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Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by Zedoo(m): 4:57pm On Jan 27, 2017
Snow5:
Not everything you read online is applicable to everyone..

That's why we have preferences.. Use ur brain!!

If he says no.. It's no!!

So cos he loves u.. If u ask him to EAT ur PVSSY and he says no automatically becomes "he doesn't loves you" syndrome?....


Warn yourself ooo
Then he better not want mouth action too.
You cant blame women....

Mehn I see no reason why somewhere ure enjoying will be disgusting you to look at.....

Hypocrisy at its peak....

Una wan still dey 1980's
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by SmartyPants(m): 4:57pm On Jan 27, 2017
DrogoG:
Oh my oh my!! cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy This is very hilarious!

You have every right to be upset. Your fiance is a m*oron and very unenlightened! He probably thought you were somehow lazy to do it by yourself and thought you wanted to use him as a servant! Many Nigerian men have this dumb mentality (as most comments on this thread show)! Some would start claiming religion told them it is a sin! Religion is dumbing down many Nigerians!

The fool didn't know you asked him to do it in order to spice up the sex life in your relationship. This type of guy will NEVER go down on you, he would see it as an abomination! smiley And he's also the type that won't bother if you came during sex. He may not even not know that women can climax.

My woman and I do this shaving thing to each other once in a while as fore*play because it always ends up with us having an explosive sex. It is a very sexy thing to do to each other! We do other things too! Sex is not only about pulling pants down and inserting a dick into a vagina! Explore!

If your so-called fiance can't even shave you for sex, then you have a big problem. Having a partner you're sexually compatible with, is crucial in a relationship. You're someone who likes to explore sexually while the guy is sexually boring as hell. if he's not your type, now is the time to dump his as*s before it is too late. If you marry him, you will end up being sexually unsatisfied in your marriage which may lead to cheating.

You can't afford to be sexually frustrated for the rest of your life with this guy.
Why are you being a slowpoke by creating your own facts and importing them into the narrative? Her stated reason for asking him to shave her is quite different from what you have stated her. Meanwhile she has not told you she is unsatisfied with the sex, has she??
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by hamedollar(m): 5:00pm On Jan 27, 2017
Na wa o! why are men are afraid to clear the bush in their farms. Until snakes and rats are being killed there
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by HARDDON: 5:02pm On Jan 27, 2017
Catalin:
How is she wrong?
shallow mentality anchored on a purile wave
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by GodsLastBorn: 5:03pm On Jan 27, 2017
felo812000:
GBAM!!!!! Ikwuru obim mehn. Google the meaning plssss grin
Hahahaha Onyéómà àhòtáràm ìhé ìnà èkwú ñwànnè.
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by LoveJesus87(m): 5:08pm On Jan 27, 2017
Epic reply grin cheesy
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by LoveJesus87(m): 5:10pm On Jan 27, 2017
kateskitty:
Ok so my fiancé and I are back together after much argument but I have since seen how what caused our problem was serious and decided to change my ways. However, we now have a new problem.
So I was reading this blog post by some marriage counselor and it was about something like things to do with your spouse before you get married to know just how strong your bond will be. And what caught my attention was about shaving, it said that couples should be comfortable with shaving each other.

So I asked my fiance if he could shave me "down there" and to my greatest surprise he said and I quote "you no get hand" huh
I always thought that my fiance was the one who loved more between the both of us, but I'm beginning to doubt that.
Now I'm not too bothered about him not wanting to shave me "down below" but he is now begin defensive, asking me why would I ask him to do something that disgusting and if he is a barber.
This got me pissed and we are no longer talking.
Omo one bottle of tablewater for your fiancee. He killed it. Epic reply grin cheesy grin
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by wizkidblogger(f): 5:17pm On Jan 27, 2017
kateskitty

PM me, I know guys that will use their teeth to shave it for you. Happy now?
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by Wiseandtrue(f): 5:22pm On Jan 27, 2017
Snow5:
Not everything you read online is applicable to everyone..

That's why we have preferences.. Use ur brain!!

If he says no.. It's no!!

So cos he loves u.. If u ask him to eat ur pvssy and he says no automatically becomes "he doesn't loves you" syndrome?....


Warn yourself ooo
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by favorchild2017: 5:25pm On Jan 27, 2017
so on a good day i wld just say why wont he want to shave you.

Then something made me go deep, and i went through your profile and saw some previous post, which made me see why.

To be honest, I still think you are abit young and yet to understand alot of things about relationship, love and marriage.

My advice for you is to go read books on relationship, study your folks and pray.

You never wld go wrong, alot of trash this days on Nairaland.

It is funny something this trivial wld make you fight, you just made up this same January.

You better wake up and prepare yourself for marriage, all these childish fight nt the best way to start 2017.







kateskitty:
Ok so my fiancé and I are back together after much argument but I have since seen how what caused our problem was serious and decided to change my ways. However, we now have a new problem.
So I was reading this blog post by some marriage counselor and it was about something like things to do with your spouse before you get married to know just how strong your bond will be. And what caught my attention was about shaving, it said that couples should be comfortable with shaving each other.

So I asked my fiance if he could shave me "down there" and to my greatest surprise he said and I quote "you no get hand" huh
I always thought that my fiance was the one who loved more between the both of us, but I'm beginning to doubt that.
Now I'm not too bothered about him not wanting to shave me "down below" but he is now begin defensive, asking me why would I ask him to do something that disgusting and if he is a barber.
This got me pissed and we are no longer talking.
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by Gentlebabs(m): 5:30pm On Jan 27, 2017
We live in a questioning world. Poster, does your fiance give you mouth action? If "YES", is it something he likes doing? Your reply will determine my submission as a Coach.
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by freshinko: 5:32pm On Jan 27, 2017
I can't really hold it, laughing hard as i type this. Men are full of ego, which ladies i believe know very well. But it's funny when these same ladies get carried away when this ego come to work. The truth is that some men swallow their ego in certain cenerio, but ample of them don't give a Bleep nomatter what.
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by sharpsharp: 5:32pm On Jan 27, 2017
kateskitty:
Ok so my fiancé and I are back together after much argument but I have since seen how what caused our problem was serious and decided to change my ways. However, we now have a new problem.
So I was reading this blog post by some marriage counselor and it was about something like things to do with your spouse before you get married to know just how strong your bond will be. And what caught my attention was about shaving, it said that couples should be comfortable with shaving each other.

So I asked my fiance if he could shave me "down there" and to my greatest surprise he said and I quote "you no get hand" huh
I always thought that my fiance was the one who loved more between the both of us, but I'm beginning to doubt that.
Now I'm not too bothered about him not wanting to shave me "down below" but he is now begin defensive, asking me why would I ask him to do something that disgusting and if he is a barber.
This got me pissed and we are no longer talking.
You look decent to demand for such. lol
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by DonGalilo(m): 5:34pm On Jan 27, 2017
Taiwo20:
May you live long. But what if she ask you to shave her and would you.
You are funny
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by cooooooks(m): 5:41pm On Jan 27, 2017
OP this your guy seems stuck up. However, maybe how you introduced the idea matters. This sort of thing should be fun.
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by Cyriloha(m): 5:46pm On Jan 27, 2017
Not every issues is an issue
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by ringi82(m): 5:52pm On Jan 27, 2017
Aren't you the same chic that called your ex "bae", "sweatie".. Hmm. I think u are subconsciously and earnestly looking for an excuse to dump this guy and you looking for an approval to do so. You might not know this, but you are still emotionally attached to your ex.
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by DonGalilo(m): 5:53pm On Jan 27, 2017
Zedoo:
Then he better not want mouth action too.
You cant blame women....

Mehn I see no reason why somewhere ure enjoying will be disgusting you to look at.....

Hypocrisy at its peak....

Una wan still dey 1980's
The problem is that, the girl likes sexual adventures unlike the guy who prefers traditional way of expressing love.
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by DrogoG(m): 5:56pm On Jan 27, 2017
SmartyPants:
Why are you being a slowpoke by creating your own facts and importing them into the narrative? Her stated reason for asking him to shave her is quite different from what you have stated her. Meanwhile she has not told you she is unsatisfied with the sex, has she??
What did you think she asked him to shaved for? You're an imb*ecile!
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by sunnyeinstein(m): 5:59pm On Jan 27, 2017
kateskitty:
Ok so my fiancé and I are back together after much argument but I have since seen how what caused our problem was serious and decided to change my ways. However, we now have a new problem.
So I was reading this blog post by some marriage counselor and it was about something like things to do with your spouse before you get married to know just how strong your bond will be. And what caught my attention was about shaving, it said that couples should be comfortable with shaving each other.

So I asked my fiance if he could shave me "down there" and to my greatest surprise he said and I quote "you no get hand" huh
I always thought that my fiance was the one who loved more between the both of us, but I'm beginning to doubt that.
Now I'm not too bothered about him not wanting to shave me "down below" but he is now begin defensive, asking me why would I ask him to do something that disgusting and if he is a barber.
This got me pissed and we are no longer talking.
huh huh huh huh huh huh

Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by DrogoG(m): 6:01pm On Jan 27, 2017
fujirice:
And you had to call the guy a fool bc he turned down a request?
Bros, no be everybody go be like you na.
He didn't only turn down the request, he scolded her and called it disgusting!
If he had turned her down politely, she won't come here complaining.
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by enigmaticlion: 6:03pm On Jan 27, 2017
Pm me. I'll be more than glad to shave everywhere. I'm waiting for you.
kateskitty:
Ok so my fiancé and I are back together after much argument but I have since seen how what caused our problem was serious and decided to change my ways. However, we now have a new problem.
So I was reading this blog post by some marriage counselor and it was about something like things to do with your spouse before you get married to know just how strong your bond will be. And what caught my attention was about shaving, it said that couples should be comfortable with shaving each other.

So I asked my fiance if he could shave me "down there" and to my greatest surprise he said and I quote "you no get hand" huh
I always thought that my fiance was the one who loved more between the both of us, but I'm beginning to doubt that.
Now I'm not too bothered about him not wanting to shave me "down below" but he is now begin defensive, asking me why would I ask him to do something that disgusting and if he is a barber.
This got me pissed and we are no longer talking.
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by Blitz888(m): 6:24pm On Jan 27, 2017
kateskitty:
Ok so my fiancé and I are back together after much argument but I have since seen how what caused our problem was serious and decided to change my ways. However, we now have a new problem.
So I was reading this blog post by some marriage counselor and it was about something like things to do with your spouse before you get married to know just how strong your bond will be. And what caught my attention was about shaving, it said that couples should be comfortable with shaving each other.

So I asked my fiance if he could shave me "down there" and to my greatest surprise he said and I quote "you no get hand" huh
I always thought that my fiance was the one who loved more between the both of us, but I'm beginning to doubt that.
Now I'm not too bothered about him not wanting to shave me "down below" but he is now begin defensive, asking me why would I ask him to do something that disgusting and if he is a barber.
This got me pissed and we are no longer talking.
And now you're not talking to each other on a flimsy non-issue such as what you just stated above huh?
You lack wisdom!
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by toprealman: 6:40pm On Jan 27, 2017
kateskitty:
Ok so my fiancé and I are back together after much argument but I have since seen how what caused our problem was serious and decided to change my ways. However, we now have a new problem.
So I was reading this blog post by some marriage counselor and it was about something like things to do with your spouse before you get married to know just how strong your bond will be. And what caught my attention was about shaving, it said that couples should be comfortable with shaving each other.

So I asked my fiance if he could shave me "down there" and to my greatest surprise he said and I quote "you no get hand" huh
I always thought that my fiance was the one who loved more between the both of us, but I'm beginning to doubt that.
Now I'm not too bothered about him not wanting to shave me "down below" but he is now begin defensive, asking me why would I ask him to do something that disgusting and if he is a barber.
This got me pissed and we are no longer talking.
you and this your " fiance " sefhuh
what will happen IF you guys finally marry....IF!
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by fujirice: 6:42pm On Jan 27, 2017
DrogoG:
He didn't only turn down the request, he scolded her and called it disgusting!
If he had turned her down politely, she won't come here complaining.
You weren't there. You only heard her side of the story.
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by Nobody: 6:44pm On Jan 27, 2017
kateskitty - just dump him and look for the guy that would be willing to shave you anywhere you like... okay.
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by ayamAgenius: 6:49pm On Jan 27, 2017
Snow5:
Not everything you read online is applicable to everyone..

That's why we have preferences.. Use ur brain!!

If he says no.. It's no!!

So cos he loves u.. If u ask him to eat ur pvssy and he says no automatically becomes "he doesn't loves you" syndrome?....


Warn yourself ooo
Are you the bae's bae? undecided undecided undecided
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by cybriz82(m): 7:00pm On Jan 27, 2017
ehnnn ehnnn just shavin n u no fit call me? na wa for u ooo i cn evn give u 3step shavin.afro shavin.apari shavi.goati shavin.sugarbaby shavin.free of charge seg with my sterilize finger...dm me asap.
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by baby4u2(f): 7:02pm On Jan 27, 2017
A very sane person will not use this as a criteria to judge love.

But obviously, common sense is not common in your case.

Keep on reading every relationship blog and be applying it to your situation.

It's still very hard for me to believe this story. Too ridiculous.
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by Zedoo(m): 7:03pm On Jan 27, 2017
DonGalilo:
The problem is that, the girl likes sexual adventures unlike the guy who prefers TRADITIONAL way of expressing love.
In this 21st century....

Later make we no sha hear say the guy come ballout dey find other things....
It could be pretense...guys Wey I know Wey our mind dirty pass anything
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by Ontop123(m): 7:07pm On Jan 27, 2017
Before nko, you no get hand? Mtchemmm nonsense
Re: Made A Simple Request To My Fiancé And He Made Me Feel Bad by kateskitty(op): 7:11pm On Jan 27, 2017
baby4u2:
A very sane person will not use this as a criteria to judge love.

But obviously, common sense is not common in your case.

Keep on reading every relationship blog and be applying it to your situation.

It's still very hard for me to believe this story. Too ridiculous.
Believe it or not wouldn't change the fact that it happened to me or could have happened to someone else. I don't know which Is it either you didn't read through the post or read it but didn't understand.
In the post I said I wasn't bothered about it but he became angry I asked when I know very well it was just a harmless question which was never imposed on him.
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