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Yes, this thing has puzzled me for a while but why do guys wait for their girlfriends to get pregnant before getting married to them? This is the trend we see now. Celebrity examples are Tonto Dike, Laura Ikeji, PSquare just to mention a few. Not to talk of most people I know personally. This removes the sacredness of a pure union.

Is it that the pregnancy removes a cloak from their eyes and they realize that they want to get married to their girlfriends (something that didn't know before?) or they just want to do right by the lady, thereby, entering into a marriage they are not ready for.

This doesn't guarantee lasting and fruitful marriage for both of them because they both were kind of forced into it and not from their own genuine will, as it's meant to be.

Are you pregnant?

Doctors have wash bitter leaf wit some girls womb thru abortion...It just a way to avoid story dat touches d heart .

meanwhile, testing is allowed b4 buying goods

To know whether u lots committed series of abortions in the past or not

Don't generalise, not all guys.

Jacksparr0w127:
Are you pregnant?

No but I wouldn't want to before I get married

Is it just the guys?, most girls would desperately tie a pregnancy on the guy just so they're called "Mrs" at the end of the day. It has it's repercussions.

If any guy loves you enough, you don't have to get pregnant before he does what's required of him. My opinion!.

dovelike:
No but I wouldn't want to before I get married

How will he be sure there won't be problem conceiving after marriage? Just saying tho

Jacksparr0w127:
How will he be sure there won't be problem conceiving after marriage? Just saying tho

That's where trust, love and God comes to play

kimbra:
Is it just the guys?, most girls would desperately tie a pregnancy on the guy just so they're called "Mrs" at the end of the day. It has it's repercussions.

If any guy loves you enough, you don't have to get pregnant before he does what's required of him. My opinion!.

I know. But if a guy doesn't want to, he wouldn't. Pregnant or not pregnant. Flavor, Tuface. But most guys see it as a sign to get married

Fallacy of hasty generalisation

Most of these hoes wanna be your baby mama soon as they see you cashed up, they don't even care if you already got wife and kids

dovelike:
I know. But if a guy doesn't want to, he wouldn't. Pregnant or not pregnant. Flavor, Tuface. But most guys see it as a sign to get married

And when his parents say he must you think backing out is easy?.

dovelike:
That's where trust, love and God comes to play

interesting

dovelike:
That's where trust, love and God comes to play

by the time a new married woman spent some couple of years in her husband's house without conceiving her mother in law would ask her son to find out if he actually married a fellow man since she cannot conceive

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Is this thing on? Testing the mic...testing 1, 2 testing

Jacksparr0w127:
How will he be sure there won't be problem conceiving after marriage? Just saying tho

No man can play God, she may as well surfer secondary barrenness.

dovelike:
That's where trust, love and God comes to play

I met my wife February 6, told her my mind after 2 weeks, we did our trad. July and church wedding September of the same year. I didn't touch her till our wedding night. You know what?, I found out that she was a virgin at 30 and a graduate for that matter. I love her so much.

dingbang:
To know whether u lots committed series of abortions in the past or not

NEVA U MENTION MA NAME AGAIN

Abortions:
NEVA U MENTION MA NAME AGAIN

see dis goat o...

if u wan buy suya ehn...aboki go give u testing*....we guys got to check if shes fertile na....

If you wan buy phone from 2nd-hand market, u go test whether the thing dey bring service before you buy am nah.
Ds world be like 2nd-hand market, nothing like tear rubber. Even new born baby dey enta ds world with original sin.

Ogun idile dey part of waten dey cause am....wen witch to much for person generation na wahala

it;s not about the pregnancy

Ask Nnamdi Kanu's followers

thunderfiremods:
if u wan buy suya ehn...aboki go give u testing*....we guys got to check if shes fertile na....

Must you test?

ask pmb

Me too am waiting for my own too.


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dovelike:
No but I wouldn't want to before I get married

very good for you o. to be sure if your man is really a MAN o!

Not all do, some abscond without taking responsibility. Lets hear their excuses....

Na insurance policy.