HateU2:
because you guys like to change and taste new food

Still generalizing it.

Jacksparr0w127:
you're a kid. You have no clue how busy a man can be and how a man has got more things to think about outside love

Complete and total lie. Nobody, I repeat nobody is ever that busy. It takes less than 30 seconds to say a simple hi. If she's not on his mind, she's not. Simple. There's nothing like being a kid here. Tell yourself the truth

blacktallest:


Complete and total lie. Nobody, I repeat nobody is ever that busy. It takes less than 30 seconds to say a simple hi. If she's not on his mind, she's not. Simple. There's nothing like being a kid here. Tell yourself the truth

I disagree with you

Jacksparr0w127:
I disagree with you

Why

blacktallest:


Why

Because I'm speaking from experience

nikkyharry:
I am really tired of this kind of attitude I get from my bf . I know I have got some ego ,am the type that reciprocate the same way a guy treats me . He calls once in a day and some days he could call you six times or more and you re gonna feel lyk maybe he has changed. So I call him nd text if am very pleased about how our communication level increase sometimes .

I barely call him till I feel he has done enough calling himself . He actually did a day without calling or texting , so I decided to call unfortunately, he didn't pick up nd I messaged him on WhatsApp nd he ignored everything but I believed he was busy . I was damn angry and I poured out how I felt , asking him what he took me as nd why he treats me that way . He was like 'you are my girlfriend but you don't act like it , which hurts me '. Begged him to tell me how buh he never did ! I told a friend about it and she told me dedicate more attention to him ,call him nd text him . I did that yesterday and it worked perfectly for me , we laughed , he called back nd we missed each other .

The call dropped during d call and I tried calling back that night but he didn't pick up again , tried his number this morning and messaged him , still the same ! What do I do? Should I call tonight agn or forget him or he doesn't love me . please sincere advise pls ...no bashing

you just describe me. I have a gf then, she's the one that do the calling. I do call her once in a month. It's a long distance relationship. I did not see anything bad in it because am a guy that enjoys been alone. I do ignore her calls atimes because she's the type that monitors with calls. I really love her and care so much for her but i just won't call her regularly and i won't pick up if she calls. I never cheated on her pending the time we dated, but she didn't believe me, always telling me that i have a side chick whom i devote my time for. On the long run she broke up with me citing my attitudes towards her as the reason. I thought i was the only guy who does this not knowing that some guys out there practiced it too.....

Jacksparr0w127:
Because I'm speaking from experience

Sounds like you don't have a life or you are a loner. No matter how busy you are or have many things to think about, one day you would realise that there is so much the body can take and you would need to share those "thinking" with someone. I still stand, nobody is ever that busy.

PS: speaking from experience too

blacktallest:


Complete and total lie. Nobody, I repeat nobody is ever that busy. It takes less than 30 seconds to say a simple hi. If she's not on his mind, she's not. Simple. There's nothing like being a kid here. Tell yourself the truth

sir, you are wrong. I'm just like the bf of the op. I don't call my gf and if she call i won't pick. This can go on for days without communication between both parties.

blacktallest:


Sounds like you don't have a life or you are a loner. No matter how busy you are or have many things to think about, one day you would realise that there is so much the body can take and you would need to share those "thinking" with someone. I still stand, nobody is ever that busy.

PS: speaking from experience too

do you have comprehension problem? Go and read my first quote and get back

Just leave him alone for now and don't get bothered too much about his behaviour. If he loves you enough he's going to call you himself. Some guys do this intentionally to be sure of their feelings, and if he doesn't call you within after a reasonable period of time then he's potting another punny else where.

Good luck

Women crave for space,now tell me what to say now to be right.

PastorandMentor:
What then happened to him? I mean your banker boyfriend? OK I see. You changed. Jumping from one man to another another and coming to nairaland to disturbe us with heartbreak gist..

The fact that you have a phone and you can type does not mean you go around spewing trash up and down. Did I type in your space? Or did I use your date to type?

BiafranBushBoy:

lol.. I forgive you

Smh

Check within yourself and see if u are clean from all offences that can possibly make him act strangely--- if u found nothing then let him be... " if u love someone, set them free... if they return, then it is meant to be else it was never meant to to be.

opibycar1:
sir, you are wrong. I'm just like the bf of the op. I don't call my gf and if she call i won't pick. This can go on for days without communication between both parties.

First of all, I am a lady not a sir. Secondly why dont you call your girlfriend? Even if you are "busy" during the day a simple text will suffice. See ehn I tell most guys, what you know you can't keep up with, don't do it. Don't go calling her like 5, 6, 7 times a day during the wooing and early stages and then the calls drop to non existent when you finally get her. We are ladies and are prone to think rubbish when such happens even when there is nothing to it. Personally, I don't like bombardment of calls. If you call me more than twice or thrice a day, you irritate me.
In a nutshell return her calls whenever you are chanced. No be completion. Show her you are the man and the mature one. God bless you

All these stupid guys that don't like communicating in relationship, dump his sorry assz.

Emusan:


Why do you people always think once someone involved in a long distance relationship, the person must be seeing someone else

This ur loaded question though. when it comes to D.R it all boils down to trust. Her bf should b able to explain what take up his time and she should b able to understand.... Keep understanding.

Jacksparr0w127:
I disagree with you

I agree with him.

This shït is complicated!.

me wey my gf no dey call me nko, or 2x in a week. Na me dey do all the callings. ki olorun sha sanu wa.

amiablesystems:


Chinkeke me. All these new vocab and two-meaning words... He's holed-up.. Lol..

James Bond weldone

blacktallest:


Sounds like you don't have a life or you are a loner. No matter how busy you are or have many things to think about, one day you would realise that there is so much the body can take and you would need to share those "thinking" with someone. I still stand, nobody is ever that busy.

PS: speaking from experience too

it happens babe. I'm a typical example. It's not a matter of been busy, it's a character. I see nothing wrong in it, i can go for days without communicating with my gf and if she calls i won't pick. I do think am the only guy that is like that before till i saw this post by op. If you ask me why? No genuine answer

kimbra:
I agree with him.

This shït is complicated!.

You're a lady, I don't expect you to understand tho

Jacksparr0w127:
ojo ife tirò lelori

hehehehhehe
Je ko enjoy ife naaa

SUPOL:
Dont give up?

Got a problem with that

Nma27:
James Bond weldone

Lol. I read your thread, i understand... pele.

Jacksparr0w127:
do you have comprehension problem? Go and read my first quote and get back

Yeah yeah....busy busy busy.
Maybe I do have a "comprehension problem

opibycar1:
it happens babe. I'm a typical example. It's not a matter of been busy, it's a character. I see nothing wrong in it, i can go for days without communicating with my gf and if she calls i won't pick. I do think am the only guy that is like that before till i saw this post by op. If you ask me why? No genuine answer

At least you are truthful....

Nma27:
Got a problem with that

yea, she shouldn't waste her time, women are meant to be chased not d other way round.

ToriBlue:
All these stupid guys that don't like communicating in relationship, dump his sorry assz.

communication isn't what should be done everyday in a relationship. Cease the communication for a while to let both parties miss each other. My type don't cheat because ladies find us boring, but we are best lover because we don't lie

opibycar1:
it happens babe. I'm a typical example. It's not a matter of been busy, it's a character. I see nothing wrong in it, i can go for days without communicating with my gf and if she calls i won't pick. I do think am the only guy that is like that before till i saw this post by op. If you ask me why? No genuine answer

If ur gf understand ur kinda person, good for her. I love communication and seriously don't mind calling... Apart from family, who else will I burn my airtime for?

Jacksparr0w127:
You're a lady, I don't expect you to understand tho

Why?, the truth is... If you love someone you would make out time to call. The rubbish "I just don't know how to call" blah! Blah!! Blah!!! Doesn't make sense.

Communication should be open and not left at one partner. But if you notice you're the one calling always and he wouldn't change then end the relationship so you don't make yourself a nuisance by nagging.

nikkyharry:
I am really tired of this kind of attitude I get from my bf . I know I have got some ego ,am the type that reciprocate the same way a guy treats me . He calls once in a day and some days he could call you six times or more and you re gonna feel lyk maybe he has changed. So I call him nd text if am very pleased about how our communication level increase sometimes .

I barely call him till I feel he has done enough calling himself . He actually did a day without calling or texting , so I decided to call unfortunately, he didn't pick up nd I messaged him on WhatsApp nd he ignored everything but I believed he was busy . I was damn angry and I poured out how I felt , asking him what he took me as nd why he treats me that way . He was like 'you are my girlfriend but you don't act like it , which hurts me '. Begged him to tell me how buh he never did ! I told a friend about it and she told me dedicate more attention to him ,call him nd text him . I did that yesterday and it worked perfectly for me , we laughed , he called back nd we missed each other .

The call dropped during d call and I tried calling back that night but he didn't pick up again , tried his number this morning and messaged him , still the same ! What do I do? Should I call tonight agn or forget him or he doesn't love me . please sincere advise pls ...no bashing

reasons he ain't called you ... possibly you are boring u always expect him to lead the conversation , or find something to talk about that shii its exhausting ,,
2..from the phrase you are my girl friend but u don't act like it shows perhaps his like me ...I need to see some level of attention before I could really commit to anyone , so my best advice go on a marathon communication dash , call him , even if he does not pick , call him again after a week if you don't see any improvement cut him off he does not like you
3.. this guy might just be super busy ....
4. some girl is taking him gradually