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Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by monerozi5590: 9:56am On Mar 03, 2017 |
Yorubest:.....Kai!.. I don d fear marriage oh.. Can you just imagine! |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by Andersonken(m): 9:59am On Mar 03, 2017 |
yeap that is true u have to quite d job to avoid further damage's. |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by MMMscam: 10:00am On Mar 03, 2017 |
Yorubest: I'm inviting you to my house to discuss why you felt cheap meeting with your boss for sex twice at his house just by invitation. Come with condoms and don't bother bringing your brain with you because you clearly have none. Your husband married a slut. 7 Likes |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by sheDD(m): 10:00am On Mar 03, 2017 |
xavier047:. Trust is delicate easily ruined and hardly rebuilt 2 Likes |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by osolee(m): 10:01am On Mar 03, 2017 |
Dyt:Bird of the same feather...we know ur type 1 Like |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by Collins4u1(m): 10:01am On Mar 03, 2017 |
''Just twice'', no big deal?... CASOR hallelu! |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by dadabashua1(m): 10:03am On Mar 03, 2017 |
dear God,pls I beg don't ever put me in such situation as a man,gush its really tough for him..in situations like this it takes Gods grace for even the most faithful of men to remain faithful....trust me once your man is not happy and no longer trust u then am sorry....its well |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by Ramaa(m): 10:05am On Mar 03, 2017 |
Women's are evil...... |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by trendyprettygir: 10:05am On Mar 03, 2017 |
Its best if people don't bring their marital problems here, as half the advise you would get are from unmarried folks, who have no idea that marriage is not so easy, but requires a lot of work. To be honest, i am seeing this from two angles. Most times we say to ourselves lets be honest and share all our secrets. However most people hide some and tell the easiest secrets. I won't be surprised if your husband also hid some other things too, which you too might still not know and might never know. There are some secrets you should NEVER share, as human beings have their flaws and might never forgive or forget,even if you both agreed to forgive it and start afresh. They might try bringing this up even when there are disagreements. However since you kept this as a secret, i think you should have corrected this long ago by looking for another job when you had the chance, if you did, you would have been saved from this stress and even if he found out, he would hold nothing against you. I suggest you try talking to your husband, If he is still unreasonable, then you might have to resign immediately (Whether you have a job yet or not). 1 Like |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by Nobody: 10:05am On Mar 03, 2017 |
Obvious fake thread At best, it's attention-seeking. The OP is probably laughing now at those giving serious advice Seems only MizMyColi has also seen this 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by Ab4all(m): 10:06am On Mar 03, 2017 |
austinosita:Am sure the husband already had a "fling" of this info before hand thats why he asked they both recount their past sexual life. madam, my questions are: are u completely over the fling with your boss? secondly, whats your priority here- career or marital life? if the first part is indeed yes, then when your huzzy comes home after work, tell him your intention to quit the job (assuming second part of my question is marital life), make him understand and convinced that is in d past and for the sake of your child. well, handle the situation with care anyway. |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by joinnow: 10:07am On Mar 03, 2017 |
Past Mess hunting u Although what I had with my boss was a fling, he felt I was too cheap as he never asked me out but told me meet him in his house when his wife was away and I did and it happened. Just twice Can you correlate the bolded. Fling and just twice If you want to win his trust back just quit d job. Nothing like fling note just twice is no longer fling. |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by purpledrop(f): 10:07am On Mar 03, 2017 |
Trust when broken is difficult to have again. Quitting your job would have been a very first good step but dearie ma if there isn't any alternative to earn money please don't quit yet. Start searching for a new job but have it at the back of your mind that you are leaving that place of work, not only for your marriage but also for your self worth. Pray to God to heal your husband's heart because right now he is also more troubled than you are if he truly loves you.God help you. |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by Nobody: 10:07am On Mar 03, 2017 |
just twice? even though it's once... he deserves to know the truth before finding out himself. am sure he will learn to trust you again... just be an open book. |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by rosalieene(f): 10:07am On Mar 03, 2017 |
Dyt:my dear its painful Men are more jealous when someone they love is straffing another person either presently or in the past..... Its worst now that she is still in the same working environment with her boss. Her hubby would be thinking she still has something to do with her boss. The trust is no longer there. all she needs now is prayer. she also needs to keep on persevering till the end. Her marriage is still young |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by jjbest123(m): 10:09am On Mar 03, 2017 |
Dyt:You Typed SELFISH SET OF HUMANS? Good, You Can Go Ahead And Share Your Husband Or Guy With Other Girls,Then Tell Me How You Will Feel Later....
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Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by MMMscam: 10:10am On Mar 03, 2017 |
Imagine the idiot saying "just twice", which means to her, having random sex twice with anyone is nothing to her - it doesn't even count. Maybe she has to have sex 100 times with a person before it registers in her mind. Those are the traits of a chronic slut. The unfortunate husband had better get himself another wife and divorce this slut. |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by Adefemiaderoju1: 10:10am On Mar 03, 2017 |
[quote author=zinachidi post=54222752][/quote] You are brain dead with how you reason |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by ipobbigot7: 10:10am On Mar 03, 2017 |
Commit into God's hands, don't worry yourself now with whether he touch you or not, also accept any treatment you receive for now from him and keep being the best of a wife you can be. From to when the atmosphere around him seems welcoming, draw closer to and calmly Explain to him and beg for his trust, confine in his friends and ask them to plead to him on your behalf, don't be hasty about the whole thing but with time as you don't give up the trust will be restored. |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by MultiCEO1: 10:12am On Mar 03, 2017 |
KevinDein: Is there a new yardstick to measure intelligence? With what you both said above with regards to this issue, it is obvious that either you two have a different definition of intelligence or that you are deliberately trying to get on the good side of that lady. If you actually have experienced normal relationship, you'll know that the Op has destroyed trust and trust is the reason the man couldn't just look away. Be realistic. |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by Lexusgs430: 10:12am On Mar 03, 2017 |
Yorubest: Have a crisis chat with your husband, explain to him in the calmness of voice, on your knees, crying etc etc etc Telling him, if you had quit the job, you would have told him, and you did not want to disrespect him, hence you told him all BUT + after you got married to him, nothing of such as ever happened. After all said and done, go have a shower use your best smelling portions, lead him to the shower and have the best shagging of the year.... .. |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by Nobody: 10:12am On Mar 03, 2017 |
Dyt:to forgive is very easy, but forgetting is very hard. |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by 900warriorz: 10:13am On Mar 03, 2017 |
Dyt:we're not selfish! You girls push us to our worst! I just got heartbroken by my fiancée of 2 years plus! I caught her severally with several guys romancing, she even went to another's house and had sex with him and I still forgave her though the trust is no more there! Do you know what I went through within that short period? She was in our room with a man and I was watching from a neighbours window while they were right on the bed romancing! I confronted her and she asked what my business was with her life. A girl I want to marry! She later apologised and I forgave her! That night, I couldn't sleep. I left home 3:30am and jogged 2km away from home....my mind was messed up! Some men that kill their spouse on this same issue, I DON'T BLAME THEM! I've been there and I know how it feels to be heartbroken by someone you truly love.... For my fiancée, though we reconciled coz I love her too much to let her go but you know what I'm gonna do? Dump her ass when she thinks we're still gonna get married after about 12 men. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by ednut1(m): 10:13am On Mar 03, 2017 |
monerozi5590:bros imagine rubbish, d boss go dey laugh during d wedding say see my left over. the first place wey i work, i catch my oga nacking our sexy secretary. yet na jesus dp and posts full her whatapp and facebook . hoes everywhere 2 Likes |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by jackie35(m): 10:14am On Mar 03, 2017 |
Yorubest: DID YOU SAY "TWICE"? OUCH! |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by tradepunter: 10:14am On Mar 03, 2017 |
Yorubest: Some women always trying to package their worthlessness.... God help you, nuh be only twice you think you can come here and tell us lies?? |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by Noblequin(f): 10:14am On Mar 03, 2017 |
Just be sincere to yourself, You can't say you are remorseful and you are still working with your GM, dear we are humans put yourself in his shoes am sure you will act more, Your family first before your job, think of how truthful he has been to you, you sure do not wanna lose him because of your past mistakes, Single ladies, what so ever you give to life will surely come back to you, hear me, what God has joined together let no man or woman divide, Babes respect yourself and be of good model and you will attract your own in other not to regret later, same way when you are married you won't want any lady close to your hubby, apply same rules! |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by sauceEEP(m): 10:15am On Mar 03, 2017 |
I stopped trusting women since I found out a very big secret my financee concealed from me for 6 years... |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by Nobody: 10:15am On Mar 03, 2017 |
Yorubest: Madam, I actually laughed when you said "just twice". There's nothing like "just twice" OK? Once, can be just once, but twice is already becoming a habit and probably if your boss's wife had stayed away longer then it might have been 'just ten times" Anyway, I despise girls who fornicate with married men. But what is done is done. You may have to resign your job because clearly your husband doesn't trust you that much again. What's to say you aren't still sneaking to your boss's home after work once a while. That's the question on his mind. Resign. Hopefully, you have savings. And hopefully your company will give you severance package. Just set up a shop or do something you always wanted to do to bring money. Tell your husband after you have resigned and not before. And don't expect him to get over that sh1t for now. |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by Charly68: 10:15am On Mar 03, 2017 |
space007:A man rock your ass twice & you tagged it just a fling I think something is wrong somewhere if this story is true. . |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by AreaFada2: 10:15am On Mar 03, 2017 |
Dyt:Dyt, the man is very linient. As for me I would have left that house the very first time she admitted adultery. In my culture habouring an adulterous lady is tantamount to death sentence. Yes, I know many of you form oyinbo that these things do not happen. Those who thought so and flouted it, over 90% are not alive to even regret it. Once the man knows, he's in soup. Girls can mess about before marriage. Once married, no more. Before people go on about " how men do it, that is is hypocrisy", well polygamy is allowed across many cultures. Our women desirous of legal multiple pric.ks can go to parts of India where polyandry is cultural. By the way, both my father & grandfather were not polygamous even though their culture allows it. And grandfather was even offered young women for marriage those days. He refused. 2 Likes |
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by Nobody: 10:15am On Mar 03, 2017 |
RESIGN! Ask God for forgiveness, Forgive yourself, career is a thing of this world but marriage is designed by God. it hurts! if you don't want to resign, these will happen- 1. your husband will start flirting, after all he doesn't trust you. 2. your boss will always have his way for a fling any time and any where. 3.you will sin against God, your husband, your boss's wife and your child. 4.you will experience a broken marriage 5. your children will always be confused. |
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