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Re: Husband Waits To Have Sex Until Marriage . . . Then Learns Wife Is 4 Months Preg by Blackblood247: 12:12pm On Mar 04, 2017
angryShe's not your wife!
Re: Husband Waits To Have Sex Until Marriage . . . Then Learns Wife Is 4 Months Preg by Nauttyprof(m): 12:12pm On Mar 04, 2017
I think reading in between the lines will raise some questions on this matter.

1. Based on his Christian values, was the wedding done in church?

2. If done in church, was there marriage counseling prior to wedding?

3. If marriage counseling was done, didn't they carry out test?

4. if any test result was presented, did they both worked on presenting fake results?

I guess the husband with Christian values needs to answer this
Re: Husband Waits To Have Sex Until Marriage . . . Then Learns Wife Is 4 Months Preg by madridguy(m): 12:12pm On Mar 04, 2017
I wish some guys will learn.

AreaFada2:


Nor mind am. Nothing new here.

I say it every time here that around 35% of firstborn kids do not belong to supposed biological dad.

Over 25% of all kids do not belong to supposed biological dad.

DNA labs have shown this over the last few years.

However, it is a secret lots of women are ready to kill for in order to keep somebody who knows silent. Especially if the hubby is rich & is her only meal ticket.

Plus polls after polls in recent years put Nigerian women as the most unfaithful. That is double whammy!

While you're doing your churchy no sex dating, yeye guys out there are recklessly pulverising the punany and getting your fiancee preggy on your behalf.
Nice one. grin cheesy
Re: Husband Waits To Have Sex Until Marriage . . . Then Learns Wife Is 4 Months Preg by LagosIkd(m): 12:13pm On Mar 04, 2017
menxer:
Christian values in deed, I guess that didn't apply to the lady in this case?

Oooookk, I get it, it is premarital sex, it doesn't apply if you have sex with another person that is not going to marry you.

Even bible say "test (taste) every spirit..."





Shorrop
Re: Husband Waits To Have Sex Until Marriage . . . Then Learns Wife Is 4 Months Preg by Jabioro: 12:13pm On Mar 04, 2017
SmartyPants:


Will you shut up?
Get out there if don't know what to say or how to constructively criticize ..
Re: Husband Waits To Have Sex Until Marriage . . . Then Learns Wife Is 4 Months Preg by LastProphet: 12:16pm On Mar 04, 2017
menxer:
Christian values in deed, I guess that didn't apply to the lady in this case?

Oooookk, I get it, it is premarital sex, it doesn't apply if you have sex with another person that is not going to marry you.

Even bible say "test (taste) every spirit..."


hahahahahahaha
Re: Husband Waits To Have Sex Until Marriage . . . Then Learns Wife Is 4 Months Preg by Nobody: 12:17pm On Mar 04, 2017
Ignorance of the Law can be terrible. What the wife has done is a ground for voiding the marriage. This means in the eyes of the Law, the man was never married. The marriage will be voided. Consult a lawyer immediately.

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Re: Husband Waits To Have Sex Until Marriage . . . Then Learns Wife Is 4 Months Preg by menxer: 12:18pm On Mar 04, 2017
zurumking:
you are preaching heresy

Heresy is "belief or opinion contrary to orthodox religious (especially Christian) doctrine." Or "opinion profoundly at odds with what is generally accepted."

Heresy does not mean it is not true but it is a truth that is not accepted by Orthodox religion.
Re: Husband Waits To Have Sex Until Marriage . . . Then Learns Wife Is 4 Months Preg by NevetsIbot(m): 12:18pm On Mar 04, 2017
all you gays saying a divorce is not accepted in christainity are so wrong. A marriage can be put to an end in case of infidelity like this case

Matthew 5:31-32

31 “It has been said, ‘Anyone who divorces his wife must give her a
certificate of divorce.’

32 But I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for
sexual immorality, makes her the victim of
adultery, and anyone who marries a
divorced woman commits adultery.

Even Jesus supported it.

Matthew 19:8-9

8 Jesus replied, “Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because your hearts
were hard. But it was not this way from
the beginning.

9 I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual
immorality, and marries another woman
commits adultery.”
Re: Husband Waits To Have Sex Until Marriage . . . Then Learns Wife Is 4 Months Preg by centboy123456(m): 12:22pm On Mar 04, 2017
CplusJason:
Like my friend will say, always make sure you "test" the product first before purchasing it.






hello sir can you tell me the product you want to buy before purchase because I don't understand tell me more


Re: Husband Waits To Have Sex Until Marriage . . . Then Learns Wife Is 4 Months Preg by menxer: 12:25pm On Mar 04, 2017
That scripture can only apply if the woman committed the infidelity in marriage, which is not the case here.

The act was committed month(s) before the commencement of marriage, in which case she was not yet under marital vow or obligation.

NevetsIbot:
all you gays saying a divorce is not accepted in christainity are so wrong. A marriage can be put to an end in case of infidelity like this case

Matthew 5:31-32

31 “It has been said, ‘Anyone who divorces his wife must give her a
certificate of divorce.’

32 But I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for
sexual immorality, makes her the victim of
adultery, and anyone who marries a
divorced woman commits adultery.

Even Jesus supported it.

Matthew 19:8-9

8 Jesus replied, “Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because your hearts
were hard. But it was not this way from
the beginning.

9 I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual
immorality, and marries another woman
commits adultery.”
Re: Husband Waits To Have Sex Until Marriage . . . Then Learns Wife Is 4 Months Preg by Originalsly: 12:26pm On Mar 04, 2017
Cire80:
read Mtt 5, Lk 16. You'll understand this better. I can give you more references if you want
Matt 5:31...It had been said, whoever shall put away his wife, let him write her a letter of divorcement. Thanks for supporting my comment.
Re: Husband Waits To Have Sex Until Marriage . . . Then Learns Wife Is 4 Months Preg by CplusJason: 12:29pm On Mar 04, 2017
centboy123456:
hello sir can you tell me the product you want to buy before purchase because I don't understand tell me more
Hello sir, have you listen to this song "If you ask me" by Omawumi?

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Re: Husband Waits To Have Sex Until Marriage . . . Then Learns Wife Is 4 Months Preg by NevetsIbot(m): 12:30pm On Mar 04, 2017
menxer:
That scripture can only apply if the woman committed the infidelity in marriage, which is not the case here.

it doesnt matter... The fruit of that infidelity is there.... Her pregnancy..... They had plans to get married but she defiled herself and brought the fruit of her infidelity to her marriage.

Moreover, my post was just to alert men that a divorce based on infidelity is accepted
Re: Husband Waits To Have Sex Until Marriage . . . Then Learns Wife Is 4 Months Preg by ojtech8291: 12:31pm On Mar 04, 2017
This guy needs amalgamated slap. undecided the wife is not your own you went ahead and marry her. Do you think is holy spirit that visited her?
Re: Husband Waits To Have Sex Until Marriage . . . Then Learns Wife Is 4 Months Preg by formular2002(m): 12:31pm On Mar 04, 2017
the church dat conducted d wedding is to b blamed (except if not done in d church)
Re: Husband Waits To Have Sex Until Marriage . . . Then Learns Wife Is 4 Months Preg by Nobody: 12:31pm On Mar 04, 2017
YOUNGELDER1:
Can't even imagine .will call a family meeting immediately .
Hahahaha



#Na 419.
Re: Husband Waits To Have Sex Until Marriage . . . Then Learns Wife Is 4 Months Preg by Firstcitizen: 12:34pm On Mar 04, 2017
madridguy:
I blame the mumu man.
Why
Re: Husband Waits To Have Sex Until Marriage . . . Then Learns Wife Is 4 Months Preg by ngolokante(m): 12:34pm On Mar 04, 2017
Sunnymatey:
You suspected yet went ahead with the marriage now that its been confirmed my brother to err is human and to forgive divine. Remember that our saviour came through the same scenerio.

"Remember that our saviour came through the same scenerio" Please help me here, can you just please shed more light on this...I don't want to jump into any conclusions...
Re: Husband Waits To Have Sex Until Marriage . . . Then Learns Wife Is 4 Months Preg by centboy123456(m): 12:34pm On Mar 04, 2017
CplusJason:
Hello sir, have you listen to this song "If you ask me" by Omawumi?



no I have not but sir wat is the product u want to text before u buy am a student and I want to know more sir and God will bless u as u tell me sir
Re: Husband Waits To Have Sex Until Marriage . . . Then Learns Wife Is 4 Months Preg by steppin: 12:35pm On Mar 04, 2017
ShoProperties:
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“We exchanged vows in a colorful wedding a few weeks back, even though I highly suspected that my wife was already pregnant with another man’s baby, but I married her anyway.. My suspicions became true when we recently visited a family doctor for routine check ups.

The doctor said she was four months pregnant. My Christian values ensured that I and my wife did not engage in sexual activities before tying the knot, therefore cementing my belief that she cheated on me.

I have since been heartbroken because I feel that I was cheated into marriage. I am seriously contemplating opting out even after sacrificing time during courtship and spending on a costly wedding. Despite caring for my wife I cannot forgive her because there is no trust in our relationship.”
Ever overheard a young troop talk about a girl he's been dating for a week who wants to "wait" a certain number of months to have sex, and you couldn't help but to shake your head at how stupid he is?

I can't think of a better argument against homeschooling than this. The prospect of raising a cuck.


http://forums.militarytimes.com/showthread.php/9772-Husband-Waits-To-Have-Sex-Until-Marriage-Then-Learns-Wife-is-4-Months-Pregnant
This is real story for the gods. A Nollywood film in making.
You suspected that she was pregnant and yet, you married her anyway. And now, you're heartbroken.
Ain't this tales by moonlight? You tried sha, but your story get big K leg.
Re: Husband Waits To Have Sex Until Marriage . . . Then Learns Wife Is 4 Months Preg by Nobody: 12:35pm On Mar 04, 2017
I fear women pass bokoharam!
Re: Husband Waits To Have Sex Until Marriage . . . Then Learns Wife Is 4 Months Preg by CplusJason: 12:37pm On Mar 04, 2017
centboy123456:




no I have not but sir wat is the product u want to text before u buy am a student and I want to know more sir and God will bless u as u tell me sir
Okay, let's say, Ijebu Garri.



You have to taste it before purchasing the product.
Re: Husband Waits To Have Sex Until Marriage . . . Then Learns Wife Is 4 Months Preg by zanga420: 12:40pm On Mar 04, 2017
Jabioro:
Your religious life had give you costly life experience. Your preacher and council of elders what do they got to say in this kind of situation? I guess. What God have joined together let nobody put asunder... Wicked woman.. sorry.. Learn to be liberal, Baba himself was a liberal otherwise the world would no longer exist.
that would've been the worst. The babe will hang it on him n he would gladly accept, after all he had done it with her. But with this, it's easy to spot out
Re: Husband Waits To Have Sex Until Marriage . . . Then Learns Wife Is 4 Months Preg by Nobody: 12:40pm On Mar 04, 2017
Badisa17:
I guess the story is a fiction
hmmmm

bro fear women


learn 4rm oda ppl experience,women nah
Re: Husband Waits To Have Sex Until Marriage . . . Then Learns Wife Is 4 Months Preg by darkmarky(m): 12:47pm On Mar 04, 2017
Lol am trying to imagine myself kneeling down and proposing to a lady who lots of guys must have fvked the shii out of her kitty...




Naaah.. Aint doing dat shii
Re: Husband Waits To Have Sex Until Marriage . . . Then Learns Wife Is 4 Months Preg by gbegemaster(m): 12:50pm On Mar 04, 2017
Normally churches do pregnancy test before the wedding except things are different now. You should have refused to go on with the wedding when you suspected she was pregnant instead of marrying blindly into it.

Anyways wedlock is not padlock. Good luck.
Re: Husband Waits To Have Sex Until Marriage . . . Then Learns Wife Is 4 Months Preg by transient123(m): 12:50pm On Mar 04, 2017
madridguy:
I blame the mumu man.

Did u blamed him because he wasn't a fornicator or because he was cheated on.

If yes to these, hope you know what awaits a fornicator or an adulterer as a Muslim? And if no, please, tell us why u blamed him then.
Re: Husband Waits To Have Sex Until Marriage . . . Then Learns Wife Is 4 Months Preg by gbegemaster(m): 12:50pm On Mar 04, 2017
darkmarky:
Lol am trying to imagine myself kneeling down and proposing to a lady who lots of guys must have fvked the shii out of her kitty...




Naaah.. Aint doing dat shii
How will you be able to tell? Na virgin you wan marry?
Re: Husband Waits To Have Sex Until Marriage . . . Then Learns Wife Is 4 Months Preg by darkmarky(m): 12:59pm On Mar 04, 2017
gbegemaster:
How will you be able to tell? Na virgin you wan marry?
maybe. Maybe not. But am not going to marry a deceiver .....
Re: Husband Waits To Have Sex Until Marriage . . . Then Learns Wife Is 4 Months Preg by sammhi(m): 12:59pm On Mar 04, 2017
ShoProperties:
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“We exchanged vows in a colorful wedding a few weeks back, even though I highly suspected that my wife was already pregnant with another man’s baby, but I married her anyway.. My suspicions became true when we recently visited a family doctor for routine check ups.

The doctor said she was four months pregnant. My Christian values ensured that I and my wife did not engage in sexual activities before tying the knot, therefore cementing my belief that she cheated on me.

I have since been heartbroken because I feel that I was cheated into marriage. I am seriously contemplating opting out even after sacrificing time during courtship and spending on a costly wedding. Despite caring for my wife I cannot forgive her because there is no trust in our relationship.”
Ever overheard a young troop talk about a girl he's been dating for a week who wants to "wait" a certain number of months to have sex, and you couldn't help but to shake your head at how stupid he is?

I can't think of a better argument against homeschooling than this. The prospect of raising a cuck.


http://forums.militarytimes.com/showthread.php/9772-Husband-Waits-To-Have-Sex-Until-Marriage-Then-Learns-Wife-is-4-Months-Pregnant
Well , you should have done the pregnancy test before wedding!
Anyway , best thing to do is to send her back to her mum as quickly as possible .
You will get a better wife but ensure she is a Virgin
Re: Husband Waits To Have Sex Until Marriage . . . Then Learns Wife Is 4 Months Preg by Seth89(m): 1:00pm On Mar 04, 2017
Hmmmm, this is serious and why I have always been of the the testing before buying school. Just last two weeks a girlfriend of mine who has been telling me no Sex and I do not trust her as such. A girl who told me she was a Virgin turn out to something else after I threatened to quit the relationship if she insist on no Sex. I removed my John Paul immediately I discovered she was not. You can't believe this girl crying that she lost her virginity while on football pitch when a shot hit her.

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