Dextology:


My advice for this kain of thread na for sale.

Some people get plenty love to de share with 2 girls. Na only one person I fit love.

i tire

Daniyemi:


Yes someone who just left law school can open a law firm.
I am not a Casanova. I hardly know what that is. That's the reason why I want to concentrate on one girl.
Why can't nairalanders provide ample solution to someone's issue without attacking the integrity of a poster?

Simple! Because we have seen way too many fake attention seekers to believe anything for face value, btw, why would a supposed lawyer with a law firm and an upcoming school be seeking validation and life lessons from unknowns in a faceless forum?

This beats me to say d least

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You don't seem to get my point. About my ex did u fail to read the part where I said there were other reasons why we broke up? There is no need calling me a kid. Sometimes things like this happens and it is called dilemma. I got caught in between two choices when they both agreed to date me almost at the same time. Now having realise there is no point dating two ladies I am asking you and others how I can get out of this mess without hurting anybody's feelings. There is no need for name calling brother. We shld learn to be civil.

PS: I don't drink and I only recently started clubbing once a while though with the girl I have in Kano. I am conservative but I know how to have fun when I want to.[/quote
1.i am female. 2. You would fit into the world of primates not me(so the being civil advice is what u should give yourself).
I didn't call your names, I didn't tell you what you want to hear that is why you are pained.
You cant fathom my point still!

ghost3040:
IF U IN LOVE WITH TWO LADIES AND CONFUSED ON WHO TO GO FOR...GO FOR THE SECOND,COS U WOULDNT HAVE FALLEN IN LOVE WITH THE SECOND IF U TRULY LOVE THE FIRST...D HEART ACCOMMODATES JUST A PERSON.


PEACE..

4rm his xplanation I dnt think dat rule applies

LeView1:
You are a selfish git. You're cheating and you come here looking for sympathy? I hope you lose both. May karma pay you in full. Self centered ego maniac

Shuo! Take it easy

modestofynest:
Wetin u dey feel like bad guy abi na Cassanova hey Mr man all the niggaz on Nairaland get not less than 5 girls in our precise locations and numerous ones in the village wr we went to school Facebook own, guy relax we dey fine way to come out of recession no be ur or they do us

Meaning I should b entitled 2 atleast 5 gals as a nairalander... Den wats happening cos I dnt seem 2 av evn 1

gimakon:
Don't date two girls. Date one girl, one you won't spend money,2 you won't waste blood, 3 you won't get to have broken hearts that would turn you into a complete and total monster later. Real men date one woman, and if she's gone, she's gone.

Fucking_ 2 girls won't make you a champion, it would just turn you into a complete loser. Forget what this guy's here tell you, if you fuck_ rosita with missionary sex, doggy style, cowgirl, etc na still the same way you go fuck_ kafayat so what's the biggy? 21 days your spermatogenesis go resuscitate,you come go fuck_ release again, 42 days, plus shawarma money + money for hair, plus recharge card way go day go, plus gen (fuel money)

Nigga, money is paper, no go run yourself down. Life no be so, shay oti ye yin?

I feel u

Les come out of ds recession first...
Meanwhile... one beer for you

Go and seat down

LeView1:
You are a selfish git. You're cheating and you come here looking for sympathy? I hope you lose both. May karma pay you in full. Self centered ego maniac

Easy ma'am, even ladies date multiple men.

My advice follow the one closer and available to you you can't share your heart far away love seems to have someone cheating either you or she which you are already doing and don't know about her and if you don't act fast you might end up losing both an it will forever chatter your heart.

Just look at what he's saying...

"She's twenty and I took her virginity " like it's biscuit u saw on the table.

It's not ur fault.....anyway..just let us know ur real name....afonja or Igbo...

NCAN has to handle this matter...its been a long day

You can not be in love with two girls at the same time. You are in lost not love please

LeView1:
You are a selfish git. You're cheating and you come here looking for sympathy? I hope you lose both. May karma pay you in full. Self centered ego maniac

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FONN-0uoTHI

Stop bragging some of us have about 7 girlfriends

Michellekabod:

Disvirgined a gal barely three months of knowing her....is that love?
You are actually ignorant of what love is. Parted ways with boo because of distance? Even distance didnt kill my puppy crush!
House, he keeps stressing they are beautiful and love him even though he fauxed brokeness- that is obviously why you 'love' them. And as far as am concerned, love ought to be unconditionally.
Pardon me. But you are still a kid, to meddle with two ladies without having one you prefer.
Let the first one go( pussy attracted u ). Let the second one go(a spare tire was needed in case the first boycotted u).

Be drinking and going to club.flex well...this is not your time to marry but have fun

Though Harsh! You made some Solid points! Marriage should be forever, so why on earth is OP planning to Marry a 20 an 23yrs old girls that are still in school? And who told you that you can Love 2 people at the same time? You are infactuated and just having mad crush but not Love! And you just broke up with your ex yesterday (3months) and you are already talking about Love and planning a Future... Take the advice here... Go have fun and explore.. I don't think you are 30yrs old yet. I think from 30yrs and above you can start thinking about a future partner. Like I said Marriage is for life, so take your time except you want Divorce so you can go look for another to mary in 6months time... Take your time, dont rush it

Good evening everyone please I have some questions to ask about about Ago Are I will be relocating soon, I couldn't get better answer on Google pleaee kindly signify if you don live for this town or still living there thanks a lot

You may need to contact Apostle Suleiman. He is a pro in stuffs like this

0b10010011:
Take the two of them to Omega Fire Ministry individually

Apostle Suleman will choose for you.

This is definitely the best answer for you op

LeView1:
You are a selfish git. You're cheating and you come here looking for sympathy? I hope you lose both. May karma pay you in full. Self centered ego maniac

chisos,babe na fight?

The truth is, no one can actually tell you who the right one is, in a real and perfect way, you should have focused your self on just one woman from the on set and also get to settle differences between you and her, you mentioned that she also has loads of other reasons why you wanted out, you re just a man who will never stop loving the next new girl, you will still find another one more attractive than both of them again, stop wallowing yourself down the drain killing and seeking advise so hard on a keen matter, you love one more than the other just because of how you you feel at the moment and you will end meeting another new girl and also end up having issues with the present, no one is perfect Manh, Respect the mind and follow the route to your destination, you just seem to be wasting your time being depressed over who you love most when you don't eVen know what will happen next minute, if you end up travelling to USA tomorrow morning, you will get over it so fast, loads of hot chics in USA, you cant imagine how fast you will forget both of them in a glimpse , women in general can not be studied or easy to guess what kinda manners they can display or show up to do, just follow your heart and let nature take its place, when we meet our soul mate, the destiny will take its place, keep that advise away from people, the only truth you need can only be told by you and your reaction towards it will only justify where you want to be , truth hurts bro.....

Daniyemi:
I and my exgirlfriend parted ways about 3 months ago precisely on new year day.
Shortly after our breakup, I met a couple of girls. I had flings with quiet a few of them but I wasn't comfortable because at my age, I am not suppose to be having flings but a committed relationship.

The problem is I currently have two girls I am in love with. They could easily pass off as models. Beautiful ladies with good hearts. I had to pretend I was flat broke to know if they were coming because I am rich(not very rich though but I am super comfortable for a 20 something yrs old guy. I own a law firm and a school which is setting off soon) One of the ladies is in Abuja she studies there and the other with me here in Kano she is also a student. As a lawyer, I know it is improper to date two girls at the same time cos if one should find out I may end up loosing both.


My problem is I tend to love the one in Abuja more, she is 20 and I took her virginity I was amazed to find out she was a virgin. But the downside is the distance. Distance was one of the factors that led to I and my ex parting ways. We lost the trust we had for each other(there are other reasons though.).
She comes to the North to see me. She was here last month. But I am already feeling since she is no longer a virgin she will want to explore especially giving the fact that she is beautiful.
I don't know if I should use the distance to leave her alone as I do not want a repeat of what happened between me and my ex.

The second one with me here in the North she is 23, very beautiful has a good heart, jovial, polite my friends like her. she is a good cook as well.

When I was asking the girl in Abuja out, she was playing hard to get and I asking the second one out too just incase the first girl failed to date me. They both eventually agreed to date me even when I feigned I was a broke nigga.

Pls house I really do not want to double date. As I can only marry one wife. (I date to marry like I did with my ex). I can't Introduce two girls to my People. What do I do to remedy the situation? insults are welcomed.

Modified* I was well aware that no viable solution will come from nairalanders. As usual they didn't disappoint.
I wonder if it was my own doing to have had the girls say yes to me almost at the same time.
I will resort to prayers.

retard, they go use ur daughter any how, why have sex if u aint married ,rubbish man, I aint hating but 'res ipsa loquitur' with ur story u deserve to be single

coolsegun2002:
Just look at what he's saying...

"She's twenty and I took her virginity " like it's biscuit u saw on the table.

It's not ur fault.....anyway..just let us know ur real name....afonja or Igbo...

NCAN has to handle this matter...its been a long day

Don't mind the idiotic element

Op I Will Give U A Very Good Advice If U Can Narrate How You Formed Bin Broke To The Girls.

You shouldn't have disvirgined the girl till you make up your mind ...she kept herself for how long and will suddenly go wayward now? .mtcheeeeeeew!

Op must be a playboy. After hitting their kpansh u are here claiming love. ashii things. Comot .

Now youre in love with these two chicks
U don't know which one to pick
Ur feelings for them both are getting thick
Now u r wrong cause u don't want to lose none of them
And u confused cause u don't want to choose one of them
It's no doubt u think about ur honeys everyday
It's no question u show ur honeys love in every way..
Niccu make up ur mind already

Daniyemi I think you should go for the second babe because it's so obvious you love her more than the first. She has all you supposedly want in a lady and for you to even consider her in the first place sends some strong message.

I've come to also acknowledge that been in a relationship with someone closer to you helps your relationship grow and builds a stronger bond. The second babe is closer that's a plus.

On a lighter note , I assume you want to be with the first because she would be hurt knowing you de effed her and you're feeling this kinda guilt in you. Don't date anyone out of pity. Y'all may even begin to have trust issues this one that you're already doubting her sef.

It's a good thing to know that you feel bad for your actions. It's not your fault you got caught up in a mess you should have sorted earlier before getting this deep. Just apologize to the Abuja chic and tell her about the second babe and move on. She will be sad for sure but with time she will get over it. Not easy though especially for a first timer. I find you cool anyways

Bro i fell your plight, i must confess i for one am in the same condition as you though am not thinking marriage now, all i can say to you bro is for you to look beyond their xtics and go digging into their family history as this would be the preferred 1st step you should take since you are thinking of settling down with either of them..


After carrying out this step, contact me for more advice on this...............