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Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by ogtavia(m): 2:14pm On Mar 09, 2017
different strokes for different folks....bottom line....if you must move on,then move on,its difficult but don't just conclude because he doesn't call or text as often as you want him to he doesn't care about you....there are times when I find it difficult to make casual calls,except it's so important or work related,i would rather just let my phone be....if within ur mind,you think he doesn't love you, then he doesnt...just move on....
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by fufuNegusi(m): 2:16pm On Mar 09, 2017
Slimzjoe:
Every man with his problem.

All I want is for her to return my calls cry
LOLS.... cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

Calm down bro
If she truely loves you, she will reciprocate your gestures
It takes two to tangle, DONT FORCE LOVE to happen
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by jeff1607(m): 2:17pm On Mar 09, 2017
Jacksparr0w127:
You girls are just MFckin greedy lot. All you lot care about is yourselves. You don't even wanna know how busy a hustling niggah could be. All you want is 24hrs attention. Really bad

So a dude that tries to call 'Atleast' once a day isn't caring enough? Even though he calls more on days he isn't busy. Smh

You bunch are just confused lot

Nobody should quote me. If you don't like my comment, kill yourself
he might even be the one paying for her data and other personal stuff, still she complains



when a lady goes to her man's house and informs boo and his mood changes, check yourself ooooo

some can't go to a guy's house with foodstuffs to cook and refuse whatever money he gives

guy's be like ohhhhhhhhhh see liability
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by refiner(f): 2:18pm On Mar 09, 2017
coolestchris:
Fine girl like you deh suffer inside relationship..am happy
Who is suffering...he calls and i do same too angry
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by coolestchris(m): 2:19pm On Mar 09, 2017
I sorry for u..i know ur type
refiner:
Who is suffering...he calls and i do same too angry
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by aniyphil: 2:19pm On Mar 09, 2017
Oooops ! .. .that's me in the spotlight . . .y'all want a guy that is rich / comfortable . . .but did y'all stop to think that time is money? He's gonna be busy to stay rich !
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by sleeknick: 2:20pm On Mar 09, 2017
iamdynamite:
jesus christ cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy,see reason
angry
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by joey150(m):
Hmmmmm
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by erosimo(m): 2:22pm On Mar 09, 2017
nikkyharry:
We have d best moment together , best call conversation that he wouldn't wanna end , that is y it looks weird when he changes all of a sudden agaim
Swit hrt, is he a very busy type? If so, you don't need to bug yourself much on it. More so, besides talking on phone, have you guys met physically? And how long did u spend together? If you can give response to these, may be I have an insight
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by DIKEnaWAR: 2:22pm On Mar 09, 2017
Plaintainboy:
If by more than kissing you mean sex...thats normal, its easier to "insert" than to kiss.
Na wa for you. Person tell you codedly say boy dey lick her kpekus, you still dey speak English. I tire for una sef.
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by debbie223(f): 2:24pm On Mar 09, 2017
maybe u guys should sit down n talk abt it,communication is very important in relationships,my boo lives in lag n i live in warri what keeps us together is communication,so we both try to make time out of our busy schedule to chat n call,so try n knw exactly what's up with him
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by refiner(f): 2:30pm On Mar 09, 2017
coolestchris:
I sorry for u..i know ur type
go joor undecided
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by Nobody: 2:31pm On Mar 09, 2017
Mteeew,,,, d guy is hustling,,, don't u know d cost of recharge card? grin
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by coolestchris(m): 2:32pm On Mar 09, 2017
I can bet that he done sex u tired,na him disvirgined u
refiner:
go joor undecided
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by refiner(f): 2:36pm On Mar 09, 2017
coolestchris:
I can bet that he done sex u tired,na him disvirgined u
Exactly!...just as ur brain was also disvirgined...ode! angry
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by ericmor: 2:37pm On Mar 09, 2017
Jacksparr0w127:
you're a kid. You have no clue how busy a man can be and how a man has got more things to think about outside love
I think she should try the one week no call thing, and if he doesn't call, then call him to know why he didn't call for a week and his response will determine if he truly want u or not
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by MaiconBest: 2:40pm On Mar 09, 2017
nikkyharry:
I am really tired of this kind of attitude I get from my bf . I know I have got some ego ,am the type that reciprocate the same way a guy treats me . He calls once in a day and some days he could call you six times or more and you re gonna feel lyk maybe he has changed. So I call him nd text if am very pleased about how our communication level increase sometimes .

I barely call him till I feel he has done enough calling himself . He actually did a day without calling or texting , so I decided to call unfortunately, he didn't pick up nd I messaged him on WhatsApp nd he ignored everything but I believed he was busy . I was damn angry and I poured out how I felt , asking him what he took me as nd why he treats me that way . He was like 'you are my girlfriend but you don't act like it , which hurts me '. Begged him to tell me how buh he never did ! I told a friend about it and she told me dedicate more attention to him ,call him nd text him . I did that yesterday and it worked perfectly for me , we laughed , he called back nd we missed each other .

The call dropped during d call and I tried calling back that night but he didn't pick up again , tried his number this morning and messaged him , still the same ! What do I do? Should I call tonight agn or forget him or he doesn't love me . please sincere advise pls ...no bashing
My dear, give the guy time for himself... relationship is not all about calling each other every minute of the day. there are suitable times to hear from ur guy/girl.
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by Nobody: 2:41pm On Mar 09, 2017
"the call dropped during the call". At this point I think you should focus on your studies.
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by Zirah: 2:42pm On Mar 09, 2017
Hello, Lady. Move on. He doesn't want you anymore.

nikkyharry:
I am really tired of this kind of attitude I get from my bf . I know I have got some ego ,am the type that reciprocate the same way a guy treats me . He calls once in a day and some days he could call you six times or more and you re gonna feel lyk maybe he has changed. So I call him nd text if am very pleased about how our communication level increase sometimes .
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by buffalowings: 2:44pm On Mar 09, 2017
nikkyharry:
I don't rily know what to do ryt now , he is active nd ignored d message I sent since morning ! Should I just watch or keep asking for reasons
madam calm down

don't kill yaself upon man

when ladies begin to act this way
maybe she's given him the cookie lipsrsealed
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by coolestchris(m): 2:45pm On Mar 09, 2017
Is that really the best intelligent thing u could produce
refiner:
Exactly!...just as ur brain was also disvirgined...ode! angry
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by Nobody: 2:47pm On Mar 09, 2017
am really tired of this kind of attitude I get from my bf . I know I have got some ego ,am the type that reciprocate the same way a guy treats me . He calls once in a day and some days he could call you six times or more and you re gonna feel lyk maybe he has changed. So I call him nd text if am very pleased about how our communication level increase sometimes .
I barely call him till I feel he has done enough calling himself . He actually did a day without calling or texting , so I decided to call unfortunately, he didn't pick up nd I messaged him on WhatsApp nd he ignored everything but I believed he was busy . I was damn angry and I poured out how I felt , asking him what he took me as nd why he treats me that way . He was like 'you are my girlfriend but you don't act like it , which hurts me '. Begged him to tell me how buh he never did ! I told a friend about it and she told me dedicate more attention to him ,call him nd text him . I did that yesterday and it worked perfectly for me , we laughed , he called back nd we missed each other .
The call dropped during d call and I tried calling back that night but he didn't pick up again , tried his number this morning and messaged him , still the same ! What do I do? Should I call tonight agn or forget him or he doesn't love me . please sincere advise pls ...no bashing









sorry babe
You didn't tell us if he's a student or he's working.. he might be the very busy type but nevertheless that doesn't stop him from at least sending you a text or something.
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by zeezeegal(m): 2:49pm On Mar 09, 2017
BiafranBushBoy:
Have we met before/

I cancelled because you just type some real bullshiit!
Wetin Won Make Me And Bushboy Meet.. How E Take Concern U? Why Cnt U Just Mind Ur Buznes... U Don Puff Abi?
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by Plaintainboy: 2:50pm On Mar 09, 2017
DIKEnaWAR:
Na wa for you. Person tell you codedly say boy dey lick her kpekus, you still dey speak English. I tire for una sef.
Lol...I no wan assume anything my guy.
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by buffalowings: 2:50pm On Mar 09, 2017
Plaintainboy:
If by more than kissing you mean sex...thats normal, its easier to "insert" than to kiss.

Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by Nobody: 2:55pm On Mar 09, 2017
cheesy cheesy cheesy

A typical me with any geh.
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by Drfinn: 2:56pm On Mar 09, 2017
Dear Nikkyharry,the foundation of every relationship is communication.The presence or absence of it determines the fate of every relationship. From your initial post and subsequent responses it's obvious there's some degree of communication. What needs to be done is to strengthen the bond of communication.

You stated your man is the 'busy' type. And I believe you are engaged in one activity or the other. Factor his schedule and yours. Understanding is what you need the most at this stage.

Hasty decisions will leave you miserable. In every relationship one partner will be more involved. That you are more committed today doesn't mean it's gonna be so forever.
Please remember upbringing, past experiences and environment play a lot in relationships. Its best getting to know your man than trying to change him. Learn to accept him the way he is. Concentrate on making him a better man.

At the initial stage of my relationship I had same communication issue with my fiancee. She hardly calls. Severally I thought of dumping her but there was this still voice telling me to patient. When we finally had a heart to heart conversation I was glad I didn't act on impulse.
Today, we both make conscious effort to communicate. I equally realized that communication is reciprocal. You reap what you sow. The more I reached out to her the more she reciprocates.

This post maybe long but please if you can keep the communication alive. Above all pray about it. In my case prayer helped a lot. That still voice urging me to be patient was God's voice. Hopefully, your man will come to appreciate you for who you are.

Finally, don't get lost in the relationship. Know that you are special as well. Make a conscious effort to develop yourself. A person of value is irresistible. Cheers.
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by koife(m): 2:58pm On Mar 09, 2017
The last time I checked, you posted this https://www.nairaland.com/3183944/urgent-relationship-stake-need-ur#46851681

..your write up in the link could be the reason. You punished the nigga damn too long. He probably has found another who is giving him what he wants. EOD!
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by Bhol28: 3:02pm On Mar 09, 2017
nikkyharry:
I did that by calling him nd texting and he reciprocated buh suddenly start to ignore
You need to find out the nature of his job and how busy he might be during the day and atimes gets worn out due to the stress some jobs give.Like me here i,ve been chatting with my wife since morning because today i have so few clients to attend to but on another day when i cant even go for break it can never be so.More so a guy that still calls once a day to me still cares.Nature always determine how so romantic guys are.
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by mattywealth(m): 3:03pm On Mar 09, 2017
shit happens
Re: Dating A Guy Who Barely Calls Or Texts And Sometimes Ignore #Confused by BiafranBushBoy: 3:05pm On Mar 09, 2017
zeezeegal:
Wetin Won Make Me And Bushboy Meet.. How E Take Concern U? Why Cnt U Just Mind Ur Buznes... U Don Puff Abi?
lol.. I forgive you
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