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Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by Nobody: 11:59pm On Mar 08, 2017 |
dingbang:I hear ya |
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by Nobody: 11:59pm On Mar 08, 2017 |
I don't rily know what to do ryt now , he is active nd ignored d message I sent since morning ! Should I just watch or keep asking for reasons |
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by HARDDON: 12:01am On Mar 09, 2017 |
nikkyharry: LDR huh? Be giving urself hope nonetheless.... do u by any chance know what "fill in d void " means? Weneva u guys hv those gr8t convo, u were just filling d void. WEn main one comes, ur work gets suspended till futher notice. U r nothing but a second fiddle. A toy thing . Here is a lil secret, if u can afford d ticket, pay him a suprise visit nxt time he changes! Lets see who gets surprised. Lol 9 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by HARDDON: 12:04am On Mar 09, 2017 |
Nma27: Buh how can a man let d b00ty go if itz so ouch?! How can a lady let d wallet go if itz so fat? $ee? We cant. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by Nobody: 12:05am On Mar 09, 2017 |
nikkyharry:Better go and read your book 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by Nobody: 12:06am On Mar 09, 2017 |
[quote author=HARDDON post=54406439] LDR huh? Be giving urself hope nonetheless.... do u by any chance know what "fill in d void " means? Weneva u guys hv those gr8t convo, u were just filling d void. WEn main one comes, ur work gets suspended till futher notice. U r nothing but a second fiddle. A toy thing . Here is a lil secret, if u can afford d ticket, pay him a suprise visit nxt time he changes! Lets see who gets surprised. Lol[/quote Buh the confusing part is that the main chick if deris any tho, can't be around while we talk around 12 to 1 @ nyt and suddenly stop picking up calls after d immediate convo uve had |
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by fumisko(f): 12:07am On Mar 09, 2017 |
nikkyharry:Babe I can relate. I had someone like that I used to like. All nice n all for one one two months...chat all through...calls n all...then he withdraws...n am confused:...does it mean he doesn't miss the time we shared and all that... Bottom line is I still can't explain it o.....but some men are immature and commitment phobic and some don't even know what is doing them. Try to fall in love with another man Abeg so u get ur attention off him. It's obvious u love him more than he loves u. And that's why there is this warning to ladies. Never ever love a man much more than he loves u. If not u r d one Dt wld b hurt. We are emotional beings...don't b deceived by his coming Bk n leaving...he is doing it Cus it isn't hurting him...infact he doesn't feel he is doing anything wrong. He loves u 30% u love him 70% Run for your life or ur marriage wld b in shambles 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by HARDDON: 12:09am On Mar 09, 2017 |
[quote author=nikkyharry post=54406545][/quote] Aiit! U wano hear a lil life story? 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by Maxi112: 12:09am On Mar 09, 2017 |
some of us ain't good in calling, for me, I don't call. I do that when deemed necessary. though that doesn't dictate the depth of my love for her. 5 Likes |
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by fumisko(f): 12:12am On Mar 09, 2017 |
nikkyharry:You have now made your self as shit in his presence...by going so low to keep begging n asking why he is treating u like dt. From now on. U tell him from now hence forth that: I demand ur love care n attention full time n if u ain't giving me I ain't begging for it no more. I am self confident n I know Wat I want from my man. D pain of moving ahead maybe deep but it's better dan being continuously hurt o. U wld find a man Dt wld truly love u and treat u as his queen. Change dp.let him see u happy with another boo.U deserve nothing less. Even if u r 35 yrs now. Desperation is never a reason to settle for this emotional abuse u r going through. Better to get sperm donor have kids n b happy n fill ur life with ur profession 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by HARDDON: 12:13am On Mar 09, 2017 |
fumisko: @Bolded...... astute Bull! U r eida in or not! People fly n crash, yet we"d keep flying! 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by Nobody: 12:13am On Mar 09, 2017 |
fumisko: Thanks hun ! I guess I will just observe things nd move on cos the thing is just getting me confuse seriously , I tried letting go nd each time i bid a farewell , he would say he isn't in support of d break up that y m I cooking it up |
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by Nobody: 12:14am On Mar 09, 2017 |
HARDDON:Oya go and sleep |
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by Nobody: 12:15am On Mar 09, 2017 |
nikkyharry: Sweetie, stop thinking about him. If he is online and completely ignoring your message then take the fact for what it is and answer this question, will you ALLOW someone to treat you like that? Later he will tell you he was busy... he was chatting to a family member... blah di blah. One very important question though. Are you guys official boyfriend and girlfriend? Have you established and verbally agreed to a monogamous relationship? Did he say to you "You are my ONLY girlfriend and I love you and I promise to be faithful to you and always try to make you happy?" Answer me those and then you'll know what is happening. 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by Nobody: 12:16am On Mar 09, 2017 |
fumisko: Exactly t those were what I told him the very first time he ignored nd he said he was sorry nd cooked up reasons . |
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by Nobody: 12:17am On Mar 09, 2017 |
RadiantBae:Hmm |
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by kidman96(m): 12:18am On Mar 09, 2017 |
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Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by HARDDON: 12:19am On Mar 09, 2017 |
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by fumisko(f): 12:20am On Mar 09, 2017 |
nikkyharry:This is truly sad. I just pray u find the guy Dt wld love u d same way u seem to be capable of giving genuine love. And that u would love him back too. And then all this would just be a story of the past to ur future kids 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by Nobody: 12:25am On Mar 09, 2017 |
nikkyharry: I'll take that as a no. Then you're not his girlfriend, you are a girl he is getting to know and you need to take your ticket and stop stressing yourself. Ladies we tend to have the relationship with our own damn self! Hahaha if he ain't claimed you then why are you forcing it. It ain't no tic for tac phone calls. Trust me this game you're playing with him is on his home ground and he will win. 4 Likes |
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by kidman96(m): 12:26am On Mar 09, 2017 |
nikkyharry: Please do. Someone who values you will come along. And don't feel hurt rather feel relieved of the emotional burden. If love isn't reciprocated its not worth it. 4 Likes |
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by Plaintainboy: 12:27am On Mar 09, 2017 |
AntiWailer: This post is very funny...you need some love in your life bro. 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by Plaintainboy: 12:30am On Mar 09, 2017 |
Lunagirl: Good advice. |
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by Nobody: 12:30am On Mar 09, 2017 |
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Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by Plaintainboy: 12:34am On Mar 09, 2017 |
nikkyharry: Does he gamble or uses drugs? Its either he is not feeling you or he has a problem. If he kisses you in the mouth when you are together then chances are that he likes you but has some personal problem, hence his erratic behaviour. Its not easy to tell girls that I don't dig them (in my personal experience and it happens often with me) I just try to avoid communications with them...but I act nice when they catch me in a tight corner. But I tell you one thing, I would Never kiss a girl I dont dig. So it may be the sign that you should look for. 1 Like |
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by mazizitonene(m): 12:46am On Mar 09, 2017 |
lol.....mai kinda man....bad habit with calls and texts.....but not to this extent of not calling back wen the line goes off/u r out of credit.....ignoring ur calls and messages...reading ur WhatsApp msgs and totally ignoring it.....that is total BS.....Dude be playing with your head and emotions......seems u r kinda forcing the whole r/ship thingy.....give d dude a break...A better guy will come thru.......and it shall come to pass that a nig.a will be so pained when he realises his loss.... 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by Burger01(m): 12:53am On Mar 09, 2017 |
You need to carry out a background check on that guy 2 Likes |
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by coolshegs10(m): 1:19am On Mar 09, 2017 |
So you expect him to call and text every day? Like he's got nothing else to do? Wow! This is wonderful. To me, he's still trying. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by Misswang001(f): 1:35am On Mar 09, 2017 |
How long will you two continue like this? A relationship is like a rubber band, and when it is exceeds it's elasticity,it cuts. Two things may involved; He may be waiting for you to do the calling first like you are waiting too, or you are dating yourself...Pls give yourself a break, and think of your place in that situationship nikkyharry: |
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by Xmen149(m): 6:16am On Mar 09, 2017 |
Slimzjoe:Dnt bother its not happening ,.its like something in the air right now........when ua serious they misbehave ,. take ur mind away and u see them coming back like ua d one getting it wrong and thats where men start lying to their feelings by trying to make it work.........................................keep up the good fight sha if she worth it....else put ur mind at peace elsewhere |
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by firstking01(m): 6:24am On Mar 09, 2017 |
Slimzjoe:Lol, if a girl i call my gf doesn't reciprocate my calls i stop calling kpomkwem |
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by Xmen149(m): 6:26am On Mar 09, 2017 |
nikkyharry: Girlfriend, It might be his work, try to find out. besides some guys have stayed single too long after break up or so that they are now used to beign alone alot of the time,........its ur job to find out now and early,..i know ur pain girl 5 Likes |
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