daewoorazer:
Let me tell you the blatant truth


Your ego is what will finish you up.

So u have a call'o'meter to measure his calls before u reciprocate.

Your bf is just like me.... I'd never call u once I realise ur childish mentality... Him still try pass me sef...


Yeye


#zanga

we know u type

daewoorazer:
Let me tell you the blatant truth


Your ego is what will finish you up.

So u have a call'o'meter to measure his calls before u reciprocate.

Your bf is just like me.... I'd never call u once I realise ur childish mentality... Him still try pass me sef...


Yeye


#zanga

we know ur type...
if u truly love someone or are really into DAT person, d last thing u will notice is anything like call o meter as u put it, I mean in both cases for d gal or guy

justscorchone:
Personally I'm like your BF,it's not I don't love whoever I'm dating,on the contrary I reason if we talk soo much then the excitement in the relationship will be gone,I have been in that situation whereby we just breath on the phone after asking over and over again have you eaten,what did you eat,have you bathed ..blah blah blah,just get something busy to do.in due time nobody will tell him when he will come back to your arms.i repeat it doesn't means he doesn't love you or he's cheating.

He called today tho, I wasn't with my fone and I dint return d call , he dropped a message on WhatsApp
saying 'u got my calls nd u wouldn't pick up nor return it , hmm cool' I was lyk he dint know wen he was doing his own and he sed if only I knew wat he went through yesterday

nikkyharry:
I am really tired of this kind of attitude I get from my bf . I know I have got some ego ,am the type that reciprocate the same way a guy treats me . He calls once in a day and some days he could call you six times or more and you re gonna feel lyk maybe he has changed. So I call him nd text if am very pleased about how our communication level increase sometimes .

I barely call him till I feel he has done enough calling himself . He actually did a day without calling or texting , so I decided to call unfortunately, he didn't pick up nd I messaged him on WhatsApp nd he ignored everything but I believed he was busy .

Must he call you every hour of the day? A guy gat to hustle. Women sef, if he calls you all day, you will still be the one to come here and complain he's lazy.
Secondly, work on your ego lady, he must not call for you to call. If he doesn't call you, then you call him, afterall a relationship works on a give-and-take basis. Donate your own quota

My friend go and make money. Don't play urself

Lunagirl:
Silence kills a relationship faster than most things. No matter how busy you are, you'd always find time to reach out to someone you supposedly love.

I dated a banker once and they were prohibited from using cell phones during work hours which is a lot of hours. But, he still found time to talk to me, during his lunch time, when he uses the toilet, he shoots me a text or something.

What would have made more sense is if someone says that they are not in the right frame of mind to communicate, that, I understand.

Give it a little more time and try to relax okay?

upon all the comm u still didnt end up wit the banker so d op shdnt even expect much.

HateU2:
just shut the fúçk up

I will Restrain myself from this ban…just stay away from me biko, i take God name beg you

kidman96:


He doesn't care about you. His eyes are on someone else. Try to ignore him for one week and if he doesn't call, move on. If he does but not on time,dump him. I am a guy and I do this to a girl I don't care about or I don't a future with

oga nor every guy carry bf/gf mata for head like government work. Moreover upon all d girls u don care abt or hv a future wit u still neva marry.....

Nma27:
You should know better.... Plus Thunder fire all dem time wasters stringing sisters along...

supposing God dey answer all des prayers wey nor get scriptural backin u for don turn to Mrs Alakaja rival for moni. So ur prayer is meaningless.

charlzcavanni101:
guy callometer hahahhahhahaha

from your post, you are worst than thr op's boyfriend n you are still bragging about it.what a shame!

jabojafa:
upon all the comm u still didnt end up wit the banker so d op shdnt even expect much.

We had 99 problems but communication wasn't one.

daewoorazer:
Let me tell you the blatant truth


Your ego is what will finish you up.

So u have a call'o'meter to measure his calls before u reciprocate.

Your bf is just like me.... I'd never call u once I realise ur childish mentality... Him still try pass me sef...


Yeye


#zanga

u are worst than the op's bf n u r still bragging abt it. what a shame! u had better change. hw do you communicate well if one party decides not to return calls. it takes two to tango, u know

Lunagirl:


We had 99 problems but communication wasn't one.

and dey were caused by either of you irresponsibilities.

firstking01:
I will Restrain myself from this ban…just stay away from me biko, i take God name beg you

you are still D.u. M.p

jabojafa:
and dey were caused by either of you irresponsibilities.

It's left for you to speculate and me to tell you

Slimzjoe:
Every man with his problem.

All I want is for her to return my calls

the other side of the same coin... Usually the order of the day

nikkyharry:
I am really tired of this kind of attitude I get from my bf . I know I have got some ego ,am the type that reciprocate the same way a guy treats me . He calls once in a day and some days he could call you six times or more and you re gonna feel lyk maybe he has changed. So I call him nd text if am very pleased about how our communication level increase sometimes .

I barely call him till I feel he has done enough calling himself . He actually did a day without calling or texting , so I decided to call unfortunately, he didn't pick up nd I messaged him on WhatsApp nd he ignored everything but I believed he was busy . I was damn angry and I poured out how I felt , asking him what he took me as nd why he treats me that way . He was like 'you are my girlfriend but you don't act like it , which hurts me '. Begged him to tell me how buh he never did ! I told a friend about it and she told me dedicate more attention to him ,call him nd text him . I did that yesterday and it worked perfectly for me , we laughed , he called back nd we missed each other .

The call dropped during d call and I tried calling back that night but he didn't pick up again , tried his number this morning and messaged him , still the same ! What do I do? Should I call tonight agn or forget him or he doesn't love me . please sincere advise pls ...no bashing

my own they wait 4 like 2 months now make i call am, she go wait till thy Kingdom come... Ego everywia.. Mtccch

nikkyharry:


We have d best moment together , best call conversation that he wouldn't wanna end , that is y it looks weird when he changes all of a sudden agaim

you are not his priority dear. There is something he values more than you. Could be he is still hustling and he feels you'd distract him when he channels all his attention to you. If you are sure he doesnt have any other babe apart from u, this might certainly be the reason.

pxjosh:

nikkyharry:
I don't rily know what to do ryt now , he is active nd ignored d message I sent since morning ! Should I just watch or keep asking for reasons

do u wanna marry this guy? If not, leave him to be. Check am well oo....its not a must to have bf.....just check am. If you were single, you wouldnt be worried if a guy replied ur message or not. Just leave the guy let him be

nikkyharry:
I am really tired of this kind of attitude I get from my bf . I know I have got some ego ,am the type that reciprocate the same way a guy treats me . He calls once in a day and some days he could call you six times or more and you re gonna feel lyk maybe he has changed. So I call him nd text if am very pleased about how our communication level increase sometimes .

I barely call him till I feel he has done enough calling himself . He actually did a day without calling or texting , so I decided to call unfortunately, he didn't pick up nd I messaged him on WhatsApp nd he ignored everything but I believed he was busy . I was damn angry and I poured out how I felt , asking him what he took me as nd why he treats me that way . He was like 'you are my girlfriend but you don't act like it , which hurts me '. Begged him to tell me how buh he never did ! I told a friend about it and she told me dedicate more attention to him ,call him nd text him . I did that yesterday and it worked perfectly for me , we laughed , he called back nd we missed each other .

The call dropped during d call and I tried calling back that night but he didn't pick up again , tried his number this morning and messaged him , still the same ! What do I do? Should I call tonight agn or forget him or he doesn't love me . please sincere advise pls ...no bashing

pls whats the nature of his job,is he always busy with work? Cos u say he calls u sometimes and u chat and laugh but sometimes he calls only once,dear just be patient,only time will tell,leave all this people claiming he doesnt love and care for u,no go rush troway gold come carry stone ooo biko

nikkyharry:
I don't rily know what to do ryt now , he is active nd ignored d message I sent since morning ! Should I just watch or keep asking for reasons

get him a rechard card may be #1500 tell him how much you love him and how much are willing to sacrifice for him and all that kinda stuff
and please stop using that word "reciprocate" it really is childish.

Some people think just because a man is in a relationship,he has nothing else to do..be deceiving yourself.....na woman carry call and chat for head like gala..a man wants to succeed and make money...if you feel he is not caring enough.. Biko leave him..he will find someone better than you.

Melison:
pls whats the nature of his job,is he always busy with work? Cos u say he calls u sometimes and u chat and laugh but sometimes he calls only once,dear just be patient,only time will tell,leave all this people claiming he doesnt love and care for u,no go rush troway gold come carry stone ooo biko

Thanks love. He is working .. We don resolve m he called today and explained all . nd I didn't being it up before he did

nikkyharry:

Thanks love. He is working .. We don resolve m he called today and explained all . nd I didn't being it up before he did

God just saved ur relationship my dear,leave all this ones wey go tell u ''leave that mumu he doesnt love u'' but if they were in ur shoes they wont move an inch. Try knowing the truth behind every matter before concluding,it will save u a whole lot of pain.

nikkyharry:

He called today tho, I wasn't with my fone and I dint return d call , he dropped a message on WhatsApp
saying 'u got my calls nd u wouldn't pick up nor return it , hmm cool' I was lyk he dint know wen he was doing his own and he sed if only I knew wat he went through yesterday

@Miss OP: With this mindset of yours, it is clear you are not yet ready for a relationship, let alone marriage. You don't understand the dynamics.

Assuming this bf of yours has no other girls he is after, he will still dump you with this path you have chosen.

That guy could be stretching you to know the limit of your patience.

Many guys are not that stupid or heartless. No matter how hard, guys would often softpedal and do anything to marry a girl who has proven her maturity, patience/ tolerance and love beyond doubt. These are some of the key virtues guys seek in the so-called 'wife materials'.

Sometimes at the outset, guys are conscious of the bad things they do to you (even if you don't raise these issues). They observe how you handle those situations and judge your acceptability based on that, amongst other acid tests. It is when you have passed that the guy begins to treat you like a queen.

If you can't tolerate him at his seeming worst, you don't deserve his best.

On the converse, guys don't take this kindly when it's the girl doing the exact thing to them.. but i've found out it's a strategy a significant number of guys use.

Before a guy proposes marriage to you, he has tested you in many ways, even though you may not be aware.

Wishing you the best, but you may need to revise your ideas. Otherwise, you'll end up with a pretender that will do all the 'sweet' things you want at the outset but show his true colours by the time you are trapped in marriage.

Change your attitude!

My Dear Believe Me I Really Understand How You Feel.I Want You To Understand That Ppl Are Different Not Every One Would Behave The Same Way Or Treat U 100% Not Every1 Would Pick Your Calls And Reply Your Messages Always,maybe Something Happend Thats Why He Didnt Pick Or Reply.
My Advice 2u Is That U Guys Shld Define Your Relationship, If U Truely Love Him Fix A Date With Him So That U Guys Talk Tell Him That B4 U Start And However It Wld End U Guys Wld Not Quarrel[he Shld Agree B4 U Start] Then U Tell Him Ur Mind And How U Really Feel U Guys Can Go Ahead By Writing Ur Likes And Dislikes Abt Each Other And How To Remedy The Dislikes For The Growth Of The Relationship.
NOTE-ALL THESE WOULD WORK IF U GUYS TRULY LOVE EACH OTHER AND KEEP LIES AND PRETENSE AWAYS.THANK ME LATER GOODLUCK

Nma27:
Distance relationship? He's probably holed up with another lady. Don't give up though

Long distance ish, i don't know what people make out of it!

daewoorazer:
Let me tell you the blatant truth


Your ego is what will finish you up.

So u have a call'o'meter to measure his calls before u reciprocate.

Your bf is just like me.... I'd never call u once I realise ur childish mentality... Him still try pass me sef...


Yeye


#zanga

Barman, giam one cold orijin jare!

Jacksparr0w127:
You girls are just MFckin greedy lot. All you lot care about is yourselves. You don't even wanna know how busy a hustling niggah could be. All you want is 24hrs attention. Really bad

So a dude that tries to call 'Atleast' once a day isn't caring enough? Even though he calls more on days he isn't busy. Smh

You bunch are just confused lot

Nobody should quote me. If you don't like my comment, kill yourself

Gbam!

No be Jack Sparrow again,

Busy observing

You better leave the guy and move on before you get the shock of your life. I can relate with your story, it turned out the guy was actually planning his wedding. I went temporarily insane and thank God I pulled through, just the thought of the deceit against your level of trust? I repeat, give up on this one and move on!

nikkyharry:
I am really tired of this kind of attitude I get from my bf . I know I have got some ego ,am the type that reciprocate the same way a guy treats me . He calls once in a day and some days he could call you six times

You have an ego, he still calls more than you do, all cos of your ego and you are pissed off for ignoring few times. Please gerrarahia!!! I like the guy, ... no time for your crappy drama, call him or keep being a sissy.