love you?

In short, this whole thread is hilarious grin grin grin cheesy
Prolly, that's what she will leave me to believe...love knows no boundaries.
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by miqos02(m): 2:46pm On Jan 27, 2017
hmm
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by bazzyblings: 2:48pm On Jan 27, 2017
Na wa o , no b only shave u down der . E go barb you abolo cheesy
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by miqos02(m): 2:49pm On Jan 27, 2017
kateskitty:
Ok so my fiancé and I are back together after much argument but I have since seen how what caused our problem was serious and decided to change my ways. However, we now have a new problem.
So I was reading this blog post by some marriage counselor and it was about something like things to do with your spouse before you get married to know just how strong your bond will be. And what caught my attention was about shaving, it said that couples should be comfortable with shaving each other.

So I asked my fiance if he could shave me "down there" and to my greatest surprise he said and I quote "you no get hand" huh
I always thought that my fiance was the one who loved more between the both of us, but I'm beginning to doubt that.
Now I'm not too bothered about him not wanting to shave me "down below" but he is now begin defensive, asking me why would I ask him to do something that disgusting and if he is a barber.
This got me pissed and we are no longer talking.
why not try to shave his "down below " first
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by Nobody: 2:51pm On Jan 27, 2017
kateskitty:
Ok so my fiancé and I are back together after much argument but I have since seen how what caused our problem was serious and decided to change my ways. However, we now have a new problem.
So I was reading this blog post by some marriage counselor and it was about something like things to do with your spouse before you get married to know just how strong your bond will be. And what caught my attention was about shaving, it said that couples should be comfortable with shaving each other.

So I asked my fiance if he could shave me "down there" and to my greatest surprise he said and I quote "you no get hand" huh
I always thought that my fiance was the one who loved more between the both of us, but I'm beginning to doubt that.
Now I'm not too bothered about him not wanting to shave me "down below" but he is now begin defensive, asking me why would I ask him to do something that disgusting and if he is a barber.
This got me pissed and we are no longer talking.
Lmaoo
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by Nobody: 2:51pm On Jan 27, 2017
But wait, you no get hand? He hasn't taken any vows yet
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by Royalfurnitures: 2:51pm On Jan 27, 2017
She asked you a simple question,.. U no get hand? .Now answer her.

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Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by budusky05(m): 2:54pm On Jan 27, 2017
well serves you right, unna women get probs, if he agrees to shave you now next time you will for more. who know you fit even ask him to wash your undies.




place a man were he needs to be okay?
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by Nobody:
I don't see how that was a simple request. I would turn it down because I wouldn't want to hurt you.

Shaving oneself is hard how much more another person. Before I shave my pubes, I go to extra lengths to prepare myself -- both mentally and physically. Mentally includes tricking my mind into believing it will be an enjoyable experience when I know the reverse is the case. Physically, I prepare my clipper, scissors, shaving stick, dusting powder, and soothing gel for my crotch when I am done. So you can see that it is not an easy nor simple task. I wouldn't do for it anyone because I don't know how sensitive their skin is.

Please try not to apply everything you read online to your life. I may be mistaken, but the woman advising you is probably from a Western culture where their men are open to trying a whole lot of things. You should factor in the wide gulf between our cultures to see if such advise is applicable to your situation.


You sound very petty -- this censure is not based on your whole personality which I do not know, but rather on the contents of this post. I know that as a woman you want grand romantic gestures in order to be assured of your man's love. But believe me, it is not about you alone. You must also learn to love him within the confines of what he defines as love.


That being said, have you shaved?
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by jakesbaba: 2:55pm On Jan 27, 2017
kateskitty:
Ok so my fiancé and I are back together after much argument but I have since seen how what caused our problem was serious and decided to change my ways. However, we now have a new problem.
So I was reading this blog post by some marriage counselor and it was about something like things to do with your spouse before you get married to know just how strong your bond will be. And what caught my attention was about shaving, it said that couples should be comfortable with shaving each other.

So I asked my fiance if he could shave me "down there" and to my greatest surprise he said and I quote "you no get hand" huh
I always thought that my fiance was the one who loved more between the both of us, but I'm beginning to doubt that.
Now I'm not too bothered about him not wanting to shave me "down below" but he is now begin defensive, asking me why would I ask him to do something that disgusting and if he is a barber.
This got me pissed and we are no longer talking.
confused ladies everywhere. They don't knw what they want. Ruuubbbish
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by slap1(m): 2:57pm On Jan 27, 2017
The part where he asked if he's a barber cracked me up! grin grin
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by Elle277(f): 2:58pm On Jan 27, 2017
Aunty abeg grow up nah..
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by Nobody: 2:59pm On Jan 27, 2017
firstking01:
Prolly, that's what she will leave me to believe...love knows no boundaries.
Stop talking trash
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by Nobody: 3:01pm On Jan 27, 2017
Some girls no go ever get sense.

So a guy should help shave you down there?, for what?. Are you handicap?.
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by shehuolayinka(m): 3:02pm On Jan 27, 2017
Your common sense is not common. Not everything you read online is applicable.
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by femi4: 3:02pm On Jan 27, 2017
ang4156:
That would not be a deal breaker for me because I don't shave. grin
you don't?... How will a son of man find his way?
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by princeemmma(m): 3:02pm On Jan 27, 2017
u thought that idea of shaving stuffs will prove the he loves, u got it wrong
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by kagel: 3:03pm On Jan 27, 2017
kateskitty:
Ok so my fiancé and I are back together after much argument but I have since seen how what caused our problem was serious and decided to change my ways. However, we now have a new problem.
So I was reading this blog post by some marriage counselor and it was about something like things to do with your spouse before you get married to know just how strong your bond will be. And what caught my attention was about shaving, it said that couples should be comfortable with shaving each other.

So I asked my fiance if he could shave me "down there" and to my greatest surprise he said and I quote "you no get hand" huh
I always thought that my fiance was the one who loved more between the both of us, but I'm beginning to doubt that.
Now I'm not too bothered about him not wanting to shave me "down below" but he is now begin defensive, asking me why would I ask him to do something that disgusting and if he is a barber.
This got me pissed and we are no longer talking.
Your fiancé to shave you?, are YOU married TO HIM NO! YOU ARE MAKING A BIG MISTAKE , I HOPE HE HAS NOT GONE DOWN BELOW, IF YES HE IS NO MORE INTRESRED ON THE CONTENT, BECAUSE YOU HAVE GONE AGAINST THE WILL OF GOD, SEEK FOR THE WILL OF gOD FOR FORGIVENESS
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by Kagawa10: 3:03pm On Jan 27, 2017
Lmao. Why would you ask him such a thing in the first place? He really gave you a deserved reply. You no get hand to do your thing? Smh.
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by akickout: 3:03pm On Jan 27, 2017
kateskitty:
Ok so my fiancé and I are back together after much argument but I have since seen how what caused our problem was serious and decided to change my ways. However, we now have a new problem.
So I was reading this blog post by some marriage counselor and it was about something like things to do with your spouse before you get married to know just how strong your bond will be. And what caught my attention was about shaving, it said that couples should be comfortable with shaving each other.

So I asked my fiance if he could shave me "down there" and to my greatest surprise he said and I quote "you no get hand" huh
I always thought that my fiance was the one who loved more between the both of us, but I'm beginning to doubt that.
Now I'm not too bothered about him not wanting to shave me "down below" but he is now begin defensive, asking me why would I ask him to do something that disgusting and if he is a barber.
This got me pissed and we are no longer talking.
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