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Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by MisterGrace: 12:46pm On Mar 03, 2017
Dyt:
Everyone saying quit job
undecided undecided

Yes
She has admitted her mistakes
She's pleading
Still pleading
Dunno why it's hard for men to forgive sha
Not like she's still with him sef
Hian
Very selfish set of humans





Y'all should take a chill pill
And stop quoting me
angry angry angry angry angry

Y'all condemning her
Yes we all make mistakes
This is hers and she's willing to correct

So easy to throw jabs at people looking for hope
Like they haven't made mistakes once or twice in their lifetime

Typical!!!

When you say mistake, what does that mean even when she slept with him twice?

Mistake of sleeping with someone else's husband?

Maybe other ladies should start making such mistakes with your husband twice weekly.

Or maybe other ladies should start sleeping with her husband twice weekly and tag it a mistake.

Chioor!

I wonder why some persons don't have any iota of pride in them.

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Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by AdiDami: 12:47pm On Mar 03, 2017
I'M LEARNING
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by stukinherdr1222(m): 12:50pm On Mar 03, 2017
Dyt:
Everyone saying quit job
undecided undecided

Yes
She has admitted her mistakes
She's pleading
Still pleading
Dunno why it's hard for men to forgive sha
Not like she's still with him sef
Hian
Very selfish set of humans





Y'all should take a chill pill
And stop quoting me
angry angry angry angry angry

Y'all condemning her
Yes we all make mistakes
This is hers and she's willing to correct

So easy to throw jabs at people looking for hope
Like they haven't made mistakes once or twice in their lifetime

Typical!!!



hello please put yourself in her husband shoes and read the topic again ,then tell me if adultery was a mistake , not once, twice and you are saying guys `` take a chill pill `` . she should still work with her boss and are you telling me it wont happen again ??

let her quit her job first ,its a shameful thing !! working with someone you had a fling with .
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by Jelal0007(m): 12:57pm On Mar 03, 2017
Dyt:
Everyone saying quit job
undecided undecided

Yes
She has admitted her mistakes
She's pleading
Still pleading
Dunno why it's hard for men to forgive sha
Not like she's still with him sef
Hian
Very selfish set of humans





Y'all should take a chill pill
And stop quoting me
angry angry angry angry angry

Y'all condemning her
Yes we all make mistakes
This is hers and she's willing to correct

So easy to throw jabs at people looking for hope
Like they haven't made mistakes once or twice in their lifetime

Typical!!!
Have u fvcked sm1's husband before,JUST twice and kept it from ur husband? If u haven't pls keep quiet and let folks address dis woman's mess. From the tone of her post,it seems like she aint that remorseful. She messed up twice BIG TIME. 1st sleeping with a married man in his matrimonial home JUST twice and 2nd she kept such a big secret 4rm her husband only 4 him 4 find out himself. Madam,don't come here n begin 2 judge people 4 lambasting this olosho 4 messing up.

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Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by hamzeiy: 1:04pm On Mar 03, 2017
Yorubest:
Hmmm. Thanks for all the advise. I was wrong but there's nothing happening again. Although I used to talk to him fondly about my boss and things in the office which I'm sure makes him not want to trust me. My boss was also at my wedding and he gave us presents and cash which he is aware of.

What can I do now? The trust is gone.
am sorry to say but you where not trustworthy from the begining..you slept with a married man outside his marriage...the guy is even patient
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by hamzeiy: 1:08pm On Mar 03, 2017
Dyt:
Everyone saying quit job
undecided undecided

Yes
She has admitted her mistakes
She's pleading
Still pleading
Dunno why it's hard for men to forgive sha
Not like she's still with him sef
Hian
Very selfish set of humans





Y'all should take a chill pill
And stop quoting me
angry angry angry angry angry

Y'all condemning her
Yes we all make mistakes
This is hers and she's willing to correct

So easy to throw jabs at people looking for hope
Like they haven't made mistakes once or twice in their lifetime

Typical!!!
typical words of a lady that has no shame nor pride..people like you are already all used up and see noting wrong in doing bad.
offcourse you dont expect a serial killer to see anything bad with someone that killed a person acvidentally through his carelessness.

we would say he is careless and should be punished..but you would say nooo!! he just killed a single person. its nothing
fortunately for us..your opinion dosnt really matter

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Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by coputa(m): 1:11pm On Mar 03, 2017
Your GM took you to bed twice in his home when you were single,after getting married,you still deemed it fit to still continue working with him.
I want to put it to you that,despite that fact that you are married,your GM still sleeps with you.because you can no longer turn down his advances.if you had,you wouldn't have continue working with him.
You would have resigned from that job the moment you got married,since you know that staying there will jeopardize your marriage.
Well,the deed has been done, resign from the job first,show your husband the letter and plead with him to forgive you.
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by zynzyn(m): 1:12pm On Mar 03, 2017
Yorubest:
Good morning family

I can't sleep and cried all night

I've been married for 3yrs with a son

Before getting married I dated my husband for less than a year and everything was fine.

I don't want to bore you with the details but before getting married, my husband and I agreed to be honest and tell each other everything. I told him about my previous affairs and he didn't have problem with it but I couldn't tell him about the one with my present GM because I still work with him.

Somehow, he got to find out through one his friends who knows my boss. It's not as if he was told the details but he came from a meeting last Friday asking so many questions. It was about my boss and I had to confess to him.

Although what I had with my boss was a fling, he felt I was too cheap as he never asked me out but told me meet him in his house when his wife was away and I did and it happened. Just twice.

My husband keeps saying he doesn't trust me anymore. He's stopped touching me and he rarely talks to me and raises his voice now

He has a good job that pays well and his salary dwarfs mine but I love the job and my career.

What can I do to win him back? I'm confused. Help. No insults please

royalroy

2 issues

1. You told him everything but did not tell him the one that matters most. He will never trust u with a male boss again!

2. U still work under this guy. U may have to resign AND even forget about career to save your marriage. YOUR CALL!!

When women think it is smart to hide their past from their future husband. Hmmmmm! undecided
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by ShilohEagle(m): 1:19pm On Mar 03, 2017
Yorubest:


Although what I had with my boss was a fling, he felt I was too cheap as he never asked me out but told me meet him in his house when his wife was away and I did and it happened. Just twice.

royalroy
U had sex with him twice and ur husband didn't knw. Even if its in d past, he deserves to know. Sorry to say, u'r a coded olosho. BTW Hw in d world will u av Jst a fling for a person n d next thing is sex. This already killed ur husband ego. End time generations
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by LastProphet: 1:21pm On Mar 03, 2017
OP whatever you do don't resign from your job, stop begging the man because it will make you appear more guilty. As far as you havent slept with that boss since u married him then let your husband be for a while. Even him didn't he have a fling with a coworker before? Abeg let him be, and God forbid if he decides to go let him be, dont insult hi, dont say anything, dont call anybody into it, just keep quiet and continue your work. And lastly how did your boss run his mouth to the extent other people knew his affair with you? that shows poor decision making sense by him, you or both of you. All coworker runs i know are usually coded runs, i hope that is not how you got your job?
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by mzchinny(f): 1:30pm On Mar 03, 2017
Dyt:
Everyone saying quit job
undecided undecided

Yes
She has admitted her mistakes
She's pleading
Still pleading
Dunno why it's hard for men to forgive sha
Not like she's still with him sef
Hian
Very selfish set of humans





Y'all should take a chill pill
And stop quoting me
angry angry angry angry angry

Y'all condemning her
Yes we all make mistakes
This is hers and she's willing to correct

So easy to throw jabs at people looking for hope
Like they haven't made mistakes once or twice in their lifetime

Typical!!!
You're a very foolish girl. See the nonsense you just typed. So the man should just pretend nothing happend. You're just an idiot. You forget the part where she slept with a married man who is currently her boss and hid it from the husband. Now the husband got to know through his friends. This just killed his ego. I'm sure you're one of those husband snatchers who go about sleeping with married men. Anofia! You're really the dumbest person on this forum. Fool!

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Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by Dyt(f): 1:35pm On Mar 03, 2017
mzchinny:
You're a very foolish girl. See the nonsense you just typed. So the man should just pretend nothing happend. You're just an idiot. You forget the part where she slept with a married man who is currently her boss and hid it from the husband. Now the husband got to know through his friends. This just killed his ego. I'm sure you're one of those husband snatchers who go about sleeping with married men. Anofia! You're really the dumbest person on this forum. Fool!

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Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by pweetixandy: 1:36pm On Mar 03, 2017
Cutehector:
no I am not married and I don't need to get married to profer advice in issues like this... Its silly to think one has to have an experience in a cause before preferring advice... God gives wisdom freely to whomever he wishes.. Its in the bible.. Use it
the part where you said this- " Now to d second part, ur husband doesn't trust u anymore. Dats fatal! Believe me.. Once a man can't trust his wife again then there is absolutely nothing she will do that will make him trust her back", made me ask whether you Don marry.

he will trust her again after she quits her job.
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by zinachidi(m): 1:38pm On Mar 03, 2017
Adefemiaderoju1:


You are brain dead with how you reason
so u can't make your point without beefing me? Una self. No worries.
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by TheeDetective: 1:40pm On Mar 03, 2017
Sometimes it's good for one to keep quiet when they have nothing useful to contribute on an issue instead of typing nansense.
Dyt:
Everyone saying quit job
undecided undecided

Yes
She has admitted her mistakes
She's pleading
Still pleading
Dunno why it's hard for men to forgive sha
Not like she's still with him sef
Hian
Very selfish set of humans





Y'all should take a chill pill
And stop quoting me
angry angry angry angry angry

Y'all condemning her
Yes we all make mistakes
This is hers and she's willing to correct

So easy to throw jabs at people looking for hope
Like they haven't made mistakes once or twice in their lifetime

Typical!!!

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Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by Nobody: 1:41pm On Mar 03, 2017
Hmmm to tell u d truth, ur situation is a serious one but if u r confident that ur affairs wit ur boss is history then i suggest u go 2 God in prayers, u can also seek out a marriage counsellor, i believe u can stil win his trust.
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by mzchinny(f): 1:42pm On Mar 03, 2017
[quote author=Dyt post=54234382][/quote] Whor.e
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by Nobody: 1:43pm On Mar 03, 2017
Quit your job and watch him treat you like a rag when you depend on him.

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Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by Fortissimo502: 1:43pm On Mar 03, 2017
Superstory. Is the OP even female?

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Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by Dyt(f): 1:44pm On Mar 03, 2017
TheeDetective:
Sometimes it's good for one to keep quiet when they have nothing useful to contribute on an issue instead of typing nansense.

K
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by Dyt(f): 1:46pm On Mar 03, 2017
mzchinny:
Whor.e

cheesy cheesy cheesy
It takes one to know another

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Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by mzchinny(f): 1:48pm On Mar 03, 2017
Dyt:


cheesy cheesy cheesy
It takes one to know another
hehehe. Sorry for calling you that though.
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by Nobody: 1:50pm On Mar 03, 2017
LastProphet:
OP whatever you do don't resign from your job, stop begging the man because it will make you appear more guilty. As far as you havent slept with that boss since u married him then let your husband be for a while. Even him didn't he have a fling with a coworker before? Abeg let him be, and God forbid if he decides to go let him be, dont insult hi, dont say anything, dont call anybody into it, just keep quiet and continue your work. And lastly how did your boss run his mouth to the extent other people knew his affair with you? that shows poor decision making sense by him, you or both of you. All coworker runs i know are usually coded runs, i hope that is not how you got your job?
Wow....
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by TheeDetective: 1:55pm On Mar 03, 2017
Dyt:


K
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by Dyt(f): 1:59pm On Mar 03, 2017
mzchinny:
hehehe. Sorry for calling you that though.

Actually I Wasn't angry
smiley smiley

TheeDetective:
I know it can be really annoying
cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by Duru009(m): 2:10pm On Mar 03, 2017
I have always warm ladies that work closely with their boss. Don't ever start things you know you can't finish.. .



#thesame story is currently playing out in my office. Btw our boss n his secretary. The secretary is currently separated frm d husband becos of the relationship with our boss.......
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by itiswell1(m): 2:20pm On Mar 03, 2017
[quote author=zinachidi post=54222752][/quote]

How will she prove please?
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by TheeDetective: 2:25pm On Mar 03, 2017
Really? undecided then call a spade a spade. cool
Dyt:



I know it can be really annoying
cheesy cheesy cheesy

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Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by Cutehector(m): 2:33pm On Mar 03, 2017
pweetixandy:
the part where you said this- " Now to d second part, ur husband doesn't trust u anymore. Dats fatal! Believe me.. Once a man can't trust his wife again then there is absolutely nothing she will do that will make him trust her back", made me ask whether you Don marry.

he will trust her again after she quits her job.
lol.. U are not a man.. Only men will understand... Thanks
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by Naruto87(m): 2:42pm On Mar 03, 2017
keep ur job, divorce ur hubby and move on...bcaus he probably will never trust u,he'll cheat on u repeatedly. men too can be very wicked especially when we feel its justified.
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by Naruto87(m): 2:44pm On Mar 03, 2017
Cutehector:
lol.. U are not a man.. Only men will understand... Thanks

nice reply...its like the girl doesn't know a man's heart.
Re: My Boss Is Threatening My Marriage by samuelezekiel(m): 3:03pm On Mar 03, 2017
Dyt:
Everyone saying quit job
undecided undecided

Yes
She has admitted her mistakes
She's pleading
Still pleading
Dunno why it's hard for men to forgive sha
Not like she's still with him sef
Hian
Very selfish set of humans





Y'all should take a chill pill
And stop quoting me
angry angry angry angry angry

Y'all condemning her
Yes we all make mistakes
This is hers and she's willing to correct

So easy to throw jabs at people looking for hope
Like they haven't made mistakes once or twice in their lifetime

Typical!!!

When it's done once, it's a mistake but, twice that's to say she enjoyed it
She has no regard for the husband
No respect for her man
She don't know what love is

To the OP...
I think the man must be born around November or December
If yes, he definitely loves you and the truth is he still loves you but, he can never and will never trust you again
If you still love him and want to save the relationship you have to show him that you love him and that he can trust you because you have change for better
Am not saying it will be easy, it's wouldnt be easy for him
It might take years before he will finally believe
One thing I know is if he's born around November or December he will never cheat on you, he may flirt but never cheats

He has to convince himself that he can trust you and you are the only one that can show him that...
The ball is in your court, wish you luck.

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