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Re: Guys, Stop Enticing Ladies With Money. by DLGUY: 10:04am On Mar 19, 2017
kimbra:
The one that spent 500k on a gf was stupid!.

Spend on her but wisely.

There goes my darling little friend.grin

For me, I always encourage any girl I date to make her own money because I have too many responsibilities to even make her my priority.

All I can do is augment what she has and even at that she has to earn it .

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Re: Guys, Stop Enticing Ladies With Money. by Nobody: 12:30pm On Mar 19, 2017
SPEEDEPITOME:
. cool Thanks Sir.
You're welcome.
Re: Guys, Stop Enticing Ladies With Money. by SPEEDEPITOME(f): 12:43pm On Mar 19, 2017
Boj2:
Like the idiot that kept spending on my sister even as she kept giving him signs that she wasn't into him..... She ended up using him to start up her life after service year and got married to her husband...Dude wasted two years of resources on her for nothing!
This is exactly the case with one of them.
Re: Guys, Stop Enticing Ladies With Money. by Nobody: 12:49pm On Mar 19, 2017
SPEEDEPITOME:

This is exactly the case with one of them.
As for me,i won't invest in any lady I don't see an actual future with...... Too much vultures out there looking for helpless victims to prey on!!

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Re: Guys, Stop Enticing Ladies With Money. by SPEEDEPITOME(f): 1:19pm On Mar 19, 2017
Boj2:

As for me,i won't invest in any lady I don't see an actual [bfuture][/b] with...... Too much vultures out there looking for helpless victims to prey on!!
I hate to hear stories of guys falling victims. shine your eyes and make sure money is not your only 'weapon'.

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Re: Guys, Stop Enticing Ladies With Money. by Nobody: 2:12pm On Mar 19, 2017
SPEEDEPITOME:
I hate to hear stories of guys falling victims. shine your eyes and make sure money is not your only 'weapon'.
Naaaah...I'm too much of a Yoruba Demon to fall victim.... I create victims instead!! cool

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Re: Guys, Stop Enticing Ladies With Money. by SPEEDEPITOME(f): 3:34pm On Mar 19, 2017
Boj2:

Naaaah...I'm too much of a Yoruba Demon to fall victim.... I create victims instead!! cool
Wehdone Sir. Bye bye.grin

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Re: Guys, Stop Enticing Ladies With Money. by Pray(m): 4:58pm On Mar 19, 2017
When u asked a girl out first time and she says no, that's the no. Whatever happens after that just take it.

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Re: Guys, Stop Enticing Ladies With Money. by Mr2kay2: 5:06pm On Mar 19, 2017
Boj2:
Like the idiot that kept spending on my sister even as she kept giving him signs that she wasn't into him..... She ended up using him to start up her life after service year and got married to her husband...Dude wasted two years of resources on her for nothing!
the girl should be shot angry

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Re: Guys, Stop Enticing Ladies With Money. by Nobody: 5:10pm On Mar 19, 2017
Mr2kay2:
the girl should be shot angry
Maybe after u hv buried the guy first! angry

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Re: Guys, Stop Enticing Ladies With Money. by SPEEDEPITOME(f): 6:14pm On Mar 19, 2017
Mr2kay2:
the girl should be shot angry
Did you not read the part where he said the lady was giving the guy signs that she wasn't into him?

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Re: Guys, Stop Enticing Ladies With Money. by davidif: 3:52am On Jun 29, 2017
SPEEDEPITOME:
So I went to stay at some big brothers' place last weekend and they talked about their relationship issues. One common point in all of their stories was they spent money on their girlfriends and they still left. One of them started dating a girl when she was in 200l, saw her through school, he even got her a laptop for her final year project and after graduation, he spent over 500k on helping her move to a city and start up her business and that was the end of them. He tried with another girl, same thing happened. All of these guys have similar stories.
When I pointed out that they were probably victims of scam, one of them said ' spending on my girlfriend is normal coz she's my responsibility and that does not make me a 'mugun'.
I then came to the conclusion that these girls probably never liked them but chose to stay with them because they were their 'source of livelihood'.
My advice to the ladies, please if you will not stay with a guy, just let him go. Most guys except few like these guys will punish another random lady for your own sin.
My main advice is to the guys: when chasing a girl, stop putting money first. Try to establish friendship and not the I-can-take-care-of-your-needs attitude if not, you'll keep attracting scammers. Reason being that, you lured them with money and that's all they'll be after. These ladies will go as far as marrying you and leave when they are done with you.
Now, I'm not saying you shouldn't take care of your girlfriend but let money not be the reason ladies fall for you. Show them some other side of you. It could be your sense of humour, your level of intelligence or anything. Every guy has that one thing that's gonna keep people attracted to them. What I'm asking is that guys should bring something other than money to the table else your partners will keep cheating on you with guys who are 'poor' coz contrary to what you think, money is not everything.

PS: I know there are no straightjacket rules as to how a relationship should be run .
My conclusion is based on personal experience, observation, talk with guys and my recent discussion with these 4 friends.


cc lalasticlala

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Re: Guys, Stop Enticing Ladies With Money. by davidif: 3:52am On Jun 29, 2017
rheether:
You need to show me say you fit take care of me

Why should someone spend money on someone that's not their wife? Naija logic ehn!

You are he kind of women I was warned to flee from when trying to settle down.

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Re: Guys, Stop Enticing Ladies With Money. by davidif: 3:54am On Jun 29, 2017
alexialin:
Not every woman is the same.
If my man can't spend on me. He should forget me and move on.. He spends I spend.. That's my motto

Wow!!! shocked shocked shocked shocked see nsija logic.

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Re: Guys, Stop Enticing Ladies With Money. by davidif: 3:57am On Jun 29, 2017
Backinfront:
So true. I just laugh at gullible guys who have bought this fallacious "money rules women" shitt.

If I was a woman I will do exactly what these goldiggers are doing if opportunity presents itself. You lure me with money, you finished.

Lesson: Money cannot buy love or genuine affection. It can only get you her presence.

And just like many people are present in your life without really being into you, So are the women you are luring with material gifts.

Abi o. You entice a girl with money and are surprised that she fell in love with your money and not you.

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Re: Guys, Stop Enticing Ladies With Money. by davidif: 4:00am On Jun 29, 2017
Like the idiot that kept spending on my sister even as she kept giving him signs that she wasn't into him..... She ended up using him to start up her life after service year and got married to her husband...Dude wasted two years of resources on her for nothing!

Kai!!! Some guys dey blind ehn? Even if you are showing them signs they still can't see them.

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Re: Guys, Stop Enticing Ladies With Money. by burkingx(f): 10:42am On Jun 29, 2017
grin

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Re: Guys, Stop Enticing Ladies With Money. by emynike2001(m): 10:44am On Jun 29, 2017
Really
Re: Guys, Stop Enticing Ladies With Money. by whitebeard(m): 10:44am On Jun 29, 2017
rheether:
You need to show me say you fit take care of me
oya go and make counter thread..!

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Re: Guys, Stop Enticing Ladies With Money. by elantraceey(f): 10:44am On Jun 29, 2017
kimbra:
The one that spent 500k on a gf was stupid!.
Spend on her but wisely.
You don't know his financial status so keep quiet

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Re: Guys, Stop Enticing Ladies With Money. by CROWNWEALTH019(m): 10:44am On Jun 29, 2017
rheether:
You need to show me say you fit take care of me
After recession fear this babe cry

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Re: Guys, Stop Enticing Ladies With Money. by emynike2001(m): 10:44am On Jun 29, 2017
Really






Like seriously....
Re: Guys, Stop Enticing Ladies With Money. by Nobody: 10:44am On Jun 29, 2017
I will not demand if its not necessary,I know many stingy guys will hide under this guise and be shouting "on point" undecided

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Re: Guys, Stop Enticing Ladies With Money. by naijaboiy: 10:46am On Jun 29, 2017
You are right but is it that easy in practice? It isn't.

It is even the girls that will tell you from the start that they need your money even when you try to show your real self. So it's not even about guys anymore.

To the guys out there...just make enough money and spend. Take care of yourself and anybody you want to. It's your money. The major thing is always carry your brain along, your money will not solve everything and it will not bring back a love that's gone.

If a girl leaves you after you genuinely took care of her with your hard earned money then nigga be happy cos it's her loss not yours. She'll only jump on another dick wasting away her life while you learn your lesson and still got your money.

Finally...just know deep down that THESE BÏTCHES AINT SHÏT!

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Re: Guys, Stop Enticing Ladies With Money. by Deadshot(m): 10:46am On Jun 29, 2017
[quote author=lefulefu post=54726959][/quote]

Oga lefulefu how far whywhyogun grin
Re: Guys, Stop Enticing Ladies With Money. by oshe11: 10:46am On Jun 29, 2017
rheether:
You need to show me say you fit take care of me
exactly y U r stl single, wen MEnoPAusE remember U ehn.... Na U go do d spending undecided

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Re: Guys, Stop Enticing Ladies With Money. by QuietHammer(m): 10:47am On Jun 29, 2017
rheether:
You need to show me say you fit take care of me
Are you fatherless? An orphan? Are your relatives dead? Worst still, are you crippled?

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Re: Guys, Stop Enticing Ladies With Money. by omitooguns(m): 10:47am On Jun 29, 2017
rheether:
You need to show me say you fit take care of me

:/

see them! I never chop angry

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Re: Guys, Stop Enticing Ladies With Money. by praxisnetworks: 10:48am On Jun 29, 2017
rheether:
You need to show me say you fit take care of me
Al you need is a job!

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Re: Guys, Stop Enticing Ladies With Money. by Nobody: 10:48am On Jun 29, 2017
This is something I realized years back, but the problem is a lot of guys would NEVER accept that money is not everything.

How old are those guys?

SPEEDEPITOME:
So I went to stay at some big brothers' place last weekend and they talked about their relationship issues. One common point in all of their stories was they spent money on their girlfriends and they still left. One of them started dating a girl when she was in 200l, saw her through school, he even got her a laptop for her final year project and after graduation, he spent over 500k on helping her move to a city and start up her business and that was the end of them. He tried with another girl, same thing happened. All of these guys have similar stories.

When I pointed out that they were probably victims of scam, one of them said ' spending on my girlfriend is normal coz she's my responsibility and that does not make me a 'mugun'.

I then came to the conclusion that these girls probably never liked them but chose to stay with them because they were their 'source of livelihood'.

My advice to the ladies, please if you will not stay with a guy, just let him go. Most guys except few like these guys will punish another random lady for your own sin.

My main advice is to the guys: when chasing a girl, stop putting money first. Try to establish friendship and not the I-can-take-care-of-your-needs attitude if not, you'll keep attracting scammers. Reason being that, you lured them with money and that's all they'll be after. These ladies will go as far as marrying you and leave when they are done with you.

Now, I'm not saying you shouldn't take care of your girlfriend but let money not be the reason ladies fall for you. Show them some other side of you. It could be your sense of humour, your level of intelligence or anything.

Every guy has that one thing that's gonna keep people attracted to them. What I'm asking is that guys should bring something other than money to the table else your partners will keep cheating on you with guys who are 'poor' coz contrary to what you think, money is not everything.

PS: I know there are no straightjacket rules as to how a relationship should be run .
My conclusion is based on personal experience, observation, talk with guys and my recent discussion with these 4 friends.


Re: Guys, Stop Enticing Ladies With Money. by dee02(m): 10:48am On Jun 29, 2017
OP yes you have a point or two.

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