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Cutehector-you too dey seek advice on matters like thiswell,it could just be that you havent met the right person..it doesnt happen to only you!
Ftc for the first time-what will i get for that

olac21:
Cutehector-you too dey seek advice on matters like thiswell,it could just be that you havent met the right person..it doesnt happen to only you

well because my online character exhibits some "badboy" trait don't mean I won't be lacking in some areas... I know I have met one or two right ladies in my life but I ended up breaking their hearts.. I just want the trend to stop.

the guy b4 me I give you a hot stout for that.

how did you enter into anything productive in your life.... WAS IT NOT THROUGH STUDY? AND DEEPER STUDY? to be in a relationship is not yam N beans and having puberty stuff does not qualify you to be in one.... SO GO AND STUDY THE RIGHT BOOKS ON RELATIONSHIP SO YOU CAN KNOW HOW TO HAVE A GOOD NAME IN THAT AREA OF YOUR LIFE..... not from online websites and forums... i mean from books of counselors and guides who have a proven track record of success in that area of life... MATURITY is also another issue... but when you study a few books you will laugh at some thing you may have done in past relationships and correct them in your next.

I wish u well bro

dingbang:
I just want to know how to effectively love a lady, Cuz as it stands now, the more I go into relationships, the more I find myself breaking hearts..


I don't know if there are any good sisters out there who can be of help. Maybe give me tips and therapy



Thanks as you do so... Please don't think I am trying to use this avenue to have an ulterior motive.. I just need a "therapist" figure in my life now...


Tho, there may be some issues that might be too private to discuss online, I"ll be willing to act professional in my encounter with the person(s) willing to help. God bless you.

greatnaija01:
how did you enter into anything productive in your life.... WAS IT NOT THROUGH STUDY? AND DEEPER STUDY? to be in a relationship is not yam N beans and having puberty stuff does not qualify you to be in one.... SO GO AND STUDY THE RIGHT BOOKS ON RELATIONSHIP SO YOU CAN KNOW HOW TO HAVE A GOOD NAME IN THAT AREA OF YOUR LIFE..... not from online websites and forums... i mean from books of counselors and guides who have a proven track record of success in that area of life... MATURITY is also another issue... but when you study a few books you will laugh at some thing you may have done in past relationships and correct them in your next.

I wish u well bro

thanks for this.. I will try buying one or two books on relationships... By the way, am an adult

ADULT? define adult... i know you may be done with NYSC and have beards thats not the same thing as mature... ADULT is not equal to MATURITY.

dingbang:
thanks for this.. I will try buying one or two books on relationships... By the way, am an adult

greatnaija01:
ADULT? define adult... i know you may be done with NYSC and have beards thats not the same thing as mature... ADULT is not equal to MATURITY.

please let's not discuss all that... I came in here to get one or two advice from mature people... Thanks

ok lets start from the basics

Are you in any relationship now?

If yes...do you see yourself marrying her


If no...why

Base on logistics, i think you are too imature for a relationship judging from the recent stunt you pulled out some weeks back.... #No offence!

L0velyn:
base on logistic, i think you are too imature for a relationship judging from the recent stunt you pulled out some days ago.... #No offence!

based on logistics, u are not right with your base in the logistics of your point

HandsomeJude:
based on logistics, u are not right with your base in the logistics of your point

lol Jude no kee me with laugh...

The op will understand better

L0velyn:
lol Jude no kee me with laugh...

The op will understand better

Bally mind now, girls for him alone, I done go sleep

HandsomeJude:
Bally mind now, girls for him alone, I done go sleep

nothing is gonna happen tonight..

L0velyn:
nothing is gonna happen tonight..

tony dull me, I want to see bisola black yansh I do watch night for no reason

HandsomeJude:
tony dull me, I want to see bisola black yansh I do watch night for no reason

you know the camera man often play a smart one on the viewers .... dont expect anything

L0velyn:
you know the camera man normally plays a smart one on the viewers .... dont expect anything

I need just 20mins with the camera man , e get wetin I like tell am one on one

Then stop goin into relationship 4now and seek advise from xperts until u matured to handle one

HandsomeJude:
I need just 20mins with the camera man , e get wetin I like tell am one on one

lol na instruction d nigga dey follow na.... na because of pretenders

Oohh dingbang dear...


What can I say? but I bet u already find a solution sha... Being heartbreaker is not an easy task too but u have to live with it coz it's in u..

You don't need any advice from us. Just follow your instincts.

2dice01:
ok lets start from the basics


Are you in any relationship now?


If yes...do you see yourself marrying her



If no...why

yes I am...



I don't see myself getting Married to her


The reason is because we ain't compatible for marriage...

dingbang:
yes I am...



I don't see myself getting Married to her


The reason is because we ain't compatible for marriage...

Not compatible, why not find your match then? Maybe someone with same interest.

Hey Mimzyy long time.

does means have been ban

Laveda:
Not compatible, why not find your match then? Maybe someone with same interest.

Hey Mimz.yy long time.

Hello there lavvy. How are you doing?

Mimzyy:
Hello there lavvy. How are you doing?

Very well ma'am. I caught you viewing.. Thought I should holla.

How's life over there?

Laveda:
Not compatible, why not find your match then? Maybe someone with same interest.

Hey Mimzyy long time.

well before I will delve into looking for someone , first of all I need to be able to manage a relationship first .. If all my relationships have ended all because of me, then will it be when I find my match dat it will be different?
These are the questions dat are bothering me...


Nobody is helping tho .. All I see here are just insults or people derailing my thread ..