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Re: My Hall Mate Used A Hanger To Abort Her Baby. by JeffreyJamez(m): 7:40pm On Feb 08, 2017
SINZ:
Stop fucking small boys that can't take care of you when shiit hits the fan.




But these girls will not listen!

Even the big boys that have the means, most of them will bail when they hear "I think I'm pregnant". grin
Re: My Hall Mate Used A Hanger To Abort Her Baby. by happney65: 7:42pm On Feb 08, 2017
See how girls plenty for this thread..Awonnn weeere..Won time seoyun bajee..
Re: My Hall Mate Used A Hanger To Abort Her Baby. by CSTR2: 7:46pm On Feb 08, 2017
RedRubberDucky:
https://www.lifesitenews.com/blogs/when-it-comes-to-killing-women-legal-abortion-beats-illegal-abortion-10-0

No . yer points have no bases they've been argued by pro choice organizations in the USA time and time again and have FAILED.

There is no safe abortion
Oh lord forgive me for this.
The first link you gave said[b] The official statistics issued by Maryland public health officials showed that there were no deaths from abortion in 1989.Indeed, Maryland only reported a single abortion-related death for the entire decade of 1980 to 1989.[/b]
These four deaths occurred in one small state.The Centers for Disease Control (CDC) reported only 12 abortion related deaths for the entire country in 1989
Now in another link for maternal mortality rate in the US per year. I got the following below

There were 28 maternal deaths — defined as deaths due to complications from pregnancy or childbirth — per 100,000 births in the United States in 2013, up from 23 in 2005, the institute found. The rate in 2013, the most recent year for which the institute had detailed data for the United States, was more than triple Canada’s. The institute is projecting that the American rate dipped in the last two years to 25 by 2015.

Now another link to show the high rate of maternal mortality in the united states compared to abortion.
http://www.medicaldaily.com/maternal-death-rate-us-2016-its-only-gotten-worse-2000-new-study-finds-394630

Giving birth is by far the most risky of all even in the US yet people still deliver babies.
Anyway, abortion is bad, ladies. Respect God, respect your lives.

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Re: My Hall Mate Used A Hanger To Abort Her Baby. by Tominiola: 7:48pm On Feb 08, 2017
firstking01:
Well, i'm not surprised, why?, because this is always the end result when parents restrict every movements of their children especially the female folks...instead of the parents to sit them down and teach them the implications of getting involved in early sex they'd be locking the gates, giving the gate man stern and strict precautions not to allow them go out, even when they(children) are above 18, smh....the day they will eventually sneak out and perhaps get entangled in sex, this is usually the end product cos they will not know how to protect themselves in most cases...some of them when they get home the signs that they just had sex will be written all over them.

You so are so right
Re: My Hall Mate Used A Hanger To Abort Her Baby. by ShoProperties(m): 7:49pm On Feb 08, 2017
Benita27:
Gossip monger!.

You're the kind of friend girls should avoid, so because you had yours in secret does that make you better?...you'll need to explain more on how "hanger" aborts a pregnancy.

Mitcheew!.
this one go don use hanger postinor and all sorth tire even the story no move her
Re: My Hall Mate Used A Hanger To Abort Her Baby. by tete7000(m): 7:49pm On Feb 08, 2017
Benita27:
Naive girls undergo abortions...like the op. I was expecting something reasonable from you...gossip monger!, not "will you keep quiet!".

Tell us how you removed your own, not Tolu or whatever your friend's name is.



Why e come dey pain you like this now? Na you be the room mate? Tell us, don't lie o!
Re: My Hall Mate Used A Hanger To Abort Her Baby. by Nobody: 7:50pm On Feb 08, 2017
CSTR2:

Oh lord forgive me for this.
The first link you gave said[b] The official statistics issued by Maryland public health officials showed that there were no deaths from abortion in 1989.Indeed, Maryland only reported a single abortion-related death for the entire decade of 1980 to 1989.[/b]
These four deaths occurred in one small state.The Centers for Disease Control (CDC) reported only 12 abortion related deaths for the entire country in 1989
Now in another link for maternal mortality rate in the US per year. I got the following below

There were 28 maternal deaths — defined as deaths due to complications from pregnancy or childbirth — per 100,000 births in the United States in 2013, up from 23 in 2005, the institute found. The rate in 2013, the most recent year for which the institute had detailed data for the United States, was more than triple Canada’s. The institute is projecting that the American rate dipped in the last two years to 25 by 2015.

Now another link to show the high rate of maternal mortality in the united states compared to abortion.
http://www.medicaldaily.com/maternal-death-rate-us-2016-its-only-gotten-worse-2000-new-study-finds-394630

Giving birth is by far the most risky of all even in the US yet people still deliver babies.
Anyway, abortion is bad, ladies. Respect God, respect your lives.
https://www.lifesitenews.com/blogs/when-it-comes-to-killing-women-legal-abortion-beats-illegal-abortion-10-0
Yes in that 1 year there was none bit view the other years. In the link above
And u can compare the years to abotion

Another study debunks the claim abortion is ls safer than childbirth in the links below
http://afterabortion.org/2004/death-rate-of-abortion-three-times-higher-than-childbirth/

http://www.pregnantpause.org/safe/stakes.htm


Point Blank Abortion Is NOT safer Legal or otherwise!!!!!

And how u care which is better for the woman is beyond me!!
Abortion kills babiesundecided its still death!!
Let's not legalize it anyware on God's green earth

Re: My Hall Mate Used A Hanger To Abort Her Baby. by focus7: 7:51pm On Feb 08, 2017
Benita27:
Gossip monger!.

You're the kind of friend girls should avoid, so because you had yours in secret does that make you better?...you'll need to explain more on how "hanger" aborts a pregnancy.

Mitcheew!.
abortion associate member spotted, like occult they are already offended that their did is being exposed.

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Re: My Hall Mate Used A Hanger To Abort Her Baby. by SINZ: 7:52pm On Feb 08, 2017
JeffreyJamez:


Even the big boys that have the means, most of them will bail when they hear "I think I'm pregnant". grin

Haba! That furk and run attitude is prevalent in small boys. They not only lack the means but the "know-how" and the psychological strength to take on that situation. In most cases, they are the one who demoralize the girls seff.

Those words "I'm pregnant" can melt even the fiercest of men. But how you handle it proves if you're a real man or just some sissy with a dick.

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Re: My Hall Mate Used A Hanger To Abort Her Baby. by trade4me(m): 7:55pm On Feb 08, 2017
yinkarh187:
chai.... I'm more interested in knowing how she did it with hanger. op can u pls explain to us?

The coat hanger isn’t sterile. It isn’t even clean.

If the woman, or girl, is alone she thrusts it blindly upwards into the vagina. She’s hoping it will get into her uterus and do something. She may or may not know that to get into the uterus the coat hanger has to navigate the small opening in the cervix called the os.

A coat hanger is technically narrow enough to get through a pregnant cervical os, but the end is sharp not tapered so it can lacerate and perforate. Getting any instrument through the cervix safely also requires visualization and knowledge of the correct amount of force.

If she’s lucky enough to get the coat hanger through her cervix it could easily sail right through the back or side walls of the uterus. The uterine wall is soft and easily perforated with the wrong instrument or unskilled hands. If the uterus is perforated on one of the sides there is a high risk of lacerating a uterine artery, as that is where they are located. If this happens a woman who is by herself could easily bleed to death before she gets appropriate medical care. These arteries pump a lot of blood.

The other danger with uterine perforation is the bowel. Puncturing bowel will hurt, but depending on her level of fear it might only be enough to cry out but not to ask for help. However, within the next 3 days the bowel perforation will most certainly kill her unless she gets appropriate medical care. That care will likely involve major surgery to drain abscesses, remove necrotic bowel, and possibly even a colostomy. The uterus will also be infected and may be damaged beyond repair.

If she was lucky and got that rough end of the coat hanger in and out of her cervix without puncturing something it is unlikely she will induce an abortion immediately. In this scenario the coat hanger is really just a vector for introducing infection. In 2-3 days or so she will cramp, and if fortunate her uterus will contract and she will pass the tissue at home. However, the bacteria from septic abortions often disseminates and each hour the condition remains untreated death takes a step closer. If she gets to the hospital in time and they can empty her uterus without killing her and she doesn’t have a resistant bacteria and she isn’t in septic shock and is otherwise healthy she will survive. That’s a lot of variables.

The coat hanger might miss the cervix altogether and puncture the top of the vagina. It could also hit the uterine arteries from this angle and likewise still devastate the bowel.

If the coat hanger is used by someone else, they may or may not get it through the cervix. Same risks of perforation and laceration, because a skilled operator would never use a coat hanger. However, not everyone would know that and some are too desperate to care. The medical sequelae are therefore all essentially the same, with one exception. The type of people who offer coat hanger abortions may also sexually assault their victim, because really, who’s going to report them to the police?

If you are going to joke about coat hangers and abortion you should know exactly what you are joking about.

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Re: My Hall Mate Used A Hanger To Abort Her Baby. by Ishilove: 7:56pm On Feb 08, 2017
TeeFeh:
She's not really my friend anyway,she's just my hall mate that we happen to be in the same hall in school and I would like to share a story and also pass a message with this. Please be patient when reading this and also forgive my errors if noticed. *Names changed*

We are students of "agricultural university of clock" and this is our second year already,we are moving and its quite a good thing.

Her name is Tola and she stays in the same hostel hall as mine but different rooms,well I have heard stories about her and she's also a pastor daughter and everyone knows tola,she's jovial and all sorts but her vagina cannot rest.. We don't know why.

Recently she has been moving around with some big girls and its a very good thing to step up your game and all sorts,but unfortunately they have been sleeping with peoples father. Her friend that's my own friend spoke to her in my presence on a WhatsApp call but tola will not listen. And after 3months she went low and was good until she decided to settle down and she is now dating someone in another department from ours and she got pregnant and she aborted it with an hanger..

HOW??


I mean how did I know?well its not a rumour, it happened because the V.C of my school got this and sent some people to come and disinfect their room and also take her to the school clinic while some of her friends followed her and the gist got confirmed and also take away the foetus in the toilet.

Please ladies,let us be careful and patient with the way we have sex,its not every time that its sex,even if you'll be having sex,definitely not with someone that cannot afford to take care of a baby, because news also got to us that she got pregnant for a tout or so,I think the big penis got her dicked down..its disappointing.

Some of us will say she's suffering or its poverty,see ehn,her parents are really rich!I don't even know how she got engaged with touts.. Its just that,they are really strict and she only gets to do this in school..

A word is enough for the wise sha,let me stop typing now because I'm not typing with my Acer mini but my S31 and my thumbs are aching grin.

Please share this to your female sibling.
Your aproko is off da shizzle

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Re: My Hall Mate Used A Hanger To Abort Her Baby. by focus7: 7:56pm On Feb 08, 2017
Benita27:
Naive girls undergo abortions...like the op. I was expecting something reasonable from you...gossip monger!, not "will you keep quiet!".

Tell us how you removed your own, not Tolu or whatever your friend's name is.

so you are the Tolu, you must be pained that your secret is exposed.

I just pity the unlucky guy that will fall into your dirty life trap.
.
Re: My Hall Mate Used A Hanger To Abort Her Baby. by MrsExplorer(f): 7:56pm On Feb 08, 2017
yinkarh187:
chai.... I'm more interested in knowing how she did it with hanger. op can u pls explain to us?

i wrote a story on this titled Blood on the coat hanger here on nairaland. You might wanna check it out.....believe it or not,,people do this.
Re: My Hall Mate Used A Hanger To Abort Her Baby. by focus7: 7:58pm On Feb 08, 2017
Bahddo:
just like that? How many months pregnancy are we talking about here?
Guy ask benita27 she did the abortion.
Re: My Hall Mate Used A Hanger To Abort Her Baby. by CSTR2: 8:00pm On Feb 08, 2017
RedRubberDucky:

https://www.lifesitenews.com/blogs/when-it-comes-to-killing-women-legal-abortion-beats-illegal-abortion-10-0
Yes in that 1 year there was none bit view the other years. In the link above
And u can compare the years to abotion

Another study debunks the claim abortion is ls safer than childbirth in the link below
http://www.pregnantpause.org/safe/stakes.htm


Point Blank Abortion Is NOT safer Legal or otherwise!!!!!

And how u care which is better for the woman is beyond me!!
Abortion kills babies by the masses undecided its still death!!
And yet in another studies carried out, it was found that[b] women were about 14 times more likely to die during or after giving birth to a live baby than to die from complications of an abortion
http://www.reuters.com/article/us-abortion-idUSTRE80M2BS20120123.[/b]
Infact i have a feeling that your links are a product of a pro-lifer's campaign.
Anyway, abortion is bad, agreed. And i strongly discourage it. I will not advise any woman to do it.
Re: My Hall Mate Used A Hanger To Abort Her Baby. by Nobody: 8:02pm On Feb 08, 2017
BrainnewsNg:


Keep mute quick

You Hot girl
Look at this pathetic being!.

It's called an "opinion" if you don't like it...shove it up your ass, idgaf!.
Re: My Hall Mate Used A Hanger To Abort Her Baby. by Bahddo(m): 8:02pm On Feb 08, 2017
focus7:
Guy ask benita27 she did the abortion.
lol. Boss free the babe na. cheesy
Re: My Hall Mate Used A Hanger To Abort Her Baby. by Nobody: 8:03pm On Feb 08, 2017
CSTR2:

And yet in another studies carried out, it was found that[b] women were about 14 times more likely to die during or after giving birth to a live baby than to die from complications of an abortion
http://www.reuters.com/article/us-abortion-idUSTRE80M2BS20120123.[/b]
Infact i have a feeling that your links are a product of a pro-lifer's campaign.
Anyway, abortion is bad, agreed. And i strongly discourage it. I will not advise any woman to do it.
http://www.lifenews.com/2012/09/05/study-shows-women-more-likely-to-die-after-abortion-not-childbirth/
We can provide link s all day ,baby cheesy

Another study pointing to how women can not just die during abortion but after it

http://afterabortion.org/2004/death-rate-of-abortion-three-times-higher-than-childbirth/
This link is a 2004 abortion to childbirth rate

Re: My Hall Mate Used A Hanger To Abort Her Baby. by Nobody: 8:04pm On Feb 08, 2017
focus7:
so you are the Tolu, you must be pained that your secret is exposed.

I just pity the unlucky guy that will fall into your dirty life trap.
.
Were you not the idiot that fuccked me and refused to take responsibility?.

That foetus blood is on your head too!.
Re: My Hall Mate Used A Hanger To Abort Her Baby. by focus7: 8:05pm On Feb 08, 2017
Benita27:
So what's the morals of this co.ck and bull story you wrote up there?, do we look like kids to you?...if you're seeking for attention, do so with something reasonable.

Who does an abortion with hanger?...you think foetus could fall out just like that with hanger?.
This babe get degree for abortion. How many on the count please?
Re: My Hall Mate Used A Hanger To Abort Her Baby. by CSTR2: 8:07pm On Feb 08, 2017
RedRubberDucky:
http://www.lifenews.com/2012/09/05/study-shows-women-more-likely-to-die-after-abortion-not-childbirth/
We can provide link s all day ,baby cheesy

Another study pointing to how women can not just die during abortion but after it

http://afterabortion.org/2004/death-rate-of-abortion-three-times-higher-than-childbirth/
This link is a 2004 abortion to childbirth rate

Alright.
You win. Atleast for standing on the right side. I was only trying to play devil's advocate.
Re: My Hall Mate Used A Hanger To Abort Her Baby. by Nobody: 8:10pm On Feb 08, 2017
CSTR2:

Alright.
You win. Atleast for standing on the right side. I was only trying to play devil's advocate.
tongue tongueI "win" cuz I do and not cuz u say tongue tongue
Re: My Hall Mate Used A Hanger To Abort Her Baby. by princeakins(m): 8:10pm On Feb 08, 2017
Michellla:
same thang happened last semester here
Not with hanger tho

At where, can u give more insight.
Re: My Hall Mate Used A Hanger To Abort Her Baby. by Olubukola16(f): 8:10pm On Feb 08, 2017
Iluibadan:

So UI student self dy Bleep...Especially those girl at idia... Awon werey, dy can form..

Lol....... Not everyone.
Re: My Hall Mate Used A Hanger To Abort Her Baby. by focus7: 8:10pm On Feb 08, 2017
Benita27:
Were you not the idiot that fuccked me and refused to take responsibility?.

That foetus blood is on your head too!.
If i give you belle you no fit comot am unless you won cross boda.

You won bet?
Re: My Hall Mate Used A Hanger To Abort Her Baby. by princeakins(m): 8:11pm On Feb 08, 2017
Berbierklaus:
Same Abortion using hanger happened in my secondary school,only God did not kill that senior that year,I heard she got married three years back,still searching for the fruit if the womb but she no go remember how she used hanger to perforate the sack that carried her first fruit angry

Girls avoid abortion at all cost

Reweeted. Interesting
Re: My Hall Mate Used A Hanger To Abort Her Baby. by Olubukola16(f): 8:12pm On Feb 08, 2017
Jacksparr0w127:
That's so cruel. I can't even imagine it

Abi nah undecided.
Re: My Hall Mate Used A Hanger To Abort Her Baby. by LePrezident(m): 8:13pm On Feb 08, 2017
RedRubberDucky:
No,that's not completely true, u can live a sheltered life and still not rebel .I've not

Well, you're a rebel waiting to happen.
Re: My Hall Mate Used A Hanger To Abort Her Baby. by Nobody: 8:16pm On Feb 08, 2017
LePrezident:


Well, you're a rebel waiting to happen.
No Sir grin I attend church every Sunday,dont keep boyfriends and pray every night tongue I will not fall
Re: My Hall Mate Used A Hanger To Abort Her Baby. by Nobody: 8:18pm On Feb 08, 2017
focus7:
If i give you belle you no fit comot am unless you won cross boda.

You won bet?
You seat down for bush joor!. grin

Do they get themselves pregnant?. Some of you even give girls money for abortions.

Bloody hypocrites!.
Re: My Hall Mate Used A Hanger To Abort Her Baby. by paulGrundy(m): 8:19pm On Feb 08, 2017
Benita27:
Gossip monger!.

You're the kind of friend girls should avoid, so because you had yours in secret does that make you better?...you'll need to explain more on how "hanger" aborts a pregnancy.

Mitcheew!.

https://www.quora.com/How-does-a-coat-hanger-abortion-work

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