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Ladies: If He Is Not A Christian Then Don't Marry Him by FitnessDoctor: 1:16pm On Mar 06, 2017
Hello my name is Paul Samuel and I am a Health Blogger and

You are about to be exposed

In this post I will relate Relationship, Health and Religion as these three work hand in hand to build a society...

Nowadays the choices of men, women date is nothing to write home about, with fame and money hungry women falling for Gee boys and other rich nonentities.... Also another problem that the white men brought into Africa is that they have given women the chance to refine their looks through makeup and good clothes but not refine their minds and that is why you see very beautiful girls doing unimaginable demeaning acts...

So ladies, I suggest you go for Christian men as backed by Pst. Enoch A. Adeboye.... (I am not a redeemed member)...

One thing about christian men is that they will help build the "you" according to the bible... which helps you set your goals in life perfectly and not the goals people or society want you to set.. or who society or people want you to be..

Now I am talking about real men who have passion for serving God and not men who are just bench warmers and according to other church members does not exist...

Marrying a christian seriously helps in defining your life as you have direction (through God) and purpose... Marrying a christian also improves your health status, that is if you live according to the standards of Christ...

It reduces your chances of getting STDs
It helps you control stress (as every stressful situation is solved with a bible passage rather than worrying and lamenting)
It helps you control anger (During a heated moment, relating the word of God in the scriptures helps create a peaceful situation rather than either partners claiming rights and standing against the other)
It helps you live longer (According to the Grace of God, if you live according to all instructions and act Christ like, you should expect to live longer.
Expect better health status for your children (remember that many diseases and immunity are genetic i.e transferring from parents to offspring which increases the possibility of your children having a great life)

You can't get as many as this from getting married to a smoker or dating that womanizer and cheat who raises your blood pressure, causes your stress, emotional and psychological problems, causes you sore throat through shouting and lamenting... poisons your system with the smoke from his cigarette and other unholy relationships...

You may think you are getting enough and enjoying life, but in a few years time, everything will begin to tell on your health status... As you can see the cause of people just falling sick and dying at ages 40 - 60 is on the increase in Nigeria and they who were looking healthy, just became ill all of a sudden and gone they are...

All those were probably because of the unhealthy life they lived when they were young and the unhealthy relationships and friends they made.. which lead to the accumulation of toxins and poisons in their bodies... at that age they were not feeling it... but now they as they grow older it snuffed the lives out of them...

Hope you live long and stay strong....

All I am saying is marry a man with the right standards, control and way of life... Never go for what you see because you are growing older, but go for what you believe in... and remember to build yourself on the inside before you decide to set your own standards...

You have just been exposed

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Stay Healthy, Stay Wise

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Re: Ladies: If He Is Not A Christian Then Don't Marry Him by Valkaryie(f): 1:20pm On Mar 06, 2017
So all those ladies that married Muslims married wrongly? Go use pure water wash your brain. Religion has blinded you

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Re: Ladies: If He Is Not A Christian Then Don't Marry Him by bqlekan(m): 1:23pm On Mar 06, 2017
Don't be a human who doesn't have a mind of his own. Think first, act later. This topic is surely not a product of intellect.
Re: Ladies: If He Is Not A Christian Then Don't Marry Him by Kenshinmunac(m): 1:25pm On Mar 06, 2017
Who be this one self? Data don too cheap for naija be the cause.

Re: Ladies: If He Is Not A Christian Then Don't Marry Him by FitnessDoctor: 1:55pm On Mar 06, 2017
Valkaryie:
So all those ladies that married Muslims married wrongly? Go use pure water wash your brain. Religion has blinded you

When you look at the world.. you hear of a certain chaos... caused by religions segments... There are news of arms being carried by a certain religious denomination.. tens of thousands lost their lives in Nigeria due to a certain religious misconception...

What religion did those men profess?? Were they Christians or Muslims??

These people that caused emotional pain to women, children, men, fathers, mothers, sons and daughters .... What religion did they profess..

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise
Re: Ladies: If He Is Not A Christian Then Don't Marry Him by FitnessDoctor: 1:58pm On Mar 06, 2017
bqlekan:
Don't be a human who doesn't have a mind of his own. Think first, act later. This topic is surely not a product of intellect.

Are you advising. or stammering... because it seems that you put together words you seem not to understand... Kindly go through the first segment of words.. it says

Don't be a human who doesn't have a mind of his own...... Pardon me but I wrote an article of over 500 words about my analysis, research and you think I don't have a mind of mine..

Secondly, Think first, act later...... Very interesting

This topic is surely not a product of intellect...... Sorry my friend this is not a topic, but an article with a headline...

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise
Re: Ladies: If He Is Not A Christian Then Don't Marry Him by FitnessDoctor: 1:59pm On Mar 06, 2017
Kenshinmunac:
Who be this one self? Data don too cheap for naija be the cause.

Hope you gained something... If you didn't you are free to state your disagreements with the article..

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise
Re: Ladies: If He Is Not A Christian Then Don't Marry Him by Valkaryie(f): 2:15pm On Mar 06, 2017
FitnessDoctor:


When you look at the world.. you hear of a certain chaos... caused by religions segments... There are news of arms being carried by a certain religious denomination.. tens of thousands lost their lives in Nigeria due to a certain religious misconception...

What religion did those men profess?? Were they Christians or Muslims??

These people that caused emotional pain to women, children, men, fathers, mothers, sons and daughters .... What religion did they profess..

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise

Because one snake carries venom, doesnt mean all snakes carry venom.

Not all Muslims are chaotic and destructive
Re: Ladies: If He Is Not A Christian Then Don't Marry Him by FitnessDoctor: 2:23pm On Mar 06, 2017
Valkaryie:


Because one snake carries venom, doesnt mean all snakes carry venom.

Not all Muslims are chaotic and destructive

Not all snakes carry venom yet all are capable of causing harm....

Not all Muslims are chaotic and destructive of course... But since you are not a christian and have not read your bible today.. I don't see any reason to continue this with you....

Your bible say "Do not move equally with unbelievers"
Re: Ladies: If He Is Not A Christian Then Don't Marry Him by Valkaryie(f): 2:25pm On Mar 06, 2017
FitnessDoctor:


Not all snakes carry venom yet all are capable of causing harm....

Not all Muslims are chaotic and destructive of course... But since you are not a christian and have not read your bible today.. I don't see any reason to continue this with you....

Your bible say "Do not move equally with unbelievers"
okay. Love your neighbor as you love yourself though
Re: Ladies: If He Is Not A Christian Then Don't Marry Him by yomi007k(m): 2:26pm On Mar 06, 2017
Valkaryie:
So all those ladies that married Muslims married wrongly? Go use pure water wash your brain. Religion has blinded you

Nne no mind dem jare. Dem think say na dem sabi pass.

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Re: Ladies: If He Is Not A Christian Then Don't Marry Him by yomi007k(m): 2:27pm On Mar 06, 2017
bqlekan:
Don't be a human who doesn't have a mind of his own. Think first, act later. This topic is surely not a product of intellect.

Tiri gbosa for u.
Re: Ladies: If He Is Not A Christian Then Don't Marry Him by FitnessDoctor: 2:47pm On Mar 06, 2017
Valkaryie:
okay. Love your neighbor as you love yourself though

The love you have for your neighbour is why you want to bring him to the light... (which is being a christian)...

If you choose to follow that scripture and still keep the person in the dark by allowing him to follow his ways... Is there any other kind of hate is more than that?
Re: Ladies: If He Is Not A Christian Then Don't Marry Him by Nobody: 3:26pm On Mar 06, 2017
There are 4000+ different religions worldwide. Shouldn't you be looking
at the statistics before proclaiming that women should get married in one and only one of those...

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Re: Ladies: If He Is Not A Christian Then Don't Marry Him by FitnessDoctor: 3:48pm On Mar 06, 2017
yemimajid:
There are 4000+ different religions worldwide. Shouldn't you be looking
at the statistics before proclaiming that women should get married in one and only one of those...

In Nigeria there are 3 recognized religions Islam, Christianity and Traditional Religion...

Traditional Religion is being swept away by Christianity... so there are only two religions in Nigeria possibly... Islam and Christianity...

And I am referring to Nigeria and only those two religions

Thank you
Re: Ladies: If He Is Not A Christian Then Don't Marry Him by Nobody: 4:01pm On Mar 06, 2017
FitnessDoctor:


In Nigeria there are 3 recognized religions Islam, Christianity and Traditional Religion...

Traditional Religion is being swept away by Christianity... so there are only two religions in Nigeria possibly... Islam and Christianity...

And I am referring to Nigeria and only those two religions

Thank you
I hardly think Nigerian women should be seen differently from other women of the world when it comes to having dreams of ending up with a most suitable spouse.
Also. I don't really think it is these religions that keeps a men away from the frivolities of life. A person with all the religion in this world, without empathy and morals would still give a woman much sadness...
Rather than go for a "christain". I feel it's be beneficial for a woman to go for a human with standards, discipline nd all the other great attributes you can mention.
Thank you.

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Re: Ladies: If He Is Not A Christian Then Don't Marry Him by FitnessDoctor: 4:29pm On Mar 06, 2017
yemimajid:
I hardly think Nigerian women should be seen differently from other women of the world when it comes to having dreams of ending up with a most suitable spouse.
Also. I don't really think it is these religions that keeps a men away from the frivolities of life. A person with all the religion in this world, without empathy and morals would still give a woman much sadness...
Rather than go for a "christain". I feel it's be beneficial for a woman to go for a human with standards, discipline nd all the other great attributes you can mention.
Thank you.

Nobody is seeing them differently... But it was you who named 4000 languages... while only 3 exist in Nigeria...

Also you talked about standards, discipline and other great attributes... Please read you Bible and tell me if Jesus didn't have all these things and so much more...

Thank you....
Re: Ladies: If He Is Not A Christian Then Don't Marry Him by Nobody: 4:48pm On Mar 06, 2017
FitnessDoctor:


Nobody is seeing them differently... But it was you who named 4000 languages... while only 3 exist in Nigeria...

Also you talked about standards, discipline and other great attributes... Please read you Bible and tell me if Jesus didn't have all these things and so much more...

Thank you....
Again, no religion in this world could replace bad morals with good ones..
Jesus had standards and diclipline but these qualities aren't transferable to "christains"....so yeah Jesus was a disciplined man but that doesn't support the motion, Christian are disciplined men...
Re: Ladies: If He Is Not A Christian Then Don't Marry Him by FitnessDoctor: 4:55pm On Mar 06, 2017
yemimajid:
Again, no religion in this world could replace bad morals with good ones..
Jesus had standards and diclipline but these qualities aren't transferable to "christains"....so yeah Jesus was a disciplined man but that doesn't support the motion, Christian are disciplined men...
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First, my friend... No religion replaces anything.... Christianity brings out the good in you.. the discipline, the standards and moral in you.. Christianity brings them out and makes you live by them..

Jesus doesn't want to transfer anything to us... because that is who we are (Christians)... A people with great standards, morals and values.. but the devil took our rights with sin... and so Jesus came to clean that up and open our eyes to who we truly are... our eyes which has been blinded...

In this world good can never exist without bad..... So yes there are so many bad christians out there.. and so there are good ones.. although very few... and that is what makes them unique, because they are not common and can't be seen everywhere... If you them in your life, it is a joy and a blessing.. it is a happy day...

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise

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Re: Ladies: If He Is Not A Christian Then Don't Marry Him by Nobody: 5:10pm On Mar 06, 2017
FitnessDoctor:
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First, my friend... No religion replaces anything.... Christianity brings out the good in you.. the discipline, the standards and moral in you.. Christianity brings them out and makes you live by them..

Jesus doesn't want to transfer anything to us... because that is who we are (Christians)... A people with great standards, morals and values.. but the devil took our rights with sin... and so Jesus came to clean that up and open our eyes to who we truly are... our eyes which has been blinded...

In this world good can never exist without bad..... So yes there are so many bad christians out there.. and so there are good ones.. although very few... and that is what makes them unique, because they are not common and can't be seen everywhere... If you them in your life, it is a joy and a blessing.. it is a happy day...

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise
And while doing all of this, it kinda take something away. Something important----The ability to see something from someone else's point of view.... Ladies shouldn't marry my moslems cos Christianity bring out the best in you, the standard nd discipline and all that.
If you are correct with this claim, would a Moslem guy be wrong to say ladies shod marry Moslems. Islam brings out the good in you. ur morals standards nd discipline, would he?
Re: Ladies: If He Is Not A Christian Then Don't Marry Him by FitnessDoctor: 5:34pm On Mar 06, 2017
yemimajid:
And while doing all of this, it kinda take something away. Something important----The ability to see something from someone else's point of view.... Ladies shouldn't marry my moslems cos Christianity bring out the best in you, the standard nd discipline and all that.
If you are correct with this claim, would a Moslem guy be wrong to say ladies shod marry Moslems. Islam brings out the good in you. ur morals standards nd discipline, would he?

No he wouldn't be wrong... because according to him... his religion brings out the good in people and not the death and loss of property we have seen from Muslims these past years...
Re: Ladies: If He Is Not A Christian Then Don't Marry Him by Nobody: 6:16pm On Mar 06, 2017
FitnessDoctor:


No he wouldn't be wrong... because according to him... his religion brings out the good in people and not the death and loss of property we have seen from Muslims these past years...

If you think christianity was never like radical Islam...it'd be hard to say that you have studied the history of your religion.
My point, when you see a man displaying distinguished qualities, that is the EMPATHY in him, not the religion in him...
Re: Ladies: If He Is Not A Christian Then Don't Marry Him by FitnessDoctor: 6:33pm On Mar 06, 2017
yemimajid:
If you think christianity was never like radical Islam...it'd be hard to say that you have studied the history of your religion.
My point, when you see a man displaying distinguished qualities, that is the EMPATHY in him, not the religion in him...

Yes, there was a time when Christianity could be referred to as diabolic.. In a time where people's eyes were closed and they were unable to speak for themselves and they were ruled by their christian leaders ... and not now where a certain people feel they don't like another people they can speak through any means they want and the choice is always violence..


Look at your point from this angle.... There is no man with distinguishable qualities, that is without religion.. because the man we see today does not control himself.. he is controlled by either society, or the devil, or God... he is influenced and thereby even loses vision of himself... Those qualities may be as a result of natural feeling and not because he understands what he is really doing...

if you find a man that can control himself, control his emotions, the people around him, events that happen to him... There you find a man with distinguishable qualities and without religion...

Question? Are you that man??

If no, then he does not exist
Re: Ladies: If He Is Not A Christian Then Don't Marry Him by Diplomaticbeing(m): 6:46pm On Mar 06, 2017
Parochialness and conceitedness are big diseases. No wonder conceit is God's gift to little people. @OP, you need IQ upgrade. I can help you out. . . Let me know when you make up your mind to seek for solution to your problem.
Re: Ladies: If He Is Not A Christian Then Don't Marry Him by bqlekan(m): 7:04pm On Mar 06, 2017
FitnessDoctor:


Are you advising. or stammering... because it seems that you put together words you seem not to understand... Kindly go through the first segment of words.. it says

Don't be a human who doesn't have a mind of his own...... Pardon me but I wrote an article of over 500 words about my analysis, research and you think I don't have a mind of mine..

Secondly, Think first, act later...... Very interesting

This topic is surely not a product of intellect...... Sorry my friend this is not a topic, but an article with a headline...

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise
. You forgot to put 'fullstop' at the end of your boring lines. But don't worry, I've done that for you. Cheers
Re: Ladies: If He Is Not A Christian Then Don't Marry Him by Nobody: 7:21pm On Mar 06, 2017
FitnessDoctor:


Yes, there was a time when Christianity could be referred to as diabolic.. In a time where people's eyes were closed and they were unable to speak for themselves and they were ruled by their christian leaders ... and not now where a certain people feel they don't like another people they can speak through any means they want and the choice is always violence..


Look at your point from this angle.... There is no man with distinguishable qualities, that is without religion.. because the man we see today does not control himself.. he is controlled by either society, or the devil, or God... he is influenced and thereby even loses vision of himself... Those qualities may be as a result of natural feeling and not because he understands what he is really doing...

if you find a man that can control himself, control his emotions, the people around him, events that happen to him... There you find a man with distinguishable qualities and without religion...

Question? Are you that man??

If no, then he does not exist
I would say Steve Hawking but Nah. I'm just glad you got the perspective. You're using the word religion now, nd not just Christianity. Lol Ladies, Christian or Moslem, marry any fvcker who treats you like a queen, a man taught well by his mother...
Thanks bye.
Re: Ladies: If He Is Not A Christian Then Don't Marry Him by FitnessDoctor: 7:24pm On Mar 06, 2017
yemimajid:
I would say Steve Hawking but Nah. I'm just glad you got the perspective. You're using the word religion now, nd not just Christianity. Lol Ladies, Christian or Moslem, marry any fvcker who treats you like a queen, a man taught well by his mother...
Thanks bye.

Good bye...

I believe one day... You will come to understand the truth greatness Christianity can open your eyes to..

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise
Re: Ladies: If He Is Not A Christian Then Don't Marry Him by FitnessDoctor: 7:26pm On Mar 06, 2017
bqlekan:
. You forgot to put 'fullstop' at the end of your boring lines. But don't worry, I've done that for you. Cheers

The good things in life is not for everyone and that is why only a few human beings have them...

Thank you for the full stop.. it means you read the article and took note of every single thing written there... If you could do the same for all your life to the bible and motivational books..

Then you will curse whosoever drove your from the truth in the first place

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise
Re: Ladies: If He Is Not A Christian Then Don't Marry Him by FitnessDoctor: 7:29pm On Mar 06, 2017
Diplomaticbeing:
Parochialness and conceitedness are big diseases. No wonder conceit is God's gift to little people. @OP, you need IQ upgrade. I can help you out. . . Let me know when you make up your mind to seek for solution to your problem.

If you are reading this.... Sit down and build yourself, because you deserve to be better than you are right now...

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise
Re: Ladies: If He Is Not A Christian Then Don't Marry Him by bqlekan(m): 11:17pm On Mar 06, 2017
FitnessDoctor:


The good things in life is not for everyone and that is why only a few human beings have them...

Thank you for the full stop.. it means you read the article and took note of every single thing written there... If you could do the same for all your life to the bible and motivational books..

Then you will curse whosoever drove your from the truth in the first place

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise
Oh, mr motivational speaker, I wouldn't say I live a better life than you do, I won't make baseless and myopic assumptions like you just did. Your article reeks of religious bigotry, subjective reasoning and lack of intellect. Physical fitness without intelligence is a big burden to the human body.
Re: Ladies: If He Is Not A Christian Then Don't Marry Him by FitnessDoctor: 11:26pm On Mar 06, 2017
bqlekan:

Oh, mr motivational speaker, I wouldn't say I live a better life than you do, I won't make baseless and myopic assumptions like you just did. Your article reeks of religious bigotry, subjective reasoning and lack of intellect. Physical fitness without intelligence is a big burden to the human body.

But remember only an intelligent person will choose to care about his physical fitness.. Because he foresees the future and how physical fitness improves and will impact on his health..

I think we should say Good Night here..

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise
Re: Ladies: If He Is Not A Christian Then Don't Marry Him by bqlekan(m): 11:34pm On Mar 06, 2017
FitnessDoctor:


But remember only an intelligent person will choose to care about his physical fitness.. Because he foresees the future and how physical fitness improves and will impact on his health..

I think we should say Good Night here..

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise

smh. .......Sighs.....

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