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Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by princeade86(m): 6:35am On Mar 01, 2017
and are u not serving the same GOD
Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by Auki: 6:38am On Mar 01, 2017
She is wallahi inviting you on to the fire-wretched is the resting place.

You worship your creator but she worships God creation. Sufficient is your lord to give you better than that if you believe in him and do right.

Quran: Say, "Is it other than Allah I should take as a protector, Creator of the heavens and the earth, while it is He who feeds and is not fed?" Say, [O Muhammad], "Indeed, I have been commanded to be the first [among you] who submit [to Allah] and [was commanded], 'Do not ever be of the polytheists.' "
Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by Nobody: 6:39am On Mar 01, 2017
No Love between una. By the way how can someone who understand Islam convert to Something because of pussi?
Go and look for someone of the same faith with you and marry it will save you a whole lot of wahala.
Me the other religion girls are for servicing my animal urge.
When it is time for marriage My religion is number one thing to consider them May be Language may be not.
Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by BobHIGHNESS(m): 7:00am On Mar 01, 2017
Why will you change your faith for pussy sake? I see evil after the marriage because it may crash, rather go and marry someone of your faith, no compulsion in religion. If you're convinced enough to switch,that will be good but not for the sake of marriage.
Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by BobHIGHNESS(m): 7:03am On Mar 01, 2017
2016easy2017:

really?
but the moon don't exist by 6am, 2pm, 4pm
kudos. Perfect answer for the infidel
Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by waShine(m): 7:04am On Mar 01, 2017
JimloveTM:
You should convert to Christianity sharp sharp

My mum got married to my dad because he promised to change from islam to Christianity. A year after he changed. Today, am happy he did. We are all happy for it. You will be happy for. It's a Leap in the right direction.

Being a Muslim is an advancement, therefore reversing to Christianity is backwardness, I am not biased, tho.

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Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by waShine(m): 7:10am On Mar 01, 2017
ritababe:

if he change? that's a lie.
Why did you condemn this responsible and respectful advise

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Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by waShine(m): 7:12am On Mar 01, 2017
Nne5:
Why forcing you?
I'm a Christian but that is plain wrong.
What happened to freedom of religion?
You don't force someone to convert to your religion.
That's stupid.


I can't believe some people above me support the lady.
See if she really loves you religion will not stand in the way.#Fact.
Just let her go abeg!
Converting to another religion is something. Now converting because you were FORCED to is something else.Let her go.Your true wife will come.
True talk
Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by BobHIGHNESS(m): 7:17am On Mar 01, 2017
[quote author=olajumokeade535 post=54156515][/quote] I'll like you to qoute quranic verse which stated MUHAMMAD doesn't know where he was heading to? Or which hadith that confirms he's in hell? And a biblical verse which says Jesus was truly crucified, I also have biblical evidence to nail the truth.
Besides,that man had did everything wrong for seeking an infidel hand in marriage,he should rather convince the lady to his true heaven path in a polite way if he's really a true muslim,not the other way round
Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by haffaze777(m): 7:20am On Mar 01, 2017
thexzy:
why can't you read and analyze every lines of word before quoting. Did I say the man should change his religion or rather that religion shouldn't be used as a yardstick for marriage. If two matured lovers agree to settle down, they should do that on their own accord. Wetin kwoncern me 4 their matter. No be their lives to live before..

u did brother,dis is ur post dat I quote
My broda, is she actually forcing you with weapons on your head?? I believe this word FORCE should not be used rather PESTERING. And if true, then I see no reason why you shouldn't yield if you claim you really love and will love to settle with her. Love can make a man do otherwise
D underline says dat love can make a man do otherwise but it can't make lady do otherwise Abi? pay attention to d underline u will realize u said he should change his faith because of love
... have seen alots of it already. And again religion shouldn't be used as a yardstick for marriage...what should matter most should be LOVE and UNDERSTANDING as we all know that LOVE conquereth all things.
#ThePowerOfLove

and u end ur quote with power of love,dats y I said power of love dat can't make her to compromise her faith abi
Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by Nobody: 7:23am On Mar 01, 2017
Don't change your religion brother because she is not the only woman on earth
Alhamdulillah
Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by Nobody: 7:25am On Mar 01, 2017
ollah1:



What sense does this make to you? How does placing hands in the ears correlates with worshipping a moon?
What did Exodus 20:4.5 tell you?






1
You asked a question and I gave an illustration
Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by Nobody: 7:30am On Mar 01, 2017
2016easy2017:

really?
but the moon don't exist by 6am, 2pm, 4pm
The moon doesn't need come up by those times
The moon god was also referred to as "al-ilah". This is not a proper name of a single specific god, but a generic reference meaning "the god". Each local pagan Arab tribe would refer to their own local tribal pagan god as "al-ilah".
"al-ilah" was later shortened to Allah before Muhammad began promoting his new religion in 610 AD.
There is evidence that Hubal was referred to as "Allah".
When Muhammad came along, he dropped all references to the name "Hubal" but retained the generic "Allah".
Muhammad retained almost all the pagan rituals of the Arabs at the Kaba and redefined them in monotheistic terms.
Regardless of the specifics of the facts, it is clear that Islam is derived from paganism that once worshiped a moon-god.
Although Islam is today a monotheist religion, its roots are in paganism

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Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by abatisegun: 7:36am On Mar 01, 2017
lalasticlala:
I got this mail. Kindly read and share your views and advice. The person in question is reading. Thanks. See the unedited mail after the cut.

YOUR ADVICE IS NEEDED: I AM BEEN PRESSURED TO GET MARRIED AND ALSO CHANGING MY RELIGION


"I wonder why she should be pressuring me to change my religion before getting married to her. I sorted an advice from a pastor, and I was told that she was not the woman for me. That i will have problems along the marriage. After I few consideration, I decided to also sort for advice from Nairalanders.

I am a muslim and my woman is a christian. She is forcing me to change my religion which i have been practicing since childhood. Taking such a decision is not that easy you know. To change my religion because of a woman? I don't think it is right. She has also refuse to change to my religion. Now, her family are pressuring and want me to change my religion. I am writing this to seek advice from Nairalanders to give me direction to follow... I know many will yab, insult or in-sugar me... I just need a candid advice."
. if u dare convert from Islam to whatever religion will make u have the greatest regret right from here in life and hereafter.
Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by hisMrs(f): 7:37am On Mar 01, 2017
agabaI23:
You are looking for a girl to convert via marriage? I am very sure that someone like you will force her to change to islam after marriage. Leave her alone if you can't change your religion. Let her be. She has been practising her own religion since childhood too.
well said

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Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by abatisegun: 7:43am On Mar 01, 2017
says who? Islam is d only way to salvation and eternal bliss. even ur Bible confirmed this
Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by hisMrs(f): 7:44am On Mar 01, 2017
Nne5:
Why forcing you?
I'm a Christian but that is plain wrong.
What happened to freedom of religion?
You don't force someone to convert to your religion.
That's stupid.


I can't believe some people above me support the lady.
See if she really loves you religion will not stand in the way.#Fact.
Just let her go abeg!
Converting to another religion is something. Now converting because you were FORCED to is something else.Let her go.Your true wife will come.


Am not sure the man is being forced to do anything, its probably the way he expressed himself. the girl might have given him the condition that she can only marry him if he becomes a christian, and he can always choose to walk away. its even the girl i pity, what if the guy should na change his religion and after marriage he converts to a muslim? Religion should never be forced on anybody. its the guy that should tell us the truth, its possible the girl told him from the beginning that she can only marry a christian and he went on with the relationship. Oga, marriage is not a do or die affair, its about compromise, if both of them cannot get a leveled ground on this matter they should call off the wedding. a broken courtship is better than a broken marriage

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Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by Nobody: 7:54am On Mar 01, 2017
asuustrike2009:

You asked a question and I gave an illustration

And the illustration doesn't even tally. U skipped the Exodus 20:4.5 part.
Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by akinlolumichael(m): 7:55am On Mar 01, 2017
My little advice. According to our culture, women should submit to their husband. When it comes to marriage, u have to come in agreement with yourself. My advice for u is that if the lady can't convert to ur religion then she didn't love you. #shikena
Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by ernesty20(m): 7:57am On Mar 01, 2017
psalmsjob:


Christianity is not about going to heaven when you're dead. It's about having heaven here on earth and never dieing.

Change your mind set about Christianity, it can never be too late for you to do so and enjoy Jesus 'as is'.

Don't say I haven't invited yougrin
this world is too "suffering-filled" to be called heaven.. Man needs to rest after all the suffering in this world, you know...
Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by agabaI23(m): 7:58am On Mar 01, 2017
chiraqDemon:

Why cant she change too
Or better still let each of them worship their own way
Religion should not also spoil love for ppl after spoiling many other things
Did you see where he said that she won't change either to his? Why will he want her to change?

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Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by ibrahimovic04(m): 8:00am On Mar 01, 2017
JimloveTM:
You should convert to Christianity sharp sharp

My mum got married to my dad because he promised to change from islam to Christianity. A year after he changed. Today, am happy he did. We are all happy for it. You will be happy for. It's a Leap in the right direction.

please I will not advice u to dump ur religion cos of love for a woman, don't forget Quran verse that says. Lakum di nukum wali yadeen, mean that your should be urs and her should be hers,
Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by Bashnigga(m): 8:02am On Mar 01, 2017
iPopAlomo:
I'm a Muslim... Le Boo is a Christian...

my grandfather is a Muslim (Alhaji)... his wife (my grandmother is a Christian (Evangelist Holy Flock)... both resting in peace...

my mom's twin is a Christian (mfm)... her husband is a Muslim (Alhaji)...

all married one woman... all stayed loyal... even me sef... grin

Anyways... point is... she saw you a Muslim... she fell in love with you a Muslim... why bring crazy condition at one minute to marriage... I won't tell you what to do... whatever decision you make... stick with it and don't let anyone sway you...

oh... my Le Boo...

Her father Muslim... her mother Christian (Methodist)...

plenty examples mehn... and all had one wife...

Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by murmee: 8:02am On Mar 01, 2017
Omojudy:
It baffles me when people of different religious beliefs are in a serious relationship. Before I married, once I am approached for a relationship, I ask these three questions
1. What are your religious beliefs?
2. What is your genotype, and can I see an evidence (as I happen to be AS)?
3. When can we go do a mutual HIV test?
The responses from these three questions determine if the relationship can start.
On point and recommended for young people just starting a relationship!

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Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by walexsho(m): 8:07am On Mar 01, 2017
I'll only leave this message for the FTCs

Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by Bashnigga(m): 8:07am On Mar 01, 2017
ernesty20:
Change to christian because christianity is the only way you can make heaven when you are dead.

Change before it is too late. Dnt say i didnt warn you
Are u for real undecided undecided
Mehn It's 2017..... I'm surprised ppl still think like this
Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by walexsho(m): 8:17am On Mar 01, 2017
what is drawing Africa backward is the religion hawking like puffpuff, to get a job they have to persuade you to convert, forgetting faith lies in the heart, what makes them different from Bokoharam

Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by Crowny11(f): 8:21am On Mar 01, 2017
lalasticlala:
I got this mail. Kindly read and share your views and advice. The person in question is reading. Thanks. See the unedited mail after the cut.

YOUR ADVICE IS NEEDED: I AM BEEN PRESSURED TO GET MARRIED AND ALSO CHANGING MY RELIGION


"I wonder why she should be pressuring me to change my religion before getting married to her. I sorted an advice from a pastor, and I was told that she was not the woman for me. That i will have problems along the marriage. After I few consideration, I decided to also sort for advice from Nairalanders.

I am a muslim and my woman is a christian. She is forcing me to change my religion which i have been practicing since childhood. Taking such a decision is not that easy you know. To change my religion because of a woman? I don't think it is right. She has also refuse to change to my religion. Now, her family are pressuring and want me to change my religion. I am writing this to seek advice from Nairalanders to give me direction to follow... I know many will yab, insult or in-sugar me... I just need a candid advice."

Hmmmmm my advice to you is that you should change because you are convinced, not forced,
make sure you really understand what you are getting into dude....
Shalom.
Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by kingsmaila(m): 8:23am On Mar 01, 2017
lalasticlala:
I got this mail. Kindly read and share your views and advice. The person in question is reading. Thanks. See the unedited mail after the cut.

YOUR ADVICE IS NEEDED: I AM BEEN PRESSURED TO GET MARRIED AND ALSO CHANGING MY RELIGION


"I wonder why she should be pressuring me to change my religion before getting married to her. I sorted an advice from a pastor, and I was told that she was not the woman for me. That i will have problems along the marriage. After I few consideration, I decided to also sort for advice from Nairalanders.

I am a muslim and my woman is a christian. She is forcing me to change my religion which i have been practicing since childhood. Taking such a decision is not that easy you know. To change my religion because of a woman? I don't think it is right. She has also refuse to change to my religion. Now, her family are pressuring and want me to change my religion. I am writing this to seek advice from Nairalanders to give me direction to follow... I know many will yab, insult or in-sugar me... I just need a candid advice."
Let her revert to Islam as there is no and will never be a religion called Christianity if you doubt me let any person show me where it is written in the Bible or where Jesus said he is a Christian.
Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by walexsho(m): 8:29am On Mar 01, 2017
Bashnigga:

Are u for real undecided undecided
Mehn It's 2017..... I'm surprised ppl still think like this

leave the dọdọyọ alone jare, other countries are busy making the world a better place Africans are busy rebranding religion
Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by olaadesino(m): 8:37am On Mar 01, 2017
If you do, you have missed the only to paradise. Christianity is not a religion but an organization. The only acceptable way of is in Islam, see the example below

Re: "I'm A Muslim, My Christian Fiancee Wants Me To Become Christian Before We Wed" by olaadesino(m): 8:42am On Mar 01, 2017
If you do, you have missed the only way to paradise. Christianity is not a religion but an organization. The only acceptable way of is in Islam, see the example below

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